And Since When Is A Car So Important?

   I'm like your husband and I fully understand people who don't have the talent to drive. Although I have a license, I do not want to be a danger to myself and others, so I decided never to drive a car. My husband loves to drive. In general, driving and driving a car are traditionally considered men's work. By no means do I want to convey that I recommend for the mother to be inactive. I have never chosen my partners by this criterion. But, apart from causing stress, the car is a great convenience, there is nothing to blame our souls. Especially if one lives far away from supermarkets like us. I can't imagine how we would go shopping and carry heavy bags home for half an hour if it weren't for the car. And we don't even have children yet. If you are sick and need to go to the doctor somewhere far away, it is also best to drive. Or when there is luggage to carry and large purchases, such as furniture. There are thousands of situations in which the car is indispensable. So I'm glad my husband has a car, but even if he didn't, I wouldn't return it. One simply does not have to look at things one-sidedly.

   Driver's license, car and fitness card are a must for absolutely every man nowadays. Otherwise you cannot survive in this fast-paced and insidious world.

   The car nowadays is a necessity. Will a family live with buses and trains for the rest of their lives? The car is a necessity.

   Having a car is generally good, but ... I'm disgusted by the price of fuel, the obligatory vignettes and the insurances, which are no cock. I personally have been a driver for 15 years. I dare say very good, especially on dirt and extremely difficult roads, where most can not pass with their expensive jeeps. I often travel to Sofia from Karlovo, but I use a train of BGN 4. ticket from a classic card with a discount. Super comfortable. The time is about the same. If I can't find people to eat moabed, I drink my brandy with gusto. Let someone disprove me that a car is an advantage. Now when it comes to young children and elderly sick people it is important to have otherwise everything else passes. In the 90s, when cars cost a lot of money, how was it not necessary then?

   We don't all live in Sofia, in my depopulated and declining city the public transport are small rotten buses that pass in 1 hour and do not cover a large part of the city. Without a car, you spend hours hanging out at bus stops, and then walking, if you're with kids and luggage, I don't see it. A car is a necessity, and everyone learns to drive. Not to mention that to work in some positions requires sh. book. If the man doesn't have a car and I like it, I wouldn't leave it, but I would motivate him to buy it.

   The car is a good service for family people, but most of the cars they drive are not family cars. Not everyone takes it for convenience, here we are a consumer society and we show ourselves. I know a boy who thinks that his girlfriend will not cheat on him because he had a car. He is 20 years old and as we know most of the 20 do not have cars, but his very thinking is unfortunate. He relies exactly on his car. I have told him many times that a 20-year-old girl will not sit with a 20-year-old boy who is 20 kg above the norm just because he has a car. Tomorrow will appear one in 20 years with the body of Dolph Lundgren and ours burns like a fuse.

   Ah, children! Will you learn to drive, and will you learn to be human, to help, to love, to honor? Not every tree blows a whistle and is not needed. There is nothing obligatory in this world with one exception - to be PEOPLE!

   I don't drive and my husband doesn't drive. But he is very decent and good, he is very calm and caring. We live in a dormitory because we are poor mice, but we are for each other and everything is correct. People value objects and property, not other people. People today are valuable because of their possessions. I hate cars and I don't want to learn to drive, neither does he. We tickle on foot or by bus. My grandparents only drove around, you know ... We live in a time when we live a lot in stupidity and unnecessary things. It's a convenience to really have a car, but I'm so crazy on the road from other drivers and from the news, where every day 76125481251954 people are shaken that they don't care. Taaa, to the question, here I have not rejected the ideal man because he did not have a book and a cart :) I just took it :) But most people are not me, supposedly they will reject because of the lack of the subject,

   I am 30 years old and I have never taken courses, I have not had a car and I do not want to. I've had friends with cars, but no one has ever had a problem with me. There are subways, buses, trams, trolleys, taxis, trains, planes and much more. You get on, read your book, and after a while you arrive. You don't care about maintaining a car, paying taxes, and worst of all, wondering where to park. With various friends as we get along to go out and still "but I can't park there, it's not convenient" and all sorts of things. I drive by city / intercity transport and everything is convenient for me.

   I, on the other hand, enjoy riding alone and playing my favorite music, instead of pushing myself on stinking flights with sullen people and mongooses. The car gives independence. And it is very convenient when shopping, do not carry bags and cartons as doomed.

