Hello. I'm a 20-year-old girl, I've had a friend for 4 years .. We had great difficulties together, but the biggest for me is jealousy and that I don't trust him .. I'm very jealous of him, as well as of his ex-girlfriend, who is looking for him. in a friendly way, invite him to his birthday and they took pictures of the two of them, which hurt me a lot .. I know what women are like and I know that she wants it, and when I get annoyed I pull away ... I can't handle it with these feelings, give advice ...
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And I'm as big as you and we've been together for four years ... Fortunately, there are no exes with us, but I would definitely be angry like you. I don't know what to tell you, I'm tired of watching him, what he's going to do .. And if he cheated on me his right path .. just let him breathe, have fun, everything has limits, which I hope does not cross, however ..
If you press him constantly, you will lose your respect and connection. There is nothing more unpleasant than an insecure woman. Otherwise, I understand you perfectly - some women are just like hyenas, especially when they see a busy man, they don't stop at anything, because "victory is even sweeter". But in this case there is nothing you can do, everything is in the hands of your friend. If he does not want to be seduced, there is no force to do so. Let them press and drool, but if your husband likes only you, he will cut them without a problem, and that hurts them the most. So watch his behavior without hinting at anything.
Thank you very much for the comments .. We have to be above things, with in the end even watching who does what, if there is a desire you can always find a way to cheat. I just don't want to understand it late, for example, and be angry that I've wasted my time. However, the most important thing in a relationship is to value our partners and love each other, and we should not pay too much attention to these things, because they only burden us and we are not happy.
"victory is even sweeter." what nonsense?
It's not nice to be jealous of him, but you're right. I am a boy and when I have a relationship, I would never go out with my ex on any occasion, let alone go to their birthday. Do you think you should talk and ask him if he intends to continue like this and meet with her. Now I have no idea if you are not dating your ex then and he has the right to do so, but if you do not meet and he does, the problem is big.
Hello. Well, I didn't read anything angry about your jealousy. My ex-girlfriend, who I dumped because she was hellishly jealous, is a real example of anger and combined with the badness and complexes is already a real example of what you are describing. So I'm a cool guy and women love to flirt with me, but that's all. No answer on my part, I have never succumbed to women's tricks, I have always held on to my partner, I am monogamous and I have never given cause for jealousy. But she kept telling herself that I would go back to my ex, that I was writing to various girls on the net, or that I was downloading every one I met, that everyone was my type and what not. I constantly convinced her with words and deeds that I was not like that, I changed my behavior in front of friends and not only that she was calm, but alas, she had some fear that I would abandon her. She annoyed me, insulted me and even got into a fight with me. I really loved her, but I only lasted four years with her, it's very stupid but it's like I really love. By the end of our relationship, I stopped loving her because she pushed me away so much that she had nowhere to go. I'm jealous too, but I don't show it to myself at all, I suppress it internally and I often joke with myself and amuse myself like that, I make him laugh. When I trust the person next to me, I try not to think nonsense. This is my recipe I make him laugh. When I trust the person next to me, I try not to think nonsense. This is my recipe I make him laugh. When I trust the person next to me, I try not to think nonsense. This is my recipe