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Backstabbing Friends

By redheadgreeneyes July 25, 2020 8 answers Last updated July 25, 2020

I'm a girl of 13 and shortly after we started school I had an argument with my best friend. After arguing with her, I started spending a lot of time with another friend. We became quite close with her. She is one year older than me. We had a lot of fun with her, we drooled, we were inseparable ... we just became best friends. Time passed and she changed a lot. I mean, he just started thinking about boys ... and not what kind of boys, but some "males" aged 22-23. She kept telling me every day how she wrote to someone. Sometimes I just started to think that she had become total blood ... Then she started talking to a girl in her class all the time. But she talked to her while we were both (in the shops) ... It was a little nasty. He ignored me. After a while, she suddenly stopped writing to me, calling me ... as if she didn't care about me anymore. I knew that girl in her class was her best friend now (I know because I saw them both). Somehow I felt betrayed. I lost my best friend - the person I could share everything I could trust for no reason. I just don't think she wanted to talk to me anymore ... she showed we were the best. girlfriends that she has me as such and appreciates me.

And suddenly he betrayed me ... After all this, I started to miss my old best friend. We've known her since we were little ... I don't know what to do to get her back ...; // I lost my best friend - the person I could share everything I could trust for no reason. I just don't think she wanted to talk to me anymore ... she showed we were the best. girlfriends that she has me as such and appreciates me. And suddenly he betrayed me ... After all this, I started to miss my old best friend. We've known her since we were little ... I don't know what to do to get her back ...; // I lost my best friend - the person I could share everything I could trust for no reason. I just don't think she wanted to talk to me anymore ... she showed we were the best. girlfriends that she has me as such and appreciates me. And suddenly he betrayed me ... After all this, I started to miss my old best friend. We've known her since we were little ... I don't know what to do to get her back ...; //

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hshshth answered · July 25, 2020

   Just don't have to trust anyone from now on! As for your old best friend, if you really want to get her back - look for her and talk, if she doesn't want to - just leave her, if she really cares she will come back to you! :)

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diamonds_sex answered · July 25, 2020

   You are 13 and you sound so childish ... Grow up! And what if the girl went out with another of her friends? Who are you to ban her? !! It is not your property! Girl, 14 years old

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lovebc8 answered · July 25, 2020

   God, the same story, how familiar; x .. My previous best friend and I were together 24/7; xx every day every hour ... we loved each other very much .. we were like sisters .. but after a while she changed as well he told you he started going to "batkovtsi" .. and he totally dumped me and then he found another friend like her and they just fit in great .. I stopped looking for her as she did for me and now let me tell you is great .. she was looking for me recently we met and there .. nothing more .. she is currently sorry but it's LATE! .. so with you .. don't worry at all this girl will realize what she is losing like my friend but it will be too late ..:) and about your old friend I dumped a girl we have known for 14 years because of this '' pickle '' .. so I think if you call her and say everything you feel,

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peniks answered · July 25, 2020

   Look, honey, it's all coming back. You have abandoned your best friend and now your new best friend is abandoning you. It must suck to hear the truth, but you deserve it!

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alex_denis answered · July 25, 2020

   I am 16 and I have been passed on by both boys and friends and I have already learned to have faith only in myself and my parents.

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checkmate101 answered · July 25, 2020

   it was the same thing for me! I met one of my class ... we have been in first grade together! but we stopped seeing her and I found something exactly one year older than me! so with me with the same story! my old best friend is angry that I have a new one, but that's how it happens! now she is gone and I am very sick! and with her we are inseparable!

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dawnshiny answered · July 26, 2020

   That's why I don't have a best friend.

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lily_jake answered · July 26, 2020

   that's how it is nowadays there are no real friends, they are all fake and while you think they care about you, they stab you in the back .. that's how it is nowadays :)