Hello ! My girlfriend and I want to try anal sex, but we wonder if there are any preliminary preparations ... rinsing the anus or something like that ... please tell me if you know in detail how it works and possibly what to buy from the pharmacy for example .. . Thanks in advance.
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It is not bad to wash your buttocks with soap before, because I as a man have come across very dirty. There was a girl who had gone to the bathroom before, of course, without telling me, and I won't tell you what's left on my condom. Wash well, you can use lubricants to enter the member better and easier, and there is no pain. And most importantly, if he fixed you from behind first, by no means agree to make oral love to him later with the same condom. You can catch dangerous diseases. Abe anal sex is just a man's pleasure.
According to a recent study, more than 50% of heterosexual couples in Bulgaria have tried anal sex. We are talking about the practice of this type of sexual intercourse in couples, not between casual partners, that is, anal sex is now accepted as a normal part of foreplay. However, many people, especially women, still consider it dirty, painful and typical of people with a homosexual orientation. However, this is not the case at all and this type of intimate game can give you enough pleasure, as long as you follow some basic rules. 1. Safety There are a few basic safety rules that should always be followed during anal sex. The first and most important thing is: Use a condom, even if you have been together for a long time. In anal sex with a casual partner, this is an absolute must! The risk of contracting a bunch of sexually transmitted diseases and infections including AIDS, is greatest in anal sex. Also use special condoms that are healthier and are specifically made for this type of sex. After contact with the anus, do not touch anything else. Never start vaginal contact after removing the penis from the anus. This can lead to serious infections. After anal sex, you should immediately remove the condom and bathe very carefully. 2. Lubricant, lubricant This is the most important thing to ensure real pleasure in this type of sex. Unlike the vagina, the anus does not release moisturizing secretions. For this you will need to use lubricants. Apply a sufficient amount of lubricant at the first penetration. Do not use Vaseline or body oils, creams or the like. There is a great danger of these substances breaking the condom, as they corrode latex. The new silicone-based lubricants are the most suitable. There are also those that have a special painkiller in them. However, we do not recommend them, because anal sex should not lead to pain at all, and dulling it with painkillers is not a solution. In general, all lubricants are hypoallergenic, but ask at the pharmacy and see the instructions. Also add a lubricant during the act. 3. Toys Love play is an integral part of anal sex. The man can't take it out and put it in. This is as crude as the previous sentence sounds. However, it is not a good idea to use your tongue, because even if the area around the anus and the anus itself is perfectly clean, there are still a lot of bacteria that can be dangerous. Fingers are the perfect sex toy to start with. Be very careful with cut nails. Do not forget the lubricant. If you have sores on your hands, it is good to use rubber gloves. You can include sex players in the game. We said sex toys, not handy tools like deodorant or whatever you can think of. Small vibrators are suitable. Remember! Do not insert the vibrator into the vagina after it has been in the anus. 4. Clear the way In fact, this point is extremely important. Before you start anal sex necessarily, absolutely necessarily, you need to do an enema. Just going to the toilet does not solve the problem. Complete cleansing is an invariable condition for anal intercourse, because otherwise it can become more than an uncomfortable event. It is extremely harmful to use a mobile shower for such a purpose. Make an enema, sell them in any pharmacy. Do not use hot water! Not even cold! The water should be body temperature. Apply lubricant before starting this procedure. Making an enema is best done 2-3 hours before anal sex. Submit the article
I haven't tried, but I really want to. Now, after this information, I will definitely wind up. My friend and I have been together for a long time, but I still haven't decided. Thank you very much for the useful information.
It is not true that anal sex is only a male pleasure. A woman also takes pleasure when the desire is real, not just to satisfy her partner's whims. Wonderful girl, try it, you will like it if you have a desire for grain, but make sure it doesn't become a habit - it would harm you later in life. Let it be just an extra, diversifying the act between you. Anything you don't overdo is good for you. Otherwise, it will become a routine, and routine kills desire. Be sure to follow the advice before me - hygiene is very important to be good every time you both want it.
