Hello. A 35-year-old man from Sofia. Since I haven't had a serious relationship for several years, and the circle of social contacts has run out, I started entering Tinder about a year ago. I have orientated myself in the age group of 30-34 years. To be honest, I like this application a lot, I have about 40 meetings a year, and I have had sex 18 times. I am amazed at how active and passionate the women in this age group are. In principle, I have a desire for something serious, but I have not met the specific person who is both sexy and at the bottom of my level, I regularly come across ladies who have passed their youth, who dream of a rich man and a luxurious life. I'm not rich, but I do a good job, I have a luxury home, a luxury car and expensive clothes. And here comes the problem, we go out for a while, to the next meeting - sex, if I liked her enough, then a search and writing all day from the female part begins, as if we had become boyfriends. And I find myself in a situation where I often cut off women that I could have had in the long run, but I'm not attracted enough. And somehow this thing turned into fun and a vicious circle for me. I feel sick sometimes, like I'm abusing the ladies, but at the same time I think about how much they abused me back in time ... when I didn't have my home, my car and my situation. This is my problem, I feel some perverted pleasure, to go out with a woman 2-3 times, to pretend that I am serious and have an interest in a serious relationship, to fuck her in case she attracts me enough and finally suddenly to her block and do not pick up the phone. And I just want to find my soulmate ... and then a search and writing starts all day from the female part, as if we have become boyfriends. And I find myself in a situation where I often cut off women that I could have had in the long run, but I'm not attracted enough.
And somehow this thing turned into fun and a vicious circle for me. I feel sick sometimes, like I'm abusing the ladies, but at the same time I think about how much they abused me back in time ... when I didn't have my home, my car and my situation. This is my problem, I feel some perverted pleasure, to go out with a woman 2-3 times, to pretend that I am serious and have an interest in a serious relationship, to fuck her in case she attracts me enough and finally suddenly to her block and do not pick up the phone. And I just want to find my soulmate ... and then a search and writing starts all day from the female part, as if we have become boyfriends. And I find myself in a situation where I often cut off women that I could have had in the long run, but I'm not attracted enough. And somehow this thing turned into fun and a vicious circle for me. I feel sick sometimes, like I'm abusing the ladies, but at the same time I think about how much they abused me back in time ... when I didn't have my home, my car and my situation.
This is my problem, I feel some perverted pleasure, to go out with a woman 2-3 times, to pretend that I am serious and have an interest in a serious relationship, to fuck her in case she attracts me enough and finally suddenly to her block and do not pick up the phone. And I just want to find my soulmate ... And I find myself in a situation where I often cut off women that I could have had in the long run, but I'm not attracted enough. And somehow this thing turned into fun and a vicious circle for me. I feel sick sometimes, like I'm abusing the ladies, but at the same time I think about how much they abused me back in time ... when I didn't have my home, my car and my situation. This is my problem, I feel some perverted pleasure, to go out with a woman 2-3 times, to pretend that I am serious and have an interest in a serious relationship, to fuck her in case she attracts me enough and finally suddenly to her block and do not pick up the phone. And I just want to find my soulmate ... And I find myself in a situation where I often cut off women that I could have had in the long run, but I'm not attracted enough. And somehow this thing turned into fun and a vicious circle for me.
I feel sick sometimes, like I'm abusing the ladies, but at the same time I think about how much they abused me back in time ... when I didn't have my home, my car and my situation. This is my problem, I feel some perverted pleasure, to go out with a woman 2-3 times, to pretend that I am serious and have an interest in a serious relationship, to fuck her in case she attracts me enough and finally suddenly to her block and do not pick up the phone. And I just want to find my soulmate ... It's like I'm abusing the ladies, but at the same time I'm thinking about how much they abused me back in time ... when I didn't have my home, my car and my situation. This is my problem, I feel some perverted pleasure, to go out with a woman 2-3 times, to pretend that I am serious and have an interest in a serious relationship, to fuck her in case she attracts me enough and finally suddenly to her block and do not pick up the phone. And I just want to find my soulmate ... It's like I'm abusing the ladies, but at the same time I'm thinking about how much they abused me back in time ... when I didn't have my home, my car and my situation. This is my problem, I feel some perverted pleasure, to go out with a woman 2-3 times, to pretend that I am serious and have an interest in a serious relationship, to fuck her in case she attracts me enough and finally suddenly to her block and do not pick up the phone. And I just want to find my soulmate ... that I'm attracted enough to finally block it and not pick up the phone. And I just want to find my soulmate ... that I'm attracted enough to finally block it and not pick up the phone. And I just want to find my soulmate ...
