Hello, my friend and I have been together for a long time. 3 days ago we drank a little more and made anal love. We hadn't talked about it until then. I was in a lot of pain, he scored twice, I felt sick, but we continued. I finally started liking it and ended up in my ass. But in general he was very rude, I don't know what is the reason for this, he is a very gentle lover. After that, I didn't want to get out of bed all day and I felt somehow pushed. We just hadn't talked about it and somehow it came suddenly and I was scared at 25, we didn't use a condom, he put some lubricant but the horror was very big for me. We haven't talked yet, I don't know how to act and how to approach him, because he's very late and he won't love me at all if I touch him a little, on the other hand, I feel a little betrayed, do you think it's right for him to feel it, he has to understand what I think about this type of sex, if I want to do at least an enema. There were no problems for luck but it hurts that it happened and he was not prepared 1 spray in the ass and I'm ready it's not in my opinion, the pain was inhuman and I think it takes some time to play with this place to relax give me advice please i love him very much and he me how to show him the mistake as he is as sensitive as any man on this topic thank you for taking the time to give me your advice
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Tell him what's wrong with him when you're sober, and so are you. It's your own fault, because that's very cool. And when men drink and do, they become full animals sometimes, as far as I know, because my friend is always great and extremely careful. I have never been in pain and I have not felt humiliated. Abe, talk to him and that's it, he can't get it in without asking you if you want and at least he has to prepare you for it. Success!
It will hurt you 2-3 more times but if you don't want to just tell him what strengthens the relationship more than the trust itself and you know that "daily consumption" relaxes the muscle and there are no very good consequences it can put you in unpleasant situations
Why does it seem to me that you seem very proud and can't swallow what happened? Your words seemed very strong to me: "... I felt somehow pushed". Why pushed ?! You in your relationship do not take turns principle, if he does something for you and you accordingly doing for him. It's stupid and there's no point in "showing him the mistake" It happened spontaneously and that's it. What's so great? I don't see any problem except that your considerable pride is affected.
I'm number one, number 2 is right about one thing - not often, but only from time to time!
More cream darling cream "Bochko" in time you will start to feel great pleasure! In sex, learn to be self-giving. I am like that, at the moment I am writing to you and caressing you, I get aroused, after a while I will free myself!
Hello everyone, thank you for the opinions, you are right that he has affected something in me, but for me anal love is more important than the first time with a boy, for most girls the first time is like a burden they want to get rid of. I was 20 when it happened, but anal love is already after 5 years and is somehow more conscious and it should be a pleasant experience like 1 time. I just wanted to appreciate it and enjoy that kind of sex. And now it's like it's normal and the pain and fear I felt no one cares about them. In my opinion, women do it to give pleasure to their boyfriend and I think this is worthy of proof of love. In my opinion, if a woman has a choice, she would always choose normal love. Because there is a lot of preparation for the anal enema, etc. which I guess not very pleasant and then the pain and then the discharge. We haven't repeated it and I won't give it to him until we talk about it. I would practice it because I love it so much and it is more important than myself. Thank you for your time
Use lubricants. There are painkillers, flavored, water-based and all kinds. Cat site: D
I do it too because of my friend, who likes it very much. I did not feel much pleasure. we have talked a lot on this topic. We have always prepared in advance and no one has forced me, but I definitely do it for him. Talk about this topic. Maybe he feels weird too.
Hello. It is normal for you to be in pain. Talk to him. We do it too, but it takes a lot of patience on his part.
Hi, I do it with my girlfriend, but I realize when it hurts. Ie it hurts when it's dry. I have never used a gel or similar moisturizer. That's exactly why you shouldn't take off your pants and straight from behind. The idea is to always have a love game. After 5-10 minutes, if you wallow and play, you know that the genitals begin to moisturize. The male penis releases enough fluid, which makes the butt naughty enough. This way you will not feel pain, it will only be a pleasure. (For women) If you are quite "naughty", get a vibrator. When you do it with your partner and he is from behind, you insert the vibrator into the kitten. This way you will feel double pleasure, and my partner will be quite pleased. From the vibrations, the member is aroused even more and ... still try :) Good luck
number 8 would you tell me how your friend felt after you talked. For men, whether stressful or arousing once, I don't want to talk to my friend because he is very touchy and if I touch him even a little, I will see neither anal sex nor normal. This is his character, so I want to know how other men think. Thanks to everyone else
Dear, congratulations! You made a great gift for your friend and yourself. I have always been against anal sex. However, I have been practicing it with my lover for 1-2 years and I can assure you that there is no greater pleasure than that. I only do it with him, because I think it's something special. I don't think you should sit down and unravel the topic - just next time warn him to be more careful and you prepare yourself with a gel
I do it with my girlfriend more slowly. Your boyfriend's priority is to give you pleasure. As a man, I also wanted to kick my girl in the back so hard, but an animal, but I thought that she could hurt her darling and I don't want her to suffer, and we went into the bathtub, we both took a big bath and wrestled with me and then I started to lick her very hard and everywhere and on the ass, even a clean one. And she started "oh but what are you doing don't you go crazy", but when I started licking her ass and many and she liked it, she just freaked out and she just asked me. I say she wants me to try it with my finger. I tried, but slowly, but it was very soft ass and easily became everything, and finally she told me "I want it all". After I cooked, I asked her and she said that she liked it a lot, but it hurt a little, I was careful with her, I did it very lightly so as not to hurt her. The next day he asked me to do it again. So it's very important to be predisposed, but make him lick your ass to get stronger or some such games, you are not animals, you still need to have games. If the friend doesn't remember and you make him, you girls still need to think about it.
