Hello, my story is very long I will shorten most. At the age of 23 I have a child and a husband I am fine, I have been harassed by my brother he is 30 years old and has been harassing my mother since I can remember, my mother is abroad working there with my brother's father divorced when he has been about 2 years are not in a bad relationship. My mother raised my brother and I remember how she struggled to have something to eat and something to love. But my brother grew up when he was about 22, he started harassing my mother, he used to write, not before, but before he came, he used to shrink, and the last two levs ... He even reached out. Mom went abroad 6 years ago because we were very bad financially but my brother did not stop harassing me and her then stopped drinking but continued to harass for money ..
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Hello .. I have a cousin in the same situation .. At 32 years old. Your doubts are true. The aggression for money is an indicator. His mother is abroad, I send money every week, harassing and brothers who fled to another city because of him. You can't talk like a big man with the option of having a brandy beer and everyone listening to him. If they don't send him money, he barricades himself in them and neither a phone nor a lamp nor opens them, they are worried that he will do something stupid to himself or someone else ... he certainly smokes weed, but I don't know. The whole family has been warned to give me money. Tip increased attention and you can expect everything from him.
Your brother is in psych treatment,
A mature woman with her family, you look after your family and completely isolate your brother. Your mother is also mature and decides for herself what to do. She raised him that way, now she is reaping the fruits of that upbringing. It will be like that to the grave, or alcohol and drugs will make him tired, or he will make your mother tired, he will not become a normal person. A crooked tree is fine, but a crooked man is not!
Here your mother must act, not you. She turns off the faucet with the money and a restraining order, no matter that he is her son. In case of harassment, such behavior that spoils the life of your family, ignore and far away the person in question. It will not be good.
Your mother stops his money and issues a restraining order. If he knows where she lives abroad, she has to change her place of residence. She is safer than you. When your mother cuts it, it will be transferred to you, you must be ready with your husband. Restrictive and police every time he comes and for nothing in the world you will not give me money or anything. If he has mental problems and is arrested, it is very likely that they will refer him to a medical institution.