   Since it has a four-stroke engine. If he has mental problems, it is better not to drive and it is not the basis of love, but it is a key skill for at least 50 years. Like the ability to sign up and withdraw money from an ATM. We live in such a world. It doesn't matter if you are a man or a woman, you need a car. Well, when the children come. Thank you, we struggled on the flights under communism. To freeze at the stops, to be shouted in my ear by weak-minded people who can't pick up the phone next to their heads in the tram, to anchor in a hotel on vacation and not to move anywhere for a week ... There is no need. ESPECIALLY in Bulgaria, where the rates are pennies.

   № 7 - And what if we have cars and we drive, then we can't be human? To be good and valuable, do we have to be as poor as mice? You go to the other extreme. And who wants to compare himself with his grandmother as № 8, to leave the computer and the iPhone that her grandmother did not have a laptop.

   Abe's car is quite important if you have children and you have enrolled them in a school, which, however, is not a neighborhood school, but a more specialized one, with learning a foreign language, for example. Such schools are usually not in the neighborhood where you live, and when the children are small (up to 5th grade) you have to take them in the morning, pick them up in the evening, and go to work and come back ... This without a car is "mission impossible", or with public transport it would take you all day. And for home you have to go shopping, to cook, to help in learning the lessons, that your partner also needs to pay some attention before you go to sleep ... The other is if you have parents in the countryside or a villa somewhere - wants repairs on time. By car it is much more convenient - you do not depend on schedules, you can carry a lot of luggage, including construction materials and tools, if you go for a visit - you all travel with the children and it even comes out much cheaper. It is also very convenient to go to the Metro, Fantastico or some other hypermarket on Saturday or Sunday early in the morning, even before the day starts, and to buy food and consumables for the whole week, and then not to be busy every day ... Otherwise, yes - the car should not interfere in human relations, nor be decisive in choosing a partner ... But to announce out loud that you do not want to learn to drive, for me it is a kind of pathology. .. What kind of "pride" is it NOT to be able to swim, cook, drive ?! You can give up both the dishwasher and the washing machine, and even the stove and the refrigerator ... but does that make you more human with something? On the contrary - these are the things that save you a lot of time, which you can use to communicate with other people! In today's world, they are not a luxury or a necessity, but a necessity.

   The author is obviously quite bothered by the fact that her husband is not legally competent, since she has started a whole topic to probe other people's opinions. However, I doubt that they will affect hers. For the people here, it probably doesn't matter if your partner can drive or not. The problem is that it bothers you. And your doubts are most likely due to the fact that driving is characterized as a "masculine" quality and on a subconscious level makes you doubt the masculinity of your partner. The lack of desire to solve the problem and the total abdication type "I have decided that I can not and will never drive", totally contributes to the confirmation of the launched subconscious thesis. It sounds logical and meaningful, but in the female brain the translation is as follows - "I can't and don't want to fight." - Which indicates a lack of initiative, combativeness and self-confidence - all important male traits. This is what provokes on a subconscious level to release this topic, even without realizing it. My advice is to stop comparing your partner to others where his strength is not, because you are questioning his masculinity. It's like making someone with a sharp mind like a razor lift 150 kg on a bench / not that there are no such exceptions / and if he fails to play a topic in explanatory mode. And internally, the thesis about his masculinity bothers you. I hope you understood me correctly. It's like making someone with a sharp mind like a razor lift 150 kg on a bench / not that there are no such exceptions / and if he fails to play a topic in explanatory mode. And internally, the thesis about his masculinity bothers you. I hope you understood me correctly. It's like making someone with a sharp mind like a razor lift 150 kg on a bench / not that there are no such exceptions / and if he fails to play a topic in explanatory mode. And internally, the thesis about his masculinity bothers you. I hope you understood me correctly.

   And let me tell you. I can't imagine life without a car but I'm a mechanic for me cars are a way of life but the cars I'm interested in are not liked by Bulgarian women first because for them owning a BMW, Mercedes or Audi is class and my American vehicles do not like much because I quote were big rhombic ugly and spent a lot generally no pleasure. The problem comes from the fact that all women want to be insured, but if someone else can do the job, just use it and break the blame for this is the low standard of living in our country and a relatively new middle class car is a difficult financial task for Bulgarians. I do not want to ignite a dispute about Bulgarians abroad and Bulgaria, but my observations in Germany and Central Europe are that no matter what car you drive, women are not interested in what clothes they are, it is difficult to say in Bulgaria what a car is for a woman. of the man. For women in Bulgaria it is now easier to invest in a hairstyle eyelashes nails a little fitness and there will always be a peasant who has invested money from the fields in an apartment and a car to play with them,

   The ideal man is not the one who can't drive. I grew up in a family where both my parents can't drive and don't have a car, and do you know how many inconveniences I've experienced because of that? we talk about how ashamed I was to tell friends that we don't have a car. It's awful and I said to myself that I wouldn't be like that, I got a license and to tell you I don't like driving at all, we were scared, but it was overcome. Luckily for me, I caught a friend who also doesn't have a car. I am also ashamed of him and I told him that I would not start a family for someone without a car. I wonder what I got into with him.