Cheers. I would like to know when you go to the pharmacy what to look for "Enema device" or what I ask a stupid question but I do not know and I ask about it and also if anyone can tell me between what prices vary these things needed for an enema before anal sex. I ask because I once tried anal sex. It was not bad except for the end, although my friend did not find out about it for other reasons, but I will be glad not to repeat the awkward situation. Thanks.
Hello ! My girlfriend and I want to try anal sex, but we wonder if there are any preliminary preparations ... rinsing the anus or something like that ... please tell me if you know in detail how it works and possibly what to buy from the pharmacy for example .. . Thanks in advance.
In this line of thought, I would like to add something about the act itself. It is very wrong to think that the initial penetration into the anus should be with the man's penis. Before proceeding to the essence of anal sex, it is necessary to insert one of the fingers, most often the middle one, with the help of a lubricant, so that the woman can get used to the very feeling in the initial moment. In this way the relaxation of the muscles of the swinkster takes place. When relaxing, the man will feel when he can insert another finger. Once you reach the point where three fingers (corresponding to the thickness of a medium-thick penis) enter calmly, without causing pain to the woman, and she feels normal, only then can proceed to penetration with the member.
The enema device is called Irrigator !!!
Bravo to you! :)
Anal sex, if done gently and carefully, gives a woman as much pleasure as a man. The orgasm you can experience in the area of the anus is a memorable experience. But in no case should men make anal love type "porn movie" because it is a painful experience, not the purpose of the lesson. Indeed, the anus should be stimulated with the fingers first, and then penetration should be achieved, and my advice as a woman to men is - let your partner set the pace so that practicing this sex is a pleasure for both. My husband and I often have anal sex and the truth for me is that you manage to enjoy it after some practice. At the beginning it is rather disturbing, but don't give up - you won't regret it.
I make an enema only with water using the mobile shower. what side effects can i cause? My ass clears perfectly.
My boyfriend and I have anal sex often. We follow all hygienic steps very carefully. She shares that during orgasm the experience is supreme. But it is good to do some massages.
Well, I can only say that the feeling is amazing. My friend and I tried it and I personally liked it. He said he liked it very much. It could stimulate me, which I liked very much
Does the butt sag from frequent anal sex, or does it tighten more?
Well, doesn't this enema hurt, isn't it unpleasant ??? Otherwise, my husband really wants to try, and so do I, but only my enema is the problem
It doesn't hurt ... the feeling is pleasant ... there is a moment when more water enters and you feel heavy ..... but then you recover .... To some extent my enema is very pleasant from sex ... Just so I don't become a mania ...
Hello! My husband is crazy about anal sex. We've been together for 10 years and we've tried several times, but I definitely didn't like it. He thinks that with more practice things will get better (muscles will relax) but this is his theory. I personally do not believe. My question is whether there is a chance that I will start to like it, provided that I have not been impressed so far. Maybe the problem is that only he really wants him and I give in to his desires and at times I feel pretty naughty. I am annoyed by the fact that after many refusals he continues to be impudent and I finally give up. I think I got carried away.
There's a chance you'll like it, but you really need practice to adjust how. And it's all about attitude. At the level of physics, it has been proven that anal sex is pleasurable if it were not for any woman would not practice it. Nice;)
It's a great experience - get a lubricant and try it - you won't regret it, but you both have to want it.
And is it possible without an enema?
I often have anal sex and the experience is fantastic, it's even easier for me to reach orgasm than anal than vaginal. I don't always do rinses, but we definitely use a condom and a lot of lubricant.
So how can you worry that the enema will hurt, and then they will push you .... let's say something about 10 times bigger ?! The enema does not hurt and is not so unpleasant. I recommend that you do not use purses from home, but always buy pumps from the pharmacy, because the liquid in them is not pure water, but also contains some disinfectants. And last but not least, to drive it slowly, because I personally feel very, very sick, because I still have the feeling that I want to go to the toilet, and it's not like that. I wonder, can I really get bored and not understand and become the big foul?
I did it without rinsing and it was ok!
My boyfriend and I have had anal sex many times and I feel better every time, but so far I have never had an enema, I use intimate soaps and all sorts of cleansing things and there has been no foul. But from what I've read so far, I don't think it would be bad to do it sometime.
At the beginning I was very worried, I used vegetable oils and the like, but I was convinced that it is not possible without lubricant. It is mandatory to make an enema to be calmer and so it can be great fun.
