Sometimes I wonder if the dead are watching us? My grandfather died almost two years ago. We were not close with him. In recent years, he did not want to have contact with our family, denied even being his family, and isolated himself from us. I found out about his death from my mother, who was traveling with our relative on the phone, because we don't live with her and we have a tradition of hearing each other in the morning. They didn't take me upset. I am a very sensitive, very emotional person and all my relatives know that. Yes. My father was abroad / I want to add that my grandfather was his father / and I could not go to the funeral, because everything happened literally for a moment. I think he still takes it hard ... I haven't been able to learn so much about him, so much ... My last meeting with him is already fading so much. I remember his slight smile, I still remember his voice. But there are many things I wanted to know about him, about his life - FROM HIM. I couldn't send him one last time. I wonder if he's looking at me? Does he see me? Is he okay there? You may find it funny, but sometimes I pray if he looks at me to give me a sign, some sign. Alas, nothing. What happened to us after death?
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Whatever happens, I don't think a spiritually unprepared person can know that. I watch lectures by people who talk about reincarnations. For things outside our space, but everyone is different. Your grandfather had a life of his own. You have your life, other steps. Death is not the end, but people cannot know everything about it.
I don't know if they are watching us, but it is a fact that I dream of loved ones who have died. I don't know if they visit us through sleep. Because I dreamed of them in situations we have never been in our lives. After all, they say that dreams are a mixture of events that we have actually experienced or impressed us. A few months ago, a friend of mine who we have known since childhood died. I didn't dream of it at all for several months. And recently I had a dream with him in which we were in some foreign country, we were on some beach, there were rocks. For example, we have never been in such a place with him to be something of reality. I often dream of my deceased grandmother, and the last time I saw her again was in a place where I don't even remember being in reality. So I have no idea whether these dreams are some kind of communication of loved ones with us or are just dreams. But I don't believe they appear to you as ghosts or anything like that. I personally believe that after a person has died, he can hardly in any way influence the living and make contact with them.
My grandfather died a year ago and I dreamed of him on the 41st day. I know it's just a dream, but his words about the other world calmed me down and I'll tell you briefly. He told me that he was fine, that he was very calm, that he would come sometimes. It may be nonsense, but I felt better after this dream. Two months earlier, my family had a fight, and he told me they would get along, but it would take time. After 6 months they got along. My grandmother dreamed of him in his back, dressed for work, with a backpack and a hat, and two days later another relative left. She interprets it as coming to work, picking someone up. I had near-death experiences, I wasn't scared, I was calm in an unearthly way. I believe that if there is a soul at all, after our bodies become exhausted, it somehow relaxes and all bad feelings such as fear, hatred, pain disappear. I don't know what happens next,
I can't know for sure, but I believe they're watching us, yes. At least until they are reborn. We will find out the truth only when we kick the bell.
He can't give you a sign, he may want to, but he can't.
"We will know the truth only when we kick the bell." If there is an afterlife, but if there is no life, we will not understand any truth. So far, the obvious facts are that the body breaks down into its constituent parts and that people have thoughts (awake or asleep) about dead people.
Learn what life is purely material..biological and chemical .. Learn life to know what death is .. In short .. NO .. your grandfather does NOT look at you .. Death is the end of his body and his vitality. .Don't listen to the people who tell you about intangible psychic forces .. and this kind of nonsense .. if you want to believe in the truth ... if not .. then you just choose from the many "explanations" and you do not agree with the explanation!
To look at you, someone must have eyes. Therefore, once he is dead, he cannot look at you. This with the dreaming and I dreamed before nightmares with a dead loved one .. and these were my best dreams ... Why ?? Because I realized that dreams recreate the emotions and thoughts we have during the day ... and they were just like that - fear and thoughts about the dead person. When I stopped having such emotions and thoughts, I stopped having nightmares. So, in my opinion, the message in dreams and spirits is full of nonsense. If there was an afterlife, why don't the dead just scare you to death and live together in Heaven, for example ... these are my thoughts and I can't prove them ... And yet ... no one knows what happens after we die ... so as difficult as it may sound, we must accept the loss of loved ones as natural and move on.
