I soon graduated, starting in January I started working in an office (in the beginning something like a trial period). The problem is that I am sexually attracted to the man I will work for. He is much older than me (I am 24 years old, he is 44 years old). I know it's not normal, please don't blame me. How can I hint to him that I want something more? Or should I keep quiet that if I made a serious hint I would risk my job? And how do I know if he's inclined to have an affair with a girl my age?
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You haven't started work yet, and you're already itching.
Abe something, after these days the old men again found out along some topics that they are disgusting to the young, something suddenly many new ones appeared, in which "a young girl is cruelly attracted" by an old man, m ?! ;) ж22
So how? Short skirt, deep neckline and you look at it with a moist look;) And when he asks you something - you talk as if you just finished and you sigh, you sigh;) You don't cut your hair for the job - you will only win. See if his wife finds out ... I don't know there;)
2, and why are you so angry against such links that you haven't stopped spamming in at least the third topic from yesterday? Did someone dump you? And as much as you can't believe it, there are women who fall in love with older people, and not because of it.
№2 Apparently you only contacted 44-year-old tolups and you put them all under one denominator :)
A 44-year-old man is old ??! When you become so you will understand me;))
6, I'm not 5, but the man said "tolup", not "old". And that means a stupid person, not an adult. Guzen runs away. Another issue is that it says "tUlup".
You are definitely risking your job. At best, he will sleep with you and lose you. Does that suit you?
You got into a bad movie when you really like it. I'm telling you directly, in your case the problem is not so much in the age difference (unless you want to marry him - then it's a problem. A 44-year-old man is young, but in 10 years he will be 54, the man will be alive and healthy , and you will be 34 - at the best age for a woman to be "loved" as much as possible, often and effectively, something that he will no longer know how before, pure physiology, and you will be spectacularly disappointed) But as I said - There are two other more immediate serious problems: 1. HE IS YOUR BOSS! It is definitely not correct if you are intimate partners, to be in a hierarchical interaction, a conflict of interest. Sooner or later it will start to suffer or the quality of work or the quality of your relationship, which do you prefer? In the first case, don't you remember that you will be found guilty? 2. If he is married? I don't want to "moralize" you like the majority here, but from a purely pragmatic point of view - in order to become a boss, he knows how to do his homework - even if you fall for him as a scammer, he will hardly ruin his house in order to " he fled with you to the horizon. " It may be bad with your wife, even if you do not become an accomplice in such a circus, everyone has their own battles. If you are so attracted to it, leave this job, but why should your work biography, which is just starting in the specialty, after you have recently graduated, suffer? If they are attracted to men so much older than you, why can't you find another object. At the risk of being accused of applying boulevard psychology from self-help books at gas stations, because what I'm going to say sounds exactly like that - I don't think you like him, you like the idea of him. Built character, mature, experienced enough, but also young enough to be energetic and capable, I understand you. Why should it be him and not someone else like him. WHO IS NOT YOUR BOSS! There are many. I wish you success, one morning you will wake up and know what to do. Holidays are coming, pay attention to your relatives and family to distract yourself. The solution will only find you, just do not take hasty steps
"3. Don't cut for work - you'll only win. See if his wife finds out ... I don't know there;)" He won't mind if you're wrapped up in him. But if it comes to sex and his wife understands ... If you are not the first such subordinate to him and he does not want to manipulate him and "spread his nose" he can refrain. Most women think that when their boss puts it on, they run the company.
"and you will be 34 - at the best age for a woman to be" loved "as much as possible, often and effectively, something that he will no longer know as before, pure physiology, and you will be spectacularly disappointed)" Number 11 what exactly does it mean to be "loved" (quotes are double because that word is in quotes for you too)? I guess it means to wear it often and mostly with different? !! How good is this age, when a lot of women go crazy and feel a great desire to cheat. And if her husband doesn't agree, they don't mind abandoning their family and children. And experience the itching.
She doesn't make any hints to him at all, but does her job with which you will earn your living. If the boss is a man on the spot, he will never interfere with any of his work. And if he is a tailor and a stripper, the contract is still in you - he will fuck you, throw you away, be sure of that, and at that age he is most likely married. You will only stay with the trial period. Abe and I are a woman, but I can't understand how you only throw yourself at bosses and rich people?