Hello! I do not know what's going on! I am beautiful, modest, intelligent and smiling, and it is as if no normal boy notices me. Some strangers write to me on the Internet who don't know what it's about and use some kind of street dumps, and the guys I like don't notice me! I like people like me, people who develop, who are good, educated, who know how to communicate with a woman, and do not behave like simpletons. At 19 and as if no decent person notices me! What to do, how to behave with a boy?
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At 18 and no decent person notices me ... I'm like you too, but apparently the boys fall for the liberated girls, many boys I've been interested in have neglected me because of such
You may be beautiful, but you don't make enough effort to dress well or use everyday make-up to emphasize beauty, maybe shoes with not very high, but elegant heels? How are you behaving? Do you know how to communicate invincibly with people you see for the first time? Men will not like you because you have a good soul- I'm sorry, it doesn't work. Maybe if they like your broadcast, otherwise not a big bonus. I know that many people will not like my comment either, but you can take even more care of your appearance for 2-3 months and meet 3-4 men every day, then you will probably have more choice and better success. It is impossible without reading.
In the same way as now. They will notice you. I was spotted at 26. The girl was like you.
Forgive me for asking, but what city are you from? I'm a "boy" of 20 and I'm generally in the same situation, I always come across some complexes or big peasants, and "decent" girls like you do not reflect me much and go out with various not very nice guys and just complain about them. I bet you have a lot of friends who meet your requirements, you just never thought about them.
Just don't care! Be yourself and sooner or later you will find the right one! After all, there are passengers for every train!
I hope you know what you really want .. and you know the really valuable things .. life is one .. you don't have much time to learn how to live .. time goes by .. So far the usual .. I've noticed the expanding tendency to look for company not because what is it and how much is he not alone .. and the "life" as from the books .. the thrill? eh .. there is no such thing .. that is why the authors write such books .. and that is why there are those who read them .. because they lack the feeling .. which in fact is not acquired just like that .. So what is your problem with the girls .. ? you are looking for the "Alpha" who will get tired of you in time because the romance will die out .. if there will ever be one .. there is no mass .. at least according to what I see .. at one point you will be courting .. the next you will talk of "You" .. and time passes .. the quarrels will start ..
Dear author! Stay the way you are. Don't change just to please someone who probably won't deserve you or appreciate you. I'm also looking for that type of girl, but ... alas. M25
Go down and walk on the ground. Maybe your self-esteem becomes more real or you really become more intelligent - to realize the contradictions in what you have written, for example. Then start with the pretensions to the boys.
Enroll in a major at a university to meet decent and intelligent boys your age. Don't bother with internet downloads because it's full of weird and even crazy.
Hello! I am the author! №6 - I'm not a girl standing in front of a mirror to be photographed like a muffin. I'm one of those slimmer girls, but since I enrolled in college, I've become more open to everyone. I talked to boys and I had a boyfriend, but in the beginning it took down my stars, and the moment we became boyfriends his interest passed. He says he fought for 3 years. for me, and finally when we became boyfriends, his whole demeanor changed, as if it weren't him. Yes, you are right! Who doesn't like Clark Kent guys, but I would be with another type of boyfriend, as long as he's good and polite and doesn't lose interest the moment we become boyfriends. Thanks for your feedback!
From number 6 again .. Yes .. that's what I was talking about .. What is the guarantee that the next girl will not "earn 3 years" and in the end to guess the same number? What a "gentleman" But I know why they do it .. because they can afford it naturally .. They are attractive .. they get attention and make a strong impression .. The girls notice them easily .. and one of the many will always follow him. .they never stay alone .. and precisely because they do not know what it is .. and there is no such possibility .. they act unscrupulously .. not that he loses interest .. that simple story is very true .. "one does not know what there is until he lost it "and these .." colleagues "were not dry just .. that's why .. For me personally this is a very ugly number .. the real" feeling "is lost .. But it is not something unexpected .. nowadays who has not dated more than 3 girls or boys .. and now that something is normal .. how to be truly attached to someone? How to find yourself when it is not sure if tomorrow he will be with the other and will talk behind your back .. And that is why people are so cold already .. they are afraid .. because there is no one to hear them .. nor do they find someone to be deserves attention .. tragedy .. Personally, I have never been committed .. but I know human nature very well .. and it's a pity .. I would say that we are degenerating more and more .. There is no platonic love .. but only "temporary company" But .. One is the person for life .. choose well! :) Mithridates (V) Vates And that's why people are so cold already .. they are afraid .. because there is no one to hear them .. nor do they find someone who deserves attention .. tragedy .. Personally, I have never been committed .. but I know human nature very well. and it's a pity .. I would say that we are degenerating more and more .. There is no platonic love .. but only "temporary company" But .. One is the person for life .. choose well! :) Mithridates (V) Vates And that's why people are so cold already .. they are afraid .. because there is no one to hear them .. nor do they find someone who deserves attention .. tragedy .. Personally, I have never been committed .. but I know human nature very well. and it's a pity .. I would say that we are degenerating more and more .. There is no platonic love .. but only "temporary company" But .. One is the person for life .. choose well! :) Mithridates (V) Vates
I don't know the author ... Maybe you don't radiate any sexuality, this is not done by appearance, but by behavior - verbally and non-verbally. If so, most men will think you are uninterested or committed. The same goes for the reverse interest. There are many guys / men who like girls like you, including me, but it struck me that you are very passive and I never know if you have any interest or not, while some more poisoned "muffin" immediately tells you with a look. and body language whether you are in the game or not. This is much more motivating and makes you go after one, instead of after a "decent" girl, where you do not know what situation you are in.
Author believe me - it is full of this type of guys "good" and "educated" and more. They are also looking for this type of girls like you "beautiful", "modest", "intelligent". You will find what you are looking for. Keep yourself the way you are. Be yourself and love yourself. Number 7
You are low self-esteem, cowardly (because you don't want others to understand it), rude, ungrateful and bad (because you insult people who are interested in you) and you are certainly not intelligent (judging by your inability to express yourself and write correctly ). You have chosen self-delusion and false image, but you do not like that you are served the same. As you reject, so you are rejected. As you are, so are the people next to you. Strive, try, do your best to reach the level you are chasing not just in words, but really.
look now, many boys fall for the so-called "decent" girl, and many of them realize that they are not so decent. One abandons it, another sees infidelity, etc. And what does "develop" mean? No one consciously likes careerists, mind you. :) You are one of those girls who will play a boy if he works in a car wash or a security guard.
Good evening. First of all, I wish you happy holidays and a pleasant New Year and bring you a lot of happiness, health, love, luck and success. Now let me first say that the fact that boys like freedom is so. But in general, no one is looking for a serious relationship. I, on the other hand, am 25 and looking for true love - a girl who will be by my side and I will be by her all my life, with whom we will be happy, we will love and support each other, we will be next to each other in good and evil, without lies, without cheating without injury. For me, the most important thing is not how a woman looks or how she dresses, what she does, etc. For me, the most important thing is to be real and love to be real. so if you want to write to me because I am looking for a girl like you - decent, polite and kind I will be happy to give me a chance :)