Are There Women Who Like Direct Men?

   Thanks dude and I agree. You don't have to twist something ... saying it straight and that's it. You save yourself all the other unnecessary words, etc. Women are a nasty thing ... that's all I've been able to learn for so many years.

   At the time, my husband took me down like that :) We were three girls at a table in the disco, and he was sitting at another table with a friend. So his friend liked one of my friends and asked my future lover to ask us if they could sit with us. He came and turned to me for permission. I allowed :) He cursed next to me and from that moment the world around him disappeared - it was just me, him and his irresistible smile. We haven't parted since then ... for 21 years :))) Things didn't work out between my boyfriend and my girlfriend, but the "parliamentarian" and I got married :) I've always appreciated his direct approach - he took my hand and it wasn't released to date. Well, I was not a big beauty, and he was handsome / and still is:) /, but my approach was also direct, which he probably liked for a second :))) So with the above tirade / sorry for that: ) / I wanted to tell you that sooner or later you will come across the right girl who will love you precisely because of your direct approach, if of course it is within the framework of cultural behavior. I wish you luck! F42

   They didn't like something about you and they cut you off culturally without affecting you. Otherwise, I like direct men, but I respond if there is sympathy and attraction on my part with the same. I like things to be clear. I have an acquaintance who really wanted me to be his boyfriend, I do not deny a nice man, smart, polite, well-meaning, but for miles it is clear that he just wants to have a girlfriend no matter who and that pushed me away. And whatever we talk to a woman craves for romance. It's nice to feel that someone wants to be with you because he's in love, not because he has no choice at the moment, and he doesn't want to be alone.

   Dude, I know you prefer things to be straightforward, but most women like that with hints. I've been busy with mine for 9 years. and I still can't understand her. Example from yesterday: She: Would you go to the store to buy ONE banana for the child. I go back and give the banana. She: Did you buy just one? Me: Abe, woman, don't do that, said one. She: So how come you didn't think of taking at least 2. Me: Well, if he wanted 2 why didn't he say 2? She: Well, let me tell you. Me: So who else can tell me? She: Well, remember. And I can't explain to her that we would have saved this conversation if she had just said directly how much she wanted. But what to do with them, that's their charm. Otherwise it won't be interesting. It is best to buy a two-way male-female dictionary or a direct translator. I give you guidance. • Good - This is the word that women use to end an argument when they are right, and you must be silent. Besides, nothing good awaits you. • 5 minutes - If she gets dressed, it means about an hour and a half. However, when you are given 5 minutes to watch a match before you do something, 5 minutes is only 5 minutes! • Nothing - This is a calm before a storm. This means “Something! ”And you have to be alert. Disputes that start with "Nothing" usually end with "Good". • Go on - This is a threat, not a permission. Do not do it! • Strong sigh - In fact, this is not a word, it is a non-verbal statement, often misunderstood by men. A "strong sigh" means she thinks you're an idiot and wonders why she's wasting her time with you. Used in combination with "Nothing". • Everything is fine - This is one of the most dangerous statements. "It's okay" means she wants to think things through carefully before deciding how to pay for the mistake. • Thank you - Your wife is grateful. Do not ask questions and do not faint. Just say “Welcome again! " and smile. Maybe / We'll see = No. We must = I want. I'm sorry = You'll be sorry. We need to talk = I want to complain. Of course, go = Do it and you will wish you were not born. Do what you want = You will pay for it later. I'm not upset = Of course I'm upset, you idiot! Are you listening to me? = It's too late, you're dead. You have to learn to communicate = Just agree with me. Do what you want = You will pay for it later. I'm not upset = Of course I'm upset, you idiot! Are you listening to me? = It's too late, you're dead. You have to learn to communicate = Just agree with me. Do what you want = You will pay for it later. I'm not upset = Of course I'm upset, you idiot! Are you listening to me? = It's too late, you're dead. You have to learn to communicate = Just agree with me.

