Hello, everyone! I am a girl of 20 years. I have a serious friend, we have been together for 3 and a half years, but in the end things are not going well between us, we are constantly arguing .... I am annoyed because for him everything else is always more important than me ... He is still tired from work , he still sleeps, everything is more important than me ... I love him a lot, but lately I've been thinking only nonsense, that's what I want to know if I still love him or I just don't want to hurt him .. I've been in touch with another fellow boy for some time. I never thought I could contact another boy, we wrote to each other for a while ... we knew each other and we went out with this boy several times before. He is super nice to me and even keeps telling me,
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No, don't tell him about the other unless you want a scandal. Think about where the money for coffee and gifts comes from and that it's normal for him to be pissed off and you've been together for 3 years and the things he does can be just momentary. Also consider whether the problem is not in you and more precisely that you do not know what you want and cause scandals about small things
To do something, in my opinion, either no feelings or have decreased. So was I - a great love, a great thing, but there is another boy who liked me. He kissed me, pulling on me a few times, because I knew it wasn't right. The last time I left, I immediately asked to tell my friend my phone and asked to part with him, because I thought that if I let someone else touch me, something was lame between us. But the next day I was inclined to reunite with him, it seemed to change for a while, but then the problems were bigger than before and in the end I couldn't stand it and broke up with him. After all, I'm with the other boy now, I went out with him after I broke up with the other one and I wanted to see if it was just a hobby or I really liked him and when I saw him I realized that I had to be with him and that I would lose a lot. if I miss it. Think well, don't lie to your friend and realize if you have feelings or not and to whom. I think the only person who can understand is you. For months I did not want to admit that I was cold to one, but I was passionate about the other ..
I guess you kissed your boyfriend's colleague while you were in a relationship with him. Isn't this infidelity?
Offff, beee! Why are you with your boyfriend when things aren't going well? Are you waiting for him to dump you and then shed crocodile tears, because HE and you didn't think to end it? My, I have nothing to advise you here. These are the super stupid questions that anyone can answer. When you don't feel at home with him, just dump him and try with the other boy as soon as you have sympathy for him. Tell me, did it make sense to bother to write the story? Or was there nothing to do?
It's as if your relationship is over. So go ahead with the new boy. And no wonder your boyfriend has another, if he is still tired and does not pay attention to you.