to 8: I only disagree with the part with the "para-psychic forces". Since I have had many predictive dreams and episodes of clairvoyance, for me reality does not correspond to the principles of classical mechanics. But this does not mean that there is life after death. All these "para-abilities" are the fruit of our brains. Clairvoyance (the authentic one, not the various mass fortune tellers who talk nonsense) is the fruit of the brain. Remove the clairvoyant's neo-cortex by lobotomy and you will no longer be a clairvoyant, a guarantee. Quantum mechanics proves that matter has properties, many of which are not part of our classical understanding (for example, quantum interweaving). The problem of humanity at the moment is that our lives have become very easy and there is no evolutionary initiative for the development of the neo-cortex.
He can't look at you, at least because when a person dies, his eyes die. They rot, ie they are eaten by bacteria and fungi. It cannot be seen without eyes. There are animals that live underground, in caves and in the intestines of other animals. They have no eyes (or their eyes are stunted) and see nothing. Just like the dead.
Over time, we lose a lot of loved ones - grandparents ... I have always been very close to all of them and it is very difficult to experience any loss, so, yes, I firmly believe that since they loved me so much there is no way everything disappears completely and they are out there watching me and sometimes even helping me. Of course, it is difficult to feel their presence, but they are there. I will give you an example. A few years ago I was coming home from work, a strong wind was blowing, and my way to the bus stop was past a yard with old trees. As I was walking absentmindedly, something or someone made me slow down. Literally 10 meters in front of me a tree fell! Well, if it wasn't for the intervention of a guardian angel ... let the skeptics laugh at me, but I'm absolutely convinced that my grandmother, who had already died, had something to do with it. Otherwise, I would have gone to her quite quickly, or at least to Pirogov's traumatology. So I am completely convinced that they are around, they see us and if necessary they intervene. Besides, I used to dream of them. It was 2-3 years ago and my grandparents had died and I dreamed of them one night. It was late autumn and in my dream I saw my grandparents returning from the market and my grandmother said it was starting to snow, and my grandfather turned to me and asked, "Have you prepared your car for the winter? And did you change the antifreeze?" ? ". Crazy job! I'm a terrible driver, but I still knew it was good to change the antifreeze every few years. This dream shocked me so much that I immediately went to the service station and I guessed ... it turned out that my antifreeze was really a change and it was nice that I left before it got very cold. And the craziest thing in the whole story was, that I bought my first car after the death of my grandparents. Apparently they somehow knew that I had taken a book and had a car and I urgently needed to take care of it. Ah, explain it to me if you can! Apart from seeing us, I see no other explanation! And these are just two examples. I have other dreams with them and whenever I dreamed them there was a reason.
To number 8: you are very wrong, but nothing, get better. I just want to ask one thing - before you were born was there a world, people, life at all? Of course. Yes, but you might not have been born if your mother hadn't met your father. You wouldn't know, but the world would still have it. Do you see how limited we are? !! We are too young to know what happens after death. Tell me about the first 2 years of your life. You can not. It is the same when we talk about death. You are too small for her. For her understanding. A baby who doesn't understand.
To number 14 from number 8 Science has long established what life is and how it is determined whether a thing is alive or not .. whether it has a mind and what exactly is a mind .. without me I am already here .. I have learned and I am understood .. no need for philosophizing .. theorizing .. and divination as ever .. on two pages is your key to the truth .. read them .. understand them and you will be free from any prejudices .. just because you rethink the word "soul" that's why you can't bite yet .. because you're stuck in one place by a mistake that you can't put in your mind .. and yes because it's a mistake after all .. there's nothing to try to put in anymore .. it falls off .. no what to see after death because .. death is the end of my existence .. we know how we hear .. how we see .. how we feel .. how we feel emotion .. heat .. cold .. pain ..everything is explained PHYSICALLY ... someone some time ago pushed the idea in your head that being a completely physical creation is bad .. even wrong .. because the physical is limited in time-space ... but consider .. such is the reality ... stop fantasizing .. sit down to THINK!