Hello! My question is asked in the title. Let everyone share their opinion and experience. What I think is that men prefer to be with less attractive women because they won't be afraid that someone might steal it from them. And in most cases, beautiful women are left alone.
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Well, download it when you don't want to be alone. I have been beautiful and ugly and I have not returned any. And you will not be returned. The bad thing is that you know good apples ... the one about pigs. It is not beauty and self-confidence from it can stop a man. Ie the woman really believed that she was beautiful (I'm not saying she may not be) and she bets on that. Something the average man can't answer (see if he's a slick, vain, perched piglet). However, if a woman relies on intellect, rational thinking and reason, then the first meeting would be different. I guess that's how women who feel in an intellectual conversation led by men feel the same way. Often beautiful women become the object of ridicule. * For reference "Anna Karenina"
It's not beauty that repels, it's the thought of most beautiful women that being beautiful and almost where you're going to take it off and who you are, unless you're Brad Pitt. Even if you are Brad Pitt and you take her down, she always has such an expectation that her beauty is enough and she doesn't have to do anything, only you are responsible for everything. And it's almost as if men line up for her, and if you haven't fulfilled a whim, she can easily replace you the same day. Well, no self-respecting man would tolerate such a thing. Ugly women, precisely because they are ugly, are often more humble and give more. It is easier for you to get a normal attitude from them. But of course, there are beautiful women both physically and as men, there are such ugly ones both externally and internally.
Well, the answer to your question is woven into the description. What does it mean for someone to "steal" it from you? Isn't it a car or a phone or a pocket knife? Hey, this is your problem for both the beautiful and the ugly. You cannot be trusted. You look at your husband with one eye and look for a replacement with the other. No one likes to feel replaceable. Understandably, any relationship can fall apart. It is understandable that things do not always work out, but in order to get them, compromises are needed on both sides. They must both work in this direction and endure certain difficulties and hardships. And not something like not exporting to you or seeing someone "steal" you.
I think like you. I think men choose uglier women, as I do in this case, because they have nothing to fear. They don't have much competition and they don't really care about the woman next to them. They feel more confident and so on. You may be alone and not happy, but many women who are not so beautiful are also not happy. Do you know why? Well, because every time they go out with their partner, he stares at people like you and other things. So don't think that only you are harmed. You can't expect people to want you just because you're beautiful.
On the contrary, if a stranger catches you on the street and you are beautiful, nice, he will talk to you immediately. The problem is that you women don't act. Now the question is different if you are a shy person.
Abe, he man is not afraid in himself of beautiful women. Rather, the wallet is afraid of him ...
I am a man and I have some experience with this question. The problem with beautiful women is their arrogance and self-esteem and the fact that they make it difficult to communicate with them because they think you have to "win" them. On the other hand, the more ordinary girls you like can be fascinated by the attention they receive and enjoy, and you are happy and you are pleased when you are appreciated. Naturally, as a man, you like it when a woman shows that she is happy with you instead of playing games, to have an opinion that she should be won, to make herself difficult to reach, because this creates unpleasant emotions and is tiring. That's why men refuse to take steps towards beautiful women, because beautiful women are difficult in most cases and men and we are all too tired, we have already endured a lot of life and we simply do not have the patience, energy and strength to deal with whims no matter how beautiful a woman is. What is a beautiful woman for us, when her beauty is a source of only unpleasant emotions as a result of her self-esteem? It is not out of fear, we are not afraid of women, it is out of unwillingness to tolerate a pretentious attitude.
It has nothing to do with beauty at all, author. People usually come home with less attractive people because they have more and better qualities than beautiful people, simply because an unattractive person has to stand out with something else. So, if you see a man who has been with beautiful women and finally chooses someone who is not something special (the same goes for women, of course), this is precisely because when you decide to build - you look to be stable, to be cozy . Brother.
The author: I am a woman. In most cases, as some said, a woman who is beautiful relies only on her beauty and one species expects her to be adored for that. But I think there are women like me who are not just a beautiful shell, and they hide many other positive traits. Perhaps because men in most cases, in which they tried to attract the attention of a more beautiful woman, she repelled them because she had high expectations and they suffered from This type of women are no longer trying. Unfortunately, however, we suffer the other part of beautiful women, which we can definitely offer much more than one beauty.
And again, as always, the comments show how much they are afraid of beautiful women and how much they are angry with beautiful women and are complexed by them - both men and women. ;) Hohohoho
Enough with these clichés men this women that, ugly - beautiful. Look at her - how many couples do you know and see who are beautiful, both man and woman, or at least one? A little, and immediately noticeable, right. But that didn't stop the others from mating, I think. Log out of the computer and ads.
