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Beautiful Woman - Smart Man ??? How Does It Work ???

By fooodii8 August 19, 2020 50 answers Last updated August 19, 2020

I work in a large international company in Sofia. Good conditions, high pay for the country, highly qualified staff. Sometimes he went out with his halves and colleagues for a drink in the evening. It surprises me terribly that most of my colleagues have quite interesting partners. Of that type of well-groomed women with various improvements, and they are all about 25 years old, for me personally and natural they are still beautiful, they do not need hair, mouths, tattoos and the like. Appearance is not such a problem, but that girls are, to put it mildly, stupid. No general culture, did not study up, are interested and talk mainly about nails, hair, fitness, vacations and what they want and will do with their lives, but of this type of great talk. They often speak on a topic completely unprepared and incompetent, and somehow there is a confusing silence and we just look at each other. So my question is how does a man who has studied and already achieved something in his life get along with such a woman? What does this bring him? What are the two talking about when there is actually a difference in level? And do such relationships, family, children exist in time? Doesn't it irritate him, for example, that she speaks like a super expert on every issue, and sprinkles nonsense after nonsense and talks with some patterns?

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browneyedgrl36 answered · August 19, 2020

   Just because they're not literate doesn't mean they're not smart. Being smart does not mean reading quantum mechanics, but knowing what and how to do in your life to be good. Obviously, once they've caught up with smart, well-paid men, and once they can keep them, they know what to do. Their strategy has worked. The other thing to discuss is about parliament.

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queenwet_ answered · August 19, 2020

   You are obviously a woman and that is why you do not understand, but don't worry, I will explain the whole situation to you. There is a big difference in how men and women are attracted to the opposite sex. A man is attracted to a woman's body and her sexiness, for most of the time he is not interested in her social status at all. The man perceives the woman in an instinctive, pure, natural and natural way - as in the wild. The woman, on the other hand, is generally a creature who is mostly interested in social behavior and position, how the other members of the child and society perceive her and the man she has chosen, respectively. Therefore, women are usually greatly influenced by the opinions of others. They observe and form their opinion on the reaction of other women, for example, and repeat and copy their behavior because they want to be accepted by society. This subconsciously probably comes from the fact that they are physically weak and the social group gives them protection. Men, on the other hand, are physically stronger and more confident and more inclined to self-initiative and their own opinion and actions without attaching such importance to society, they are interested in individual action and man and measure its value in itself without attaching importance to social opinion. Hence the difference in the choice of partners. A man likes a beautiful female body and sex appeal, because subconsciously these are signs of health and good pedigree, he is guided by the natural instincts that are embedded in him. That is why for him a beautiful and sexy woman is a great partner, even though she may be uneducated, simple and with a low social status. What's more, it's probably the better choice for him, for the more a woman is considered to be something, the more difficult it is to communicate and interact with her, the more unpleasant and repulsive she is because of her increased ego and arrogance. A woman who has an opinion about herself, for example, that she is successful, has climbed the social ladder or no matter on what occasion she perceives herself with a certain amount of pride and a sense of superiority wants for her partner a man who is on a higher ladder in social terms or at least at her level, so she has the (deceptive) feeling that she happened to the right partner and didn't pass. When such a woman is alone and sees men in her environment, in her social position who are with women whom she considers inferior to herself in a social position, she is perplexed by the situation. Her way of thinking and saying that the higher up the social ladder you get to the better men you have to have access to and the opposite happens - men who want to have something to do with it progressively decrease and disappear. What's happening? Something is wrong. It happens that men and women have different perceptions. Men are closer to nature and the natural rhythm of things and women are more interested in social relationships, positions, environment, etc. Accordingly, for a man the social status of a woman does not matter much and is even negative, if because of this she has high self-esteem and expectations, for him the primary attraction is important. What happens to women who do not understand this and who have a social status? Well, it happens that in many cases they are lonely. Their problem is that they do not understand the way men perceive and that for the interest of a man they should not compete with other women in social behavior but in primary attraction. I hope you understand the situation.

