I'm 15 and I haven't had a serious friend in a year. We finished quietly with him, then a boy dumped me and I became depressed. I developed trichotillomania (this is pulling my hair) and so it happened that I have to wear my hair constantly up, because otherwise it looks very ugly and my face looks completely different when my whole nape is in thinning hair and the back is lush .. you remember. Now that I'm alone, I told myself that I would make an effort to recover. I continued to play sports. I wasn't looking for boys until a while. I met one. Wonderful, amazing, perfect. Unknown neighbor at the entrance. I never dared to talk to him, and then all our acquaintances said nasty things about him, which are obviously obvious. With the constant wearing of my hair in a ponytail, I got a pretty ordinary look. But my face is beautiful according to people. I even decided to follow the example of a friend and no longer wear any makeup for more than a month. I have girlfriends who ... I wouldn't want to offend them, but ... I outdo them in some things (I'm talking about facial features). Is it possible for one of them to win all the boys just because the top of the swimsuit is full of a lot of material and because it is smaller and thinner than me, and there is nothing more in the face I have a tight body because of sports, but what to do, my breasts are very small. I'm already desperate! Nobody looks at me on the street because of my dull hair. And the problem is that those who look at me ... don't like me. Now you will probably tell me not to be with so many claims and criteria, but you are not right. Neither I nor any of you can FORCE someone to like - because "like" and "force" are not compatible units. I am both from a big Bulgarian city and I don't like anyone. It doesn't work even with friends anymore - they are very few, there are no boys in the company. I've experienced love twice in my life - one time to the man who dumped me last year (ie we didn't go at all, he just didn't like me). The other, a boy in my class who decided it was best not to do anything because of what others would think. I overcame both. The worst thing is this: now I can run to the hairdresser and invent either a wig or some attached locks (some complicated procedure), from there I can start wearing makeup, high shoes, etc. again. This is how I can go to the neighbor who makes my legs tremble and make his chin hang! But ... it's not me !!! You probably already understand the reason for my love failures. Beauty, which I have ... is not emphasized. And few have an experienced eye to judge a girl without a haircut and without makeup. And maybe the problem is in the behavior, you might think. What a behavior when I don't even communicate with boys anymore (except in class and with some who are just my friends)! Those at school don't pay attention to me, and I don't find it appropriate to push them. Since I would not post a photo in public, if a benefactor would like to see how I look and evaluate me as beautiful / ugly, let him leave Skype or some other type of connection (preferably the first one). Those at school don't pay attention to me, and I don't find it appropriate to push them. Since I would not post a photo in public, if a benefactor would like to see how I look and evaluate me as beautiful / ugly, let him leave Skype or some other type of connection (preferably the first one). Those at school don't pay attention to me, and I don't find it appropriate to push them. Since I would not post a photo in public, if a benefactor would like to see how I look and evaluate me as beautiful / ugly, let him leave Skype or some other type of connection (preferably the first one).
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I think you are a very beautiful girl;) The fact that you have developed this "disease" does not mean that you still can not find your prince on a white horse :) Be the way you are yourself :) Do not become like (not that I insult them) those on the street with a hundred tons of makeup, attached hair 19 cm heels, etc. : X I'm small and I'm not a great specialist in love, but I think that if he has an interest in you, things will work out! Good luck From a little girl :)
Well, I don't know how to help you, but here is a Skype - dimitar695, after which I will give you my opinion and see if I can help with something :)
So first of all, if he is interested in you, no matter you have make-up, long hair, shoes for 100 leva with 12 centimeters of heel, he is just attracted to you, love comes suddenly and it doesn't matter poor or rich, don't rely on make-up and heels but on spiritual beauty. .... it's just that things either happen or they don't .... BE YOURSELF AND LEAVE THE TIME TO ORDER THE THINGS YOU WANT
For the first time I hear about such a disease ... How can you allow this to happen to you, she was a girl ... She developed a disease due to some pergish.
Let me tell you, I experienced almost the same thing without the disease (sorry), after a while I found the prince (at least in my imagination) and now I'm happy, and as for the man from the block, be careful not to suffer later :)
..What can I say all the guys are crazy about a friend who does not have a very nice face and so crooked legs that with bent legs the ball will pass [my skype is anity_fykli4kata I will send you a picture to see what is called tastelessness ... then you will calm down :)]. So on the topic, why do you need a ton of make-up !? Be yourself now with make-up or without make-up, your good is good :) You can't be so bad without make-up or maybe It seems so to you, because you are used to make-up and so on. And for your girlfriend the boys look to have tits and a big ass just think about it | - (:)
The disease should not bother you;) Be yourself and do not care what others say. If you want, write to skype- way_to_go1
Natural beauty (without makeup, wigs, plastic surgery and similar nonsense) is the best thing. And you know - people who have inner (spiritual) beauty - it also manifests itself as external: the particular person is supposed to be "nothing special" (as an appearance), but in his presence you feel inexplicably good, he seems very sympathetic to you, and in general "live" looks much, much better than in a photo (or on the computer)! Shoes, make-up - discard these things, they are a kind of lies, attempts to deceive, to cover up the truth. The truth is not with makeup and powders. How long can you eat food waste that is harmful to your health, but is made to be tasty (through spices, additives, essences, chemicals ...)? You can but as long as you lose your health - you will spend the rest of your life in regrets that you have tried it at all. Falling in love is not "love" at all - once you live long enough and gain enough experience, you will understand.