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Hmm, I don't know. I never look for men from Tinder, even if I liked them a lot, because I know what this application is for. Apparently you attract and like desperate gold diggers and old girls without self-confidence. PS, I am 31 years old.
You are another consumer, nothing more, no self-respecting woman will pay attention to you. Consume yourself at will - today you will use women as rags, but tomorrow they will use you and there will be nothing to complain about - this is what you give you will receive
Hahah, kefish! Now the women will jump your corpse, but you don't listen to them! Live your life and hopefully find a woman who will be able to make you part with your bachelor life:) ... but even if you fail, health. Once you live! M40
You are generally wrong in your search. If you are looking for a soul mate, then you are looking for someone like you - a countman. She can't be a counting woman, because she will consume you once or twice and that's it. M
The situation is a bit similar for me ... I am 32 years old. It annoys me how easily most women let go. I can't get into a serious relationship with a woman who lets me go on a first date. I just have an internal obstacle. I want there to be a little thrill and teasing, not so easy. Things to cut me, but also things to give me on a first date. Just keep looking, I do. And allow yourself to go out with younger people. When you are 35, you can go out with a woman at 25. You are looking for a serious girlfriend, in my opinion, sex should be in second place. I try to do so that I do not want to live alone. Otherwise, the period 30-40 is the age at which we are most wanted as men, respectively, and our sex is easiest.
The wheel is spinning dude, you're on top today, you're under it tomorrow. You think you are very turnover, but then you will look for these women. You are no different from a pretentious evil girl.
Haha, well man you have a problem with yourself. I'm a woman and I don't use tinder, I wouldn't use it, and any application at all, because it's full of freaks and emotionally crippled, and also because I don't have a problem with live communication. Otherwise, I want to emphasize that I'm not annoyed or angry with you or something like that, that you go out with women just to use them for sex, because in the past you were hurt or something like that you said right ... and at the same time you want to come across a woman with whom you want to have a serious relationship, and she also wants a serious relationship with you .. you are very sad about the situation, it is not at all for ridicule or malice, or for jumping 'corpse' / this word even for the first time time I hear it /. And I hope you make an effort to meet women in places other than tinder or, for example, some nightclubs, because in these places the chance to find the woman you are looking for for a serious relationship is super insignificant, to say the least. Otherwise, one thing I did not understand - why did you post this topic - to get comments like number 3? Or critical comments from women? Or both? What's the point, seriously? As I said - it is very important to solve your emotional problem. You are neither the first nor the last person to be hurt, underappreciated, etc.
If you want to be serious, be serious. The first time you may not like it, but the second time you may not like it. Of the 18 women, it's a little strange if you don't have many requirements. When you don't want them to watch what you have, cover it up, but don't you really think that they only want money?
