I lived with my girlfriend for almost 4 years. At first everything was good, after a while of course our relationship became a bit boring. But in general we liked each other, we were inseparable. At the beginning of this year we went out very often with a friend of hers and I slept with her. A week or two later, my friend slept with an acquaintance and almost immediately confessed to me, but I did not. Then I slept a few more times with her friend, who had broken up with her ex, and saw him once or twice a month just for sex. After a while we decided we wanted to be together, and she started sleeping with us. In the meantime, my girlfriend no longer lived with me. We are still hiding with the other girl, and more than 2 months ago she told me about theirs and her ex that she had decided to be with me. Every day the three of us meet and imagine what's wrong with me. My friend has been devastated since she didn't live with me, she tells me that she cries almost every day, but in the meantime she happens to call the acquaintance where she slept with him. The other girl says that he is already naughty to hide and can't stand it anymore. I think I love them both, but even if I don't, I can't leave either of them. I'm torn and I don't know what to do, I feel ruined. Please tell me what to do, I'll go crazy already.
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You are a complex - garbage! How could you?
Well, your act is very ugly, but it's not my job to judge you. My advice is to stay with your girlfriend. This other one is complete nothing, sorry, don't take offense, but for me it's like that. Of course you know who you love more. But you can't maneuver like that from one to the other. You and your girlfriend have been naughty about cheating on each other, but sometimes things like that happen. And even if you decide to stay with that garbage, your girlfriend's girlfriend, by no means tell this girl about your second relationship. You will ruin it completely. She will feel super crushed and betrayed. Don't do it to her, I'm literally asking you because I've been in this situation and I know how painful and nasty it is. Sit down and think about which are the stronger feelings with which you had better moments and which one you really love. You can love them both, but only one is real. Good luck!!!
How to find out which one I love more :( with the new girl we are very nice. My old relationship ended somehow, for a year and something every day the same, I have long wanted a new relationship, but I had no reason to end the old one. I had a lot good moments with my girlfriend, with the new girl too, but a little bit of course. I don't know what to do anymore. How do I know who will be better with me and who loves me more. :( I'm very confused, I don't know what to do .
Um, I'm not going to give my opinion on people like you or the girlfriend in question, it's said above. First, I wonder why, after a year of your relationship not working out, you ended up listening to an excuse for infidelity. When it doesn't work, you get up and leave instead of messing with two women, it's not fair and it comes back one day. And now it would be better to leave both and start fresh, because I don't think that whichever you choose you will be happy, because you will always think if you are wrong.
Try it, you may turn out to be the other way around, so that the situation will completely change ... I just don't know what kind of people you are.
From the author: Today I told my ex-girlfriend. I've never been so sick. :(
In my opinion, you are just so used to the first one that you think you miss it and you accuse LOVE. But I don't think so. I think you love the second ... and the first has just become part of your daily life. You choose, the old life or a new beginning ... a new love! ;]