I'm 14. I'll be 15 this summer but I can't wait to grow up. I want to do it but I'm afraid 1-will it hurt 2-will it bleed and will it repel him and lastly can I get pregnant even if we did it with a condom And why could I regret it later? What is different from being alone at 17, for example? What could be the consequences?
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Well, none of the readers can tell you whether to have sex or not to decide for yourself, but keep in mind that your body is still developing at 14. Whether it will hurt and whether blood will flow is individual for everyone. If you play sports and / or use tampons, your hymen will stretch more and there will be almost no blood when you have sex for the first time. I had no pain or blood, but it also depends on the boy you will be with if he is careful and relaxes you. before the act itself everything will be ok. And whether you can get pregnant or not by using a condom still depends if they are too short for your man, it is possible that you get semen and get pregnant, so if you are going to have sex, let him be with a man who has at least minimal experience. And the difference between 14 and 17 years is huge, your thinking then will be completely different from now.
Well, realistically, you will do it someday, but the difference is that then you will be much more educated and more willing to take all the risks. And as for whether you can get pregnant with a condom - even they do not give you a 100% guarantee that it can not happen.
Hello, 1- it will hurt you. Always the first women hurt because the hymen is torn 2 - blood will flow 3 - it is better to do it at an older age because the pleasure will be greater If you do it with some friend or boyfriend with whom you do not really love you will not is just such a great pleasure.
Depends on the partner! If he has experience in these things I do not believe there will be problems! But if it's his first time, it can be a little naughty for both of them! I don't think you're small, it's not bad to do it at 14 years old. Although I think you will wait at least another 1 2 years :) I wish you success!
You will only regret later that you were in a hurry, as I did at 13, now I am 15. There is nothing scary to do, there is a little blood, this is normal, everyone is different. And watch the first one you choose to be with be serious in what you do and be bigger and more experienced, not some mold you let him have and then leave you. Use condoms and there is no danger of getting pregnant, at least they protect 98% as far as I have read, only abstinence is a 100% guarantee that you will not get pregnant. Have safe sex or spin alone.
With a condom there is a danger of getting pregnant only if it is torn (so get better ones). The difference is that over the years you begin to understand things differently and someone is considered a more suitable person. As far as I don't know if I'm in pain, I'm not a girl ... but as far as I know, it's different for all of you. I know girls who didn't feel anything the first time and didn't even have blood. It is important to warn your boyfriend that you are a child to prepare.
It is different in the way of thinking. You see things differently. My first time was 15, which I'm sorry about. I wasn't ready and I couldn't enjoy the next time. This changes over time, but it is important what kind of person you come across and most of all what your thinking is. My advice is not to rush, but if you still decide, first find out the basic issues.
I'm your age and I haven't done it! I'm thinking of waiting a few more years because I'm not mentally prepared to take such a serious step in my life. I don't think you're prepared for anything like that. I've heard that if you do it at an early age, your body stops developing and that's not good. You decide, but I advise you to wait!
Abe child .... watch her lessons and dolls ... what are you going to think about sex, fearing whether it will hurt or bleed! A person who is mentally and physically prepared for sexual life should not think about these things at all!
There is no way I can be physically and mentally prepared for something I have never done myself. I watch my lessons, I study in high school and I don't get a lower grade than 5. That's not the point. I want advice - not to do it and why not do it? Thanks to those who wrote above.
Do you want to do it at that age? Phaaaaaa get a life !!!
A few reasons not to do it: 1. You're really small 2. You don't seem stupid 3. You're just curious (or want to be interesting), but you don't really want to 4. You're not sure 5 You will be sorry (the more likely of the two is) Why you will be sorry: ONE REASON - do it and you will understand it!
There is no such thing as a small one ... but it is very important to do it with the right person. It's a pleasure to tell you from now on that you won't experience anything. Just pain !!! More importantly, this is especially the first time to be with someone you truly love, not just a rush. If you're not sure, you better not ... it's interesting because it will be your first time, but most women feel real pleasure from it only after 25 years, I myself soon understood what it is about, and I'm 26 years old. !!! Abe in a nutshell ..... it's important to yourself, you have to feel it.
Don't listen to them at all ... So my advice is the following ... If you have feelings for the boy in question and you are sure that he has feelings for you, then there is no problem to do it ... Don't worry about pain and blood. .. These are just myths .. In most cases there is no blood, I have personally opened 3 girls and none of them told me that it hurt who knows how much and there was no blood ..! And don't worry about getting pregnant, God forbid the condom breaks, you take a pill and forget about the problem ... Indeed, if you feel with your heart that this is the person, act! :)
It's not as scary as it seems that your fr have told you that it hurts and there is blood to be partly true, but still each person in an individual and you may not hurt as much as you think There will be some pain is true, but blood is not obligatory so don't worry so much you think about your worries.
Do not do it......
Well, I think you're small, if you don't even know that 1 time there is always blood and pain: P for example ... don't follow the skirts of others ... do it when you find the right person ... I think you just want to show off in front of someone :)
You're not in a hurry yet
You are still small ..!
