Hello. I am a 16 year old girl, I am still a virgin. I'm very worried (I guess like most virgin girls) about how I'll look in front of my partner the first time. But there is something that worries me a lot - I have slightly larger (fleshy) labia minora, the big ones do not cover them. I ask men to answer me (and maybe women with a similar problem) how they feel about it. Does it suck Would it disgust my future partner? I want to know, because otherwise I would feel uncomfortable all the time and I would hate the thought that he doesn't like it. Thanks in advance.
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Nonsense! We enjoy all kinds! :)
I guess it's the same with a man, if he's small or big, if he has small or big testicles, men are also different down there. If you sleep with someone and you like him but there is another down there, what will you think? What will he look like in front of you?
Hello. You have no right to worry !!! And my girlfriend, the big ones don't cover them and they are a little bigger, but that doesn't bother me at all, it's even better, so that I can suck it, don't worry when the time comes. Good luck!!!
Thanks a lot to everyone for the comments, you calmed me down a bit :) Number 2 - I don't care what it looks like "below". Besides, I have no experience so that I can know what is normal and what is not. I'm not interested in that, basically the only thing that interests me about a boy is his mental baggage. Otherwise, which came: p
Well, you see, that's exactly what I was saying :), down there how it looks like someone is less important, it's more important to hold on to you and not only look at your appearance, but also your other qualities :)
I think so too, but I'm still uncomfortable, I'm worried about how the boy will react ... I hope he agrees with you.
I had a girlfriend with the same kind of flower. This did not bother me in any way, nor did it make sex worse. It is absolutely normal.
Operate them otherwise it looks nasty.
number 1 hahahaha :) Well, I have a big pussy but what to show no complaints ...
I haven't measured mine, but don't worry. The boy won't care. You are still young and you do not understand. He will look to you ....
Number 8 --- to operate on them ?! I would never submit to this .. I just wanted to seek opinions .. obviously you don't like it .. I was worried about whether it bothers men ..
Abe, number 8, why don't you shut up about the variety, aaaaaaaa? You like a woman to be like a girl downstairs, huh? CONGRATULATIONS! You have never been with a real woman! Hardly, however, do you realize what you have lost !!! I'm sorry, really! You are a lousy lover !!! I don't have to test you to understand it! In your place, with these pedophile tendencies of yours, I wouldn't open up so much!
And my problem is the same and when I read everything here I calm down well for the topic :)))
Hello, so I want to tell you not to do nonsense! Believe me, if he wants to undress you from the inside and wait, he won't care what your lips are like. Just be gentle and warm and the rest doesn't matter, believe me !! (some experience: P) / * ----------- Number 8 --- to operate on them ?! I would never submit to this .. I just wanted to seek opinions .. obviously you don't like it .. I was worried about whether it bothers men .. ---------- * / You're right !! But here I want to raise the issue of another topic to some stupid women, to the delight of the comments above I saw that there are probably no such people here who require men to be circumcised ... I think that such women are quite UNDEFUL !! !! As a woman has the right to be what she is, and this was decided by a higher intellect than us, up there, why shouldn't a man have the right to be what he is! ??!?!?! And some of you don't have it from a very early age, without asking them .... !!! ... But as people say, simplicity goes to people, but it is afraid of the intellect! :))) I wish you a pleasant evening / morning :) / Male, 26 years old, whole :)
Well, number 14, thank you :) I'm glad the men who wrote didn't have a problem with that. I understand that there are others with a similar problem and I hope the topic will calm them down as it calmed me down. Thank you all for the honest opinions.
Most men have no claim to these things!
Don't worry about it at all. I have the same problem before and I used to worry, but I saw that men don't even notice unless I notice! This is not important, it is more important to be with a person who has experience and who is kind for the first time. He must be gentle with you to predispose you, yet you will be worried! I wish you success and again I tell you not to care at all! On the contrary - accept that you are different from others and try to present it to men as something different, so they will have more interest (at least I think so)! I wish I was helpful with the advice! Bye and good luck !!! :)
And do you think there is a relationship between lip size and reaching orgasm?
