I am a girl and I am 15 years old. I live in a small town and for years I was ridiculed at school. They don't make fun of me like they used to. When I go to Sofia, I sometimes feel a little afraid of the people there. I have a feeling they will make fun of me. The strange thing is that I have quite high self-esteem, I like my appearance, most of the time I talk a lot, but at times I feel a little afraid, I have nothing to talk about with people or I think they will make fun of me because they look at me funny or arrogant.
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This feeling is painfully familiar to me, and provoked for the same reason. I can only tell you that from what I have seen, those who mock and insult are either 1) stupid and superficial people with self-confidence without cover, ie. simpletons or 2) compressors who feel good and significant only when they humiliate others. The advice I can give you is not to be fooled by the facade of the people. No matter from Sofia or not, good or ugly everyone has weaknesses, problems and complexes. With some people you either get the conversation or you don't - you can't please everyone.
Hey hello girl. Look at 15, it's normal to have such worries, but don't worry, they will pass over time. Those who make fun of someone mean that something is not comfortable for them. I'm 31 and I was made fun of at school, now there is simply no one to make fun of me. Except Grandma, I'm fat: D The important thing is not to take these jokes inside. And then feel hurt because of some nonsense. You are children and do not know the world, in fact. As for talking, the fact that you speak is very good for a woman :))) But the fact that you do not speak should not and should not bother you. People from others. party they usually want, tida you listen to them. This is how respect is expressed between people, so Everything is Oki :))) Watch Kefa :)) Yes, and the people in Sofia are more closed, because the city is already big and noisy. Bye