You are still young, your psyche is NOT prepared. Wait and see for yourself;}
You are not small because I am even younger than you and I want to but with no one
It's been three years, did you do it anyway?
Don't listen to those kids who didn't either. Knowing that the later you do it, the more it will hurt because every year the hymen becomes more elastic and difficult to break, that is, more pain and more blood. And from a biological point of view, a 15-year-old girl is fully developed for her first sexual intercourse.
well, whenever you do it the first time, it will always hurt and bleed. Well, I don't believe it will repel him, but I think the hormones are more now and it's not the time
hello. My advice is if you are confident and your boyfriend does it. When I did, I was 14, I had a serious relationship that continues today. I was confident in myself and the person next to me. You will not enjoy the first time. For pain, there will be more yes, you will still expand. For blood, it is not known. There may or may not be. It was not with me personally. This is from me, if you're ready, go.
If you relax, the dispute will not hurt me, but if it is tight, it may hurt. But the important thing is to be ready. My advice is just to relax.
Wow, I have no words! Where is this world going? I am 24 and I am guarding for the first wedding night, or at least when I meet the decent one to wait for me for a while. I have been guarding myself for so many years I give to some immature or rapist or womanizer to have me. I don't understand today's teens. You indulge in debauchery and think that some teenager or uncle loves you. No, he doesn't love you, he just wants to have fun, and in many rare cases of love ... is that they are already lucky. Girls, think carefully when you will give yourself and appreciate yourself! It is female honor that has been something valued for centuries. Be different, be tender flowers! By Angie
In my opinion, it is good for a person at least at the age of 17-18 to lose his virginity from the right person, and not from a one-day, only if you love someone, otherwise you become a rag without morals and values, and the important thing is for the first time and how experienced a person you will indulge. My girlfriend lost her virginity at the age of 16 and a half (I at 18), but since then there has been some internal uterine inversion (personally I don't see it), but she had a problem because that boyfriend of hers was an absolute scapegoat and then a year and half didn't even think about sex. Not that it was as big as it was rough and he put it directly on it and tore it, so be careful. I was 18, and because I was afraid of exposing myself to the girls we were dating, I did it with a companion,
It's a pity that the world has totally changed and my dreams of a relationship and the right girl are coming true and will never come true, no matter who, there are few girls like you, and I can't go and say what I am, I'll look hellishly funny to people that I'm not the typical womanizer, although I like to be taken down, but I'm just different, arrogant, inaccessible and with a hell of a lot of morality, I really care if a friend of mine was with 50 women, I have one for the rest of my life me, but whether she thinks like me, this is the eternal question, this is the eternal fear of relationships, to find the right one. Mine is serious at first glance, but with 7 connections behind me, one for one night (and it's only 23 years old) and I'm number 9 in bed, I wonder if I felt comfortable after having this type of thinking as yours, I was in SHOCK, but I stayed with her because she didn't lie to me that I was the second,
well what can i tell you the difference what is that at 14 is that 1 you don't think if the person next to you is for you 2 can enchant you so that you think that he is for you that he is number 1 that the prince of your dreams while at 17 you will have experience from all this you will not be deceived so easily but not sure that it will not leave you again but as long as you understand whether he loves you or loved you then you will not feel sorry believe me if the person next to you loved you and did things that so far no one has done for you so you will not pity and you will not have sex and love will not be only on your side :) and to make love is something that is not repeatable in this world I eat it for everyone is unique :)
First, necessarily over 18 years of age! This must be enshrined in the Constitution! Second, even with a condom you can get pregnant, and if the partners are not tested for HIV, it becomes interesting! Third, go to school instead of doing nonsense, because at that age you have no other job but to read a book and go to school without missing a single hour!
In my opinion, age is not important, but it is important to be sure both in yourself and in the person next to you. You have to be sure that he loves you enough and doesn't just want to "try" you and then leave you. I'm 14 and I haven't done it, I just know I'm not ready. I am also afraid of the possibility of getting pregnant because at the age of 14/15 you are still a child and God forbid you get pregnant your life is going to hell. So be careful!
Don't listen to others: do what your body wants! If you use quality condoms and if you have an experienced partner who you guarantee is not in a hurry to become a father - do it! It's not scary - if you get pregnant there is also an Anti-baby pill to sweep up to 72 hours. But don't rush into serious relationships! You are still young. Rather, start having sex right now; precisely because you are developing now, it will be best to start doing it. If your body and psyche want it, it is hardly harmful! And humans, like animals, have instincts not by chance, and their suppression leads to very bad consequences! Ask psychiatrists if you don't believe! In addition, it is strictly individual, but in most cases it does not hurt or bleed for the first time. There may be pain the first few times, but then the pain will stop and you will get used to it. You will see that sex is something which is pleasant and even useful for your health. I wish you a regular and balanced sex life and good mental and physical health! Success!