I know I'm not the only one with such a topic, but I just decided to share my story, which makes me think. In fact, I'm 20, a freshman. Some time ago I went out with my childhood friends, we talk about 6 years ago, where we gathered 20, 30 people. There were a lot of girls who liked me, but I never got into a serious relationship or sex, while my friends had sex for the first time at 15, 16, and I'm still dry. I was used to my friends, because we expressed together, we had common interests, etc. Later I found other friends with whom I started dating. Finally, a year ago, everyone went their separate ways. Everyone goes to study somewhere, to work, etc. And at the moment the problem is that it is quite difficult for me to make new friends, ie I was used to my old friends, and in front of other people I feel uncomfortable. On the other hand, I have noticed that a lot of girls are locked up, pretending to be inaccessible, reading some princesses and waiting for the Grand Duke to come to them. I don't know how to say it, but I have the feeling that the girls have just lost the desire to get engaged, have sex, etc .. Everyone is looking at their interest and nothing in general, and that time is now, not 30 as he got up. I don't want to be the type of man who is 30 and about to have sex. I slept with 2 girls, I pushed with them, but I never had sex, just at their request. I'm not a closed type, I'm not ugly, I'm nothing. I'm even sure that a lot of girls like me right now, but they're afraid to admit it or make any hints. And in general, they have some fear of commitment, I've noticed that in a lot of girls too. In the new city, I could not make new friends, if I made, it was for 1, 2 months. I only talk to my colleagues, but a lot of them look after their interests anyway. I've played sports before, but I've lost interest, and I'm a tall boy. In the last year, I seriously thought that I should now find a girlfriend, have sex. I lost a lot of chances to have a girlfriend when I was little, but why? Eee .. And I can't answer, maybe because I always had something to do and I never thought seriously about it then and I always leaned towards girls that I felt sympathy for. I can't polish my cane all my life, though. What is your opinion? but a lot of them look after their interest anyway. I've played sports before, but I've lost interest, and I'm a tall boy. In the last year, I seriously thought that I should now find a girlfriend, have sex. I lost a lot of chances to have a girlfriend when I was little, but why? Eee .. And I can't answer, maybe because I always had something to do and I never thought seriously about it then and I always leaned towards girls that I felt sympathy for. I can't polish my cane all my life, though. What is your opinion? but a lot of them look after their interest anyway. I've played sports before, but I've lost interest, and I'm a tall boy. In the last year, I seriously thought that I should now find a girlfriend, have sex. I lost a lot of chances to have a girlfriend when I was little, but why? Eee .. And I can't answer, maybe because I always had something to do and I never thought seriously about it then and I always leaned towards girls that I felt sympathy for. I can't polish my cane all my life, though. What is your opinion? maybe because I always had something to do and I never thought seriously about it then and I always leaned towards girls I felt sympathy for. I can't polish my cane all my life, though. What is your opinion? maybe because I always had something to do and I never thought seriously about it then and I always leaned towards girls I felt sympathy for. I can't polish my cane all my life, though. What is your opinion?
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Don't be too sure that everyone is closed and has no desire for sex. If I had seen your picture handsome and when you start writing to me incoherently and illiterately. And you write "I don't know" connected immediately to the block. Sorry, but you don't know anything about women and you can't talk about them. You have no experience in this field, I am 20 years old and have a good sex life and everything else that not liking you does not mean that they are inaccessible.
On a crooked rocket, space is interfering! Come on, now the girls are guilty, they were imprisoned, they pretended to be inaccessible. What do you want - when they see you being thrown at your neck and offered to you? Then you would call them bloody and grumble that there were no decent girls. If you wait for the girls to come to you and invite you to a meeting, etc., you will not see sex at the age of 50. You are the man, you act! When you think you like them, go to them, talk to them, make them arouse their interest, invite them out, don't you know how to do it? Some may cut you off, just to make you think they like you, but someone may tie you up. When you start a relationship, you will have sex. But I think you are afraid of commitment, you are closed and indecisive. So far you have moved with the others in your company, now you have to take care of yourself. As you write, you guys don't have any friends, why? Have you ever been interested in watching yours? How did you make them interested in wanting to communicate with you? The problem is in you, you don't know how to communicate with people, you blame them. Work on it, overcome the distance between you and others (I'm not saying to intrude on them), find common themes, interests, your environment ... With alienated, indecisive, complex types, no one is happy to communicate, and sex to right.
1, you make a note that it says "I don't know" related, and you write the quotes related to the neighboring words. And I don't think women choose who to sleep with based on whether it says "I don't know" related or separate.
1, he the author that it is bad with the spelling, it is bad, but you are the same. As we will make remarks, at least not to expose ourselves ...