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belykbro answered · August 19, 2020

   It brings him confidence, caresses his ego and maybe performs sex fantasies and fetishes. They have the chick that not everyone can have.

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mikerashid answered · August 19, 2020

   These are the so-called trophy wives, who serve only to adorn the ego of the man who attracts / buys them with money, excursions and other goods. Nothing more. They are only asked to be beautiful and, if possible, not to open their mouths much, because only nonsense will come out of it. The bad comes when they turn 30 and their most valuable asset starts to lose value and is accordingly replaced by a newer Barbie model. The man also lost his job if he lost his ATM function.

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temptalia answered · August 19, 2020

   My people, all kinds, and in general in big companies there are a lot of brainwashed people who imitate characters like "the wolf from Wall Street". Personally, I do not tolerate such women and I have never tolerated. I don't even like being at the same table with them. By the way, I also work in an international company, I earn very well and I am in a high position, but this is simply not my environment. I'd rather drink a beer in a friend's garage than waste my time with artificial people and dumb gatherings.

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ulissescostanarrador answered · August 20, 2020

   He didn't test her in history before he was. These women are one of the expensive items these gentlemen have. And they change them as they get a little older with a newer model.

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latincurls answered · August 20, 2020

   Ah, this is a common sight. Many men choose to have trophies with them, not real women. They want to have something to show when they go out, they want to have something nice in bed and so on ... But believe me, if you find a decent woman, you will get a lot more from them. They just don't want more. They have money, they have chosen to give it to women and they are fine. But unlike a normal woman, a trophy will not tolerate them penniless and without prestige :)

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nbacoby18 answered · August 21, 2020

   And I've been wondering a lot. Finally, I came to the conclusion of number 3. In the end, they have something more or different from the "smart" once they have won such a man. You may not necessarily be the smartest, but with something if you are unique and unique for a man ...

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jcxx9 answered · August 21, 2020

   I'm number 4. I remembered something else. It seems to me a bigger mystery. I have seen with my own eyes ugly, even ugly woman and by no means smart, but with a smart and prosperous man. Did they tell me how it works? !!

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hornycubmelb26 answered · August 21, 2020

   Off sorry, I confused the numbering and everything ... I came to the conclusion of number 1 I wanted to say.

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sorellaboutique answered · August 22, 2020

   It's like "my friend", he drank it :))).

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pinkbabykitty answered · August 22, 2020

   Number 1, please, are you falling from Mars because you don't know what the author is talking about? Haven't you seen the Zlatki, who don't know the capital of Great Britain. What do you mean, a smart man would utter such nonsense. You can't be smart if you don't have knowledge. If you don't have a general culture, don't count yourself smart. There are a lot of stupid women, as well as stupid men. Even most people are stupid on a mass scale. It's just that some of the stupid ones are beautiful. Whether with improvements or without, men like them. A smart man who is with a stupid woman obviously does not talk to her on highly intellectual topics. He enjoys her beauty, she gives him blowjobs and the man is happy. A smart woman often creates problems. You can't lie to her easily. And she has self-esteem, unlike the stupid one, who would tolerate a fight, as happens en masse. Many men love stupid women because they feel smart, they manipulate her and don't mind her sitting in the salons all day. It is enough for her to be true and they will make her a child. She will sit and watch him, I will become even more dull and ugly, because she will no longer have time to do her hair and make-up, and the man will find another fool to have sex with. People also love small puppies, beautiful and fluffy, with whom they live for years, take care of them, even though you can't talk to the puppies. It's the same with women. Pet cuddling. with whom they live for years, they take care of them, even though you can't talk to the puppies. It's the same with women. Pet cuddling. with whom they live for years, they take care of them, even though you can't talk to the puppies. It's the same with women. Pet cuddling.

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shy_girl_mira answered · August 22, 2020

   I think that the difference in the intellectual level of two partners, if it is serious, sooner or later affects the relationship.

