Hi girl, I'm 17. In general, I will describe myself with long dark hair, I like to read, I don't smoke. I am a scholar, ambitious with big goals for the future, I have the company of close friends, I have serious relationships. In general, I feel happy, but at times I like to be what I am now .. I want to say that sometimes I fall into some thoughts and dramas and I want .. to cut my hair short and dye it blue for example or red , I want to hang out with someone in the disco and have sex in a toilet, I really want to get very drunk, to drill 5 holes in my ear and navel, to go with torn tights, to smoke wherever and whenever I want, not to I go to class and not worry about absences and the university and apologetic notes, people's opinions and everything. I just sometimes want to be that kid in 8th grade, yes I did these things then, I didn't care. I have now taken on the role of a purposeful and intelligent young girl who must not have a bad reputation and must be ordinary and normal. When I was in 8th grade I went out with a drug company, I did all the things I described to you and I didn't care, I quarreled with ours, they punished me, I ran and did all sorts of nonsense, but I was happy, I was naughty and then I decided that this is not is a time in life that I'm not mature ... and that I need to tighten up. Well, I tightened up ... now what Before, my boys were a one-day activity, now I'm a month and a year old. Those in my class see me as changed in a dull direction, like a boring early grown-up girl. Somehow now I can't be what I used to be, I want to be, but somehow my thinking on the one hand doesn't allow it if I do everything, what I have described to you I have the feeling that I will fail myself, my parents and my future and the only things that at least slightly touch the feeling of a kid and freedom are at parties smoking cigarettes, alcohol, driving a car with friends and from from time to time I change my hair color again, but not in bright colors. But these things happen outside of school, I'm at school like a book rat and I'm worried about the exams, I don't know if anyone understands me ... I want to relax and do what I want without thinking about the consequences ...
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It's best not to do this. I know that I start with the advice too abruptly, but after what you read - there is no other way. Now you're fine, you're on the right track ... Do you really want to repeat everything you did to have fun or something? You can achieve this, but not, by smoking cigarettes, drinking, running away from classes and all the other things that you will not achieve anything in the future ... And by gathering with friends (but not drug addicts, like those from the previous one) you class) who are intelligent, smart, funny, etc. Those from your previous class will not be "nobody" in the future, while you can be "someone" if you understand me exactly what I mean. Do you want to make your parents constantly angry and something happens to them (God forbid!)? Please, think over my words and do not do all this nonsense, because with them you will achieve nothing! Think about what you want to tell your child one day ... How did you have a good future or how did you smoke and run away from home? I hope I was useful! L.
Well, do something "crazy", but not too much. Something that will be for the moment, but will not have lasting consequences in your life - clothes, a single unexcused absence, and why not the hair (although I would not do something exactly with it, but everyone is different), smoke some and another cigarette, but be careful not to stumble. And most importantly - always wear and use condoms! But keep in mind that they are not a 100% guarantee of protection against pregnancy or disease. Beware! And be happy! :) Ж29
And don't look at what others think - think about yourself and your future! You will also meet people like you. Maybe at university. ;) Ж29
And driving a car with friends and alcohol, even individually, can get you in trouble, even life-threatening. Especially in combination! Thoughts. F29
You haven't grown up and you won't grow up until you are at least 30 years old. What you did before and you still want to do it speaks very badly about you. You talk a lot, but I don't see any signs of maturation. I think you will stay like that until I said 30, and who knows, maybe even after that age. Pity.
Maybe you go to extremes. One must be able to be serious and still have fun from time to time. But the ultimate frivolity does not lead to lasting satisfaction but fleeting happiness. Think about the breaks between discos, etc. How happy were you then? Because life is not a disco and with such habits you will not have stability and lasting happiness. Just one day you will be 40, alone and unwanted - you will not like it. Everything was much more fun for you because it was forbidden and which caused an adrenaline rush. Pure and simple addiction to a natural hormone that makes the experience more intense. The current direction you have taken is quite good. You can still afford to have fun from time to time, but certainly not in the same style as before. But your problem is that you don't value balance and calm as important things. You do not understand how you can be happy and balanced at the same time. You have to see things as they are - parties and discos were nothing more than superficial entertainment. You can still have great and wild sex in a toilet, you just have to relax in front of your boyfriend. Dye your hair - it will not interfere with your teachings, but it will not bring you any spiritual elevation. Ultimately, you decide what your priorities in life are. But think about the consequences in advance - seriously and deeply. Once you are aware of everything - act. Eventually you can make a compromise - study now, party later. You have to see things as they are - parties and discos were nothing more than superficial entertainment. You can still have great and wild sex in a toilet, you just have to relax in front of your boyfriend. Dye your hair - it will not interfere with your teachings, but it will not bring you any spiritual elevation. Ultimately, you decide what your priorities in life are. But think about the consequences in advance - seriously and deeply. Once you are aware of everything - act. Eventually you can make a compromise - study now, party later. You have to see things as they are - parties and discos were nothing more than superficial entertainment. You can still have great and wild sex in a toilet, you just have to relax in front of your boyfriend. Dye your hair - it will not interfere with your teachings, but it will not bring you any spiritual elevation. Ultimately, you decide what your priorities in life are. But think about the consequences in advance - seriously and deeply. Once you are aware of everything - act. Eventually you can make a compromise - study now, party later. Ultimately, you decide what your priorities in life are. But think about the consequences in advance - seriously and deeply. Once you are aware of everything - act. In the end, you can also compromise - study now, party later. Ultimately, you decide what your priorities in life are. But think about the consequences in advance - seriously and deeply. Once you are aware of everything - act. In the end, you can also compromise - study now, party later.
Well, wait, you can not only be a purposeful person, but also have fun. You don't have to be drunk and drugged to be the coolest at the party, on the contrary! Being cool comes from within. Do you have self-confidence and everything will be fine. Look at my set G29 wrote you good things. And for the hair - right now is the time to do your blue hair. Pamper yourself and have fun, but without hurting yourself! Do what you enjoy, but for your own pleasure only, not to prove yourself in the eyes of others. At the same time, learn your lessons and plan for the future. The whole point is to start earning money on your own after 12th grade and, in general, to earn well in a few years in order to cover your own needs and beyond! And those who told you you had changed for the worse probably felt it, that you have the potential for progress and they want to crush your desire for development ... because most likely they are not pushing and therefore, typically in Balkan they do not want anyone around them to move forward. Number 5 just said some nonsense, because at 30 you will rather be tired of drinking and smoking ... but the really scary thing would be to end up with a salary of BGN 500-700 ... think about it. And generally focus on that, not on the opinions of your classmates, with whom if you break up after 12th grade, you'll never see her again. And do not explain yourself to anyone, but report only to your parents while you are small and financially dependent on them. because at 30 you will rather be tired of drinking and smoking ... but the really scary thing will be to end up with a salary of BGN 500-700 ... think about it. And generally focus on that, not on the opinions of your classmates, with whom, if you break up after 12th grade, you'll never see her. And do not explain yourself to anyone, but report only to your parents while you are small and financially dependent on them. because at 30 you will rather be tired of drinking and smoking ... but the really scary thing will be to end up with a salary of BGN 500-700 ... think about it. And generally focus on that, not on the opinions of your classmates, with whom, if you break up after 12th grade, you'll never see her. And do not explain yourself to anyone, but report only to your parents while you are small and financially dependent on them.