   It is not a question of poverty and wealth, but of priorities and mentality. Anyone can get a car, the question is when, what and why. It is a matter of accurate judgment and individuality. For some it may be mandatory, for others it may be an unnecessary burden. Some of them have to go to the village and drive pickles, potatoes, hips, sazdarma, pigs, while others invest in stocks or create paintings, sculptures, which they sell for tens of thousands, they can also use taxis. And somewhere I read, the Prime Minister of Finland went to work by subway. So, let everyone talk about themselves and not impose their opinion.

   I fully support numbers 4, 8 and 9! I am from Varna! There are often pictures of broken and robbed cars on Facebook! Various gangs are going wild, robbing, smashing and setting cars on fire! Go then repair the damage and buy a new car! There was a recent case of burning cars! And our public transport is convenient, it is now possible to use one ticket for two lines, as there are vending machines both at stops and in vehicles, and soon the conductors will go down in history, but will be reassigned as controllers, there are already 40 people already doing just this job! And what is my car for then? If I need furniture - sofas, bedrooms, tables and more. such - well, every store has transport for this job - you pay in the store, order transport to your address and you're done - on the specified day and time the person calls you and you wait for your order! And I keep wondering, especially in the summer, when I see cars that are not from our city, I keep asking you, “Why didn't they come by train?” Because they take up space, and a mother with a stroller can't walk on the sidewalk because it is full of cars and has to go under! Even if I have a child, I will manage somehow, there are also taxis! So a solution to the problem can always be found! It will be cheaper for me again! And there are enough shops around us, so you really don't need a car! And who lives in "Izgrev" I'm not talking about there anymore! You need a car for that, no doubt! But if you live in a residential complex, with all the amenities, the car is only an additional expense, not a cancellation! Neighbors have-they have places they go regularly-villas, country houses! They really need cars! But to have just like that - no, I don't need it, and I don't have a book! who are not from our city, I keep asking you: “Why didn't these people come by train?” Because they take up space, and a mother with a stroller cannot walk on the sidewalk, because it is full of cars, but has to go under! Even if I have a child, I will manage somehow, there are also taxis! So a solution to the problem can always be found! It will be cheaper for me again! And there are enough shops near us, so you really don't need a car! And who lives in "Izgrev" I'm not talking about there anymore! You need a car for that, no doubt! But if you live in a residential complex, with all the amenities, the car is only an additional expense, not a cancellation! Neighbors have-they have places they go regularly-villas, country houses! They really need cars! 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   To number 19 Congratulations! You are the next to say that he has observed that vehicles and real estate are not the first things that the average Westerner looks at when choosing a friend / husband. Maybe they are not in the second place ... The fact that the Bulgarian woman is massively committed to this principle or it is leading whether she will have a long-term relationship with a man is an expression of complex / s, mercantilism and other worse traits that it is good to save them! Of course, one of the reasons they look for the wealthy is rooted in the fact that they also come from poor families, and the environment in which we live makes them feel insecure. The question is what do they do for their own safety besides going to beauty salons, a little fitness, diet and offering themselves to the rich !? ... Oh, yes! , buy clothes from the mall !!! What does this type of behavior look like to you? Is it a good survival model? Why do we here in Bulgaria no longer have healthy but literate families? Why are there fewer and fewer happy couples, regardless of age? Why, even at the very beginning of a flirtation, what determines what he wears, what he drives, what restaurant he sits in, what he drinks and so on? ... I ask the women and the young ladies, on what principle do they commit and do they not make their love life the area in which they secure themselves in the future?

   Until 23 I am 19 !!! In my opinion, the reason is in the environment itself and this dondurkane from the family just women raised to almost 30 by mom and dad do not develop that sense of independence which at such an age is impossible to change this opinion because I see Bulgarian families who are in the west but they want to not want to live the way people live here, namely every young man is hard-working and financially independent, whether a boy or a girl, and from this comes the lack of mercantilism in women, men and people in general. Now I will wait for everyone who hates abroad to start attacking me: D but realize the problem is not elsewhere but in ourselves