I cum every time from anal sex is great. Maybe the thought of doing something forbidden excites so much and the impatience of penetration.
Hello, it is not bad to try anal sex, but before that some preparation must be made, for example, for the man to lick the anus with his tongue, for the anus to relax and then with a little knot to push the pimple inside so that the anus itself can relax and not be then tighten a knot on the head of the member and lightly pass it to the anus, but gently because it does not hurt much. After entering the member, she relaxes and works gently again, not roughly. The woman's first impression of anal sex is very important.
I also tried it myself, but it hurt terribly, I want to ask, how can I deal with the pain, did they have any creams or something like that to make it at least bearable.
People anal sex is sick and nasty I'm screaming.
I can't figure out what these anal sex pretensions are for. It was very nice ... Are you gay, what are you? Why do they need to put it in your back when there is room for it? But no, let it be there with the shit ... So how do you cum, women, vaginally, I haven't taught the anal sphincter to be an erogenous zone ... What clicks on that cum, ass, vagina? As you start to shit, you will sing another song! Come on, tell me what's good about me not realizing I'm not gay!
I personally like anal sex. My boyfriend and I practice it from time to time and it really diversifies the sex life. For me personally, reaching orgasm with anal sex is easier than with vaginal sex. In order not to hurt your ass, it is important how the man will suggest you. It is best to start with vaginal sex and then move on to anal.
I personally really like anal sex. The pleasure is incredible. At first it hurts a little, but then the feeling is incomparable.
Hello, my boyfriend and I often have anal sex. At the beginning I was in a lot of pain, I had a hard time, but over time I got used to it and now it's much easier for me. My boyfriend is a big fan of anal sex and we can stop talking. So girls the problem is in the beginning then you get used to it, the pain disappears, use a gel for easier penetration and everything will be fine. Try it is worth it.
I will add that anal sex is a very cool thing. My boyfriend and I often do it and it arouses me more than vaginal sex especially when it ends inside.
I like this type of sex and I know that not only enemas and lubricants are important, but also posture. In my opinion, for beginners and for starters, the spoon position is the most suitable, with all the muscles relaxed.
I was with a man and we had anal sex without a condom, what diseases can be transmitted?
I often have anal sex with my lover. In the beginning I did it because I didn't want to lose it and now I do it because I like it. The feeling of cumming in your ass is amazing how it pulsates in you is just great. You will not regret it.
Hello, my name is Emil Georgiev and I have been practicing anal sex for 1 year and I am very happy, I just want to clarify I said I practice which I feel is sweet and I want to experience it again and again.
Hello! I'm Maggie from Silistra, I like to have it inserted from behind - my boyfriend taught me, and now I'm addicted to anal sex - I can't do without it! I forgot about vaginal sex and I'm about to fuck myself one day without wanting to, just like I'm walking and hop ... I'm going to shit!
Hello! I have three questions! Is it dangerous when practicing anal sex (whether with or without a condom) to be done vaginally at the same time, does it make sense to transmit any bacteria if you have not had an enema? My second question is this: I read above that it is mandatory to have anal sex with a condom. Excluding the possibility of sex for 1 night and a pace similar, if you have a serious friend and you are both clean, is it still mandatory then? And my last question is about the enema ... I want to ask what exactly is it and how is it done? At the risk of sounding ugly ... what's going on ... are you upset ... is the process uncontrollable ???
You are very hot.
