Hi, my story is so confusing and somehow wrong that I know where to start. In short, I am a woman of 38 years. I have been in a relationship with my friend for 8 years and since we have been together I am only his. We both went through a lot, I served for money because they still didn't have enough. I have a lot of loans and I'm sinking with each passing day. I even allowed myself to take his money, but then I returned it. He caught me and became one ... Just to clarify that we lived together then. Now everyone lives in their own house, but sometimes we meet. He told me two months ago that he no longer loved me, he had nothing to love me for. He still treats me well, but I'm afraid he does it out of pity for me. It hurt at first, but somehow I can't get away from it. I even managed to suggest that he loves me, but he doesn't want to show weakness in front of me and he doesn't know what he wants. The truth is, that I betrayed him. I really betrayed him. About two weeks ago, I teased his brother. I wrote a few text messages and he answered me. To clarify, the boy did not know that it was me. I had never experienced such tremors and flights of the mind and heart, and only from a few messages. In the end, I couldn't stand it and out of stupidity told him who he was dating. The man just hid - and he's right. Seen from another angle, it may seem that I was making fun of him. I don't even know why I did it. I think I wanted attention from my boy, but I got it from his brother. I'm naughty now and I'm afraid he won't tell him. I tried to apologize, to talk, but he stubbornly refused to talk to me. I do not know what to do. Please give me some advice. I had never experienced such tremors and flights of the mind and heart, and only from a few messages. In the end, I couldn't stand it and out of stupidity told him who he was dating. The man just hid - and he's right. Seen from another angle, it may seem that I was making fun of him. I don't even know why I did it. I think I wanted attention from my boy, but I got it from his brother. I'm naughty now and I'm afraid he won't tell him. I tried to apologize, to talk, but he stubbornly refused to talk to me. I do not know what to do. Please give me some advice. I had never experienced such tremors and flights of the mind and heart, and only from a few messages. In the end, I couldn't stand it and out of stupidity told him who he was dating. The man just hid - and he's right. Seen from another angle, it may seem that I was making fun of him. I don't even know why I did it. I think I wanted attention from my boy, but I got it from his brother. I'm naughty now and I'm afraid he won't tell him. I tried to apologize, to talk, but he stubbornly refused to talk to me. I do not know what to do. Please give me some advice. I'm naughty now and I'm afraid he won't tell him. I tried to apologize, to talk, but he stubbornly refused to talk to me. I do not know what to do. Please give me some advice. I'm naughty now and I'm afraid he won't tell him. I tried to apologize, to talk, but he stubbornly refused to talk to me. I do not know what to do. Please give me some advice.
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Whoever sleeps on his bed, sleeps on such a bed! If you were a young girl, I would spend more time advising you. Are you 38 years old and behave like a 12-15 year old? !! And if someone tries to advise you something ... there is no way for you to understand. I just wonder how your boyfriend lasted 8 years ... weird.
I don't know what advice you expect - let me tell you where there is a magic wand with which to remove and fix things? it would not be bad for a person to do nonsense at will, and for someone else to fix it and everything to be the same. the only advice I can give you is to start a brand new relationship and, if possible, refrain from childish actions, which are more typical of a 15-year-old. if you think at least a little about the consequences, about how others feel, it will be good. F43
You have accumulated a lot of black dots in front of your friend. He was patient, but he was obviously fed up. However, you admit that you continue in the same spirit. At this age, you should not experiment with love, because this is the age at which you should show the security of the person next to you and self-confidence. You know, you hardly want criticism, but if you continue like this you will only bring negatives for yourself.
First the financial sinking, and then the moral one ... Conclusion - you are not worth it. I hope you change someday. Now I just feel sorry for you.
Both brothers must run away from you ...
Good for you! His brother had probably already told him, especially if they were close. I don't know what your relationship was and who treated it, but what you did is not nice at all. I don't think you will continue with this person.