Hello! This is my first time writing here, but I just wanted to share my problem with someone. I don't know if this is the right category, but I think it's the most appropriate! I'm a 19-year-old girl. I am from a small town, but I am already studying in Sofia. My problem is that I don't have any friends. Colleagues from the university mostly work, others have companies already and in the end it turned out that I could not make friends with anyone. I'm not an ugly or stupid girl, I have friends in my hometown, but we all scattered in other cities and we are now only on Skype or Facebook .. For 4 months now I sit at home and stare at the computer, I'm tired and very much! I find it strange that I write here, because in principle I would not write .. Please give me some advice or maybe someone else like me can write .. Thank you!
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Hi, I'm a 20-year-old boy and I don't have any friends either.
Hi :) Don't be ashamed, and just talk to a girl from your class with whom you think you can become friends, be brave;) Well, you can just tell her "I'm lonely, it's not my hometown, I need girlfriend ". Death_Blade ^
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Sign up for something (Fitness, dance, languages) and there you will meet new people.
Go out, diversify, take a walk. You can also catch a friend. Life is ahead of you! girl 13 :)
I'm like you and I'm 19. It's very naughty. I hope to find friends soon, but as I look, we will not have soon :(
From the author-> Thanks for the advice. In principle, I'm not shy, I'm sociable, but I always come across inappropriate people .. Maybe I'm the problem, but what can I do ...
Hello :) I understand you very well. I don't have many friends, although I'm 22, from Sofia. I quite understand how you feel. You know that you can't just hope for the friendships you've made in your city. And to calm down by waiting for your friends, every day and with great impatience, to appear on the net, so that you can communicate and diversify the lonely hours that you gather. You can't be completely dependent on their attention, since they are your friends, they won't forget you, you won't miss anything. But you are in a new city, another place, and it is good to meet new people. Maybe you're a little more closed, or at least that's how you look at your colleagues so they don't let you into their circles of friends. If so, it's because you're in a new place, among different people, it's harder for you to relax and be yourself, as you are in your hometown. You write on your own, you have recently been in Sofia, you have probably not yet conditioned yourself with the local mentality and attitude between people. With patience and time, you will overcome this barrier as well. But you should not close, you need life, people, real communication. Colleagues, they seem distant and blind and do not understand you, but it will be so until you show them what kind of person. Focus on one, even if it's the one you're sitting next to. Find common topics, seeing you have a normal and long conversation, others will turn their attention to you. From there, you talk to others. You make suggestions for cafes and nearby restaurants and so on. The important thing is to be with them somewhere at least once. And from the conversation you have, as long as you don't say much about yourself, but only what is necessary in the moments, and if you are not serious, they will find you an interesting person. And when it doesn't work with them, you try with others, there are a lot of people, and enough time and hours to get someone who will be excited about you, as an interlocutor and a person. You look like a nice person to me, I will be happy to sign up with you :) if you wish, my email is "rainbowheart @ abv. Bg" :) / To the moderators, it is good sometimes to make an exception:) / If not allow e-mail, and you want to pee, leave it to you :)
Thank you again for the advice. I communicate with colleagues, but only at the university, outside of it, everyone has company and friends. It's hard to lean on someone. If there are other girls like me who can leave Skype or e-mail, we can write :)
From number 9 to the author. I see that you have a desire to communicate, but you should not hope only for people in the same situation, there will be in similar to yours but not the same, try different. I didn't understand, since you have a wish, to expect a letter from you? There is no space, only abv.bg - at the post office. Let's just write down nothing special. Think, it's better to try than to be in the same position.
Until Death_Blade ^, I very rarely like your comment. Nothing personal. So on the topic. Look around. There must always be someone who has not found his place, just like you. People are not that different. Find similar topics with someone / music, movies, activities /. :] SJ