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At 19 Years Old. I Am And I Understand That I Have A Sister

By lms5 July 24, 2020 7 answers Last updated July 24, 2020

I heard it. From a relative of mine to say it, he did not know that I heard it and asked my father the following - "Oh, how is your daughter?", And so twice after my father answered him specifically, briefly and as if with slight concern. I was glued to the wall. Nobody knows I've heard that. Do you know which institution I can turn to, or in some register, to somehow check. I just want to see her as she is called. To see who she is, this is something I dreamed of as a child (sister). Meaning, ours are very good people, correct. Above all, they are my friends, but this is a topic I would never open. Because once you / he (my father) has decided that he shouldn't tell me, he obviously doesn't want me to learn from him. Is it right to dig? Is it fair to my parents to do it? And how, and where can I find out if it is true, and who it is? Thank you!

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revivedunknown answered · July 24, 2020

   Your parents wanted to save you and torment. But since you already know, why not ask? !! After the fathers talk to relatives about the girl, then the topic is not taboo for him. If you want, ask your mother first, and she will tell you exactly what is the best way to ask your father. Or he'll just tell you the story. But I don't see the point in hiding that you know. You're not hiding a murder, though!

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nataliclark answered · July 24, 2020

   I think you have a right to know the truth. Talk to your parents, tell them what you heard, but don't attack them without knowing anything yet. SUCCESS! ^^^^ ЛуДкАрКаТа ^^^^

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lovelylucy1 answered · July 24, 2020

   You have the right to know the truth. Yours didn't have to hide your own sister from you, who grew up perhaps without her father, to maintain your illusions that you have a perfect family with mom and dad in love. You are now an adult and you can see reality in the face. Look differently in GRAO, if your father has recognized her, she must also appear under his PIN .... if he has not recognized her, he is a very disgusting person.

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allison_nick answered · July 24, 2020

   I don't know if it's right to question and look for her, but I've always dreamed of a sister and I'd like to see her too. I probably wouldn't even be able to keep from meeting her, or maybe without telling her we're sisters. I have no idea where or if you can find her. But in my opinion, do not ask your mother first, as it is written in a comment above, but directly your father. However, if your mother did not attend your father's conversation with the relative (which is not clear), there is some, even minimal, chance that she does not know about your sister. Success! And if you don't mind, write what happened, I'm interested;)

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jakejohn83 answered · July 24, 2020

   hello, talk to your father and tell him that you unintentionally overheard his conversation. Also tell him that you are not angry with him and he would be very happy to meet his sister. It is.

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teshaut62 answered · July 24, 2020

   I found out a month ago that I might have an 18-year-old sister who my father hadn't been looking for for 18 years. I'm 15, imagine ... But I don't blame him, when he found out he was with my mother. You have a right to know who she is, in my opinion. After all, you are one family, and such things should not be hidden from each other.

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mamakat answered · July 25, 2020

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