   Абсолютно губеща стратегия - да кажеш от самото начало на жената колко е яка и колко много те кефи, надигат си въшките и почват да се важнеят и да ти въртят мозъка. Лично мнение.

   you come across such, my friend. how I like you, but even at my age women are still preoccupied with such childhoods. just like someone trying to play you theaters - far away. There is a love game or a download - there is no dispute, but somehow it becomes natural, easy, you get hooked, etc. However, the ladies today are emancipated and fly as if a little in the clouds. If you dig here on the site you will see a lot of tips like: buy her candy and flowers. Well, I'm sorry, but this is a plot from a low-key American comedy and has nothing to do with real life. So my thought is - look for a "real" woman who does not pamper, does not purse his lips, but is more of a friend, it's fun with her, honestly, naturally. At one point, liking happens simply and you both know it without admitting it. And so ... success.

   My friend is direct. And I like it. And I'm direct with him. For everything - both good and bad. Of course, I receive flowers, gifts, we drool, but when something has to be said, it is said as it is, without hesitation. And yes - you will find the girl who will like you because you are who you are. Do not feel sorry for those who refused you - you did not need them :) Good luck!

   I adore direct men. There is nothing better than that. What is the point of meeting, wondering, tormenting, etc. My husband proposed to me on the second day of our acquaintance. After rejecting a lot of men, often because they don't know what they want and I can't wait to find it after 5 years together, I agreed. There was chemistry, there was everything you needed. And it still is. In my opinion, directness is even romantic. You don't have to pretend to be someone you are not, because that won't attract the right person. There are many women who would appreciate your approach. And as you were told above, no, your approach was not wrong, they just cut you off politely and stupidly. F28

   H4, your wife lacks evidence of your love, so look for them under a tree and a stone and in the case "Let's see if she loves me and will remember to buy me too" Show and tell her more often how dear you are and these whims will subside. F28

   I like direct men, but at first I prefer to have flirtation, flirtation, etc., until you go through the essential part - 'I like you, do you want to go out' ala prom ... I think it's normal on the third date to show the respective person that you like him, but not to start a relationship with him. Just don't say "I like you" because it sounds like "I want to start a relationship with you right away, I won't leave you, I like you very much." Just show the person in question that you have an interest in her and like her, flirt with her. Don't rush into a relationship - it scares most girls.

   Author: I just can't figure out how to do it. When I look for her, I stretch, when I don't look for her, I have no interest. In the meantime, she won't call me (because women don't call men), and finally, when I try to be direct with her, she tells me that I haven't had an approach (I'm not referring to anyone here, but most). Well, I'm sorry, but for me that's exactly what kindergarten is called and I have no intention of breaking my nerves anymore. I went through all sorts of nonsense trying to do something ... At least half a year (if not more) I will stop doing it, I'm tired of it.

   Number 4 to number 9 Thank you from the bottom of my heart, it helped me a lot and opened my eyes to a new point of view. I called her a while ago and asked her if you were right. And to my surprise, she confirmed. Otherwise, I love her more than anything in the world. I'm sure she did me. And just because I'm sure of my feelings and hers, I don't need to show it. It just doesn't come from inside me, but I repeat, that doesn't mean I don't love her - on the contrary. Moreover, even if I had bought her a banana, I don't think it's proof of my love. Everyone can buy a banana, but not everyone will be by her side, for better or worse, and not everyone will look at it with the eyes I look at. For me, other things are important - caring for her, respect, appreciation, reciprocity ... That's what I said, listening to her point of view. We didn't understand each other, but at least we clarified and understood, that although I don't show it so often, it's in my heart. Another proof that men and women are very different, but it seems to me that this is for the better. Otherwise, if we were the same, there would not be this dynamic, this development, we would stay statically in the place we are. It is in the dynamics between the masculine and the feminine (Yin-Yang) that we discover and create the new.

   Up to 8 In my opinion, you just intuitively felt that this is the Man and that's why you didn't think at all. In general, intuition lies, so be happy. In the interest of truth, things turned out similarly for me.

   Author, when a woman doesn't like you, she'll come up with a bunch of "rational" explanations for it. For example, that you didn't have an approach, or that you were weird, or I don't know what. Apk may be the most direct monster, but if she likes you, she won't care.

   Intuition very, very often lies to dear ladies. Views, chemistry, pipIrudi and then but he was not what he presented himself and 100 identical topics here ... Fast work - a shame for the master. Applies to both parties.

