I know I have countless similar topics, but not quite. I don't think he will ever ask here about this problem, but here it is. I am 27 years old, he is 30 years old. We have been together for about 10 months, intimate for about 6 months. I would say that sex is good, but the last month has been hell for me. I never reached orgasm. It's not impossible, it's just harder for me. First emotional relaxation is required. I already trust him, I'm terribly excited. Sex is amazing ... but when I'm one step away from the end, it's over. I don't know which way it happens anymore. One thing follows: sorry! But the scary thing is that he can't pick it up later. And again, regret follows. Honestly ... I'm tired. Can men explain or direct me what to do with me or him? We do it with a condom, he is circumcised. Just nice people, we get along great, but it eats me up. The tension builds up ... and builds up. I cum on my own later, but it's not the same. I have a feeling it gets scarier then. I really thank those involved.
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Well, for example, to insert some oral caresses before you start having sex or to use condoms for a slower ejaculation inside, I think with something like lidocaine.
The longer the love game, the more time women need to reach orgasm. Separately, he must learn self-control. Feeling that he wanted to hold his breath, to swallow hard several times, if necessary even to take it out for a moment. Grandpa Torbalan
And so is my husband. This is torture. It accumulates an awful lot over the years, and when it starts to end quickly at 30, it doesn't get any better. I haven't finished with him in years. You have to take action, I'm sorry you can't.
Dear girl, I am a man of 45. It has happened to me and continues to happen shortly before my wife. My arousal jumps headlong when I feel it approaching orgasm. As you know, cum is in a person's head, not somewhere in the genitals or other organs. Don't be angry with your partner for ending before you. This means that you are very aroused by what you do. And you don't have to apologize for ending before you. According to him, you need to continue the game more, to be very excited and free. Here I mean long-term oral love on his part :). The more aroused and wet you are, the longer he will endure. It's weird that after the first time he can't lift it, he's only 30 :). Talk calmly about this and find out what excites him more and how to stimulate his arousal. Find out for yourself how you cum most easily (posture, sequence) and talk about this issue so that you can cum too. But in any case, you must be liberated and aroused, and you must not think only of cumming, but enjoy the sensations. I wish you success :)
Emmy, he can't be controlled. And this is a problem. He can do it once, twice, but when you tell him, he must be able to stop doing it. There doesn't seem to be enough experience in sex.
Maleee ... Once you get to apologize badly after it's over, believe me - sex with you is hell for him too! And no wonder he is able to perform better elsewhere. I understand you well, but I feel sorry for him ... :( G30
Number 5, he best explained how things were. You just don't have to stare at sex as much as you do about communication in general. You also need to get to know your own body so that you can better control your orgasms. The advice they gave you above will definitely work, but you have to make some effort to get things done. It is true that arousal comes from your brain, and if there is something that is bothering you, you need to overcome it so that you can be completely free during sex. You have to unlock your imagination, and your orgasms will be much better. For example, I've been getting something close to orgasm (without actually cumming) just at the thought of a woman I really like. The point is, we humans are not the same, and what is possible with me does not mean that it will work for someone else. But I also know that when a person truly loves someone, there is no ordeal that cannot be overcome. So, as a last resort, the alternative may be to increase the duration of foreplay. By no means, however, should you make the mistake of sulking or frowning at him in the event of a premature ejaculation. Pretend you don't care at all. After such a case, you can only tell him that you liked him a lot, but you just want him to fuck you for a long time. Just because you like it, not because what he gives you is not enough. If you pretend to be dissatisfied with the act, it will only make things worse. Once he realizes that you want him, it will encourage him even more to improve what he can. But don't expect him to become a porn actor! In general, you women have to kill yourself, the idea,
As N5 said, you influence him with your excitement. To tell you to control yourself is nasty. I would recommend you not to wrap it, just - touch. Preferably with your feet - try to keep them as free as possible from it. With his hands ... his chest (his ass) ... just not him. How about "back"? The goal is minimal contact before the final. Still, try not to moan ... out loud :)
I'm 40 and I'm three times and not in 2 minutes but I don't complain much;);););) And you keep it yours so they don't take it from you :))))))
Come on, please. Shouldn't she wrap her legs around him, touch him, and moan out loud? !! Are you serious, number 9? Maybe he should moan in his mind ... Thanks for such "sex" in which the woman will lie like a tree and be silent like a fish only because the man cannot control himself. He is not small at 30 years old. Besides, it doesn't work for him a second time, that would completely repel me.
200-300 grams of mastic or ouzo and sex is quite long, the erection is powerful, and the man's arousal is like a tanned teenager! Try men! Anise works wonders!