To number 40. It is dangerous, of course, if after anal sex, you want to be vaginal, you must first wash thoroughly with soap and water, because there are many bacteria in the anus that can cause serious infections if they enter the vagina. If you want to save yourself the effort, just put on a condom and after anal sex take it off and you can switch to vaginal. Although she has had an enema, bacteria remain in the anus, it is advisable to do the enema a few hours before the sexual rendezvous, because the anus may be slightly irritated, which will create an uncomfortable feeling in your partner. A condom is mandatory with a casual partner or if you suspect that your partner has a disease !!! If you have a regular partner and you are both healthy, a condom is not required. The enema is done with an irrigator, you can buy it from the pharmacy. I quote: "Enema is a long-known manipulation, both in scientific and natural medicine. It is a process of cleansing the colon of fecal accumulations by filling it with water. It should not be overdone, but in the practice of anal sex is desirable.Through it the passive partner will feel safer and will avoid unpleasant situations during foreplay.Since ancient times it has been used to treat constipation, colitis, flatulence.Various forms of its practice are known. An enema with a decoction of lemon balm is widely used in folk medicine. both before and after anal sex. A drop of oil or a little grated homemade soap is often added to the enema water. There are also alcoholic enemas - with beer or vodka, but they are forms of perversion rather than useful medical procedures! In Eastern medicine, the so-called cleansing day is widespread. It occurs by drinking fluids and refraining from eating solid foods. At the end of the cleansing day, an enema is applied to cleanse the colon. According to acquaintances, the cleansing day has a beneficial effect on the entire gastrointestinal tract and is a good prevention against ulcers, gastritis and colitis. Anal enema is relatively safe and can be used by people without special medical education, although it is advisable to have a general idea of how the procedure is performed. The most common tools for making an enema are two. The first is the well-known pear-shaped rubber balloon, in which water is introduced into the colon through a plastic nozzle. The device can create unpleasant discomfort, because along with the water in the colon enters a significant amount of air. The second widely used device is the Esmarch court. It is a "rubber bag" with a plastic tip that is inserted into the anus. Its capacity is up to 2 liters, but for your first enema it is recommended to take up to 1 liter and each time to increase the amount of water by 200-300 milliliters. The maximum capacity of your body is up to 3 liters, but this is not recommended. The normal enema includes 1-1.5 liters of water, so do not overdo it! A suitable enema position is in which you lie on your back and pull your legs towards your abdomen. When you take half the liquid, you can turn on your stomach or sideways. You need to breathe deeply all the time, with your stomach in order for the water to penetrate better. Of course, the posture is determined by how you will feel most comfortable, but it is still good to lie down. It has already been said that you can put shavings of soap in the water, but very little - "at your fingertips". If you are not a medical professional, do not insert the handpiece too deep - no more than 7-8 centimeters. Another important condition is the water temperature. It should not be much different from the internal temperature of the human body - the ideal temperature is from 33 to 39 degrees. Remember to use a lubricating cream, maybe even Vaseline, when inserting the tip into the anus. You can do the enema yourself, but it is a good idea to call your partner for help, as it will be easier for you. Remember that it is not recommended to use this method more often than once a week. Otherwise, you risk damaging the bacterial environment of your colon. Enemas should not be practiced at all if you have hemorrhoids, rashes or severe colitis, such as ulcers. An enema can be not only useful but also a pleasant experience. In recent years, many people use it as part of the love game. It can be a source of pleasure for you and your partner, as long as you have the right setting. "I hope I was useful to you! that it is not recommended to use this method more often than once a week. Otherwise, you risk damaging the bacterial environment of your colon. Enemas should not be practiced at all if you have hemorrhoids, rashes or severe colitis, such as ulcers. An enema can be not only useful but also a pleasant experience. In recent years, many people use it as part of the love game. It can be a source of pleasure for you and your partner, as long as you have the right setting. "I hope I was useful to you! that it is not recommended to use this method more often than once a week. Otherwise, you risk damaging the bacterial environment of your colon. Enemas should not be practiced at all if you have hemorrhoids, rashes or severe colitis, such as ulcers. An enema can be not only useful but also a pleasant experience. In recent years, many people use it as part of the love game. It can be a source of pleasure for you and your partner, as long as you have the right setting. "I hope I was useful to you! In recent years, many people use it as part of the love game. It can be a source of pleasure for you and your partner, as long as you have the right setting. "I hope I was useful to you! In recent years, many people use it as part of the love game. It can be a source of pleasure for you and your partner, as long as you have the right setting. "I hope I was useful to you!
I've never had anal sex with a condom and I've never had a problem. Don't worry so much. Basic hygiene is sufficient. Of course, it is mandatory to have anal sex with a partner who is constant and you know that he is faithful to you.