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penelopesexy25 answered · August 23, 2020

   The woman looks at the bundle and the man at the toy.

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candyneya answered · August 23, 2020

   You may not realize that most are in a position to tremble so as not to lose the beautiful woman. She talks nonsense, and he wonders how to anoint himself and includes a comment that the fool would approve of. She has no time at all to think how stupid she is - he just shivers whether he will be able to convince her to go out with him again tomorrow or she will be "busy" because she is trying someone more interesting. And you think they are very successful. If their incomes fall, they drop them the next day.

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samclafin answered · August 23, 2020

   Relative. There are babes like the ones you describe who, as people, are very good, even naive, and want to be exemplary wives and mothers. Not all, but there are some. I even know one, she herself is worried about the fact that she did not study enough as a student. He has recently started reading various articles and books in order to improve his general culture, but has no desire for university. And for other women, the incentive in life is to be beautiful. There are men and men. Some want a beautiful woman, others smart, and still others good. Usually these are three different women because no one is perfect. The reasons for such a relationship can be many. Let's not forget that a person can be smart in many ways, some are smart at school, and others are excellent in life decisions. I'm not judging people who have math gaps, I'm judging those who are rude. Let your colleagues make their love decisions. They obviously have some reasons, at least that a beautiful woman knows how to caress the male ego.

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yosemitenps answered · August 23, 2020

   Apparently, almost all men love toy dolls, not women. That's why most people don't care if it will be completely silicone or partially silicone, the important thing is to brag that they have money to buy it. Maybe because in order to have money, they are always in the company around the clock and in practice they go home only to unload in the doll and take a bath. Painful, but a fact. And the dolls are "successfully realized" - sinking into the simplicity of the golden shelf, expecting to take it for the next use, but there are shiny things next to them on the same shelf :). Great success! But it stinks! Like the "prestigious" Paris brothels of the early last century, they replaced the fabulous palaces of the nobles. It's just that Humanity is in decline and Civilization is rapidly moving towards the cesspool. PS Too much reasoning, above all truthful, isn't it a moderator? This guarantees me not to post the answer, unfortunately :(

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pimenta1307 answered · August 24, 2020

   Up to 1 - Very deep. Facebook wisdom is in vogue today.

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awanpotret17 answered · August 24, 2020

   Sorry, n. 7, but some smart women get up for fucking too.

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laurenlapkus answered · August 24, 2020

