Isn't that really the case? Every boy stares and eventually falls in love with a beautiful girl (ie perfect body, clean skin, perfect hair, etc.). Does it make sense for people like me who aren't exactly attractive to go looking for friends? Personally, I already refuse to look for such guys who are able to fall in love with the man himself, because it simply does not exist, they all pass by and in the end you are left alone, as you were initially. I can't wait to get bigger and "change" my face and all the other imperfections on my body that I can't stand anymore! When I look in the mirror I see a deformed girl - is that fair?
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I understand you, nowadays they are all cool complexes who look at the appearance, I fall in love with the character of the girl and I really hate the naughty princesses, I want to be able to share everything with the girl next to me. For this very reason, I have not found my soulmate so far, but I do not stop believing that I will find her! All I can say about you is to spit on the complexes and just look ahead! You're way above the fucking neighborhood princesses! :)
You have a chance, but you have to be a little smart. You will be looking for guys who are modest and not in the spotlight. Not those who take down, but the modest and shy ones. And if you think that appearance is the most important - a typical woman. For you women, that's all - to be beautiful.
A girl does not talk about falling in love, because there is no such thing. Yes, the boys are staring at a beautiful girl, but believe me, they don't even care what this girl thinks and what kind of character she has. No! They also look at the charms and think that they are in love, but this is normal for us men, this is nature. The boy leaves with a beautiful girl, but his pocket is lightened, if you understand me .;) You may have something much more. :)
Yes, but one day your child will grow up at the age of 20, you will not ruin yourself every morning with make-up of 20 tons, a solarium and such nonsense. Your skin will be much better, your hair will not be exhausted and hormones will no longer play bad jokes on you, that is, you will be perfect. A beautiful is a vague concept. I will give an example, I know two so-called "fuckers" at 16 and both. For one I am nothing special (they both like muffins) in two words he only said "It's not possible", and for the other I was very sweet and here he said other things, I do not comment. Everyone has a different style, and you what? If your hair isn't made of straw, if you don't have such huge splints that you can barely speak (hey, sometimes the splints are hellishly cute) - NO! And from experience I tell you - do not look for love, it finds you.
Don't worry, I didn't like myself when I was little, I didn't have a perfect body, I had pimples on my face, the boys didn't like me, but when I grew up my pimples disappeared and my body took shape, I started to put on make-up and began to pay attention to me. .
And so are we, darling. And we look at the beautiful :) Calm down, you will get prettier, there is time. And if you want someone to love you, find yourself uglier. He will not repel you because you will be like him.
Remember that people perceive you as you see yourself. If you think you are ugly, others will perceive you that way. Accept yourself as you are. Everyone has flaws, there is no perfect person. And know that not everyone likes muffins decorated like Christmas trees and smeared with a kilo of makeup. Rebel
What do you dislike about yourself?
It's not exactly like that. Do you think that you deserve someone to fall in love with you because of the "man"?
Oh, I do not know. It does not please us women. I, on the other hand, without sounding boastful or with self-confidence to the sky, am one of the "beautiful", at least that's how the men around me define me. And I more or less agree with them, but there is something else - I define myself as intelligent, but my appearance prevents them from seeing that in fact I am. At first they think I'm stupid and it takes weeks for them to realize that I'm not. And honestly, like you, I don't have a boy next to me, and I don't know the reason. But I don't agree with you at all. I don't think what you look like doesn't matter. I had an acquaintance who was honestly ugly, and she had 10 extra rings, but her self-esteem was ok and that's why she always went with cool boyfriends. Haha ... he always said - I don't care what I look like, since I always have a cool boyfriend next to me. It gave me hope. So, I don't think appearance matters that much. Radiation and charm are important. You will see that when you stop thinking about boys / men, everything will be ok. Banal and I did not believe until it happened to me - when you least expect someone will appear from somewhere and you will see what love is.
