As The Relationship Progresses, Do We Get Bored Of Men?

   Don't you think you'll be together forever? If you think so, you are very deluded. You are still 21, so you will have many more connections. And in time you will get bored of your boyfriend, you will break up, you will find new boyfriends. A simple cycle of life.

   Princess, he can delete his chats.

   Hello! I am a 25 year old boy and I will be honest. The majority of men are bloodthirsty, with very few exceptions. There is nothing to lie about. I'm single, but there are 4 guys in my company who have relationships like yours. When their halves are gone, they are constantly looking for other girls, they have 2 profiles on their face (I guess I guess what the reason is). My father cheated on my mother many times. That's why I don't want to get married. 90 percent of men do it because of a child. That is, they marry babysitters (not Mercy). In my opinion, love is not eternal, only respect remains over time (I may be wrong). Almost all of my peers got married and when I asked them what family life was like: "You better not ask, live your life if it wasn't for the child ...". I am talking about the majority, of course there are always exceptions.

   When the heart loves, the eyes do not seek, and any kind of infidelity is for me a base betrayal and a point. If you're tired of him, he's broken up with you as a man, but I can't figure out how, when you love someone, he can get tired of you? Of course there is a variant in which after a long cohabitation, one partner becomes irritable and grumbling, this can bore and disappoint the other, but in this case it is said and if there is no change - put an END, infidelity and this kind of virtual "entertainment" is not are options! Personally, I don't understand how you can still be with such a person, whom you can't trust unconditionally? I personally could not. Plus, if 3 years is an awful lot of time for you, what do you think about 30 years of successful marriages, etc.? ELSA

   Well, Chichi, you're just tired of everyone, you're neither a man nor a woman, decide at last and stop feeling sorry for yourself, I'm telling you the most friendly!

   "The point is that about a year ago I caught him opening Facebook and writing with different girls, not just writing, but quite intimate things. Until then, I had full confidence in him. When I saw the chats, I just couldn't. to believe my eyes. Then explain to me that he was just bored and that it means nothing to him .. "- either shorten his chain, or lose it, it will not happen again! This is his program, he will constantly cheat on you!

   Well, with us men sex and love can be 2 different things, no matter how much we love, maybe it's in the male nature, but if the case arises, we take advantage. It is no coincidence that in interviews the companions say that over 90 percent of their clients are men, but this by no means means that these same men would give up their favorite women.

   I have been with my wife for 11 years and I also write to others. When she found out, she was quite disappointed, but then it passed. I can definitely say that I love her, but I still feel the need to at least flirt with others. This is not true for women, but it is absolutely possible for men.

   Both men and women happen to be fascinated by the gray boring everyday life ... And this is normal. In general, our life is a string of monotony. During the day at work, in the afternoon you get some rest. In the evening you go out with friends, if you have the strength. If not, a nice dinner and an interesting movie, 2 glasses of wine / beer and you fall asleep. And again comes tomorrow, which is the same as the day before. It was just an example. I'm not saying that all people and couples live this way. But, anyway. After a while it is natural for you to get bored, to want something new, some thrill. But, this is not a consequence of the fact that you are tired of your partner. Rather, some emotionally immature individuals who are not responsible for their actions justify themselves by saying that you have been bored and let's nail something new and fresh. They think that's how they'll bring life back to life. But, emotionally mature people realize that it is not the woman / man who is to blame / for his boring everyday life. Mature people, we realize that the life we ​​lead is a consequence of our choices. We have chosen this job, we choose what to do in our free time. We choose how to have fun, rest, live. No one is to blame for their own problems. And mature people act. If they need something different, a spark, they find it themselves. Whether it will be in their daily life, they can take a vacation for a few days, visit new places. They can go on a hike in the mountains, where they can feel the majestic nature, which in itself charges you with positive energy and gives you peace. They can do something extreme like parachute jumping, bungee jumping, or just hitchhike around Bulgaria. If the monotony is manifested in the relationship, the same principle is followed. You are bored, you want to return the spark, to revive and refresh your relationship .... Well, in this situation, the couple is talking to each other. Without anger and reproach. If only one feels this way, then this is not just his problem, but the couple's as a whole. If you realize that your partner is not feeling well, you should try TOGETHER to do something about it. And it starts, new lingerie, role-playing, new sex positions, new adventures, anal sex, threesome / swing (if you like things like that), etc. The list is endless. It's up to you what you want to diversify with. However, efforts are being made on both sides. And it also depends on you whether you will be able to return the flame. Definitely, I'm against what your friend is doing. He acts without your knowledge and consent on the problem. A problem between two is not solved by a third person. I don't know your friend, you know him best. Do you think that he is capable of cheating on you because he is missing something? It would be a little more understandable if he had talked to you first, you had made every effort to make things right, but it didn't work out. But have you talked about it at all? If not, start your conversation first. Don't let a three-year relationship go like this, even without fighting for it. At least that's what you owe yourself. Do you know how many connections end because there is a lack of clear communication? Do you know how many couples do not talk about their problems, but hide them in themselves. And this is superimposed, they begin to feel dislike for their partner, which over time only increases as things escalate in some way. Don't let this happen to you. If he hasn't cheated on you yet, there's still a chance, but you both need to want him, and you both need to work on fixing the problem. I wish you good luck. But also don't make the mistake of clinging to your relationship like a straw drowning man. If you see that things have really cooled down and before the end, leave it. Don't force things, because nothing good happens by force. Fight only if you see that they want to fight for you on the other side. If not, it should have been for good. Depravity that on the other hand they want to fight for you. If not, it should have been for good. Depravity that on the other hand they want to fight for you. If not, it should have been for good. Depravity

   You're tired of him and he definitely doesn't love you. He looks for another and if he gets a chance, he will lose you. It is your choice whether to sit on his reserve while the sun shines on another. Otherwise, this has nothing to do with men and whether the woman next to them eventually gets bored. With the "progress" of the relationship and their wives, the man next to them gets tired. When they see that he is moldy and lazy, or when he neglects his appearance and the woman starts looking for others.