Push up in the gym. A large percentage of girls aged 20-25. like rough butts. Several topics were written that subconsciously like this type of boys. Rough, muscular if they have money and a car they are number one. Here you will not find a sex priestess who will tell you - "Let me spit it out". On the Internet you will meet shy and depressed girls. That's why you go out more. Even if you walk alone. Don't wait for the girl to invite you for sex. Search forums what replicas to use. There are some. Do not wait. Grandpa Tosho
From the author I have not looked for spelling mistakes. I threw it at a fast cancer. To 2 I'm not saying that I should immediately throw on my head that who said? It all happens gradually, but on the other hand, the chick can not stand in front of me and wait for me to do everything, because I have had such moments, ie. I act, and on their part, nothing. You have now turned everything upside down and made me the lowest. I'm not waiting for everything to be ready, and I've invited girls and I've acted. I communicate quite well, I'm not a puffer, I'm not a closed type. Maybe something average. And I haven't blamed anyone and there's no point in attacking me and telling me I'm a complex, etc. I am not offended by such. It is true that I have few interests and I have not made anyone watch mine. And again, I'm not attacking anyone.
Abe may have had something to do, but your literacy was certainly not a priority.
No. 1, if you start writing to me on Facebook, no matter how beautiful you are, I will immediately block you. You are no less illiterate than the author.
Author, I have nothing to attack you for, I tell you directly what I think based on what you have written. When you write your topics (because there are others like you) and you want opinions from others, do you think that everyone will agree with you and get angry when someone tells you something different? Shall I tell you that you attack girls, that they pretend to be inaccessible, princesses, etc., because they don't pay attention to you? Being unavailable to you does not mean that they are afraid to commit or not have sex, but simply that they do not want to do it with you. I would ask myself why, I would look for the cause in myself first and I would change myself because others cannot. But your life is yours, live it as you will, I will not write more if you think that I am attacking you, insulting you, etc., which I did not intend. Who understood-understood.
To number 5 from the author Quite rightly said that they fall in love. I know people, mega rude to people, tattoos from head to toe and without a penny. But that's exactly what they like, unfortunately. Thanks for the advice.
Dude, at least let me give you some advice, I didn't come here to criticize someone's spelling. As you were told above - bang hard in the hall and soon you will bang ass. Find a job, buy a decent car (not expensive because you won't be able to maintain it, you're still a student, not a cockroach because you know what women are like). Find company and go out, go to cafes, bars, discos, places where there are girls. I was like you, with the difference that at 16 I had a girlfriend and we had sex, but after we broke up I was blown away and for a long time I did not see intimacy with a girl. So it's all up to you, make the necessary changes in yourself! Greetings and remember - life is before you!
That's why I don't deal with Bulgarian women ... I just saw that my compatriots want to live a life that I can't give them. Even now I was 5 months in England and that's where I met 1 Colombian. Now I'm in BG for a while and I'm going to her again. The white swallow landed on my shoulder and I was happy. I am already 34 and it is time for my family. Otherwise, when I was a teenager I went out with our girls, but even then something was limping, I was obviously just born in the wrong country. My first serious boyfriend was a Roma woman. I was 25 when we were together but it passed, we parted with a smile. My advice is to study and get out of here. Seek love in the world. Bulgarians, as men, have a lot of positive qualities. You have a chance elsewhere and you will surely be appreciated. Just don't lose hope and don't give up. Success: P
Dude, what should be available to you? Have you not heard that in this life no one owes anyone anything? You have forgiven men en masse, you are behaving like complete minors, you want by setting some condition, the chicks to immediately tie you up and comply with you, as if you are the princes of white stallions ... As there are no princesses, so are princes. And no matter how good you look, when you start philosophizing calmly, you can disgust any woman. The problem in this case is in you, author
Hi, I stumbled upon your story. After reading it, I just couldn't help but write a comment. Your way of expressing myself is very familiar to me, some time ago I had a very close friend who, due to the reasons that we graduated and we all went somewhere, lost contact. I know that the probability of it being the same person is very small, but I will advise you in the same way as I advised him. You just have to be more confident and believe in yourself when you're insecure, that's your radiance, maybe that's why girls see you that way, there's no room for hesitation in sex, it's a time to give in. to stop thinking and just let feelings and passion guide you. Good luck!!
From the author Thanks to numbers 12 and 15 for the advice. For now, I have decided to start work and then buy my own car when I have more money and time to get a license. Fitness I'm thinking of starting the next course. I will try to build my confidence. However, we are not all perfect.
I think the problem is in your head. Lack of sex experience lowers your self-esteem, which leads to even greater isolation. Did Tinder try? I see a good first step for you. It is assumed that you are looking for sex, even on a first date. You don't have to be completely honest. As you gain experience and confidence, you can move on to "cold" contacts as the next step.
From the author to 18 I tried Tinder about 6 months ago out of curiosity, but there was no result, and if it is for a relationship I prefer something more serious than sex for 1 night.