Does it suck ?! That this is the charm of a dude.
Don't worry, it's very cool for small lips to protrude beyond large ones. yes I can suck them, and the clitoris if it's big even better. It is very cool.
I have the same problem and this also worries me a lot, but I have heard that girls with bigger small lips are narrower .. and I have been told that I am narrower .. calmly I calm down with the fact that whoever likes me will I like it the way I am and I will not pay attention to such small things. Also, some have normal small lips but on the other hand they have small breasts, I have big small lips and I have another plus - big and nice breasts :)
I have the same problem with small labia ... I haven't had sex yet because of this problem. I'm ashamed to show myself to the boy, I don't know how he will react. I can even push him away. what to do, can this be restored in any way?
I adore them. I like to lick them and play with them before sex. The bigger the better. You don't worry at all. Fuck you calmly. Forget that this is a problem because it is not. Nice first time !!!
Dear girls, I am like you. At first I was worried too, but then I saw that I shouldn't care. No one ever complained, I even had a friend who kept saying he adored them. This is an advantage rather than a disadvantage. It is believed that these women are more passionate in bed, and as for the size of the lips and reaching orgasm, judging by my friends who are with me and me, I dare say - to have a relationship. Older women are more sensitive and reach orgasm more easily. To number 8 to operate? Hahaha. In some countries they stretch them, and I will give money to reduce them. Stop watching porn movies and focus on practice. There is no dispute that you are not competent. But at least don't expose yourself when you don't understand.
This is great. I dream of such a woman. There's nothing to worry about. Only a pedophile will not like it. A man of 30 - success
R I have the same problem! And I'm ashamed, of course. Hey men don't you really care
I have a similar problem. But for me, only one small labia is bigger, the other is normal. Is this abnormal and repulsive to the boys?
GIRLS, DON'T WORRY THIS IS A GIFT FROM GOD, I AM 32 HAPPY MARRIED, BUT I WANT TO SUPPORT YOU AS A TEENAGER, SUMMY GIRLS AS YOU ARE AFRAID!
Men who have experience to say is it true that with bigger inner lips they are narrower?
There is no ugly ass for a hard cock. Be calm. And the shoddy cock is disturbed by the wave.
Hello, I have the same problem, which worries me a lot and after reading the forum I can not perceive it as normal. I think that this complex I will never experience and I feel very anxious during sex, which may prevent me from getting maximum pleasure from it. I beg for an opinion (mostly from men) !!!!!
I have the same problem ... one is bigger than the other and I was very worried, I even thought it was a disease, but after reading your comments I calmed down a lot. I had sex with a boy, I was terrified that he didn't react badly, we even keep doing it. Thanks a lot to the girl who was afraid to write on this topic as well as to the comments ... I am now CALM!
well, maybe he changes things very little, but he won't be so sick of me personally, he won't be the only one if he licks you, he may be sick :)
Cheers! I have the same problem with my small labia. They are bigger than normal and I am also worried about sex, but after reading the forum I was reassured that there are others with this problem. Well done on the topic!
- If the man is also his first time or he is also not perfect, he will also worry and it will not make sense to call for such nonsense. If he really loves you, he won't care, for him the important thing is that you like him:]] And since you are still a virgin, what are you waiting for: X Good luck!