   Let me express my opinion as such a man. And since it has to do with the comment, I specify that I am not a millionaire or a businessman, but just a worker, but in a slightly higher position and a decent salary for our country - what the West calls the middle class, although that in Bulgaria there is still almost none. If I have to be honest in the long run, I want a woman who is both quite beautiful and smart. But because it's not so quick and easy (I've found it, but I speak in general), and yet I clarified that I'm just middle class, not a millionaire, until you find something that really suits you in the long run, you prefer something temporarily. But since it will be temporary anyway, at least it's worth it and it's sexy. You will have a smart woman by your side for the rest of your life and she is more suitable in the long run, but you will find her smart and beautiful, not her. So at least until you get seriously engaged, why not have fun every other month with an empty-headed but hellishly beautiful woman. Even beautiful in that stupid way - with tattoos, with corrections, with all sorts of nonsense. Yes, it's stupid and superficial, but it's something different that you want to try. We humans are stupid at first, so why not indulge in stupidity while we have the opportunity. Cheap beautiful woman attracts in different ways. Somehow primal, wild, unbridled. A beautifully beautiful woman with class and mind attracts respect. The funny woman attracts in a playful and easy way. The gentle and feminine woman attracts in a way that will make you protect her and be her support above all. These are radically different experiences and each with its own unique energy. And last but not least, let's not forget that we are middle class, we are not creative and interesting people like entrepreneurs. Many of us were bison in the teacher until they became a well-paid middle class and began to be interested in more beautiful, albeit cheaper, women. This is somehow our revenge for the past, when women did not shave us for plums. Yes, here the ego and the complexes have their say, but revenge is always sweet. You say to yourself, "I may have been a mold once, but now I can wipe this or that." Let's not forget that people are by nature complex egoists, incl. and I, even the most successful in spite of all evolution and spiritual progress. The question is at what point this nature of ours will manifest and at what point it will remain dormant. until they become a well-paid middle class and begin to show interest in more beautiful, albeit cheaper, women. This is somehow our revenge for the past, when women did not shave us for plums. Yes, here the ego and the complexes have their say, but revenge is always sweet. You say to yourself, "I may have been a mold once, but now I can wipe this or that." Let's not forget that people are by nature complex egoists, incl. and I, even the most successful in spite of all evolution and spiritual progress. The question is at what point this nature of ours will manifest and at what point it will remain dormant. until they become a well-paid middle class and begin to show interest in more beautiful, albeit cheaper, women. This is somehow our revenge for the past, when women did not shave us for plums. Yes, here the ego and the complexes have their say, but revenge is always sweet. You say to yourself, "I may have been a mold once, but now I can wipe this or that." Let's not forget that people are by nature complex egoists, incl. and I, even the most successful in spite of all evolution and spiritual progress. The question is at what point this nature of ours will manifest and at what point it will remain dormant. You say to yourself, "I may have been a mold once, but now I can wipe this or that." Let's not forget that people are by nature complex egoists, incl. and I, even the most successful in spite of all evolution and spiritual progress. The question is at what point this nature of ours will manifest and at what point it will remain dormant. You say to yourself, "I may have been a mold once, but now I can wipe this or that." Let's not forget that people are by nature complex egoists, incl. and I, even the most successful in spite of all evolution and spiritual progress. The question is at what point this nature of ours will manifest and at what point it will remain dormant.

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bree_diana answered · August 24, 2020

   Men like to be easy and my experience shows that being a trophy woman makes you more successful among men. I am beautiful myself, but unfortunately also smart, which is obviously a problem. I worked as a model in Milan because I had to support myself for university fees and this attracts a lot of men, but when they find out that I speak 4 languages ​​fluently, that I graduated from Bocconi and run a large Italian company, they are afraid, so quickly I learned to talk about hair, nails and procedures and not to demonstrate my full capacity. As sad as it sounds, I live much easier, but not happier. It is a pity how confused modern values ​​are. As for the long-term cohabitation with such a lady, after the euphoria there is a moment of serious deficit in communication. Several of my friends are already playing the role of fathers,

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juqj20 answered · August 25, 2020

   It is an indisputable truth that almost every man dreams of a beautiful woman. And if possible, be not just beautiful, but breathtaking beauty. Of course, it would be wonderful to be beautiful and smart. But if he fails to find an intelligent and erudite woman who is beautiful enough, a hollow beauty is always preferable to a smart and slightly beautiful (or not at all). After all, if such a man felt the urge to talk to an intelligent woman, he could always do it with a colleague or friend without having to marry her?

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storybookcosmetics answered · August 25, 2020

   24, not that you are smart and beautiful scares men, but that you talk about it. Somehow it's not a lot of fun to talk about who speaks how many languages ​​and what companies he runs. It gets a little crunchy and too serious and stressful. It starts to look more like a business meeting than a romantic one and the emotion and charge is lost. It's like a bison telling you how many Olympics he's won. Not that it's not good to win them, but not that his whole life and conversations revolve around just that. So be smart and beautiful again, there's nothing better than that, but don't feel the need for everyone to understand how many languages ​​you speak. I hope I have been understood correctly and no one has been affected.

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fox_emma answered · August 25, 2020

   to 14 of 1: Are we even talking about "Zlatki"? I don't think we're talking about such creatures, but rather about average women - stupid, with a treated appearance and high self-esteem without coverage. Otherwise, as far as I understand from what you said, the smart woman will manipulate her husband, will not give him sex and will not want a child? Then what is a "smart" woman for a man?

