Hello. I'm a girl. 13 years old. I am 1.69 m tall. I have terrible complexes because of my height. I am the highest in the whole class. I have been taller than my peers since kindergarten. They called me a giraffe, a tree, a hose, a statue and whatnot. These insults ruined the self-confidence I had. Now I feel like a freak .. :(. My father is 1.85m tall and my mother is 1. 79m. They are both tall. My father is a second child and is taller than my uncle [1.65m]. My mother is also a second child and my aunt is shorter than her [1.63m]. Everyone else in my family is very short.I am also a second child and taller than my 18 year old brother [1. 62m]. I don't know if there is any connection, but I think so .. By the way, let me tell you that I weigh 53 kilograms. Do you think I'm fine? Thanks if you read it! :)
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Don't listen to them, your classmates, because they are shorter and think that everyone should be like that. Well, they are NOT. Everyone develops differently and I was the tallest of the girls in the class and I was told that, but not very often. When they said that, I was a little offended, but it passed quickly. Now I am also one of the tall ones, but I don't care if they tell me something and you don't pay attention to such complex people who make fun of you. As for the weight, you are very well, neither fat nor stick. (As for me 1. 63 I am tall and I am 13 as much as you)! :)
You are perfect in terms of weight and everything! I like tall girls, and there are many others who also like people like you :)
Don't worry, there is no need for complexes, you are obviously in a class with short people. In general, I know that it is normal at 13-14 to be around 1, 70, at least for the current standards, I am one of the short people, but many of my acquaintances in those years are somewhere. If it bothers you so much, wear lower shoes and that's it. Your brother is a unique case, and you're a little tall.
Honey, don't worry about such nonsense. I'm 15 and I'm 1.70. There are taller girls in my class than me, but I haven't heard anyone make fun of them. On the contrary - there is a girl tall to 1.57-8 and she is fucked for her height. Up your head and that's just your problem.
There is no tall boy / girl who has not ridiculed height / kg. You're fine, but I doubt my classmates. Maybe they're angry that you're growing faster, and they're like children to you, I don't know. Marilyn
God, I'm 14 years old and I'm exactly 148 cm, what are you looking for just a job writing topics? You are perfect, there is a boy of 183 cm from our class, 13 years old, so I don't think you are very tall. :)
The others get annoyed because they are dwarves and you can crush them with 1 finger :) no need to get depressed You're great! :) Deni, 13 years old
13 years multiplied by 13. 169 cm you are fine and do you train something to be so tall
your father is just as tall as me
Don't worry I'm 1, 90 75 pounds at 14 but I'm a boy
That's enough, I'm 168-9 too, and so far I haven't thought I'm too tall ... let alone made fun of. I'm 18 if it matters, obviously I won't get taller, but I want to, so you can be happy that you're 169 now and you'll probably get a few inches taller :) As long as you have the right posture and a supportive body - you are perfect :) and I remembered in my class I had a girl about 185 tall, they made fun of her and really walked a little hunched over, but she always had boyfriends, so this is not a problem for you, and I repeat you have a super height: ) in my opinion up to 175 is a very nice height for a woman. Over 180 is already really high ..
I am 1, 62 almost 14 years old and I really want to be as much as you. There was a girl in my former class who was about 1.69, but she was the most beautiful in the class and everyone ran after her. There was also a girl who was about 1, 57 and she also liked her very much. Height doesn't matter, but most say they like short girls more because they aren't tall enough. "Short girls are the best" there is no bigger myth! What's wrong with him? Tall and slender girl. These are complex works. When you grow up you will be happy! :-)
From the author to N10: I don't train anything, except that I go to the gym and train at home.
Don't worry, my best friend is 1.71 and she's 13, but everyone likes her. It doesn't matter how tall you are, and you sound good :)) #OneDirectioner
If she was short, they would harass you because you were a dwarf. The problem is not your height, they just took aim at you to kill time in the boring school life. If you were a more open girl, they would bow to you like a goddess, and they would not dare say a word about your height as a flaw. And I guess the ones they insult are troubled students, have little success, and don't attend class regularly. Is that correct? However, you do not say how you react to the insults, so there is no way we can really help you.