   N4 and 12 of 8, 9: I'm glad I helped. I guessed because in the past I behaved like your wife. She knows that you love her, but she is looking for evidence because: 1 has a complex or 2 suggests that you like her less than before or 3 you have neglected romance. It may be different, but it comes to mind. The important thing is that you have started a dialogue. I wish you many years of love and friendship! H15, do not scare the people. Sometimes things turn out surprisingly well. It can be luck, or it can be really good intuition.

   I have been married for years and number 4/12 has just reached into the unsuspected caves of my subconscious. Quite accurate conclusions and translation of the female Non-conjecture. Well done! With your translator, misunderstandings in communication between men and women are greatly reduced. To the author - a direct man can be understood and accordingly appreciated and liked, ONLY by an equally direct woman. M 44/45

   I would be very flattered if an attractive man told me that he liked me directly in the eyes. I have a serious friend, so I would only be sincerely glad that another man appreciates my beauty, and then I would say: thank you for not touching the man and I would end the conversation. I don't like to be rude to people, especially when they tell me something nice, to be rude to them. I know some men can be annoying, but shouldn't a lady show in a cultural way that she's busy instead of doing scenes.

   Apart from character, it also depends on a woman's composure. Not by age! And from how settled she is, what experience she has in a social environment and, of course, from her self-awareness. In my earlier years, I also turned and sucked, I spoke vaguely, and therefore there was no way for the other party to properly understand my desires, ambitions, thoughts and feelings. After years, my personality changed, I grew up, maybe a little smarter and realized that clear expression of thoughts is a prerequisite for a perfect understanding - even if a conflict arises, it is clear why it appeared and each of its participants can think of a solution. , looking at all sides of the issue. As you were told, there are women who like direct men. There are also women who want you to guess what they think before you know their name. It's a matter of luck when you meet the lady, with whom you will talk openly. But you will meet her, do not doubt. :) My husband was also direct with me, as I was with him. We went out a few times and liked each other, then before announcing ourselves as a couple we talked about who has what ambitions for this relationship and what she wants to become. Before proposing marriage to me in a romantic way, we also discussed the level of our relationship, whether we are both ready, etc. Not for fear of rejecting it after making some effort to be romantic and nice, but for to avoid the awkward situation in which I refuse. It was clear to us that we would get married, we matched, but the question was in the setting. Well, anyway, it's good to be direct. Don't worry about it and don't change. You will meet your partner :) ) My husband was also direct with me, as I was with him. We went out a few times and liked each other, then before announcing ourselves as a couple we talked about who has what ambitions for this relationship and what she wants to become. Before proposing marriage to me in a romantic way, we also discussed the level of our relationship, whether we are both ready, etc. Not for fear of rejecting it after making some effort to be romantic and nice, but for to avoid the awkward situation in which I refuse. It was clear to us that we would get married, we matched, but the question was in the setting. Well, anyway, it's good to be direct. Don't worry about it and don't change. You will meet your partner :) ) My husband was also direct with me, as I was with him. We went out a few times and liked each other, then before announcing ourselves as a couple we talked about who has what ambitions for this relationship and what she wants to become. Before proposing marriage to me in a romantic way, we also discussed the level of our relationship, whether we are both ready, etc. Not for fear of rejecting it after making some effort to be romantic and nice, but for to avoid the awkward situation in which I refuse. It was clear to us that we would get married, we matched, but the question was in the setting. Well, anyway, it's good to be direct. Don't worry about it and don't change. You will meet your partner :) then before we announced ourselves as a couple, we talked about who has what ambitions for this relationship and what it wants to become. Before proposing marriage to me in a romantic way, we also discussed the level of our relationship, whether we are both ready, etc. Not for fear of rejecting it after making some effort to be romantic and nice, but for to avoid the awkward situation in which I refuse. It was clear to us that we would get married, we matched, but the question was in the setting. Well, anyway, it's good to be direct. Don't worry about it and don't change. You will meet your partner :) then before we announced ourselves as a couple, we talked about who has what ambitions for this relationship and what it wants to become. Before proposing marriage to me in a romantic way, we also discussed the level of our relationship, are we both ready, etc. Not for fear of rejecting it after making some effort to make it romantic and nice, but for to avoid the awkward situation in which I refuse. It was clear to us that we would get married, we matched, but the question was in the setting. Well, anyway, it's good to be direct. Don't worry about it and don't change. You will meet your partner :) that I will reject it after making some effort to make it romantic and nice, and to avoid the awkward situation in which I refuse. It was clear to us that we would get married, we matched, but the question was in the setting. Well, anyway, it's good to be direct. Don't worry about it and don't change. You will meet your partner :) that I will reject it after making some effort to make it romantic and nice, and to avoid the awkward situation in which I refuse. It was clear to us that we would get married, we matched, but the question was in the setting. Well, anyway, it's good to be direct. Don't worry about it and don't change. You will meet your partner :)