Well, yes, but ... it's almost like that. Fortunately, there are those who are not mistaken only on the cover. Yes, but they are disappearing individuals. Support me. The individual is the one
I don't think you're right. Maybe at this age it seems so. In any case, an attractive appearance gives an advantage to a woman. But do you know how many beautiful women I know who are alone. And I see such unattractive and unsupported women on my streets with a man next to me. Everything is very relative. Don't get complex. Everything is luck :) Otherwise, if you do not like your body and appearance, try to change without external interventions - exercise, smile more often, be more cheerful and positive and more open to other people and contact. You will see that when you like yourself and are in a good mood towards the people around you and many people will appear in your life :) Anna
I'm sure you don't look so bad, it's all about how you feel. If you want, leave it dear to write to each other
Most of the time, I feel like you. I'm not beautiful, but I don't think I'm ugly. Am I right? Well, then I'll tell you that I'm struggling with this by telling myself that I was created like that and who can't watch me leave ... Try it too. :))
Why are we boys? I am liked by "real" guys / who do not pretend to be who they are not / because of their character - my skin is disgusting, I do not wear the most branded clothes, but I combine them well - in my opinion. I am from a small town and when I go to the district town in the mall I am ridiculed by girls of the same age. I dress well, but they think about the big deal. Where is this world going! I don't know how they are not ashamed at least a little! but I deviated a lot from the topic. Do not wish to be great, and rejoice now, because when we grow up we will not be so carefree life
What he described was a supported girl ... support yourself and you will find
You're wrong, even if you're not beautiful, some guys appreciate your character, your smile, your behavior, your movements, and so on. It's not just your appearance that matters. I'm a boy and at least my criteria are not so much in appearance. jack
Sometimes I feel so simple I can't compare myself to my classmates with perfect faces and skin, with perfect hair, model bodies, etc. No matter how hard I try, I was not born that way, and the boys sigh like that. Not that I'm ugly, but I'm still dumb. But the good thing about it is that everyone is unique for themselves, I keep repeating it to myself, if they were all perfect, it wouldn't be interesting. Don't change for the sake of others, try to emphasize what you have and you will see how someone will like you. Personally, I can not boast of such a thing, but one should not despair, especially since there is so much time in front of him.
It's not fair, that's right. Boys only pay attention to beautiful girls, and even ugly girls look for beautiful men. This is called natural selection. Only beautiful genes should be passed on to the next generation, so that no one will complain about their appearance like you in the future.
I assure you that there are boys who do not look at the perfect girls.
Well, darling, I've noticed that most boys choose girlfriends by appearance ... not that he doesn't matter, but they pay too much attention to him. Every man, be it handsome or not so attractive, even ugly, dreams of an irresistible beauty ... All this is very stupid. I know that the least you want to hear right now is to be told that you are exaggerating, that you have to respect yourself and that you have to learn to like yourself in order for others to like you, but I will tell you too. I say it. Some time ago I had a big problem with weight, but I lost 30 pounds and started looking at myself as a different person and, therefore, the opinion of others changed. Really, you need to have more self-confidence and learn to like yourself, despite everything and everyone! And yet one life lives .... And I'm 100% sure that your luck will soon smile! Success ! And for many years !!
We all look at appearance - both women and men. In order to admit someone to you and get to know him, he must first attract you purely physically. Of course, being more poisoned does a great job even if it's not so nice. By good looks I mean rather nice and well-groomed for both men and women. Whoever says that he is not affected by his appearance or how poisoned a person is, regardless of his character, is, in my opinion, mistaken. Unfortunately, it is possible for women to be more important because of the double standards in which we live, but there are all sorts of opportunities to meet a man, more difficult, but not impossible.
No way! Will you change your face ?! If someone loves you only because of your appearance then does he deserve you?
Abe, what are you doing here to be wise, all of you? There is no such thing as ugly / beautiful, everyone is for everyone and will always find it, IF HE WANTS IT! I will not mention the other details because they have already been written. There's a boy of 12 telling you. :-)
Well, they all prefer the more beautiful ... Let's say that we are all in one teen series. Both the beauty and the fat woman like the beautiful leader of the football team, but neither of them looks at the bison. And vice versa - both the bison and the handsome man fall for the cool cheerleader, and no one for the fat one. This is because the cheerleader has self-confidence - she knows she is beautiful! And the fat woman does not understand that in someone's eyes, someday, she will be the most beautiful girl in the world. You probably want the coolest-in-class guys. I'm not saying it's impossible, but he's unlikely to like a girl he just doesn't like. For example, I had complexes for a long, really long time because of my nose, and then I said to myself, "Well, it's not that bad. Still, I have a lot of positive qualities - I'm smart, I have a nice body, beautiful golden hair, I don't have a lot of pimples ... "In general, I understand that I was even very beautiful, and when I began to see myself as a beauty, others began to see me as such. As I said above, all people prefer the more beautiful ones. Only YOU choose whether to be one of them!
