Hi, What I'm going to share may be wrong, but this is my life. I got married about a year ago. Everything was going well, my husband was behaving wonderfully. I felt good until one day he came home beaten. It turned out that he got involved with someone's boyfriend and ate paint. I couldn't believe it. He was good, considerate, honest. I couldn't imagine that he had cheated on me. But I told myself I would forgive him. He has changed since then. He became secretive and a little strange. He would come home when I least expected it, and he would come out suddenly. One night I got tired of waiting for him to come home and I went out with friends. That night I met a man who turned everything in my life upside down. At first we saw each other on walks, coffee, I helped him several times in his problems. Gradually I began to feel something strange about him. To this day, I can't determine what it is. We started a hidden relationship. Rather purely sexual. I know I'm committed, but I can't break up. I feel that he gives me the peace and sex that I have been missing for a long time. If I tell my husband I want a divorce, he will get angry and never agree to a good one. If I tell him I'm cheating on him, I'm afraid of what he'll do. There is no more love and security in my marriage, only secrets and tension, and I want to be with the other, who drinks every part of me only with words and lips. that I am cheating on him, I am afraid of what he will do. There is no more love and security in my marriage, only secrets and tension, and I want to be with the other, who drinks every part of me only with words and lips. that I am cheating on him, I am afraid of what he will do. There is no more love and security in my marriage, only secrets and tension, and I want to be with the other, who drinks every part of me only with words and lips.
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If you don't have a child, it's easy. Apply for a divorce - in 1-2 months you will be free. Even if he doesn't want to, he can't help but give you a divorce !!!
In delusion, your great darling is no better than your husband, whatever he is.
Aloo number 2 "there is no better than a husband" are you okay or are you crazy? the woman says that her husband got involved with someone's boyfriend, became secretive, etc. what does this cattle have to endure? she says that there is no love, if it is so, she should sleep with everyone who comes to her, even dear, apply for a divorce and don't break your nerves, live today without thinking about luck tomorrow
You should have talked and understood each other when he came home beaten ... the other thing is that he wrote to you "At first we saw each other like that on walks, coffee, I helped him several times in his problems." And if he didn't use you to help him in his problems ... think carefully, don't ruin your life and don't hide, everything comes to light sooner or later ... infidelity will not solve the problem with your husband in this situation you are in .. .
With a small difference, I have the same problem as yours, so I think stay with your husband because of your fears and at the same time meet the person who makes you really happy.