From the author: I am quite sociable and I have a lot of friends, I rather get along with everyone [I exclude the bloated ones, because somehow I can't find a common language with them, and I don't want to; /]. My friends don't insult me, but if it's someone from a neighboring class, for example, it happens and it's ugly that people who only know your name think they are lower than them [in my case higher than them: D]. And if they insult me, I am very disappointed and I feel indescribably sick, but in appearance I never show it, because that way they will understand that I am there and I have a weak spot! I answer that it is better for me to be tall than short and that I am glad that I am tall, but in reality it is not so at all. And if there's any way to stop talking about my height at all, it'll be great. And as the saying goes "Oh hopefully, but not at all!" Thanks for the comments! :)
And I'm 13 and I'm 1. 69 .. Nobody has made fun of me or anything like that, on the contrary, everyone has my respect and at all. There are also two girls from our class who are 1. 73/4 tall, so don't worry! It's all about not taking them in and being more open! :)
are you OK? ! ?? I am 14, I weigh 70 kilograms and I am 1.72 tall! What can the low say? !? !! don't bother because of your height! ;)
You have to be more poisoned .. if you will understand me ... live the word sounds better .. xDDD You have to have at least a little self-confidence and when you look in the mirror to say only good things.
Calm down darling, I'm also quite tall .. 178 and I'm 18, and to this day I have some complex of all these jokes, but I compensate with a nice body .. no one tells me anything anymore you will just grow up and everything will pass :) Good luck :)
how can you think you are too tall ??? I am 11 years old and I am 165 cm tall, I weigh about 50 kg and I have quite large breasts and a cycle, I do not deal with children's movies, games, clothes, etc. and what ??? they just envy me for being a teenager and they are children
Up to 23 Haha, you sound just like a child, darling. First of all, no one asks you if you play with dolls, I don't know why you wrote that at all. Second, no matter how developed you are, at 11 you are not a teenager. Adolescence begins at 13 years old. And third, no one envies you if you're a teenager (which you are not), because it's just age. In 2 years they will catch up with you in terms of development, so ... I hope I haven't been rude to you. Venjus
You're not that tall. I am one year older and I am as tall as you and there are taller than me. In principle, girls develop faster and your height is normal
Hello, I am 12 and I am 170 50 kg! What's up? I take a hose as a laugh and laugh and the others are complex that they are low, I am also the highest in the class!
You are too weak. You must weigh at least 55 kilos. Also, get a little work done on placing commas. Venjus
If you are beautiful and thin (which I guess by your weight), you can break through as a model later, it is not known. ;)) However, appearance is not everything! You are probably a nice and modest girl who came across evil classmates. Do not worry. In high school, things will change, you'll see. As I see it, you are intelligent and understanding and you will not have a problem with anything. Good luck and be more confident !! :))
I'm the same age, the same height, but I'm 54 kg, because I have quite heavy bones (hereditary), they never made fun of my height, they just told me that I was too tall for my age, even my cousin teased me that I'm a mutant, but in the circle of jokes, don't worry, which boy to meet on the street is still as tall as me or 4-5 cm taller and so I gained more sympathy, don't think much of him it's great to be tall, especially for a girl.
Hi :) I'm also 13, you could say I'm 14, but let's get back to you. Don't worry, you're fine. You are normally tall for your age :). Ignore the insults. Good luck :)
You have nothing to worry about. My cousin is 16 and wears number 44 shoes :) And she doesn't pay attention to the people who insult her. :)
a friend of mine is 13 / as much as me / And she is about 1, 75. I am only 1, 63-4 and I am of average height in our class. My parents are not very tall either. I think 1, 69 is a pretty good height for a 13 year old girl. So my advice is - don't worry, you're not the only tall person in the whole world, watch your life and don't care.