And I can tell you that the rest comes from self-confidence! :) I know sooooo many girls with not so attractive appearance, but their self-confidence is sky high .. and to be honest, even if you don't believe me, a lot of guys are around them. And other more attractive but quiet and shy girls are not so desirable. Take it easy, don't want to change something in yourself, because there is nothing more beautiful than the natural and gain a little self-confidence. But of course within normal limits, don't become a bitch **. Start supporting yourself and be a young, educated, self-confident lady, then you will no longer have 10 boys around you, but you will have 1 who will appreciate and love you for what you are !!! ;) Girl on 16
Number 25: Let's say we're all in the same teen series. Both the beauty and the fat woman like the beautiful leader of the football team, but neither of them looks at the bison. And vice versa - both the bison and the handsome man fall for the cool cheerleader, and no one for the fat one. Very well said - in short, what is the reality. ;]
I am a girl of 14 I like everything in myself only one thing I do not like my face. I look weak myself, but this famous face spoils my life, and boys don't like girls like me, they want perfection ... How can I give them this perfection, if I had one wish I would want another person. Why most boys want perfection. They only look on the outside, why don't they look inside at least once. I understand the author very well, she wants to change something in herself, and now I wonder who to change this unwanted thing ... There may always be a boy who loves us as we are, just hope there are decent guys on this a rotten world seeking perfection ... I hope that girls and boys who are not perfect can join this society of "ideal personalities".
There is someone for everyone to complete it
Hey no ugly people, if we were all the same would it be better? Really don't get carried away with bloated guys they only use it for their needs I know from personal experience. Find someone uglier and you won't have to worry that someone else will steal it ... He will think only of you, that's why ugly boys are a commodity.
Isn't that really the case? Every boy stares and eventually falls in love with a beautiful girl (ie perfect body, clean skin, perfect hair, etc.). Does it make sense for people like me, who are not exactly attractive, to go looking for friends +++++++++++++++++++ I want to tell you that you girls are exactly the same in that direction, plus the fact that you're looking for an uncle's coin. Reconcile, such is modern society. Now I know that they will call me a hater or a complex, but in this case I am telling the truth and if someone is honest with themselves for a moment they will see that it is so.
hey baby tighten up a bit, it's not true that beauty is most important to have a person next to you! I'm beautiful too, etc., but do I have anyone next to me NO. Everything is in your heart and you know the tale about the ugly duckling and it turned into a swan :) Don't despair after a while, little by little everything will fall into place. And that's what I say to myself when I'm in a difficult time. Good luck from DENI!
Me, start squatting. I used to be extremely ugly and unattractive, but when I started rolling around, everyone started liking me. It's easy. :)
Hold on! For example, I have already decided when I grow up that I am still a child, to remove my freckles, because I do not like them on my fair skin and if I accidentally leave a scar of acne and remove it. This is enough.
God dear girls do not make sacrifices please. Like you'd go with an ugly, short, stupid boy just because he's a good man? I DO NOT THINK!! As long as you insulted the boys by calling them complexes because you are the same !!!
I can't believe how many stupid people there are in this world ... I'm starting to despair of society. You get depressed about nonsense. The problem that you don't have boyfriends at the moment is not because you are not one of the most attractive, but because these little pickles get caught up with people who will tie them up. According to you, a bastard who wants to have a boyfriend for a piece, do you think he will go with a decent girl. And if you don't like yourself, why don't you put on make-up? And don't think that make-up won't help you, because the models you respect look like that thanks to a lot of make-up and Photoshop. At the age of 13-14 you want boyfriends, you don't have enough gray matter ... I'm not saying that you are stupid, but at such an age you don't even know what it's like to love, and you are ready to tell someone. There is time for everything. One day you will meet someone who will consider you the most beautiful,
I can't believe how many stupid people there are in this world ... I'm starting to despair of society. You get depressed about nonsense. The problem that you don't have boyfriends at the moment is not because you are not one of the most attractive, but because these little pickles get caught up with people who will tie them up. According to you, a bastard who wants to have a boyfriend for a piece, do you think he will go with a decent girl. And if you don't like yourself, why don't you put on make-up? And don't think that make-up won't help you, because the models you respect look like that thanks to a lot of make-up and Photoshop. At the age of 13-14 you want boyfriends, you don't have enough gray matter ... I'm not saying that you are stupid, but at such an age you don't even know what it's like to love, and you are ready to tell someone. There is time for everything. One day you will meet someone who will consider you the most beautiful,