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barrylawns answered · August 25, 2020

   I think this is about the type of men and women for whom love is a superficial experience, an addition to the "successful life" package. A successful, smart man who catches a beautiful but not-so-smart woman is calculating, has enough people in his life to satisfy his intellectual needs, and a woman does not have to play the role of a friend and interlocutor. At the same time, it satisfies his other needs - it attracts him primarily, makes others envy him, communicates with her with ease and he enjoys it. If she's good and listens to him, but still occasionally challenges him with her feminine outbursts of variety, even better. And it's not like he doesn't love her ... so everything's fine. It was said above that a woman's high self-esteem repulses a man. I do not agree. He is also repulsed by his confidence in his intellectual abilities. The man wants him to be smarter and more successful. A woman may have very high self-esteem, but this is accepted only if it is based on her appearance. But this is really just one type of people and does not apply to others. I know couples in which the man is smart, successful and beautiful, the woman is also beautiful, but not beautiful, she is smart, but professionally it is very bad and he supports her. People of all kinds.

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darshannetanel answered · August 26, 2020

   Sex, sex and sex again. If sex is at a level, we don't care if she's smart or can't tie two jokes crosswise. And starting with those scary smart women that men were afraid of ... I just don't know if you can see how funny that sounds from a man's point of view. A smart woman knows how to take down and keep a man. If the man runs away screaming / even though the woman considers herself smart / it means that once again the girl has overestimated herself;)

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erianton_ answered · August 26, 2020

   To number 11 In this case, the woman is either a rich heiress or has a good business, or they both have a common business that will suffer if they separate, or have an interesting sexual relationship like BDSM, personally I know men who are ugly women, just because they perform their fetishes. Of course, there are also sincere relationships based on feelings, where the two may seem incompatible from the side, but this does not matter to them, and is noticed only by people without work.

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smartmomzathome answered · August 26, 2020

   Things are simple. Your great colleagues with big salaries want to be thrown out, but they are neither rich enough nor beautiful enough to catch beautiful and smart women. They hold on to ostentation and therefore choose beauty, but in their situation it has to be combined with mediocrity and stupidity. As they say - for so much money, so much. So do not be indignant at what nonsense beautiful young women are talking about, but look at the level of their colleagues - they strive to be something more than they are. If their salaries are cut 2-3 times, they will be left without women (to be shown).

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tastemadede answered · August 27, 2020

   Is she beautiful or smart, is that the choice? Every woman is beautiful, even the most beautiful for a man, but if he thinks he doesn't deserve her, he chooses another. Whose criteria for beauty will we accept - our own or someone else's? So the question is a bit pointless - we ask someone else what we like and want. m34

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sheilathiggins answered · August 27, 2020

   Why does 'beautiful' mean 'stupid' in this thread? Only, number 23 depicts the types of women, everyone else, somehow by inertia, you think that a beautiful woman is equivalent to a stupid.

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yuliatagada answered · August 27, 2020

   And because they haven't made a good impression on you, you decide they're dumb. I do not agree, it is unlikely that your colleagues are so successful and it is unlikely that their wives are so dumb. And as for your question, they may be complemented in some way by such an intellectual difference. F27

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hititaliano answered · August 27, 2020

   I'm here just to laugh at the comments. Do not be surprised that there are superficial and light women, since there are so many men who seek to impress them only with professions, salaries and material things. My dear complexions, imagine that the money in your bank accounts runs out, what are we doing?

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suckablestudent answered · August 27, 2020

   Number 2 to 11 - In this case, the woman is actually very smart, because she does not seek to catch a "successful" man like most, but reunites with someone who is willing and without cunning and calculating creates a family. Then the person, seeing how loyal she is, strives to develop for the sake of the family and is happy with it. This prosperity comes because the two support each other and have started from the bottom. This cannot happen if she just wants to cling to him after he has "succeeded".

