I am 20 years old and I have a 2-year relationship with a boy who loves me, has serious intentions towards me, take care of me ... I love him too! Of course, like any other couple, we have problems. He likes to sit at home, I like to go out ... We are both jealous, but he overdoes his checks ... We also have problems with sex. He still wants me, but I miss the thrill. I'm just starting to see him as a friend, and I don't want to break up. Now I met another ... with whom I am very pleased. He has great manners, he is extremely nice. In many ways it is the best choice for me. But I don't want to part with my boyfriend at this stage .. I don't want to cheat on him either .. but I think the only way to find out what I want is to try what's wrong with the other one ... Maybe this way I'll come back the thrill ... or I'll lose it altogether .... I don't know what to do. ... :(
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Hello! I also have a 2 year relationship with a boy and we had a period when the thrill was gone, we had problems with sex, etc. I want you to know that if you love each other, it is a 'momentary state'. There are such boring moments in every relationship, but they pass. Infidelity will not help you, you two are the ones who have to get your thrill back - with small gestures, gifts, new places, go on vacation just the two of you, shop at the sex shop and whatever else you can think of. It helped me! It will really be a pity if you ruin your relationship because of some passion. You'll regret. And it is very vile to deceive a man when he loves you. Put yourself in his place, it sucks, doesn't it? But if you think that this relationship is over and you want to be with the other, be honest with him and tell him! You decide.
Hello dear. I am 26 years old and I have a serious friend for two years. My ex-boyfriend and I had been in a relationship for almost nine years and we loved each other very much. But we broke up. Now I have at least the basis for comparison. The conclusion I drew from these two relationships is that sometimes love is not all in one relationship. By no means do I want to convey that I recommend for the mother to be inactive. I tell you this because imagine that the person next to you does not respect you, does not notice you at home, and at the same time is very jealous - then it will probably be worse. There's nothing wrong with having different views on how to spend your free time, as long as it gives you the freedom to choose to do what you like in some places. which you like. It's the same with me - my friend also likes to stay at home, and I like noisy places. However, I have my freedom - he tells me that he does not want to keep me in prison and even makes me go out all the time, to meet colleagues, friends, to go to different places. How can you not love such a person. You have a relationship and yet you feel free in it. If you think he loves you and proves it at the same time, my advice is just not to cheat on him - he doesn't deserve it. Be honest and sincere in your relationship with him and you will see that these pure feelings will come back to you many times. Good luck How can you not love such a person. You have a relationship and yet you feel free in it. If you think he loves you and proves it at the same time, my advice is just not to cheat on him - he doesn't deserve it. Be honest and sincere in your relationship with him and you will see that these pure feelings will come back to you many times. Good luck How can you not love such a person. You have a relationship and yet you feel free in it. If you think he loves you and proves it at the same time, my advice is just not to cheat on him - he doesn't deserve it. Be honest and sincere in your relationship with him and you will see that these pure feelings will come back to you many times. Good luck
You will burst like a balloon. And you 2, as soon as your husband makes you go out, ask yourself if he loves you. But no wonder - "it is much more important in a relationship to be loved than only to love" You are selfish. This may be the reason he wants you to go out. And if they both don't love each other.
The problem is, he won't let me go. She doesn't want me to go out alone. He is jealous of me..suffocates me ... My phone checks ... skype ... everything ... and I can't take it anymore :(
Honey, there's obviously reason to be jealous and watching you. You prove it yourself with your behavior. Obviously, you are not ready for a serious and long relationship, but only for fleeting experiences. They are high adrenaline, but unfortunately short-lived. And as for your new choice, keep in mind that everyone is kind and polite in the beginning until they find another one or they just get bored with you. Judge if you are ready for this. And in a serious relationship, everyone compromises with their idea of the ideal partner - either you accept it as such or it just doesn't make sense. It will not change. But it is extremely mean to cheat on him after 2 years of relationship. Think well!!!