Hello. A friend of mine (male friendship), 18, has been wearing myopia glasses for two years. No one has laughed or mocked him for it, but he is a little worried about whether he will be able to find a girlfriend for an intimate relationship. I and other people tell him that if someone doesn't want him just because he wears glasses, then he doesn't deserve to be with her, and he seems to agree, but still. In addition, he has the advantage of being tall - 183 cm. Then he said that he considered wearing lenses, but not for that, but for other reasons. So my question, especially to the female part, is honest, how would you react if someone with glasses started taking you down Will it bother you that its appearance has changed somewhat and you will cut it because of this or you will not watch it? I, as well as my friends, incl.
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It's not a problem for me to wear glasses. I didn't even think it was repulsive once. F 21
Um ... you're the same subject who started the topic that he loves his friend, but he's short ... Now with glasses! And won't a hair from his ears grow by chance?
183 cm is not tall, this is medium height, he is over 190. I do not like men with glasses, as if he is short or thin. It doesn't matter if the glasses are cheap or expensive. The bad thing is that this person has health problems and does not see well. It is a problem for a man, imagine that we are walking on the street and someone attacks us, breaks his glasses, he does not see how he will protect us?
I don't care at all whether the man is wearing glasses or not - other things are much more important when choosing a partner ...
I am a 29 year old woman. In my student years when we met my husband, we were about 23 years old, he wore (and still wears) glasses. From our first meeting, he grabbed my attention. Apart from wearing glasses, he is also bald, but he has a shaved head, which suits him a lot. It immediately struck me that despite the glasses and the lack of hair, he had no complexes, he was always the center of the company and even joked with himself - how he was not dirty, how his head looked like an egg and so on. He is just a man without complexes who is self-confident. And honestly, he's handsome, with the right features, and his glasses make him look smarter. But my husband has always been a little vain about his styling. When he wants to buy new frames, he hangs out for hours and tries all kinds, those that will be comfortable for him and that look good on the shape of his face. We live in the 21st century. There is a wide variety of frames and lenses at the moment, so I don't think the glasses would endanger anyone. What infuriates my husband is that a lot of girls who don't have eye problems start wearing glasses just because of fashion. Your friend's problem is not in the glasses, but in suggesting that he won't go with the girls because of it. Let him be accepted as he is, and not worry. that he wouldn't go with the girls because of it. Let him be accepted as he is, and not worry. that he wouldn't get along with the girls because of it. Let him be accepted as he is, and not worry.
There are people who find it terribly sexy;) It wouldn't bother me at all that wearing glasses, it can even look better, and with this height, even if it's "well complicated" inside the head, it will be great.
My friend is wearing glasses. I have no problem with that. Before him, I fell in love with another boy who also wore glasses. In general, I look at the characters, the glasses do not bother me.
As a person with myopia for years, I can say that the difference in how others perceive me with glasses and lenses is quite large. We humans are superficial, there is nothing to lie about - you are also superficial, author, we are all. There are people who will communicate with me in one way as I am with glasses and in another as I am with lenses. I myself also change according to how others perceive me. With glasses I am more introverted, with lenses I can afford more. Anyway, well done to your man for thinking about lenses. The earlier you start them, the faster you will be able to adapt. I wear lenses everywhere except at work, where just constantly staring at the screen tires my eyes faster if I'm wearing lenses. When I first put on my lenses, I was in 11th grade, and when I entered the classroom, all the girls looked at me and started behaving, showing interest in me.
I have no problem. I will mostly watch how he treats me. However, if he is a full ass, both with glasses and without glasses, I will lose him.
But it's already 2018, every second person wears glasses ... what are these strange questions? : D
Nowadays, there are so many cool and sexy frames that even people who do not have a diopter buy to wear them as an accessory.
I used to wear glasses too, so just as it wasn't a problem for the people around me, it wouldn't be dramatic for me. I went out with two people with glasses, things didn't work out for us, but not because they can't see very well. Until she commented that they would attack them, they would break them for him and he would not see - it depends on the diopter. It can be / - 1 and without glasses it will not be dramatic for him to beat them. I had a deviation of almost 4 in one eye and still saw without glasses. I even worked with any technique without glasses, damaging them.
I am of the opinion that the glasses give a touch of sexiness to both sexes.
Limitations, young people so limited and what things they think they are ... I don't know. I remember ordinary people who do not wear glasses because it is ugly to walk with narrowed eyes. And I think of top personalities with glasses and intelligence.
It is not a problem for me. With glasses, without, everything melts. There are more important things.
I'm wearing glasses myself and maybe that's why I don't care who wears glasses and who doesn't. Even sometimes in company we are all wearing glasses, I don't pay attention at all. I used to have complexes because of them, now I'm so used to it that I don't mind who thinks what. And with the right frames, one can look very attractive.