Hello, my wife recently gave birth ... It's been 3 months since then. I used to love playing with her breasts during sex. But now she won't let me. She says her breasts hurt a lot because of breastfeeding. The baby was squeezing her nipples a lot and she was in pain long after breastfeeding was over. Do you think this is really the case or is it lying to me? In sex he only gives me blowjobs, normal sex refuses and I am very confused. I don't know if he still loves me. And she used to love licking her nipples so much. I miss this thing a lot.
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If he gives you blowjobs, what more do you want? If he doesn't respect you, how will he take it in his mouth? You become big whims when it unloads you, everything is OK! And for the breasts, the baby can really suck hard and the nipples hurt, when he tells you, then so be it. But if she doesn't breastfeed regularly, her breasts may still hurt and she may get mastitis. If they are too tight, you have to squeeze them, otherwise it is dangerous. If there is a lot of milk, try to suck directly from the breast, it's great fun. But only if there is an excess for the baby, suck at will!
I'm not at all surprised by this topic. A man will never be able to understand breastfeeding. Man, it's not as easy as it seems. It's not painless, it's not without problems, it's not just breastfeeding and breastfeeding. It does not bother a mother to feed her child, but her breasts are already performing their real function and the change is great. Childbirth is not pleasant, but breastfeeding is a battle. Some babies don't want to latch on, they're bored. And others are so greedy that you wonder where they collect so much milk. In the beginning, colostrum comes out, not breast milk, it is thicker and is especially important for the development of the child's immunity. The first twist is strange, the breasts and nipples are very sensitive, and over time this does not change. Sometimes there are problems with collecting milk, there are things like lumps that you have to get rid of somehow. Expressing breast milk makes you feel like a dairy cow. Breastfeeding is nice because you do it for your baby, but expressing milk is just like being a cow. It hurts. For the first few months, you are constantly breastfeeding your bras and blouses, you can't control it. Your breasts are sensitive, but your nipples are even more so. Your wife gives you blowjobs because she wants you to be sexually satisfied with her. Because he loves you. At this point, the breast game forgot her, her breasts are currently feeding your child. Accept that her breasts are at rest for a while. It hurts her, she certainly doesn't lie to you. Oh, the birth is painful. You get a 10 cm opening and there is still a high risk of tears. Sometimes doctors cut the bottom so that it can be cut, not torn at random. You can't have sex for a while after birth. Even if you want to, you still can't, because sitting is not very pleasant either. I don't know what's wrong with your wife, you can probably have vaginal sex now, but this woman has been carrying your child for 9 months, giving birth to him for a few hours and breastfeeding him for 3 months ... show understanding to her, respect her. She gave life to your sequel. It hurts when she breastfeeds your baby, but she doesn't give up because your baby needs that milk. Kiss her for a long time, hug her every night, tell her that you appreciate and love her. You will have sex again and play with her breasts, it just takes time. because your baby needs this milk. Kiss her for a long time, hug her every night, tell her that you appreciate and love her. You will have sex again and play with her breasts, it just takes time. because your baby needs this milk. Kiss her for a long time, hug her every night, tell her that you appreciate and love her. You will have sex again and play with her breasts, it just takes time.
Yes, babies squeeze a lot, put your finger in the child's mouth and you will understand what it is about. Sometimes even inflammation occurs. Otherwise, I had a natural birth with 5 stitches and then it hurt for a long time, because I guess something had not been sewn properly. And your wife is hardly lying to you, talking to her, she may be overtired.
It is possible that they really hurt her. But there is a solution for this - a breast pump and the baby is fed from a bottle. And for you there will still be c. ц. Now another question is whether her libido has dropped, I have heard that it often happens after pregnancy. You have to be patient.
Respect your wife and don't act like a child, of course she doesn't lie to you! It satisfies you, even though she probably doesn't care, you're still dissatisfied. Breastfeeding makes your breasts sensitive, your body fucks, you don't feel like having sex at all afterwards. Do not look for a calf under the ox, but help and do not press it
Yes, it is completely normal and real for her breasts and nipples to hurt - by sucking the baby makes the strongest vacuum. If the woman does not express herself completely, her breasts swell and hurt. There are sores (ragadi) on the nipples from sucking, because the skin itself is not used to this thing.
You are very bad ... how will he lie to you !? Don't you know that they hurt a hell of a lot ?? It is perfectly normal for her to be in pain. Don't you know these things ?? How old are you? At 10?
Her nipples hurt, my friend. Try to pull yours as much as a baby pulls hers. From the vacuum it makes, they are filled not only with milk but also with blood. They become quite sensitive. I can suggest you to show her topics for such nursing mothers with sensitive nipples. There are silicone protectors and the pain gradually decreases. The other is that when she gets aroused, she breastfeeds and leaves. Some people like the taste and do not mind being drenched in milk. I can warmly warn you to be calm and not to show how nervous you are and that you are annoyed by the restriction. If scandals, nerves, anxiety start, it is possible to stop breastfeeding. Doctors and scientists have not yet invented a drug that can replace it. The longer she breastfeeds, the better for the baby. If he thinks that breastfeeding will ruin his bust, he is cruelly mistaken. Sooner or later the breasts sag and will not be like 18. To decide for yourself. The nice balcony / which she and you will see / or a healthy and nice child. And the fact that there are restraints in sex is in the head and only. Additionally, she is tired of getting up at night. Constant care for the child. The workload is great. Take it easy and things will work out.
It is difficult for me to imagine what kind of unfortunate person demands more from his breastfeeding wife, once the situation is clear. This topic stinks of fiction. If not, squeeze your testicles tightly one day and see if it will be pleasant to chew them. Maybe this will teach you empathy for your wife.
Wait a minute, these are temporary things, let your wife be fine, then I'll break you from sex!