2 It is very clear that it would be ridiculously obvious ugly to slap a beautiful woman. And it is very clear that the ugly will be humble, so do they have another choice? !! Hahaha Finally ... it is very clear that all cowardly and complex ugly people will adore other ugly people, that they are something more, you see, nothing, that the flooders spit all day with malice and spin cheap numbers, somewhere on the net, sometimes in reality. On the other hand, the beautiful ones are naturally dumb in galoshes / not that they are often the most successful ones / and they believed in each other a lot ... but we don't mind them at all, you see !! Hahaha
Very accurate comment on number 7. It could not be better said.
I have noticed the opposite. Most of the men I know when they see a beautiful woman and start anointing, begging. Invitations for dinners, picnic discos. In front of this type of women are made kind, kind. And ordinary women are not given that much praise. The funny thing for me is how some nothing and no types - no appearance, no intellect, no good financial situation try and believe that a beautiful, very well-groomed girl will pay attention to them.
14, this does not change the fact that many beautiful women are overconfident. It is normal for everyone to try the good in the hope that it will come out readable, but it rarely happens. Why not give it a try? I have seen beautiful women with downright ugly men who are neither confident, nor rich, nor anything. Apparently if you try, there is still a chance that it will warm you up.
Most beautiful women in the world are unhappy in love.
It is full of virgins aged 25 and over, who are such only because none of the beautiful and well-groomed women wants them, and often does not even reflect them. Men are much more capricious and have much higher self-esteem and pretensions.
I have a question that will answer the author's question: Author, do you loathe ugly men? If "yes" then you choose them by vision. That is, for you the vision is everything. That's all you can offer. For women, and for many women, love is like a market. It often happens that a woman says "I know how much it costs". Beauty is not repulsive. And your approach. It is clear at a glance that this is how you approach relationships. "Look, I'm very dear and you can't buy me because you're not beautiful and we won't get along." Accordingly, the man, of course, would enter the situation of "the grapes are sour, which is high" Now, if the approach of both was based on something else. For example, in a situation where a woman needs help because she is stuck with a car on the road. She is stressed, hairy and does not think about her appearance. She stops an ugly man to help her, selfless thoughts. Then there would be sympathy, wouldn't there? You would even say to yourself "Abe, he doesn't seem so bad" or "look what a nice and polite person". That's what I'm talking about. The uglier women rely on their HUMAN qualities and see people in a different way, they don't show off in clubs. Yes, you are valid with this beauty of yours now (it is not 20 years old). But no man who also relies on human qualities will pay you serious attention. He'll probably look first. And yes, he will most likely blush, because vanity will be foreign to him, and vanity has a direct connection with selfishness in man. Ah, how often "beautiful couples" are noticed in which everyone is painfully vain and themselves. Yes, you are valid with this beauty of yours now (it is not 20 years old). But no man who also relies on human qualities will pay you serious attention. He'll probably look first. And yes, he will most likely blush, because vanity will be foreign to him, and vanity has a direct connection with selfishness in man. Ah, how often "beautiful couples" are noticed in which everyone is painfully vain and themselves. Yes, you are valid with this beauty of yours now (it is not 20 years old). But no man who also relies on human qualities will pay you serious attention. He'll probably look first. And yes, he will most likely blush, because vanity will be foreign to him, and vanity has a direct connection with selfishness in man. Ah, how often "beautiful couples" are noticed in which everyone is painfully vain and themselves.
Most men are not afraid of beautiful women, but are super impudent and unceremonious, even if the woman on the other side does not give them a reason for it .. Here there are statements that the beauties almost pretend to be inaccessible and expect their stars to fall. In fact, most of these women are so fed up with exploring glances, from various insinuations, from someone hanging on your head so that you see you wanted to meet ... It is completely logical to look with contempt at another brat. , and not because she thinks of Miss World, but because she also has the right to like or dislike a person, especially if she feels that he is hanging around her just because of her appearance ..
If the man is a man, no one will take it from him. Rather, women do not like cool men, because one goes with one and everyone will look at her and envy her.
Insecure men are afraid. In principle, they feel hurt by women, and even more so by the beautiful, because for them they are both desirable and unattainable. They are worried that they will not be able to keep such a woman because she has a lot of choice, and they are not sure that they can beat the competition. Just look at the summaries of the beautiful women. They were too self-confident, they had nothing else to offer ... Besides, they expected the man to talk to them (that is, they are inaccessible to someone who is afraid to act with women), which is obviously a very bad quality. And, of course, there are rumors about the claims of these women, as if the fact that they play leagues on them is not indicative of men's claims. The truth is that there are women like the ones described, but most beautiful women are completely normal people. And confident men have no problem talking to them and building a serious relationship with them. That is, if a man has a problem with your beauty, you do not need it.
We are not afraid of beautiful women. It's just that mbogo men are worried about the expectations and the price they may have to pay to keep this beauty with them! And they often give up or don't even try because they have come up with something easier!