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michalemike answered · August 28, 2020

   What does a beautiful woman mean? Beautiful in the face or must have a beautiful body. If a woman is completely beautiful - from the heels to the top of the head, it is very rare for such a woman to be very intelligent. But let's say that we meet one and fall in love with her and establish some friendly relations, we will soon find that she is very capricious, has an extremely high self-esteem, which is uncovered and tries to control the relationship. . Not only that, but she doesn't want to listen to a reasonable opinion because she "knows" better what it's like to make the right decision. It is difficult to live with such a "knowledgeable" beauty, so a smart man will be satisfied with an attractive woman who is firmly on the ground with both feet. A good family is created with such a woman.

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cataleya_v answered · August 28, 2020

   The topic is old, but I can't help it. It is interesting how confidently some of the commenters distinguish and give definitions. Some were "doll women" and others were "real women." Have you ever thought that for these dolls "smart" and working on an equal footing with their men, women are far from the concept of "real woman"? Or would a man who can afford to support a family and has no complexes really prefer his "smart" colleague to a beautiful and gentle partner who can offer him something more? To the author - probably these colleagues of yours simply do not perceive women like you (successful, ambitious, working) as possible lovers or wives, but rather as colleagues, partners or friends.

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kenhung34 answered · August 28, 2020

   To me, the "smart" and the stupid are equally stupid. Every self-respecting man knows that. There are men up to the age of 30. They do not understand this and slip on intellectuals. What you call a "smart" woman here is actually a dwarf who has memorized two wagons of books, embarked on veganism, ocean conservation, magnesium in the body, and other such concepts, and thinks that others are primitive creatures, like her mission. in life is to make the world a better place. I have been with such women. After a month, the lack of common sense is clearly felt, and your cool intellectual conversations turn into pointless arguments, about which she still has no idea. She just keeps arguing because the relevant knowledge has become an identity for her. "Will you tell me if that's the case, And the man needs that, for the other he has beer and male friends. Come on, pour me the ones now

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geoguyinla answered · August 28, 2020

   Well, of course, a man needs a superficial, happy woman (bonus beautiful, sexy babe, with nice ts * ts *), obedient and easy to manipulate (against buying boots, a coat) instead of an intellectual who it strains him despite the Intelligent conversations between them.

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urdefs answered · August 28, 2020

   lol, 43, look, I'm not going to give you a single, because I'm sorry how much you foamed to write this comment. Look, you could just write that you want a woman to listen to you, to agree with you on everything, and to consider you a god - that is, to say outright what you want without explaining yourself for so long ... like ... us women;) And according to me, too, these so-called intellectuals, you were not really intelligent people at all, but just the most ordinary dwarfs (here you correctly defined them). A really intelligent woman just won't bother arguing at all;) If she wants to be with you so much she will seemingly agree with your opinion, and if not - she will just beat your jester. Besides, I think you're one of those men who doesn't have enough confidence in their own intellect. And, the two types of women you wrote to us about, and you talk about yourself, that they are practically with a single intellect, you are attracted because they are a mirror of the fact that you have no confidence in your intellect. For example, I was not a dwarf, but if someone like you gave me the tone of my thinking and my life, I would not last a day :) Here is some food for thought from me: - everyone knows how to sympathize, just not always WANTS to makes it. - if a woman REALLY WANTS to be EXACTLY WITH YOU, she will agree with all these opinions and decisions. (as well as a man, if he wants to be with a specific woman he will agree with everything about her) That is, if 2 people really want each other, they will compete with each other to make each other happy in every way. The truth is that most people, whether women or men, get together with someone just as much as they are not alone, and not because they really want / like the particular person, with whom they met. The saddest thing is that a lot of people don't realize it, or rather don't want to admit it even to themselves, that's why they suffer a lot in time. Put me a bad or good vote, or no vote at all. And I will not comment on the topic, because it is set in a rather stupid way. Everyone has their own personal vision of beauty. A smart person is also a very broad and extensible concept.