Oh, I dream of seeing myself as much as you .. my sister was a photo model for a while, but then she couldn't continue because she is very short .. I really want to be taller than I am now (1. 65) and she is a sister. shorter than me, you are weak and tall, with this height they will not get anywhere ... :)
I am 15 years 1, 45 .. what can I say and I am the object of insults, but I do not care everyone is different there are no equal people
Well, what can I say as a boy and alone as much as I am 16 years old !!! BEING HIGH IS GOOD !!! and you are 53 kilos ... great :)
and I'm 13 and I'm two inches shorter than you and I've been told all sorts of insults, but I accept that they come from envious people who are shorter and can do nothing and therefore insult -highest ... I mean, people don't grow forever! meaning until a certain age we just stop growing and 1, 69m is good, it's nice to be tall, at least two, three centimeters you will still lengthen and just stop. And as for the insults, don't let any stools meter and fifty insult you. Start insulting them too, order them a nice one and you will see how they will stop. It was like that with me, only one insulted me and when I ordered him, a nice person stopped even looking at me. So just don't be offended, your height and weight are great for a 13 year old :)
Honey, don't worry. I have a girlfriend who is 11 years old and is 1.63 tall, she is taller than my mother, not to mention how much taller she is than me. She comes from a family with very high parents and is used to insults. ;)
Well, as a boy, I'm telling you, with that height, you should even be pretty attractive. My girlfriend is the same age as you (she's even an inch taller), and even though I'm a year older than her, it was pretty hard for me to "win" her, so if the gnomes around you don't realize that the highs are better, it is better to look in the upper classes. :)
See how very good you are, even super, I'm 1.65 and weigh 53 kg. and yes I am 13! not even the highest ones make fun of me, don't listen to them, so it's nice, tall and weak! you are perfect! we have a girl in the class who is 1, 84 but no one makes fun of her and she envies her !!!
omg you're crazy .... when I was 12 I was 1. 70 .... now I'm 14 and I'm 1. 73 ... just accept the fact that you were born that way; e ... that is ... there are no perfect people .. personally I prefer to be tall :) if someone insults you, just tell him: well I prefer to be a giant than a dwarf or something like that ... good luck! :)
I don't think you should be suppressed by this, on the contrary, you should be glad that you are not one of the "dwarf" girls, and let me tell you, we boys sometimes like girls to be taller than us, so you have no problems, chick; ) Live your life; n xx the bad xx
Darling, I'm 12 and I'm 168 and we have taller than me in the 5th grade, we had a girl over 170, it's safe, there is nothing in your height and it should not be complex for you - just the opposite! You have an incredible height and soon everyone will become as tall as you so head up!
I'm also 13 and I'm 173. But I don't pay attention to the taunts ... you know there are worse than you, for example me: dd Calm girl .. At one time I was the highest in the class, but now the others have grown up and are as big as me ... so you don't care that they're making fun of you
I have a girlfriend, 13 years old - 1, 72. And she is so happy. And I look at her from below, I'm quite short, and I'm a little jealous ... Rejoice, some dream of being like you!
I'll just tell you I'm in 8th grade and all the girls are 1. 77-1 tall. 80 .. I will not comment on the boys ..; D Don't worry. One day you will stop growing tall and others will catch up with you. btw in my school (language school) the girls from 11-12 grades even try to be taller by wearing 15 cm heels and mega high platforms, and their boyfriends are shorter than them. Plus the models are like you - thin and tall.
Boys like tall girls! My last boyfriend was 15 years old - 175 tall;) I'm 180.
Don't attach yourself to them at all! This can only boost your self-esteem! I was too, but at one time I was just tired of being ridiculed. When they told me 'giraffe' or 'hose', I replied with 'say it, dwarf' or 'you are so short that up here I could hardly hear what he said'; Now I'm 15 and I'm 1. 80 and I don't care at all;) I think you should stop paying attention to them, still being tall is an advantage; e
Well, don't pay attention to them. I am 12 years old, a girl and I am as tall as you, 165;) I am not mocked
I had a classmate who was 174 cm old and was the first child. Even for a woman it's nice to be tall, if you don't have a problem with kg try yourself in a fashion agency, they like tall girls :)
Your weight is perfect for height. Others make fun of you because they must be jealous of your height. A tall woman is nice, but a short one is not. Do not pay attention to them. I am 167 cm, but I am 12 years old. There is only one girl taller than me in my class (about 5 cm). When they make fun of me, I tell them, "What can I do that you're short and annoyed by that?" They stop immediately. This should not lower your self-confidence, but raise it.
There is nothing to worry about, I am an 11-year-old girl, I will turn 12 this year and I am 1.63 tall and I don't worry, even the low ones envy me!
I am also 13 and I am 1. 69m tall. I, too, have always been the highest in the class. They called me an 'ostrich' ... Despite everything, I never wanted to be shorter. I have a nice body. If I get a little taller I will look like a model. What's better? Then they can only envy me ... Your weight is also good. I'm sure you have a great body too. Let them talk ...