Hello, I'm a boy of 26 and lately I've been thinking a lot about one issue. Since I have a lot of acquaintances, both boys and girls, I have some observations, though, and it seems to me that people are somehow alienated from each other. I have friends who are with their halves, for example, supposedly happy, satisfied and in the next moment, for example, he says ku ... and he was like that, he stayed, or a girl tells me he's behaving badly, yesterday I cried again because of him. Firstly, I can't understand how you can use such vulgar language against someone you love, and secondly, I don't understand, ok, he made you cry, he was a simpleton, I don't know what happened. Ok, did some of you tie him up Or the same in the opposite case, as she is a bitch ... and why are you with her to insult and humiliate her? I have the feeling that people have become some kind of masochists who like to hurt themselves, to make dramas and scandals. Boys inspired by movies and porn think they're big ... and they just want to fuck like their girl's a fun doll, and the girls are fascinated by their obsession with clothes, money, and imitating people on screen. Of course, I emphasize that I do not think that everyone is like that. Of course not all, but unfortunately a large part. For this reason, I have been without a girlfriend for some time, and if she is one of those I described, it is better to be without one. I'm not saying I'm perfect, everyone has their disadvantages, but if I compare myself with some people ... I wanted to share this with the readers on the site. If anyone has a similar opinion and experience to write. I will be happy if there are people who think like me. coins and imitation of people on the screens. Of course, I emphasize that I do not think that everyone is like that. Of course not all, but unfortunately a large part. For this reason, I have been without a girlfriend for some time, and if she is one of those I described, it is better to be without one. I'm not saying I'm perfect, everyone has their disadvantages, but if I compare myself with some people ... I wanted to share this with the readers on the site. If anyone has a similar opinion and experience to write. I will be happy if there are people who think like me. coins and imitation of people on the screens. Of course, I emphasize that I do not think that everyone is like that. Of course not all, but unfortunately a large part. For this reason, I have been without a girlfriend for some time, and if she is one of those I described, it is better to be without one. I'm not saying I'm perfect, everyone has their disadvantages, but if I compare myself with some people ... I wanted to share this with the readers on the site. If anyone has a similar opinion and experience to write. I will be happy if there are people who think like me. That's what I wanted to share with the readers on the site. If anyone has a similar opinion and experience to write. I will be happy if there are people who think like me. That's what I wanted to share with the readers on the site. If anyone has a similar opinion and experience to write. I will be happy if there are people who think like me.
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I totally agree with you. I think more and more that people always come together not to help and love each other, but instead look at how to hurt themselves and crush you. And as I read the stories on this site, I am even more desperate. I am glad that my relationship is not like that and I hope that in the future it will not become this kind of "relationship".
Of course, I emphasize that I do not think that everyone is like that. Dude, look for others, and they don't think they care.
I'm a girl your age. I fully share your opinion. I live abroad, but it's like that here too. The only difference is that the girls are less tolerant. But to return to the problem at home. In my opinion, the reason for such behavior lies in the fact that young people do not know themselves, their true interests and dreams. As you already mentioned - they copy. And not always out of lack of intelligence, but out of fear of being alone, of missing something. Fear instilled by the media, which propagates the idea that at 16-17 you should already have or even better have an intimate relationship. That is why we so often read here topics in which the main problem is that a girl of 18-20 was still a virgin, but how can she tell her current boyfriend not to think of her as a traffic jam or God forbid how to open herself! !! But there are also people who are different, with a pronounced individuality and neither flaunt it nor neglect it in the name of a group of "friends". You're obviously one of them. There are others like you, but unfortunately you did not fall into their waters. Search. And the crowd will remain a crowd. She has always been and always will be.
I am the author :) thanks for the comments so far you are very right. You are right number 3, I am not one of those who violate their principles in the name of a fictional friendship. Unfortunately, however, they are somehow happy at the moment and I am not, that's the sad thing. Not to be valuable people ok but ... you remember the pig when they put a potpourri in his pigsty and he's happy so .... if you understand me :) they don't think what will happen in 5 years for example, they don't think the twisted doll or the inflated wrestler that it will be in time :) The crowd is a crowd yes, but it is difficult to find someone who is not from the crowd. I'm from a big city, I'm relatively from Ruse, so it's not that there are no people around me, but ...
I share the opinion of the author.
Yes, author, there are some :)) and I'm your age, I'm a girl and I'm terribly annoyed by such, by the "crowd of thugs", because of which we seem to suffer, those who are different and do not want to imitate them, just to be "modern", unfortunately, they will never understand what we have. You know what? I'll tell you, we have self-esteem, you know? , even if we are the black sheep in the flock, we are ourselves and that is what irritates them a lot. I know, because there are some around me, but I don't care !!! It is better to look for a valuable person for a relationship than to pretend to be "modern", I know I will find him, we are few but we are real and that is the most important thing! So, don't think about it, there is time for everything and in no case never merge with the "crowd". Good luck!
Unfortunately, our society as a whole has become much simpler in recent years. Watch a chalga video and you will see what are the ideals of the young generation in our country - silicone, money, simplicity, vulgarity, vulgarity, materialism. Moral values and respect between people and gender remained in the background. People don't seem to pay attention to what they say, swearing is everywhere, the Bulgarian language is disfigured beyond recognition. But still there are decent and educated girls / boys. He learns from what he has heard and seen - to insult a friend. Look for a well-behaved girl who suits you. Don't be disappointed with the sent Bulgarian reality - there are passengers for each train.
I'm the author :) I agree with you people, but time passes anyway, if you understand me. Don't be convinced that I am an extremely congested or conservative person, on the contrary I am a very open person, I just distinguish between open and simple. Because it's easiest to say, there is time for everything, there are passengers for every train, yes, but I'm young now anyway, now is my time.
Calm down, author, I'm 25 and my time hasn't come yet ... and I, like you, prefer to be alone (and this has been going on for a long time) than to be with someone like that because he loves me, pleases me or there whatever ... and I don't see the point in many of my friends' relationships, but for some hidden reason they continue to maintain a relationship that robs them. I don't know what to tell you, obviously our society is like that, people have become somewhat simple and the most important thing for them is what others say and what they think. Almost no one does what his heart dictates anymore, and we know he never makes mistakes. :) Doriana
I am about 9 authors :) I respect your opinion, but I did not say that I prefer to be alone. I say I would not be with a person like the ones I described. I say that because I have such acquaintances, absorbed in work and career, and they don't even think about a relationship with someone, they are only interested in themselves. However, I cannot be such a person, and I do not think it is normal. One needs warmth and support. And the lack of such, I think, hasn't worked very well for me lately.