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drayblatche answered · August 29, 2020

   I'm 43, up to 46 "A really intelligent woman just won't bother arguing at all;)" But you got tied up and the argument started, right? Did you see exactly how smart you are? If you had been silent, I'm a complexist, aren't you ... I think I chewed your ego ... And now I'm sure again that you will want to argue with this comment as well. One thing to tell you. There are NO female philosophers. And there never will be. If you want to insult yourself, call yourself smart, claim that you can argue, call me complex, control-freak ... insult me ​​as you want. Believe me, you don't understand these conversations. If someone listens to you in admiration, they either really have a lower IQ than yours or just want to fuck you, but most likely a combination of both. Then behind your back he must be talking about how simple you are and bragging to his friends about how he spent you. I could put up with you for years. And I've done it with such smart people. Those beauties / dumb ones, I can stand them for at least one life. You must be the one who feels lonely, misunderstood and confused. Well, why not, since you probably forgot to be a woman first and foremost. As for my intellect, you women are the ones who constantly enter the competition, who is smarter, who is more beautiful, who has bigger breasts, whose child went to which school. If you can even measure everything best with numbers. Money, grades, likes, IQ tests, height, weight ... you have overwhelmed the world with your insecurity. Two MEN sitting at the same table arguing don't measure their fucks - that's why you don't become philosophers, and that's why your men think you're stupid when you get into an argument. Very often you belittle a situation (or a person!) To make another stand out without relying on logical arguments, without being able to tolerate criticism. I'll give you an example right away: try to tell me how insecure I am in my own intellect so that yours can stand out manipulatively. But nooo, you didn't argue .... that's below your dignity. You still haven't forgotten to mention what kind of men you like and tolerate ... oh, how feminine, as if someone is napping about who you are and what your preferences are. Then there was a cliché that everyone could sympathize, but they didn't want to because they had PMS. Why did I even waste my time writing all this .... it's as if someone is napping about who you are and what your preferences are. Then there was a cliché that everyone could sympathize, but they didn't want to because they had PMS. Why did I even waste my time writing all this .... it's as if someone is napping about who you are and what your preferences are. Then there was a cliché that everyone could sympathize, but they didn't want to because they had PMS. Why did I even waste my time writing all this ....

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uarunning answered · August 29, 2020

   Number 47 wrote things extremely correctly. Indeed, this is true for many women! Greetings and thanks for the frank opinion!

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pontiacmadeteetee answered · August 29, 2020

   Number 47, I wouldn't sympathize with someone like you.

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metaphor_ answered · August 29, 2020

   Every self-respecting muffin knows that he should open his mouth and legs only in the necessary situation. After reaching the retirement age of 25, it is replaced by a new model. It doesn't sound good, but that's our Mutren society.

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nastyysa6666 answered · August 29, 2020

   43 - they argue with you because you are not important. Everyone needs to let off steam and forums like this are the perfect vent. I will not even comment on your posts. People who generalize on the basis of 10-20 women with whom they have had a relationship in their lives have a dubious intellectual capacity.

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cieloazul_ answered · August 30, 2020

   Intelligence can be a relative concept. If, for example, the ladies in question seem stupid to you, I can consider you not very smart. Someone else might decide that I am at a lower intellectual level than him. One thing I can tell you for sure - love is much more than a comparison of intellect and knowledge. If the gentlemen in question have decided to be with these women and not with you, there is obviously a reason. Don't look in someone else's bowl.

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oscardleon answered · August 30, 2020

   I have a cousin who holds a very high position in an international company and has a master's degree from Harvard. I never saw him with a woman with whom you can say something different from everyday topics. I would be ashamed to see me with such girls. Moreover, he moves in intelligent circles. In general, the answer to your question is that men nowadays are cowardly and low self-esteem. If a woman at his level speaks and is rejected, she will become depressed and will not dare to hurt her ego a second time. Therefore, they prefer to have a relationship with unpretentious girls, who will be grateful that he does not beat them for nothing (as do the men in their rug) and will provide him with home comfort. I have a theory that such men are psychologically dependent on their mothers and are looking for a replacement in their future partner. In the case of my cousin, it is also valid.

