Recently, two young men in their 35s, who are fundamental opposites in character and lifestyle, have entered my close circle of friends. The first: He works in the financial sphere, as far as I know he is a regional boss. His income is about 7 bonas a month. But this is not obvious at all. He lives in a hereditary panel in Nadezhda, no car, goes to work on the subway. There is no wife, no girlfriend. He doesn't go on vacation, he doesn't buy practically anything. Just 12 hours a day. And he complains that the women didn't look at him, that his lower back hurt, that fatigue and stress at work weighed on him. And that he would prefer a simple job for 1000 leva, but to live happily, which was not the case at all now and he did not need the money because he did not know how to spend it. The second: The boy is not stupid, but sometimes he behaves like that. Works as a supplier, hardly makes more than 1000-1500 levs. But he is mired in credit. They bought a new home with their girlfriend and took out a loan for 30 years. Complete madness, because the installment is practically only interest and they pay almost nothing. All new phone, TV, all in restaurants. In addition to housing, there is also consumer credit. She cheats on her boyfriend constantly, constantly women, drunkenness and whining that the money was not enough, that with these salaries nowhere, etc. How do you explain such extremes and how do you find a balance between the two? Can a person caught in the trap of one extreme get out of it and get closer to the middle? In addition to housing, there is also consumer credit. She cheats on her boyfriend constantly, constantly women, drunkenness and whining that the money was not enough, that with these salaries nowhere, etc. How do you explain such extremes and how do you find a balance between the two? Can a person caught in the trap of one extreme get out of it and get closer to the middle? In addition to housing, there is also consumer credit. She cheats on her boyfriend constantly, constantly women, drunkenness and whining that the money was not enough, that with these salaries nowhere, etc. How do you explain such extremes and how do you find a balance between the two? Can a person caught in the trap of one extreme get out of it and get closer to the middle?
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I run away from such people! Perhaps the former would have a chance to recover if he found a job with less stress and began to spend time on social contacts and personal development. But they are both 35 and probably ossified a long time ago. I wouldn't waste my time trying to re-educate big men. Otherwise, where is the golden mean? In my opinion, when a person puts his money in the right place and does not try to take the cheapest, nor to spread outside his rug.
Half of Bulgaria is like the second type. Only to raise interest rates on loans to levels before the failed ECB experiment, there will be a mass plague.
the truth is somewhere in the middle - neither to live at work and just save every lev, nor to sink into credit and live beyond your means. It is normal for me to save between 10 and 30% of my income per month, but it also depends on how much the income is :-) There are always unforeseen expenses, repairs, illnesses. And vacations and travels are necessary, one must also relax and see the world, otherwise what does one live for?
". His income is about 7 vouchers a month. But this is not obvious at all. He lives in a hereditary panel in Nadezhda, no car, goes to work on the subway." And what do you want? To pour with Moet, in the back seat of his new Mercedes, dressed in Armani, while they drive him to the "ball of playmates"? Because I know a lot of lizards, snakes and dragons in the financial sphere. I know them so well that I guess this person is messing with you to "see the price" or "save you money." Your man must be talking about everything in different investments and no wonder he secretly has a few million, but he does not want to be heard, because in Bulgaria it is dangerous.
I am also 35, from Varna! I am not working yet, I will be looking for a job in the spring, because I have a diploma work coming up at the moment and I will defend it before the committee at the university! My work will be in the field of radio and television services! And I'm like the financial boss - I don't spend money on nonsense, I just don't have to and I don't have to travel thousands of kilometers to take some pictures! For the sake of some photos to grasp the whole way, come on, no need! And it travels for at least two days - a neighbor told me! I have an interactive TV, I go to free concerts, I shoot them with my camera, I don't just stay here! But in the winter I don't go anywhere! It has nowhere to go! And that supplier just passed - I have nothing to do with such - he went the wrong way! I do not lead a pub life, but rather a TV one! And if I have a boyfriend, I'll drive her like that again, only sex will be a bonus! , The last one before me mentioned what else a person should live for! Well, I live for television! During the holidays I managed to record and still record. shows and movies that excite me! Anyone who watches terrestrial and cable TV knows what I'm talking about! I will not advertise them, I only record what is interesting to me, which they will not repeat again! Or next year! I also watch movie series that are worth watching! This is from me! Male at 35 Or next year! I also watch movie series that are worth watching! This is from me! Male at 35 Or next year! I also watch movie series that are worth watching! This is from me! Male at 35