   From the Author: Thanks to numbers 3, 7, 8 :) And for the others I will try to specify. First, no, I don't think we'll be together forever, we may or may not be, of course, over time. The other thing is, I haven't written anywhere that 3 years is an awful lot, I said that we have experienced a lot and not some childish things, quite serious, but that's another matter. 5. "Well, Chichi, you're just tired of everyone, you're neither a man nor a woman, decide at last and stop feeling sorry for yourself, I'm telling you the most friendly!" I could not understand this and emphasize that I came across the site by chance and wrote for the first time. Thanks again to those who took the time to write something meaningful :)

   Number 3, I was wondering if you could tell me more. I met a boy with similar experiences who thinks in a similar way. My question is, is that why guys like you avoid relationships like an incense devil, even if there is an attractive and valuable girl against them? I can't ask the other boy, so I'm asking you. I'm not picky, I want to understand, to look at things from another angle.

   So it is very important BEFORE embarking on a romance to get to know the character of man and his beliefs, and if you want to be faithful you must find a man who believes in fidelity. However, this means looking for specific qualities of character in a person and not for material or other things. So the problem is in the choice in the beginning. If a person does not believe in fidelity, the relationship is doomed from the beginning because he / she is guided by his / her feelings and instincts. I had an acquaintance with a girl with whom they supposedly fell in love, knew her parents, lived together, but chatted intimately with other girls and told me that he went out with them and committed adultery. They later broke up, he didn't tell me the reason. Understand

   So it is very important BEFORE embarking on a romance to get to know the character of man and his beliefs, and if you want to be faithful you must find a man who believes in fidelity. However, this means looking for specific qualities of character in a person and not for material or other things. So the problem is in the choice in the beginning. If a person does not believe in fidelity, the relationship is doomed from the beginning because he / she is guided by his / her feelings and instincts. I had an acquaintance with a girl with whom they supposedly fell in love, knew her parents, lived together, but chatted intimately with other girls and told me that he went out with them and committed adultery. They later broke up, he didn't tell me the reason. Understand that in today's morally and sexually degraded world, elementary virtues such as loyalty and fidelity are not a given and if you want a person with such qualities you must choose a person with these moral qualities of character at the expense of material benefits, sense of humor or appearance. etc., because you can't do both, this is very rare. By the way, I also started to enter the world of online dating, especially dating sites, but I do not do it for the purpose of fornication but for the purpose of finding a mate. M> 30 By the way, I also started to enter the world of online dating, especially dating sites, but I do not do it for the purpose of fornication but for the purpose of finding a mate. M> 30 By the way, I also started to enter the world of online dating, especially dating sites, but I do not do it for the purpose of fornication but for the purpose of finding a mate. M> 30

   You may not like the example, but I will give it to you because it describes the saturation of an emotion. I register on site N. I have just discovered it, I can't wait to study it, to find out everything about it, what can and what can't. A study follows, which one day ends. Then we start living with the studied site, and it is no longer so interesting and becomes less intriguing. What do I want to tell you? Like the example, so is the relationship. At the beginning you are on the crest of the wave and you are enthusiastically exploring the new. The next day you are less enthusiastic because you have learned this and that and the mystery is no longer such a mystery. Thus, day by day, enthusiasm decreases and decreases. This is the reason why it is difficult for you to read a long book, especially if it is not at least with an interesting plot. Everything in this life gets tired - food, object, activity, person. If you expect someone to look at you with admiration and enthusiasm from the beginning, you are mistaken. What you can do is: 1. Don't let him get to know you quickly and leave a surprise for later, hinting at the presence of such, but not rudely, but delicately. 2. As you get to know each other, try to build some stronger relationships, because love or sex are up to date and you have to leave something behind if you want him / her to be here then. So I answer yes - and this feeling has an expiration date like everything in our lives. If you don't replace it with something else by the end of the term, ugly pictures follow, but no one is to blame for them. It's as if you've been equally enthusiastic about the first gift you've ever received in your life. Yes, it still evokes affection, but it is no longer the same fountain of pleasant emotions that it was in the beginning.

   Before we went under the wreath, at the very beginning of the supposed relationship - me and He - we :) we were too bored together. We only saw each other having sex, and I myself had never imagined a future with this man. At the same time, I had sexual relations with another man, I did not hide my Facebook, I was honest with my then unsuspecting future husband. We were right at your age, when spending time in a disco was more important than thinking about the feelings of a potentially serious partner. Subsequently, 5 years later after graduating from university we began to meet, rediscover, heaps of common interests, there were even months in which we did not have sex ... It is this factor that helped us to fall in love Really! This is not explained and I hope the author will understand me one day: ) My advice is to let this boy do what he wants, you are 22 years old and you have no life right to restrict people from their actions (be it wrong to you). I'm sure you're a good person and you can do it independently. As for my husband - I get to know him, I love him more and more every day and I don't bother to show him! :)