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rola.ymmout answered · August 30, 2020

   The topic is extremely interesting because it touches on fundamental issues of female and male nature. My sincere congratulations to number 2. This is probably the best analysis on these issues that I have read. We just need to look around to see how true what is said. From personal experience I can confirm, every man will confirm it. His opinion may seem offensive to women, but in a very deep sense, it is not at all. The man simply explained the root of the problems of so-called "smart" and successful women and why they are often left alone and misunderstood in life. I also support numbers 43, 46, although it generalizes too broadly and irritates the female sex, as no woman or man in general would want to be perceived and think of himself as stupid. Women, understand that men attach almost no importance to your mind, of your social status and your financial situation. Because you attach great importance to these things, you automatically think that men do too. The only thing that matters to a man is the physical attractiveness of a woman. It may sound harsh and simplistic, but it is the pure truth. Of course, we men make the same mistakes with female psychology. An example of this is the delusion of many men that if they hang out in the gym around the clock and have a "perfect vision", without any other social and personal virtues, women will automatically start to "stick" to them. I wish it was that easy. For us men, a "smart woman with a perfect career and many pretensions" is the equivalent of a "low bald general worker (with a basic education) on construction" for women .... unless the woman is physically attractive;

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edisonflores1020 answered · August 30, 2020

   47 brother, you don't seem to live in Sofia. And obviously you are lucky to live in some kind of post-communist utopia. Come here and you will see what a great competition and measurement it is for us men. It is very clear that when you are in a town where you all work in the meat shop and you will all be friends.

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oliverbornercerda answered · August 30, 2020

   55 - I agree that a lot of men think that way, but you still can't generalize. Male-female relationships have different parameters in different countries and cultures. You cannot claim that because you and your colleague №43 have the same understandings (which is understandable, since you are both Bulgarians), all men from all over the planet think like you. This is very limited, you know. Do not judge everyone according to your own perceptions.

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transmania answered · August 30, 2020

   I'm 43/47 54, just hearing you talk about "levels" and it immediately becomes clear to me that you are a woman or a female derivative. This word "out of my league" came from the mercantile United States. Exactly those who poison the world with their stupid pyramidal, primate model. I work with a gypsy who has much more human dignity than many Bulgarians. I have also met billionaires who are arrogant and arrogant parvenu. Harvard means absolutely nothing, just a guild of rich autistic people with connections and contacts. And to speak 5 languages, you can still be as simple as a galosh and think that Budapest is in Bulgaria. Everything is INFINITE relative, just like the number 3. 14 and that scares women. The only difference was that in the past the woman trusted her husband because he was the ONLY one ... There has never been such a whore and here we are, we are all witnesses that light women are starting to have mental disabilities on a large scale 55, you will be surprised if I tell you that most of today's women do just that. You made a body, and see how the muffins will stick on their own. 56. I have lived in Sofia for 18 years, I currently live in one of the multimillion-dollar cities, brutally capitalist. I still know what you're talking about. But these boys are complex, precisely because they were raised by women and have accordingly become female derivatives. There is no morality in women, there are numbers and uncertainty, a protein-coin race. Alas, women's society has been given power and is now taking over. To everyone else for whom my image continues to matter, I will say that my profession is super successful abroad and ironically I win on the backs of women and their insecurity. And my car is a car and the salary-salary and the apartment and everything is decent enough for me not to be ashamed in front of anyone with a nose up and demands to heaven. Greetings to the only other normal women - hippies !!!!

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06michael6233 answered · August 30, 2020

   39, we do that we can't even pay for a prostitute :) And from the big job we become lonely and complex chikidzhii ...