Hello, I see that you are all very kind here and help each other, so I hope you help me with my problem, which is the following: The truth is that I generally do not know where to start, but the main thing is the fact that I am disappointed from people. It may sound silly, but it is. I am a 17-year-old girl and every day I see frowning and angry people, dissatisfied with nothing and having no significant impulses. In fact, everything is rooted in the sense that most people have no ambition, no desire to achieve anything in life, and that makes me very sick. These are half of the people I interact with every day, and the other half are incorrigible lizards and gossips. I'm very sick of seeing my best friends go down the road to nothing, they don't care about education or elementary culture, they just have fun, which they achieve themselves by drooling. Not just laughing at something fun, not finding something interesting to do, not having fun, but just drooling and acting stupid. This is my environment and described with its best possible characteristics. Imagine the other. The worst thing is that this is seen in many people. I don't even know how to define it - laziness, backwardness, apathy ... I just don't know. Such people constantly give up all activity and have no realization in life unless it becomes a "miracle". I am increasingly convinced that today's generations are not moving towards progressiveness, but towards regressiveness, and everyone is thinking not about how to do good and help someone, but quite the opposite. Many people are filled with malice and say to themselves, "As they treat me, so I will treat them." but is this the way I have always acted in the best possible way I have found and I have never looked for the negative traits of people, because everyone has them, but the question is how many of the qualities of this person are good? We have to look at them, but we don't. Why is that? Do we have to be constantly filled with malice and be unhappy? I've always been good to people, because that's the right thing to do, and I haven't questioned that fact. I don't want to do it, but I don't seem to have a choice, because the better you treat someone and try to help them, the more it is bad for you, because then you suffer from his foolish deeds. This is the company I came across and I am increasingly convinced that I will never find a better one. How should I act, whether to become like them because I have no choice, or to continue to have ambitions and aspirations,
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Do and think properly, let whatever happens. Keep the good in yourself. I often think of the words "Every day does, at least one good deed." This is clear to me about my company, I am 26 and I have changed a lot of companies, if you want to be appreciated, don't be like them, they are not so stupid after all. Keep your identity, success in life!
You know a lot! You don't really know anything because life hasn't crushed you yet. As I crush you, I will ask you if you will smile all the time and if you will think good of everyone. Because it is said: Do good and swallow shit!
It is for your own good to leave as soon as possible this vulgar idiotic state of Mutren and find your place in the civilized world where Man is a man with a capital letter "H" - there you can achieve a lot because you are a young man full of ambition that will be crushed by the mediocrity of the table you are talking about in your presentation - the people are for the most part simple and you cannot expect his successors to be highly stimulated and ambitious people - as the saying goes, the pear does not fall far from the tree! This will continue as a period for a long time and your life will not be enough to see your country organized and part of the puzzle of normal countries in which the value system of people is not only based on physical existence but also on the spiritual maturity of nations!
WATCH WHAT YOU ARE, DON'T GET LIKE PEOPLE.
Do exactly as you wrote it. Keep having ambitions and aspirations, and keep them thinking you are unhappy and uninteresting. There will come a time when they themselves will find you interesting and will understand that they have made many mistakes, because then you will be some and they will be nothing. Try to change the company, find friends with similar views and interests.
It will be difficult to find people with interests similar to the best, because this is a contagion ... Society is declining and this is typical not only for Bulgaria - this is a global problem. My advice is to try to keep your identity, but not to isolate yourself from people, because loneliness is the most destructive thing; and besides you they can learn something, to influence them in a good way :)
Um ... I can tell you that this is an issue that is extremely important, but unfortunately it is not discussed and taken seriously. The point is not to find company, but at least 1 true friend. Don't change, you will find a person with the same view of things, although there are few left. Just be yourself! Good luck.
I very much agree with number 2, there may be human shoots that you came across, and already "people were going to decline" .... Oh no, that's a lot .... stupid, and I don't always of fun, because there are so many problems in this life and I don't look at the world through pink glasses to do "good" to people. Dear God, if someone does you harm, give it back to him, it is not to collapse, but to stand up for yourself and not let others trample you, because in such a world we live, we cannot be good and others can pass. like an excavator through you. I have ambitions, but I'm not always grinning .... Gray
LIFE IS SHIT AND HONEY - YOU MIX AND EAT OK. For years, I asked myself the same questions as you. And? Life goes on. I am currently 37, I have a daughter. But these people remained geeks. You try not to change.
Hey you! I'm sending a message out of nowhere, as I've been watching this for 5 years since it was written :). I really like the way you thought and I really hope this is still the value system! I feel the same way you did when you wrote this, I fully understand you and I sympathize with you. Regarding the comments of others - I will refrain from commenting on them, as they are based on their intellectual level :) I really hope something happens and you read what I am writing to you :) [email protected]
don't worry and i'm so i'm 17 too and i can't figure it out with their thinking. But their lives are theirs and they have every right. * Charms *