Hi, I'm a 17 year old girl. I have always lived with my grandmother because my mother has not had the opportunity to look after me before for many reasons. She would take me with her, but since she remarried her husband and did not want to look after children, I have been living with my grandmother for 17 years. I have always been grateful that she looked after me, that she gave me her money, that she was interested in me and so on, but things have been out of control for 6 years. She became critical and I don't know what happened to this woman, but she poisoned the lives of the whole family, my mother, her mother (my old grandmother), and most of all me. She insults and curses me constantly with names like - fool, miserable, whore, scoundrel, she even wished me death. He beat me up like a dog until a year ago, until I got tired of him, I poured everything out, she freaked out and so we fought, that you have no idea. I would never touch the man who raised me, but if you were caught beating your head in the ground, you would kick it. My mother can't even intervene, because my grandmother will leave me on the street and I have nowhere to go ... She has chased me from home countless times for no real reason, who knows what reason ... I have broken so many times from a roar and she doesn't even care, she comes and beats me again. I'm very tired of people. I don't know what to do. This harassment continues. A while ago we quarreled over another nonsense, because I had gone out for coffee, and you know, I have no right to go out, because she is not in a good mood and is not in the mood. From there began some threats that he would break me in a fight, turn me over. And when I ask her what I did, why she yells at me and makes me do nothing, she tells me to shut up not to answer that I have no right to speak. Tell me how to endure such a thing? I'm just really tired, I don't know how to act and how to cope! I just get upset all the time and I don't stop feeling sorry for myself.
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This has nothing to do with critical, it is at an earlier stage and there are definitely no such manifestations. This is a mental disorder, seek advice from Child Protection. They will give you the most adequate advice and protection if needed.
I dreamed it like a nightmare - I made a terrible mistake, and my grandmother turned out to be a secret world karate champion! And my bones are cracking!
When she is calm, ask her WHY she does it.
I do not understand how and why your mother does not interfere? !! And how, given that she has a child, will she choose a man over her child, damn it! It is not at all right for your mother to stand idly by and do nothing! Talk to her!
Up to 3 It's a little hard to tell him why he's doing it. If she has a mental disorder, and she almost certainly does, she may not remember at all, and if she does, she may hardly realize it. It looks like schizophrenia to me, I know because I have such acquaintances and I know what it is.
I don't know what to tell you. And my grandmother was sour and evil at that age, but we never got to a fight, look at the tears many times, but now that she's gone, she's over 70, she wonders to herself how she could have caused problems for such nonsense and admits she was bad. I know from experience that it is difficult to live with such a woman. The only good thing is that you are 17, ie next year you become an adult. I advise you to enroll in a university somewhere in another city and that way you will get rid of the harassment. And until then ... oh, good luck! I'm squeezing your thumbs and you shouldn't go past her, it's awful!
There are mental disorders.