I support number 21. The problem is not in the beauty of the woman, but in the self-confidence of the man. A man with real confidence has no problem talking to any woman he chooses. True self-esteem has nothing to do with a man's appearance or material possessions, it comes from his inner convictions about his own worth as a person. If he needs external factors (crutches) such as nice clothes, cars, apartments, a lot of money, a nice body and face on which to build his self-esteem, then this is a man with low self-esteem ... as well as to look outside. When a man without or with low self-esteem sees a beautiful woman, he immediately puts her on a pedestal and certain thought patterns are activated in him - "She is a high bar", "She must be looking for only money ... where will I deal with her". ... or (at best) begins a "greasing" and flattering behavior that women rightly hate because they hate men who are inferior to them. The woman wants to be captivated and subdued. She wants to feel the power in a man. I'm not talking about physical strength or any kind of harassment at all ... I'm talking about strength of character and will, true masculinity. In general, beautiful women are the subject of constant male interest. Unfortunately, the vast majority of men who are interested are in the category of "no real self-confidence." Many of them do not even dare to talk to such women, but in reality they do not like beautiful women. Thus the paradox of a beautiful woman with, in theory, a huge choice of men, there is really no choice. There are very few men with real self-confidence in today's world. They are not enough for all women, even beautiful ones. But the good thing is that these men (men of choice) generally like mostly beautiful women, so beautiful women are still a little more privileged in this regard than their less attractive uncles.
According to my observations, men today are only afraid of commitment. No one marries because they do not want to deepen the relationship, no responsibilities and no desire to start a family. Such apathy has gripped the male class that there is no danger of anyone fighting and taking another woman. The author is probably very young and therefore has some romantic expectations. Soon, after one, two sobering connections will come down to earth. I guess she will still be beautiful and intelligent, but she will not be so enthusiastic about these qualities, because they are no guarantee of a bright future.
I'm number 7 - There have been opinions from women that men have low self-esteem and therefore do not talk about beautiful women and things like that. It's not like that, we just know what a woman who thinks she is beautiful turns into. Let's face it - she becomes a narcissistic monster who is obsessed only with herself and her appearance and expects the whole world to revolve around her. I'm talking about really beautiful women here, which most women are not. Really beautiful women are 1 in 100 women.
I am a woman, not very beautiful and I am just waiting for True Love. To look at someone and know that I want to grow old with him and be a Family. I'm 23, I was with a man for a year, he came to me and as someone said probably out of low self-esteem and a lot of TV just by looking at him I wanted to be with him. I had no expectations or pretensions. After a few days, I thought about how we would grow old together. But after a year our desire passed. When you are with a man, think about whether you can be with him forever and love each other. Not whether there will be a big house and a car. Many people already confuse Love with Interests. If there is a way to choose between True Love and All the Money in the World, I would choose Love.
I will tell you a parable. A woman in the village was very beautiful. But she was a nun in a local convent. A man liked her very much and followed her everywhere. And so for days and weeks, even months. Finally she couldn't stand it, stopped, turned and spoke to him: - Why do you keep following me? - Because you are very beautiful! He replied. "And what's so beautiful about me?" - Your eyes ! I am fascinated by them! Then she reached into her eyeballs, took out her eyes and gave them to him. "Here are my eyes." I hope you are satisfied now. The lesson is that beauty does not exist, sorry for the bad news. It is the illusion in the head of the people who see it, not in those who possess it! In reality, these are just one eye, one hair and one lip ... Taken together, they have some aesthetic value and harmony, which, however, is an illusion. The disease, It is common for people when they see this illusion, like this oligophrenic from the parable to say "you are beautiful". This illusion is fueled today by the pain of television, magazines, porn movies, etc., but that's another topic. The important thing is that we are enslaved to this en masse and we don't even feel it. Real men are not impressed by "beauty", they look at things as they are, because of their distraction from more important things, such as virtues. For them, the "welcome on clothes" phase is very short, if not any. For them, on the first date, one gesture is enough to sometimes judge the woman and not waste time with her .. I give an example of a gesture .. Last night I saw a super "beautiful" girl, blonde, makeup, superbly applied makeup, beautiful dress, etc. ... went to a club with his girlfriends .. He drank a row of bulls from a pitcher. It was their turn to enter, and she literally threw her pitcher half full on the ground, at the feet of the others waiting in line, in front of the club entrance. The guards didn't tell her anything, of course, because she would bring them income, etc. (that's another topic) So how many of you, after seeing this abomination, will go to her with the clear intention of a healthy and stable relationship. I hate it, and I'm not even half a real man. With her behavior she can't attract anything but counters for one night ... However, Milata knows that it is valid. She is valid in some low-class club, where the pathetic resemblance of "men" is drooling over her short skirt. Her self-esteem is based on just that artificial attention ... nothing more. An artificial girl with artificial self-confidence who will come here to the forum and whine that she was beautiful, but you see the real men didn't pay attention to her. A slight digression to be clear. In Japan, there are considered to be three types of women; 1. Woman for the soul (geisha) 2. Woman for the body (prostitute) 3. Woman for procreation (wife) If you are a beautiful prostitute, do not hope to meet the real man. Categories one and three do not write on this forum.