Hello. I am a 12 year old girl. When I became a 5th grader, the class that I was in 1st, 2nd, 3rd, 4th grade disintegrated. I was moved to the next grade. I thought it would be better than the old one, but I was wrong. There are 10 girls and 20 boys. I have 2-3 friends and they are enough for me. All the boys are so lost and without any discipline. They swear and can't wait for even one of the girls to start swearing. I managed to pass 5th grade without bullying, but 6th did not. A boy who is extremely lost starts harassing me. He calls me offensive nicknames and treats me like "garbage." I know why. Because of my weight and I have a health problem. At 4 I was in the hospital because I had asthma and because of one antibiotic I gained weight. I am shy, non-conflicting and easily upset. This boy continues to insult me after him and the other boys, but not all. I complained to the class, but she did nothing. I do not know what to do. Should I move to the other class that has more girls or stay in this one?
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Darling, I was also a more closed child and the boys treated me too, insulting me like garbage, hitting me. 7th grade I couldn't stand it and I came home crying in our country, our people called the principal and punished them to clean the walls in the corridors by the end of the year. The harassment stopped, but they threatened to return it to me on June 15, so I had to take ours when handing out the notebooks. Then my anxiety played a bad joke and I failed miserably. which meant another year in with the people in question in the same class and they made a decision and moved me to the new school. I had 2 girlfriends there, but a former classmate was betraying one of my new classmates, respectively, and there I had a period of ridicule, at least there was no fight. 9th grade was also not easy at first, then 10-11 things started to work out and at least in this school I got a pretty good attitude from the class, I raised my self-confidence a little, I tried to rise in the eyes of the teachers and now I am a final year student at UNWE. The people who harassed me in my first school are now behaving well and we greet each other on the streets, but this happened about 4-5 years after we were no longer in the same class. Surely this boy will come to his senses, perhaps. So your options are as follows: You go with yours to the classroom and to the principal and insist that the person in question be punished or expelled from this school, you move to the next class. you move the next term to a new school. If it is really intolerable to think whether it is worth enduring such an attitude every day, children especially at this age are very cruel to each other, especially if someone is a little different from them, it is because they are not taught tolerance and respect for each other! Good luck in solving this problem and then write how it went! G. 22
With your mother at the headmistress's. If nothing happens - another school.
If I were your brother or friend, I would smear this one so that he doesn't dare to tease you anymore, my advice is to find friends from the boys in your city on Facebook, for example, if you can't be a teacher and tell them what this guy is doing to change him. physiognomy.
Don't worry! That's right, boys in puberty are like that. And this about the weight, contact the principal, parents, teachers to solve the problem.
Number 3 at one time this approach worked and it really had an effect. Granny, God forbid, she used to tell me how there was a boy in the class who was constantly harassing her and told her father about it. He waited for the boy in question on the street next to the school, caught him, lifted him in the air and told him, hey pickle, if I let you go, you will fall on your head and that's it. The woman in question no longer dared to tease her grandmother, this happened somewhere in the 1940s. However, now if you do such a thing, there will be a revolution, the parents of the person in question can create a problem, the children have become so impudent and mouths that they have nowhere to go!