From the author: No, I didn't tell it to kill women. And for me, what I'm doing is not right, but I'm already on the line and it's hard to let go. And I, as a normal person, want a family and a serious relationship, but from a woman with a level. Unfortunately, those with whom I came out of this application so far were good-looking, but hopeless and mercantile personalities. For me, a woman of 30, who has not placed two stones on top of each other, cannot have claims and expectations of a model or singer. And they're easy ... god, how easy they are. You also write 2 days of general stories, invite her to a meeting, take her with the polished car, put on your expensive watch, branded clothes and expensive perfume, take her to a restaurant, talk sweet stories, you are even a little secretive ... you send her. You're not looking for her the next day ... She's looking for you herself in 2 days ... you're inviting her home ... and now it's clear only when she sees a cozy home does she take off her thongs. So how do I take such a miracle. After all, tomorrow someone with a better car, clothes and home will fuck her in the same circus way. Cheap .. ridiculously cheap and naive. But I keep going. I'm looking for someone to refuse me ... it may impress me, but so far it hasn't happened :)
from the author, to number 2 Look now, I have not met self-respecting women for 35 years. And when I did not have opportunities now. I met women who respect how many photos from exotic places you have on your Facebook profile, how many likes you have on your selfies, how expensive a car you drive and what lifestyle you have. Yes ... there may be those who hold on to their self-esteem, but they compensate in this way for their not very beautiful features! :)
I don't agree that there are only people in Tinder looking for sex. I've competed with three, because I liked them so much, this is the good thing about the application, that you can't write to any people, but only if you like each other (for this purpose, put a description or a link to something describing you), so ... these three, one of whom is an actor, the other makes short films, the third is a street artist (he paints on buildings, but not graffiti). We haven't had sex, although there is no lack of desire on their part, but I just want to communicate and I said it, and it didn't stop them from talking to me, so it depends on the people. The author wants the woman to be at his social level (good family, education, quality work), to be beautiful and good in sex, to be a dude, in short. There is such a woman - me :-D, joking aside, not common, adequate and aware people of both sexes, but women ... there are a lot of vicious and ugly, and inflated, I'll even post a topic on the subject, because I'm puzzled, what is this combination. Author, there is another point that if you have realized some things about life, the creation of family and friendships - will not be a mandatory element in your mind. Maybe you are aware of things on a conscious or subconscious level and therefore do not feel missed? I don't think anyone should feel 'inferior', 'empty' or 'crazy' because they haven't (or don't want) a family, or because they don't have a lasting relationship with certain people, be it intimate or friendly. . Of course, it depends on what attitude the person lives with - if he is with a consumerist, robotic, disrespectful spirit and soul of the person, then ... it is not good, but if he consciously chooses not to start a family, not to have connections,
Mega bad! I don't know who binds you so much, but as I read "this luxury, that luxury", "my car, my apartment" ... I drift. A selfish, self-centered egoist who thinks he is something for material gain. Cheers and stop looking for a soulmate that no one believes you.
Ahu ihu and finally quietly told the people. You are not the first youth, soon you will not find pleasure in the one-day days and at the same time your interest will fly away quickly and you will never be calm and satisfied. To go in love, as in many other things, you need perseverance and devotion. But alas, you lack them and you will be very unhappy
Complex work, you will most likely be left with only the home, the car and the situation. But I still wish you to find your master
If this life satisfies you - go. But it is incorrect to deceive the other person. As it is incorrect for you to be deceived. Think about it. ж30
It is a pity if these are the men of Bulgaria as the author and number 3, and the women who are dumb enough to pay attention to you.
I've never used this app and I guess I'll never have to, BUT I can't figure out why you're looking for serious connections this way? What serious woman will sleep with someone on a first or second date? Call me a moralist, but I only sleep with my boyfriends, and I define them as such after a time of emotional attachment. And I'm not lying, I'm not looking for gifts, always non-standard places to get to know a character. My first meeting with my current friend took place in a small confectionery of Tolumbichki boza, and we are over 30.
You claim that you are looking for a soulmate and only offer sex on a second date. So what do you expect to happen to you with this mild behavior?
Don't cut your hair - what you say depends on the point of view. It can be said that they also fucked you, and not the other way around - in the end, it is the woman who has the last word whether to have sex or not. If I am looking for a serious relationship, I will not sleep with a stranger on the second or third date, because then the man, even if he had some interest, will lose it. If you are looking for a soul mate, try to get to know these women before sleeping with them. Otherwise the cause is lost.
In Tinder you may have to write down your salary, how much you have in the bank and what properties / cars you own. Then I think someone has the best chance to tie.
Not that anything, but how do you afford a luxurious lifestyle with a good job (for a salary)? Unless you're a programmer, and a rare specialist, but then I can't imagine being such a downloader.
Well, keep up the good work and you can stay single up to 50 :)
Spin these numbers and be sure that you will remain a bachelor
You seem to be pretending to be a clown. And when you wake up, two fingers in contact and .... you know. I think you're lying like a rascal, dude. First, this site is unlikely to include successful Donzhuanovtsi ... Here is the place of knocked out by life people who share their failures. Secondly, I think the author may be a lady. At least that's how it sounds. :))) I can't understand, what do you enjoy playing fake topics ???