   According to my observations, every woman will react differently in a certain situation. And it depends on what mood you will catch them in. Appearance plays a big role in the dumps, she told you it wasn't, she lied to you. It's like us men saying that the woman next to us doesn't have to be pretty. Change your tactics, be more serious, witty and who knows what might happen. But the most important thing is to be yourself, not only for the women you like, but also in your daily life. Take an interest in women's problems, believe me they always have them and they always want to talk about it. Concentrate not on her beauty, but on the woman inside her, be empathetic, listen to them. Show them that you are not only interested in being beautiful and sexy. Ah, to be your age, I'll catch the prettiest girl. Good luck

   It depends on the direct approach. Without flirting, without teasing, without being provoked and without being literally irritated, a woman does not work. The job is such a dude, I let go of the fly, but so that he doubts and chokes it from the inside what you are, what you are, do you really like it. Combined with constant jokes on your part to make her laugh has a magical effect. When you already feel that her eyes are moist and naughty, when the smile on her face does not go down as soon as she sees you, the direct approach comes. By direct approach, I don't mean explaining yourself to her, but grabbing her like an eagle chicken, taking her electricity. Dude women live to be swept away in an instant. Once you like a woman and she turns you on, just turn her on. For example, you sit somewhere and drink something. At some point in the jokes you approach her and inhale her scent. Then, start playing with her hair and suddenly ... further you know. What can I tell you, brother, women die for masculine men who do not hide their desires, but do not declare them through explanations in love. That then. You grab her ass, kiss her on the neck, take a breath, and see if it will be explained to you that you have no approach.

   Unfortunately (and my shame as a woman) number 14 is very right! Indeed, if we do not like someone, we can immediately list at least 3 things that "irritate" us and because of which "it will not work." And the next day we faint for some absolute oligophrenic, which, however, is "different", etc. So - direct or not - the woman in the first minute of the conversation knows whether it will be or not. That's how we are.

   From number 10: - Author, the problem is not that you are direct, but that you are in a hurry and force the events. Meaning, you want to admit your feelings or create a relationship from the third meeting / for example /. You see, women (most) are afraid of men who act hastily because they think they are frivolous and you want to stab one enough to put one of them in bed and have a girlfriend in front of your friends. No matter how direct and sincere you are (according to you) - no girl will believe you if you admit your feelings in the beginning without enough time. Flirting and the game between you from the beginning is super important. Communication is also super important - you have to maintain it, have common topics for dialogue, etc. In general, the problem is that you force the events and 99% of the girls will think you are not serious. Are you sure that you really are like that? One 'like you' is not enough - women want more, but she hasn't been told since the third date ... just show sympathy, make compliments and that's it.

   Author: Nowadays, to get to the third meeting, OBVIOUSLY the girl has an interest. You just said it above that from the first 1-2 minutes you understand whether it will be or not. Well, as far as I understand mathematics (1 min <3 meetings), right? These are 3 meetings, people, do you really think that there is one that will go out 3 times with a boy if he doesn't like it? In these 3 meetings, do you think there was no conversation? When we went out again, we talked openly and we enjoyed it. I know that flirting is important and I like it, so I hang out with her from time to time, I know how to flirt (I may not be an expert, but again ...). It would be quite normal for me to say to myself that the girl pleases me ... I won't understand what you find so wrong in this for the rest of my life.

