I urgently need advice! I searched for similar stories, but I didn't find any, and because it's important to me, I really hope it will be published and help me. I will try to be as brief as possible. A very close friend of mine has a birthday in a few days and I can't help but go, I just spent my childhood with this boy, but the problem is that my ex will be there. They are friends, and I don't even know what kind of relationship we have with him. Sometimes we greet each other, sometimes we don't. Whenever I see him, I avoid him because I don't like him at all, nostalgia strikes me and when I remember how bad he treated me ... The even bigger problem is that I haven't forgotten him, and he has a girlfriend for several months. He was my only and first serious friend, we were together for a year and a bit, I made love to him, he took my virginity and we have a lot of memories together. to the question - help me I do not know how to behave in front of him and his girlfriend. I will do my best to look like I don't care, but if I don't drink I will feel bad, if I drink I will relax, but maybe I will get drunk and start doing nonsense. I wanted to drink in peace so I don't care, but he hates drunk girls I don't want to be pitiful in his eyes even more and boring and dead. I don't know if I overdo it with the cup or if it won't hit me with deep feelings and emotions. It's really important to me, I'm waiting for your advice and opinion! but he hates drunk girls I don't want to be pathetic in his eyes even more and boring and dead. I don't know if I overdo it with the cup or if it won't hit me with deep feelings and emotions. It's really important to me, I'm waiting for your advice and opinion! but he hates drunk girls I don't want to be pathetic in his eyes even more and boring and dead. I don't know if I overdo it with the cup or if it won't hit me with deep feelings and emotions. It's really important to me, I'm waiting for your advice and opinion!
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Exit the movie
Ok, stop turning around and talk to both of you. Clarify your relationship with your ex afterwards, talk to the birthday boy. If it's going to be too big a problem, just don't go. True friends will understand you, as long as you clarify your relationships and motives.
Well, don't drink! You will refrain once from drinking or drinking, but very little if you think you will expose yourself. As for the relationship - I don't think you talk to him first, and if he decides to talk to you, behave normally. How else? !!
Keep your distance and don't get drunk because of nonsense (and in general, but especially because of nonsense).
Don't get drunk. Be confident. Pay attention to him only if he looks for you first.
No, don't drink. Start flirting and pushing one of the guests in front of his eyes. And so all night.
Don't worry, he's an ex. You are also an ex to him. Even if you attack him, he won't move. You are not interested in him, you sang your song. Now he has another priority, his girlfriend! He will be completely devoted to her. He won't even greet you. What do you care?
You go, you drink, you tell everyone that you love him and you go to do some things or you just stay calm and don't make movies.
Advice from me ... if you drink shots ... after each shot shot or lick a slice of lemon so you don't get caught or a little salt but not too little. I was doing this, but it was already the distant 2014 and he jokingly caught me because I was mixing vodka with cognac ... on the day of the joke I jokingly got drunk ... so be careful ... because a friend who was with me told me that I did nonsense ... I squeezed the bottle of vodka and I roared that it was my boyfriend ... and I fell with him on the stairs which I still do not remember and I shouted where my bottle is ... give it to me. ..
You treat everyone the same, except for some cutie, to whom you direct your interest and joke with him. You don't pay any special attention to your ex and his new one, you just smile broadly at everyone and say, "Hello," and sit down next to a free guy. And you make your party without getting drunk. It's all Past, you're free and beautiful, have fun! What do you care about some exes, what do you care about everything, just have fun, dance, joke, flirt with someone new. It's not nuclear physics, you'll do it and you'll see how hard you can make it;)