Unfortunately, it's exactly the dating sites, tinders, and I don't know what kind of people like you gave birth to. Consumers of people. Why not sleep with some 2-3 times and have fun beating her a jerk as thousands more are waiting for you on the site. What if you even play with another 50-100 in 2 meetings and bye the next one, then if you feel like making a serious relationship you will try the other 50-100, who will eventually write to you and go out on a date with you. Why don't you kill your complexes a bit, because they didn't like you once when you didn't have a car and money, but kill them, there are a lot of fish in the sea, you won't stay dry. It is very reassuring to think that you have endless opportunities for endless and numerous meetings. That why you need to dig deeper and look for a soul mate, that's why it takes time, getting to know, devoting time to one person. At some point, however, even if you want a soul mate, you will not find it, because you have already become a superficial consumer and you can hardly create and experience something deeper. Because you also become a one-dayer in the eyes of others, which is not serious, because she changes women every other day. If you think that you are above those women that you use and throw yourself into a great delusion, you are also one-day if you look at yourself from the side. But you live the fun, now it's up to you to leave this and that and they beg you for more meetings, only you fall much lower in the eyes of everyone, not just these women. which is not serious because it changes women every other day. If you think that you are above those women that you use and throw yourself into a great delusion, you are also one-day if you look at yourself from the side. But you live the fun, now it's up to you to leave this and that and they beg you for more meetings, only you fall much lower in the eyes of everyone, not just these women. which is not serious because it changes women every other day. If you think that you are above those women that you use and throw yourself into a great delusion, you are also one-day if you look at yourself from the side. But you live the fun, now it's up to you to leave this and that and they beg you for more meetings, only you fall much lower in the eyes of everyone, not just these women.
It smells like "I want to be". When you have a luxury life and you are 35, what is this age group 30-34? Are you stupid or did you not invent it in another way. It is normal for the group to be 25-30, not 30-34. The story is either embellished or the age group is 25-34, but only over 30 peck.
You look for milk at the pharmacy. Tinder is not a place for serious relationships, on the contrary. The attitude of the people there is different - like hammering and running. Where to find the right woman? This is a question of Get rich, at a level of over BGN 100,000. And just - good luck. Alas, not all of us have it. For example, I'm used to loneliness and I don't see any drama in that.
Up to 21. And why can't you live well from a salary, sweetheart. I understand that you only visualize businessmen and programmers, but there are others who earn enough for a decent life "from a salary" and I am disgusted by people like you.
to 12 And when you hate, do you feel better? In a sense, it became more beautiful or richer. You seem to be a horror, and you kill hate sets.
'I'm looking for someone to refuse me ...' - a person who refuses someone is more likely to do so because he refuses you. Have you ever thought about that at all? Well, you're great in one of your movies, so let's imagine the following: someone refuses you, you're so happy that this is part of the script, you keep downloading it. She refuses you again, you become annoying to her and she thinks about how to get rid of the annoyance. After a while you realize that you have been denied and start giving her psycho-attacks, that she will stay an old girl or I don't know what's there if she doesn't tie you up? And will you expect her to be tied to the old rubbing psycho-attack with the old girl? What if it doesn't tie? Then what? Are you becoming even more emotionally confused? And you are looking for friends like number 3 for example? You start to plus women on forums how many such and such .. well you have already started a little de. Let's say, that someone refuses you (according to your script). You keep downloading her, and she lets you go after she refuses (as in your script, right). And don't you think that after she refused you and then didn't refuse, in the same way she can refuse and then let someone else go? What if you didn't get it right away? How can you know that this is not a strategy either ;-) In a sense, because a woman lets you go right away, you think that she will let go of everyone right away ... Your logic is a bit murky. And think about it - some of these women you've been with have been with you, simply because they wanted you to satisfy them sexually, not because they rushed to coexist with you. Yes, it may be impossible to imagine, but at least try. And don't you think that after she refused you and then didn't refuse, in the same way she can refuse and then let someone else go? What if you didn't get it right away? How can you know that this is not a strategy either ;-) In a sense, because a woman lets you go right away, you think that she will let go of everyone right away ... Your logic is a bit murky. And think about it - some of these women you've been with have been with you, simply because they wanted you to satisfy them sexually, not because they rushed to coexist with you. Yes, it may be impossible to imagine, but at least try. And don't you think that after she refused you and then didn't refuse, in the same way she can refuse and then let someone else go? What if you didn't get it right away? How can you know that this is not a strategy either ;-) In a sense, because a woman lets you go right away, you think that she will let go of everyone right away ... Your logic is a bit murky. And think about it - some of these women you've been with have been with you, simply because they wanted you to satisfy them sexually, not because they rushed to coexist with you. Yes, it may be impossible to imagine, but at least try. that he will let everyone go right away .. Your logic is a bit murky. And think about it - some of these women you've been with have been with you, simply because they wanted you to satisfy them sexually, not because they rushed to coexist with you. Yes, it may be impossible to imagine, but at least try. that he will let everyone go right away .. Your logic is a bit murky. And think about it - some of these women you've been with have been with you, simply because they wanted you to satisfy them sexually, not because they rushed to coexist with you. Yes, it may be impossible to imagine, but at least try.