   Are there any men who can do everything straight. If you know how glad I would be to know someone like that. A woman

   If you read once again the writing of 21 and add "to make her feel WANTED !!" You have found the right answer and the almost universal key for every European Women's Heart.

   Personally, I am looking for just such behavior, I am very attracted to it as long as it is within the normal range. But I sincerely admit that if someone came to me who did not attract me outwardly, I would not respond to him in the way he expects.

   I am a direct man and I wonder why there are no direct women? I met a girl live and she was attracted. We exchanged Facebook contacts and started writing to each other. We chat and the girl writes "good night" to me, and she stays on her face for another 2-3 hours and shares various things. Couldn't she tell me so much that she didn't like talking to me? I would much appreciate direct and honest communication than deceive me with nonsense.

   No. 21 explained what the idea was up and down. To be liked by a woman, you have to be interesting and "mysterious". You have to provoke in her a desire to "study" you. She also has the right moment for directness, as he explained 21. You constantly have to feed her curiosity whether you like her or not, what you want from her, etc. Jokes and interesting stories are a way to like her. When he smiles, that's a good sign. Then, having lowered her guard, it is time for the "direct" approach. To give an example: I had a favorite strategy in my youth: when I have a date and the lady starts to show some interest (she likes the meeting because of jokes, jokes, interesting conversations, etc.), but it is not yet certain that she has completely lowered her guard, then I, as a gentleman, offer to send her to them. She might be wondering what I'm going to do - try to kiss her, grab her, or who knows what. At the same time, she may want to do something, or she may not, because she doesn't know at this stage whether she wants it or is worried. Then I tell her that I had a pleasant dinner with her politely and wish her good night without even trying to touch her. I let her thoughts for me "mature" in her head for 2-3 days, without calling her and looking for any contact with her. On the third day I call her and invite her to a meeting again. Usually at this meeting my jokes and stories seem even more interesting to her, her eyes are even more dizzy. Then comes the turn of the "direct" approach. or maybe not, because she doesn't know at this point if she wants it or if she's worried. Then I tell her that I had a pleasant dinner with her politely and wish her good night without even trying to touch her. I let her thoughts for me "mature" in her head for 2-3 days, without calling her and looking for any contact with her. On the third day I call her and invite her to a meeting again. Usually at this meeting my jokes and stories seem even more interesting to her, her eyes are even more dizzy. Then comes the turn of the "direct" approach. or maybe not, because she doesn't know at this point if she wants it or if she's worried. Then I tell her that I had a pleasant dinner with her politely and wish her good night without even trying to touch her. I let her thoughts for me "mature" in her head for 2-3 days, without calling her and looking for any contact with her. On the third day I call her and invite her to a meeting again. Usually at this meeting my jokes and stories seem even more interesting to her, her eyes are even more dizzy. Then comes the turn of the "direct" approach. without calling her and looking for any contact with her. On the third day I call her and invite her to a meeting again. Usually at this meeting my jokes and stories seem even more interesting to her, her eyes are even more dizzy. Then comes the turn of the "direct" approach. without calling her and looking for any contact with her. On the third day I call her and invite her to a meeting again. Usually at this meeting my jokes and stories seem even more interesting to her, her eyes are even more dizzy. Then comes the turn of the "direct" approach.

   I am 21. Every woman literally loves to be swept away from the moment. It's something deep in a woman's psychology that "things just happen." My experience shows that women love to be talked to in this way. Some women who have some dizziness or are just not sure at the moment what exactly they want, start pulling and offering friendship. In most cases, however, it is a test trap that a man is subjected to to see if he will bend in front of her or just continue to her neck, ears and grab her. When you really want a woman, just say so. It can stretch, it can pretend to be innocent, it can offer a simple friendship - DO NOT BEND BEFORE THESE TRICKS! The woman usually just tests you to see if you are a real man. WOMEN DIE FOR MEN'S MEN WHO TAKE THEIR ELECTRICITY - LITERALLY. Of course, before that you try it as if you were playing with her hair, inhaling its aroma, dangerously approaching it or feeling that it wants to be kissed. If all this passes, she is ready. Some even try to get drunk, but this is enough to make them interesting until the end, because once a horse rides, there is no way to pretend to be interesting. Women ...