Thanks for the answer next time but now we both feel embarrassed he doesn't talk about it nor do I care what men think and do they realize that this is very special for a woman or they don't care much thanks
I also did it with a mistress. In order not to hurt, you should use caffeine cream (it is available in sex shops) and at least in the beginning the woman should be on top. Thus, it determines the depth of penetration and the pace. Otherwise, I know from her that she is very aroused by this type of sex, even at one time she preferred it. Maybe it's all about attitude. My current girlfriend does not say a word about anal sex.
Hi again, I'm 8. When it comes to talking to your boyfriend, a lot depends on his character. But you know him best. Well, I talk freely with mine on this topic, at first I was a little worried, but the sooner you find out who likes what and how, the less the probability of misunderstandings will decrease and you will enjoy these moments. I think that in your case, alcohol also played a big role (unlocking the inhibitions). In my opinion, the topic should not become taboo or anything like that. Just talk - if he's more touchy, just take the topic further, as if by accident. Good luck!!!
There is nothing wrong with anal love, you will like it over time, but you do not use any lubricants - they cause you discomfort and something can happen to you ... even the lubricant itself says not to use anal. It is important to always have anal sex with a condom because otherwise you can catch an infection.
Well, it has lubricants for anal sex number 18
What kind of nonsense are they, number 18, necessarily with a condom, etc., and what do you think that in time she will like it, maybe not everyone likes it and there are lubricants for anal sex especially ......
The next time you do it there - during the time - tell him a little nice ...... to relax both of you! you will like it over time!
I have always been against anal sex. I have a long-term relationship and my friend knows my opinion on the matter. He's very sensitive too, and he's touchy on sex, BUT I dare say he respects me too much and the moment I said NO he hasn't tried again. So it all depends on the people! Different people - different ideals!
Hello friends, we tried 2 and 3 times, I started to like it, but I like it not so much because of me, but because I satisfy my friend and he is cool.
Buy ANAL LUBRICANT WITH ANESTHETIC EFFECT or ANAL SPRAY WITH RELAXING ANAL MUSCLE EFFECT - there is a huge variety of products for more pleasant anal sex in sex shops! And do not be ashamed to come in and ask and look, Bulgarians are a congested nation in this regard, we are ashamed to enter such stores, and there are great things that would help us in many cases!
Look what I don't think happened, who knows what. Don't think you're the only one who's been shoved in the ass. What has happened so much is your pride hurt? If you love him, you will even make him happy by personally offering him to slap you in the ass. This will excite him terribly. I, my mistress, regularly fuck her in the ass. From the beginning she wouldn't let me either, but now she wants me to fuck her from behind. Life is too short. Give it to him so that he doesn't change you with someone else who will give it to you and then you don't start whining.
In my opinion, there can be no expression "Anal love". It sounds better "anal sex" or the popular "ass fucking".
It is best to offer him to insert it yourself - this way it will be easier for you, and you will be able to control that it does not hurt you, and it will be very pleasant for him as well.
Just tell him you don't lose anything though if you don't want to experience this "inhuman pain" all the time, admit to him that you didn't feel very well. :)
I don't know how your relationship will continue and whether you will have anal sex in the future, but if you don't start talking freely with your man, no matter the topic, there is no future for your relationship!
Hello, I want to express my opinion about anal sex. I was very worried about this, but my friend predisposed me. I was in a lot of pain at first, but he had smeared me with some blood. Then I felt good. We already do it quite often, especially when alone in a cycle. I like it best when I feel it boil inside me.
Nothing who knows what didn't happen. You're not the first person to fuck her in the ass, nor will you be the last. If you think a little more, you will understand that your friend is even very happy and if you love and hold on to him every time you go to bed and decide to have sex you will insist on anal sex ... So you show him how much you hold on it ..... As men show women how much they love them by spending their money on them ......
Well, yes, the woman fucks in the pussy for children and in the ass for pleasure, quite nice things are a legacy of the Ottoman Empire !!!!!
