Hello, dear readers. I want to know your point of view on the subject I will touch on. Well, are fantasies a bad thing? Meaning yes, everything is within normal limits, but if fantasies and dreams are something you think about every day, is it bad? Is it bad that sometimes (at least I personally) shut myself in a fictional world of mine and think "what if ...". I recently started thinking. In reality it is different from fantasy. Here, in reality, everything, absolutely EVERYTHING has its consequences. If you tell a person openly "I like you", for example, in the real world this naturally has consequences, whether good or bad. But in fantasies you can consider everything. There "everything is correct": Dd. And here's something I notice. I'm not acting. I don't take a place (or so I feel) in reality. I do everything, which I want to do in my head, and actions or words are often missing. Okay, now I'm starting to sound different. I just want to know your point of view. I think that if you are able to do something in this world of yours, you will be able to do it in reality. That you have to take a risk. A risk I'm afraid to take, but I have to ...
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We all think about dreams and fantasize, about the life we want to live every day. As long as you do NOT LIVE in your fantasies all day, there is nothing wrong with them, on the contrary.
It's bad to fantasize. You get to such an extent in your fantasies that you simply deny reality. Keep in mind that it is like a contagion. You get deeper and deeper into them and that interferes with your social life. You can get to the point where you just have to shut yourself up somewhere and get into a fictional reality.
As you describe it, you remind me of me. I stand in my head and do not act. I'm just creating different scenarios of what will happen when I act. As it happened here and there I decided to act and usually nothing developed as in my head :) haha ... Some time ago I came across an article about the so-called schizophrenic person and I partially confessed. I think they are a bad thing if they prevent you from acting in reality. I have declared them neutral because I am more or less aware of how they affect me.
From the author: thanks for the comments! I am already aware of some things. Fantasies are okay within the normal range, but as you said, we should not close ourselves too much. My problem is that I close myself in and don't live for the moment. At the moment, I'm trying to change for the better, trying not to think too much. Honestly, it works. You just think less and act more (it just depends on what it's about: E) Still, thank you really much for the comments. Also, I realized that I am not the only one who is in a similar situation. ❤❤