I am a man of 27. I went with a woman for a year or so (we are both from Sofia and she is 4 years younger than me). We lived together, made plans for the future and were happy. I was sent on a business trip to a very small town for 1 year. She said that she could come and stay with her parents, but the distance would not be a problem and we would be together again. We constantly heard and talked, but after 2 months he told me that it couldn't be like that and we broke up. She later found another one and slept with him every weekend and lived with her parents at other times. For 9 months now I have been writing every day except Saturday and Sunday, she always answers me and we talk for a long time. But if I don't write, she doesn't start a conversation. I also write because I still love her. Tell me what is the reason she writes? Should I hope for something or waste my time with it?
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Don't waste your time with such a woman - distance is a test of true love - she doesn't have it - she doesn't love you. He can't do something like that to someone he loves. If you get together and life divides you again for a while? - it will be with another again - it humiliates you like that, and you crawl at your feet, don't you have dignity? I had a similar case and immediately ended my relationship and I'm not sorry!
How many times should the same thing be repeated in these forums. 1. She can write to you for 101 reasons, out of pity, out of some nostalgia, out of a sense of everything, and God knows what else. 2. I don't see why point 1 would interest you, since she betrayed you in the most whore way possible. 3. Imagine that after 10 years you are married, have a child and you have to go abroad for a few months to earn money, and she is left alone, what do you think will happen? 4. How can you trust this person when he played you in the most brutal way. Behave like a man, because no one else will do to you what only you can do to yourself.
It suits you out of respect for you and your past and out of a good upbringing. But definitely, you have no future, don't waste your time. Don't be sorry - if the distance got in the way, it was only a matter of time before it happened, because you weren't for each other. It's better that way, because otherwise it could happen when you get married or have children. Don't waste your time, look for your happiness elsewhere. Upseh!
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She writes to you because she knows that you love her and that you are sure. It's your own fault they use it. It's very clear that she won't start a first conversation with you ... of course, she'll wait for you to look for her so she's convinced you're still ready to run after her ass, as long as she asks. From personal experience I tell you - I'm a girl.
Distance kills feelings, I have experienced it, move on, sometimes one does not suspect how happy he can be and misses this opportunity.