I'm not fascinated. Now whatever it is. It's like I go to the bathroom with an apology. And it irritates me the most when the man tries to put it straight. Well, I'm not from a porn movie to come in like butter and honey. The other thing that annoys me is this stupid fashion called "I like anal". It sounds very dumb when a man shakes it. Amy, let someone punch you to see how much you will fall for the anal. This is a dirty pleasure that can bring you a lot of trouble. The transition from anal to vaginal is downright disgusting, I would never allow it. I also want to tell the girls who do not like anal, but do it for the sake of their partner, that if he wants to be with them, he will be with them without anal. Don't pretend to be a porn movie heroine because everything has a price. And I'll tell men not to be so cheeky, two holes are enough for you, if you are not looking for your third elsewhere. Who wants to make a quota, but sensibly and without compromises, because sex is a mutual desire, not a compromise towards the partner. Pleasant experiences :)
Anal sex can be a pleasure for some women and men, but it hides many dangers! Leaving aside the risk of becoming infected with your own bacteria (extremely dangerous bacteria live in the colon), as was the case with an acquaintance of mine who still cannot be cured of a staph infection because of her love of "enemas". and her face is covered with passionate and white non-purulent pimples. one of my anatomy professors put it this way "Adherents of anal sex will sow forever" Big laughter fell. Earlier in the comments, I saw that one of the supporters of anal sex went there. So the teacher touched on this topic when he talked to us about the muscles of the rectum. The internal sphincter is an involuntary muscle, ie. you cannot control it as outwardly. and anal sex, especially in frequent practice, is torn, and musk. fibers can not be restored and replaced with connective tissue, for those who do not understand, this tissue does not have the properties of muscle. At the same time at some point you will not be able to "squeeze" and hop .....: D I personally have not tried, although my friend offered to try. I don't want to and he knows it. In my opinion, compromises should not be made and when a person does not accept something, he should not be forced. If the man next to you respects you enough and the relationship between you is not based only on sex, it will not matter. There are many other things that can be done in sex. In my opinion, the important thing is to maintain the interest, and this is not achieved by allowing them to "push" you wherever they want. I want to tell the girls who do not want to do it to defend their position and not to do anything by force. It is not true that in time you will get used to such nonsense. It's all about attitude. Don't let yourself feel naughty, depressed. This way you will find out if your partner is holding on to you! Just diversify your sex. life in other ways. I think the effect will be much better than "give your ass" :)
Is anal sex possible when you have internal hemorrhoids or is it completely forbidden what are the consequences?
Personally, I have hemorrhoids - external and sometimes with an apology, but when I went to the toilet I was hurt by the toilet paper, and I don't know if something starts to come in from behind. And for internal I don't think it would be any different! Did the "need" to do this abomination push you so much? It is women who have nothing, ie. they don't have hemorrhoids, it hurts, imagine. And if I pay attention to the consequences - a vein can rupture / burst and bacteria can enter from there! Try another way to intrigue your friend / husband! There are other ways in which you will be satisfied, not only him! And you will not have health problems! This is the most important thing, and it seems that a lot of people ignore this moment :( PS read my comment above (46) :)))
For whom. 46 ... they don't push it where they want, but where we want;)
Men always insist on anal sex in order to suppress some of their complexes, namely they like the idea that they rule over the woman, it makes them feel more important and significant, they prove to themselves that they are the stronger sex and they know how to obey. And most women don't like anal sex for good reason. All gynecologists agree that the most severe bacterial infections causing major problems, even infertility, are sometimes caused by the most dangerous bacteria contained in the anus, and even if the man has had anal sex with another woman and has not shown any symptoms. This does not mean that there is no infection to pass on to the woman, a good gynecologist tells his patients: "Tell your husbands that when they watch porn, they should know that before the anal intercourse at least three washes with antibiotics are done to the actresses, tell them that they don't suffer afterwards and you go to the doctors and suffer when you want to become mothers, and also tell them to wash hands before having sex ...... etc. ” And no less repulsive is the pain that most women experience during anal intercourse, it is not to be underestimated, why should you endure pain to please your husband, let him first try the same to judge for himself whether there is pain or not , maybe he likes it you never know. And many men risk insisting on disgusting their wives forever and even hating and abandoning them for their constant exhortation and explanation of how good it was. If your wife decides to try one day, leave the initiative in her hands,
Everything else is a matter of personal choice and prejudice. .;)