Hello, For years it has been the same. A man who claims to love me keeps lying and mentally harassing me. It makes me happy and then spoils my happiness. He ignored my personal holidays, insulted me at Christmas, ruined my birthday. He doesn't let me go out with girlfriends, he makes his friends follow me, he insults me all the time! He doesn't want to apologize to me in any way. There is a mania that I am cheating on him unreasonably! Please for peace and help! I feel neglected and humiliated. I tried to talk to him, to behave like him, to see that it was not pleasant, but it did not stop! He doesn't understand, he thinks I have no dignity and no right to take offense! He promised to apologize for my birthday and lied to me again! I can't forgive because it's constant! He is vindictive and I live in fear of what imaginary transgression will make me suffer!
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The solution is one and quite simple: get rid of it!
Get away from him.
Drop it, for example, sirens
Break up with him.
This one has a serious mental disorder. You will not change it, psychologists / psychotherapists themselves avoid treating them. Leave him, but he will either start to fall silent (for a short time), or blackmail you with suicide (bluffing, but realize his parents, if he reacts like that), he may start threatening you if it happens and you are afraid - take it out your restraining order and stop any contact with him, stop entering the internet space for a while, where he can find you. Imagine him as a small child of 5 years, this is his mental maturity, it's just more scary, because such behavior is not expected from a big man. And it's actually funny. But be sure to lose it, because it affects the psyche badly.
Start cooking him a piece. Buy a large lead weight from a fishing shop and inadvertently place it on its plate to stand for at least 5-6 minutes while the food is still warm. Then you remove the weight and serve it with a lot of obedience and feigned love. No smell, no taste, no color. Well, it will take you at least 4-5 years, but you will send it effectively to the other world. And at the autopsy, they won't even think about looking for heavy metals. If he is a smoker, even better for you, they will decide that he has smoked cigarettes. There is lead in cigarette smoke, so they wouldn't be surprised if they found lead in it ... And even if he wasn't a smoker, you poisoned him, the chance of being caught is about 2-3%. The symptoms of poisoning are different. In a few months he will start to lose strength, feel weak and exhausted. After that, a slightly gray line will probably appear at the base of one of the gums. Such a feature may not appear. Just keep going, listen to him, pretend to be submissive and be careful not to forget the lead in the dish and serve it with the lead inside. Even if he visits all the doctors in Bulgaria, they will not understand what is wrong with him. They will prescribe him a bunch of vitamins and food supplements to treat the symptoms, and only you and God will know the reason. Kill the nasty bastard, and by burying him, you can throw the piece of lead in his coffin, unnoticed, as a farewell gift to that world. Important clarification! If you see that you are losing weight too fast, slow down the process a bit, not to feel what is happening. For example, miss a few days, even a whole month. Lead is NOT CLEARED from the body in any way. He poisoned him slowly but surely. In ancient times, not one or two wives got rid of various garbage like that. It's cruel, but it's clean, effective and cool, you'll watch it writhe like a worm. Lead rots the whole body and affects all organs. In the end, he won't even be able to fuck you, he'll always be soft and he'll wonder what's going on.
Run away from such a person!