Dear girl, you are very young - do you know how many boys and men will appear in your life. For makeup - why not light makeup that suits you and your age? I do not agree that the girl should not strengthen and emphasize her beauty. As for the disease - I have not heard and I do not know if this is irreversible? Isn't there a chance for your hair to recover? If not - choose a suitable hairstyle, and why not locks that will discreetly flatten the hair. It is important that you like yourself. It seems to me that at the moment you think it's you, that you're natural, etc., but you don't like yourself or not enough. Once you have self-confidence, this will immediately become apparent in your behavior toward boys. Free communication does not mean impudence and pressure. I am, as far as I understand, your parents' age. Once upon a time as a student, I passed for one of the busiest girls in the class. This was not due to my appearance - on the contrary. I was and now for my age I pass for an attractive woman. I had low self-esteem, I was absolutely passive and I was waiting for the prince on a white horse and I was generally stupid, as you put it now. After years, I gradually began to gain self-confidence and liking myself. I was free with men, which even cost me trouble because I couldn't get rid of suitors. And I was just witty, funny, and maybe a little flirty, but I always set boundaries when I had to. So don't worry - just be more relaxed and try to look good, and if you have good features and figure / it's a big deal that you are not like a folk singer / you will be able to achieve a stunning effect with a little effort. Success! I was and now for my age I pass for an attractive woman. I had low self-esteem, I was absolutely passive and I was waiting for the prince on a white horse and I was generally stupid, as you put it now. After years, I gradually began to gain self-confidence and liking myself. I was free with men, which even cost me trouble because I couldn't get rid of suitors. And I was just witty, funny, and maybe a little flirty, but I always set boundaries when I had to. So don't worry - just be more relaxed and try to look good, and if you have good features and figure / it's a big deal that you are not like a folk singer / you will be able to achieve a stunning effect with a little effort. Success! I was and now for my age I pass for an attractive woman. I had low self-esteem, I was absolutely passive and I was waiting for the prince on a white horse and I was generally stupid, as you put it now. After years, I gradually began to gain self-confidence and liking myself. I was free with men, which even cost me trouble because I couldn't get rid of suitors. And I was just witty, funny, and maybe a little flirty, but I always set boundaries when I had to. So don't worry - just be more relaxed and try to look good, and if you have good features and figure / it's a big deal that you are not like a folk singer / you will be able to achieve a stunning effect with a little effort. Success! After years, I gradually began to gain self-confidence and liking myself. I was free with men, which even cost me trouble because I couldn't get rid of suitors. And I was just witty, funny, and maybe a little flirty, but I always set boundaries when I had to. So don't worry - just be more relaxed and try to look good, and if you have good features and figure / it's a big deal that you are not like a folk singer / you will be able to achieve a stunning effect with a little effort. Success! After years, I gradually began to gain self-confidence and liking myself. I was free with men, which even cost me trouble because I couldn't get rid of suitors. And I was just witty, funny, and maybe a little flirty, but I always set boundaries when I had to. So don't worry - just be more relaxed and try to look good, and if you have good features and figure / it's a big deal that you are not like a folk singer / you will be able to achieve a stunning effect with a little effort. Success! that don't worry - just be more relaxed and try to look good, and if you have good features and figure / it's a big deal that you are not like a folk singer / you will be able to achieve a stunning effect with a little effort. Success! that don't worry - just be more relaxed and try to look good, and if you have good features and figure / it's a big deal that you are not like a folk singer / you will be able to achieve a stunning effect with a little effort. Success!
THANK YOU, PEOPLE! (: As for the disease - it has nothing to do with alopecia areata (hair loss caused by hormones, etc.), but something you do yourself ... Like biting your nails (which I overcame! THANK GOD!) She is recovering - recovering. But, apparently, things are happening slowly. Apart from being patient ... | - (THERE IS THE WORK THAT NO ONE WANTS EVEN TO TALK TO ME! For the contacts live I mean ... - The author.
well I can add to everyone it's time to be happy (from personal experience I tell you) I also had a lot of problems with boys, but somehow I managed and now I'm with my boyfriend of 1 year and a half .I understand what you are in head write to me on hrisence7o_95 I'm also 15 I think there will be something to talk about :)