Hopefully this time my story will be published. I really need comfort. I know I'm not the first to worry about the pain of childbirth, but I still want to share. First I am 25 years old, I am 8 months pregnant. The closer the birth is, the more I am afraid. I am afraid that this will complicate something and be fatal. I'm afraid if the baby will cope and if it will be fine, if I will find a good team. Everything is ready for the baby - crib clothes, I look at them and I am happy for them but ... I wonder if everything will be fine, all this is in vain. How did you think it or did you just suggest it?
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Everyone has some such thoughts. Think positive . At the first birth, in the evening I slept about an hour after it, I was shocked by what happened. And the second, although more painful, was nice. I would even triple. Giving birth to your child is the most wonderful thing.
I forgot to add that I have no problems with pregnancy. I had some bacteria here and there but nothing serious. I feel the baby every day and it is a stimulus for me, but still this fear
Of course, there is a chance that something bad will happen, but it is so small that it is not worth worrying about, you should be more afraid to drive a car, bad things happen there more often, and I don't believe you get in every time in a car with similar concern, so ....
I thought so. It is natural for you to be afraid, do not give in to your fear. Everything will be fine. If you have the opportunity, it is best to give birth with a team. But if you don't have it doesn't matter.
for my life I have never been afraid of both births, although the second was a difficult and risky operation. I was afraid of the pain, of the interventions, of the change in life ... It is normal to be afraid, you have to be crazy so that you don't care at all. Still, it's not like going for coffee. However, do not let your fears overwhelm you. Especially if you are going to give birth normally, tighten up, gather all your physical and mental strength, because this is an active process and strictly follow the orders of the team. And speaking of a team, study how things are in the hospital where you will give birth and choose. Good luck and brag about the baby :-)
I'm pregnant for the first time and I'm a little worried about giving birth, but I'm not afraid for my life. He thought that there was nothing more natural for a woman than to give birth. Yes, it will hurt and it will not be pleasant as a spa procedure, but you have to go through it if you want to have children. It's like fearing for your life while walking on the street or driving a car. The chance of dying in an accident is much higher than at birth. Something can always go wrong, but the risk is minimal. So get those thoughts out of your head and rejoice in the upcoming event.
You who are afraid of pain have a section for this work does not hurt at all.
In the end, I was scared too, no matter what you thought. However, I decided to give birth to a section of my choice. I do not regret. I had no severe pain, it was even mild, I recovered quickly, I got up the next day. Even if I had a second child, I would not suffer the pain of a normal birth in the 21st century, when there are other ways. Every birth is different, personally I would not give birth normally!
Number 7, don't speak unprepared. First, a section is not done on someone's whim, but for medical reasons, or at least it should be, and in normal countries it is. Second, are you familiar with the recovery after such an operation? It is very clear that it hurts, but not at birth, but long after. In general, it is much better to choose a normal birth if there is no problem that requires a cesarean section. And third, it is natural for every woman to worry before the first birth. After all, it's something new that doesn't happen to you every day and you've only read and heard about how much it hurts.
Никога не изпитах страх, а бях много страхлив човек преди да стана майка. Дори треперих от това да видя малко кръв при месечния си цикъл. Хормоните на бременността, обаче, ме промениха и бях напълно спокойна. Отидох да родя с усмивка и след като родих бях много горда, че съм успяла. Помня как лежах доволна от свършената работа. После започнаха и трудностите, за които не бях подготвена при отглеждането, но всичко си дойде на мястото като свикнах. Мъжа ми се притесняваше повече. Аз някак си вярвах, че всичко ще бъде наред. Толкова бях спокойна, че си бях повярвала, че няма да боли раждането и че е естествен процес. Болеше и то адски, добре че беше епидуралната. Нямаше да се справя без нея. Повече не искам да съм бременна и да раждам. Изживях го и нямам нужда повече от тази тръпка. Аз като цяло и едно дете винаги съм искала. Раждането е тотална мъка, но болката идва постепенно и можеш да реагираш като ти стане нагорно да ти сложат упойка. После раждането става песен.
Not for my life. Find a midwife, pay her to come with you to the birth (if you don't have a cesarean section). Then be available for questions and help. If he has to come and show you how to bathe a baby or what you don't understand. In general, grandmothers can, but not all babies have grandmothers, do they? All your life you will be afraid for your child. That peace will not return :)
AUTHOR: Hello readers, and first of all thanks for the support. Because someone upstairs wanted to brag about the good news, it happened. I gave birth to a living and healthy baby boy at the end of May. He was early and surprised us, but everything went well. It was a difficult birth to go into detail. At least I finally know what a natural birth is.
Congratulations, author! Be alive and healthy!