Aesthetic correction of the labia minora Reduction of the labia Labial hypertrophy is a disproportionate enlargement of the labia minora with respect to the labia majora. Labiaplasty, also known as labia reduction (or labia rejuvenation) is a procedure designed to improve the appearance of the female external genitalia. The goal is to get a more aesthetic appearance of the genitals without adding ugly scars or disrupting normal anatomy. There is no universally accepted definition or classification system for labia hypertrophy. Generally, 3-5 cm is taken to determine the hypertrophy of the labia minora. Women complain of difficult hygiene - the secretion that stains underwear due to inability to retract the labia minora, discomfort with tight clothing, pain when cycling and other similar sports, catching the labia in zippers, or painful intercourse due to hypertrophy of the labia minora. Perhaps the most common perception is that the labia minora are too visible. Another indication for surgery is disturbing asymmetry. The operation is slightly tolerable, does not disrupt a woman's daily life and after 10-14 days can have sex. The operation can be performed after puberty, but a minimum age of 18 years is preferred. This procedure can be performed before or after pregnancy and when the patient is not in a cycle to reduce the possibility of hormonal effects and the risk of postoperative infection. Patients who report unsatisfactory aesthetic appearance, hygiene problems, chronic inflammation, painful intercourse, and tight clothing problems, are considered indicated for the performance of the procedure. Relative contraindications Reduction of the labia minora is relatively contraindicated in patients with active gynecological diseases, such as infection or malignancy. Patients who are current smokers and do not wish to quit temporarily or permanently to optimize wound healing may be excluded. Perhaps most importantly, patients with unrealistic goals or expectations should be appropriately advised or excluded from surgery. In Dr. S.'s practice, the minimum age requirement for surgery is 18 years. With very rare exceptions and relevant indications, parental consent and signatures are required. You may have this. I only have it on one side and so the big ones don't cover my small labia. (I'm 12) Relative contraindications Reduction of the labia minora is relatively contraindicated in patients with active gynecological diseases, such as infection or malignancy. Patients who are current smokers and do not wish to quit temporarily or permanently to optimize wound healing may be excluded. Perhaps most importantly, patients with unrealistic goals or expectations should be appropriately advised or excluded from surgery. In Dr. S.'s practice, the minimum age requirement for surgery is 18 years. With very rare exceptions and relevant indications, parental consent and signatures are required. You may have this. I only have it on one side and so the big ones don't cover my small labia. (I'm 12) Relative contraindications Reduction of the labia minora is relatively contraindicated in patients with active gynecological diseases, such as infection or malignancy. Patients who are current smokers and do not wish to quit temporarily or permanently to optimize wound healing may be excluded. Perhaps most importantly, patients with unrealistic goals or expectations should be appropriately advised or excluded from surgery. In Dr. S.'s practice, the minimum age requirement for surgery is 18 years. With very rare exceptions and relevant indications, parental consent and signatures are required. You may have this. I only have it on one side and so the big ones don't cover my small labia. (I'm 12) such as infection or malignancy. Patients who are current smokers and do not wish to quit temporarily or permanently to optimize wound healing may be excluded. Perhaps most importantly, patients with unrealistic goals or expectations should be appropriately advised or excluded from surgery. In Dr. S.'s practice, the minimum age requirement for surgery is 18 years. With very rare exceptions and relevant indications, parental consent and signatures are required. You may have this. I only have it on one side and so the big ones don't cover my small labia. (I'm 12) such as infection or malignancy. Patients who are current smokers and do not wish to quit temporarily or permanently to optimize wound healing may be excluded. Perhaps most importantly, patients with unrealistic goals or expectations should be appropriately advised or excluded from surgery. In Dr. S.'s practice, the minimum age requirement for surgery is 18 years. With very rare exceptions and relevant indications, parental consent and signatures are required. You may have this. I only have it on one side and so the big ones don't cover my small labia. (I'm 12) Perhaps most importantly, patients with unrealistic goals or expectations should be appropriately advised or excluded from surgery. In Dr. S.'s practice, the minimum age requirement for surgery is 18 years. With very rare exceptions and relevant indications, parental consent and signatures are required. You may have this. I only have it on one side and so the big ones don't cover my small labia. (I'm 12) Perhaps most importantly, patients with unrealistic goals or expectations should be appropriately advised or excluded from surgery. In Dr. S.'s practice, the minimum age requirement for surgery is 18 years. With very rare exceptions and relevant indications, parental consent and signatures are required. You may have this. I only have it on one side and so the big ones don't cover my small labia. (I'm 12)
if I have to choose, I would prefer normal labia without protrusions, period
I have the same problem, and I was worried, but when I saw that there were other girls with the same problem, I calmed down .. (I'm 14)
hey, dear girls, obviously the topic only excites us women. every vulva is different, don't worry! Men's penises are also different, but they don't seem to care. why should we worry and have operations? this is nonsense! I am a beautician and I see a lot of vulva every day - each one is unique, different and there is no standard for what it should be. it is important to be clean and healthy.