You judge for yourself that this is not right, you have asked people, they also tell you that it is not. You are not the first youth, there was time for life and indiscriminate sex. Do you want a family, do you work on it or do you take advantage of what happened to you? I am 27 and I would be with a successful man, at 30 and the next I would not think so much before sleeping with the man. But that's how relationships began, and since the women you've been with slept with you for so short a time, they were desperate. If you want to find a suitable one and not say that he is with you because you already have a situation, do not show it. Why don't you take the woman in question to a regular restaurant, take a taxi, sleep in a hotel. They will hardly want to sleep even with you, I tested the woman and as I have heard it will turn out to be true that her husband is looking for a light sex and a modest family.
Look now, it's good to have something to offer a woman, to show her that you are a successful man in life who has firmly taken the reins BUT it is a pity that you are only looking for cheap adventures for just one fuck and then to beat her jester and the next. I understand that you have been used by women and they have treated you badly, but this is not the way to give it back to them and you should not give it back to them - Life will give it back to them! The one who made fun of today, cheated, used with you and spat on you tomorrow you can see her at your feet - everything happens in this life. I'm not sure how true this story is, but your approach is naughty, you're not looking to find a woman for a serious relationship for marriage and children, but you're flaunting your money and gains and looking for some stray blood to do your thing. As you gather, you become one! As other women have said - You will grow old, you will grow old and you will be left alone - a bachelor alone, provided that you have the material opportunity to start a family. I am from Sofia and I am 33 years old but I do not think like you, you have a very depraved thinking. It doesn't matter what city you are from, but what kind of person you are. Money, Home, Car are important YES but not the most important! Don't be a mean consumer broken by women who try to give it back to them in some way. Look for your soulmate to whom you will wake up and fall asleep every day and night and with whom you can create a normal family, a woman with whom you will grow old. R. Home, Cars are important YES but not the most important! Don't be a mean consumer broken by women who try to give it back to them in some way. Look for your soulmate to whom you will wake up and fall asleep every day and night and with whom you can create a normal family, a woman with whom you will grow old. R. Home, Cars are important YES but not the most important! Don't be a mean consumer broken by women who try to give it back to them in some way. Look for your soulmate to whom you will wake up and fall asleep every day and night and with whom you can create a normal family, a woman with whom you will grow old. R.
Insult is written, it comes from Insult!
34 - I did not write this to offend you but to give you advice. Everyone forges his own destiny! R.
Author, you are to blame. First, if you want to find a soulmate, you're a little wrong with Tinder, but come on. 90% of those who have a profile there either are just looking for sex, or even don't want to, but just upload nude photos to boost their self-esteem. However, there are also interesting people who are worth meeting (I know from experience). Second, if you flaunt your luxury car, nice clothes and expensive home, you can't find a soul mate. Because such materialistic women will stick to you. You as a person do not interest them at all, do not think that they care about you and your problems, dreams, etc. They are only interested in anointing them with luxury and if they are lucky, to invite them several times to cool and expensive restaurants. So, don't complain. They don't take off their thongs themselves because they like you so much, but because they are blinded by luxury and money. So if you want a soulmate, invite the chicks to eat something in the neighborhood pastry shop and take a walk in the park. No cars and expensive clothes. If the girl likes you, you'll know it's because of you, not because of your wallet. And the most important. If you want women to respect you, you respect them. It's nasty and mean to block someone like that for no reason. If you don't want to see a woman anymore, say so. Behave like a man, not like a cowardly puberty. If you don't want to see a woman anymore, say so. Behave like a man, not like a cowardly puberty. If you don't want to see a woman anymore, say so. Behave like a man, not like a cowardly puberty.