To the author: Darling, I didn't understand exactly what you were talking about. Did you like it or not? What do you feel "pushed" for? Being rude is bad. Talk to him and ask him why it happened. Otherwise, what's your problem? My wife and I have anal sex every 2-3 times. We often do it twice a night, the first vaginal and the second anal. It ends with both. It feels pain at the initial penetration, but we use ordinary flints. Lidocaine from the pharmacy is the most effective against pain, but it dulls the feeling. We do not see anything humiliating or dirty. See numbers 13 and 30! To numbers 8 and 23: I don't know, but I think you're wrong. My wife claims that the orgasm in anal sex was stronger than the other. Try it! To 22: Have you ever wondered is your boyfriend happy in bed? And won't he meet a more self-sacrificing lady somewhere? You know, but life is one. If you don't try, if you don't ask for something, you can't know. Success!
and I'm gay and I adore the back. so if you don't let him go, I'll let him go :) :) :)
BLA blah. You love him, he loves you, but he was very extreme. BLA blah. God, you women are a bit of a jerk. If you don't tell him you will write here and read posts of this or that (in this case me too) and you will not solve the problem. He wanted the man behind you. Why was he a boy? Then to tell him, not to tell him? One thing to know: Men are not fortune tellers and we don't have crystal balls to know what's going on in your head. Tell yourself and you will see how easy things are. Are a strong ass from me.
The most important thing is for the woman to arouse us with her mouth until she reaches the maximum size. Then the penis is inserted sharply and completely otherwise men can not feel pleasure. Then sharp deep movements.
hey, an old topic was dug up AGAIN, but I haven't read it, very good topic. 37 - as long as it was, tell me more, why couldn't you feel otherwise pleasure? If it's your first time, or you haven't done it in a long time, do you know how it hurts? And another question - why men do not let us play with their asses - there I heard that it is much more interesting for them than for us, you can do a prostate massage and reach a man orgasm like that. Did you do it?
What if you heard about spelling by accident?
I love anal sex with my boyfriend.
Get him to slap you in the ass. You feel humiliated and that's what all the hysteria is about. After using the lubricating ointment, you were aware that you would have guests in the backyard, and now you are angry. He can't put it in your ass if you don't let him, otherwise it's violence. You asked for it and he knew it just hit the moment. I'm sure he'll visit you again in the backyard.
Where did you find this garbage with a drinking contest, did you choose it! If he is incompetent, change him. Need a good preparation a girl we inserted two members simultaneously in the anus. There is nothing for them even without lubricant but with oil, there was nothing else at the moment. It has something else, she is a friend of my friend and he has fucked her a lot from behind and has learned quite well, as I said above, their two members enter without error asking for a third. No problem, she loves him and doesn't even do anything violent. Preparation is the most important, without it it will hurt to pay attention on the net, it says how it works. This replace it with rudeness will not only hurt you and you will wonder why! There are subtleties and now this girl, we think to put a bottle in the back, she is very cool in this regard! Read and get informed, but read from reliable sources on the forums write great nonsense. There are sex shops there selling various things to relax the anus you need to find out. Knowing that the first time is difficult but if you have the desire it will happen. Change the master !!!
Abe, let him spray your ring regularly and you will get used to it, and only in the end you will wash it there yourself without waiting for him to push you;)
Anal penetration in married couples is the pinnacle of good and healthy sex. For 25 years, at least once a week, my poop has been letting me in the back, or rather looking for it on its own. The pleasure is complete in both her and me, as if the doors of PARADISE are opening. The best cream is saliva.
That it does not have a single well-written comment.
to №48 Dude, aren't we in a grammar class? Apparently only there you are strong.
To the author: Sunny, obviously your boyfriend is quite inexperienced, if you want we can talk on Skype, there is something to tell you about TANTRA AND SQUIRT orgasm. lube40
"Anal love and then ??" Ask a stupid question and you will get a stupid answer. I don't want to comment on the comments ... Otherwise, anatomically, it seemed to have another purpose?
There is something else that no one cares about, the guys who have anal sex with their girlfriends are potential homosexuals, the probability of doing it with some of the same sex is almost 90%, regarding the case that is commented on in this forum, yes .. .. the reason he was a rough partner during anal sex is because in his mind, there was a desire for rougher sex with a man ...., and yet, do not rule out this possibility, because almost 70% of men in the world are able to make homosexual contact.
52, how did you see it directly in the human mind :) :) And what is this nonsense, and in percentages :) We all have asses, both women and men. But I, as a real man, like ONLY female asses. Which is observed in 100% of men :) And my rich experience shows that a woman either does not do it anal, or does it and says that she likes it. Well, getting used to it, of course. Author, teach Yours to listen to you, what you want and how you want it. A man is about making a woman happy.
You guessed it from time to time ..., I'll even tell you that you, as a real man, looked at men's asses, and your rich experience shows, the closer, the better.
No, I'm old-fashioned, I like Retro-Sex, man, with a woman. Maybe with two. So, don't push your ass, Darling, no matter how tight :) YD