I am a man and I even prefer women with big labia and a big clitoris. But I'm 35 years old and so far I've only come across one, and probably those who don't like them come across them all the time.
I personally, when I see bigger labia, go crazy, I like them a lot :)
I have the same problem (I'm 14) and I'm very ashamed of it but I calmed down when I saw your comments .. :)))
There is nothing better than a woman with an expressive pussy, it gives a perverted sensuality ... It makes me stiff ... My friend wanted to have surgery and I was going to kill her ...
Hey, if you love each other, it doesn't matter !! And even if you don't love each other, it still doesn't matter - he will just have sex and have fun. Therefore, the controversy over nonsense. Everyone is born as they should be born, there is no error in the system above;) Read some passages from the bible and you will stop dealing with such issues. And worry about nonsense. And if there is a problem in life - you catch it and solve it - it is. But to the labia - they are not a problem. As I told you-If you love each other-there is no problem, he loves you and accepts you as you are, but if he does not love you, there is still no problem, you have already agreed to sleep with him- and that is his goal;)
I am 24 years old, I am beautiful, but this complex came out for me only 2 years ago, I have the same labia, they are big and what can I do. If one likes small ones, I should have an operation, but if the next one doesn't like them, and he wants bigger ones, he wants to enlarge them. This is nonsense to me, that's how the one from above created you. Just find a man with experience because the inexperienced who have slept with 1 -2 what they are and have seen that they have pretensions, on one thick on another thin long piece does it matter what it does in bed and the woman with small or large breasts with small or large labia if your fire will not matter. I slept with 3 and the sex was different with each one.
52 I thank you that you did not allow it, I enjoy such men without pretensions to female anatomy, such as
Pfffffffffff darling you don't care, and mine are big I want to tell you that so far I have not come across a man who complains, on the contrary, men get aroused by it :)) Get rid of various jokers without a gram of experience (various chick) ... You are beautiful, don't burden yourself with complexes, try to masturbate (if you are not) and you will feel the advantage of the big lips ... I am 33 years old. and my husband loves to watch me masturbate, lick me and watch his hard fuck penetrate me :) Fuck this nonsense, accept yourself as you are, and who said that big labia are not normal? Why aren't the little ones like that? I wish you success :))) Greetings Lilith
Here is a male opinion: Men easily get tired of monotony. (This is a proven fact in animals as well - for example, a boar is given different pigs and he always shows more interest in those he has not fucked before. No matter how smart we pretend, the animal in our country speaks and the men are the same. If your own wife is of one type (big / small) you long for the other, if you are single and have only been to one type for a while, you are happier when you finally come across the other ... If you follow my thought - if now I'll tell you what I like more, it will only mean what type my wife is :)
And mine are big. So what. Who does not like me to look after my work - I suffered from this complex long enough. And none of the boys I've been with have complained, so you'll be so calm. Even one said he hadn't seen them and was crazy. He was looking for me around the clock. Enjoy the good moments and judge well with whom to sleep - that's it. These boys, and there are girls who give vicious comments like having surgery and things like that - you don't care about them, because they can't see further from their noses, they watch porn where most of the stars have had surgery and they think everyone is. Yes, but no ... Whoever was created, although few people realize it.
I am 34 years old with two births 14 years ago. I did not give birth to huge children. They were even more petty. I had no tears and no stitches. I thought I was up and down with elastic connective tissue. I noticed that after the birth things didn't look the same but ... 2-3 years ago I lost a lot of weight. And suddenly those inside showed up? !! It looks like some have crawled out slightly. It's both funny and disgusting. If it was proportionate, it would be acceptable. But on the left side it is a little more relaxed and hides the other. That is, sometimes when it touches the edge of jeans or something else it irritates me a lot. Unfortunately, the operation is not in my pocket. And again I say mine barely give in I don't understand how women with older ones survive?