So the story is as follows - I am in a new teacher for the second year and the first (last) I was very harassed. It wasn't gender, it wasn't the amount and nonsense written on the board for me, it wasn't fucking ... it was very bad. It was winter. They ruined my self-esteem. Spring came and everything diminished. Late spring came and until 30 I was not teased once. This year the story is similar. Autumn was gone, now recently (say 2 weeks) it has started again, but not like before. Last year was a group that they knew each other from before and obviously have each other. There are only two this year. They are the most failed people I know. Pure selanduri. No culture and respect for anyone. In the chalga classes of max, they shout, shout, curse the teachers, do whatever they want and all sorts of savagery. When a teacher writes them a note, they curse him and tell him not to do it, were doing nonsense. There are 2 floors down and up. Savages. But full. Today, for example, one shouted after spitting on the floor, "Pooh, who spat here, was, fuck his mother" in the most Seljuk way.
Everyone in the class hates them (except their group of de), because of them we are at the bottom in terms of success, we are the most hated class among the teachers. Last week, one decided to spit on my neck. I started to push him, I was going to stab him, but I shouted to myself "he spat on me, I will spit on him. I will fall to his level, but we will be even". And I did. He shouted that after a teacher he would beat me. At first I was startled, but then I realized, I knew nothing would happen. So he waited for me and nothing happened. The next day, Baia threatened me, and the other was with him. They both joked with me. I pull away from them, but they come after me. After school he called me and said he wouldn't beat me, but let's talk a little. And I knew he wouldn't dare. So after 1-2 minutes he decided to push me away from the road. I was confused about what was going on and only saw some stars. I realized it had started and we fought. He had locked me up and strangled me, but I hit him.
Apparently he sensed that he too would be hurt and let me go at the tenth second. The next day I was determined to beat him, at least give him back for the bruise. However, he showed me a telescopic baton and I was startled. Apparently he decided not to be equal, but for him to win, even dishonestly. He was joking with me and the other one and he, but I knew that if I answered them, I would fight with a stick. The next day we were divided into 2 whole classes because we have practice. I didn't see him beating me and spitting on me, but the other one hardly noticed me. He just asks me if it hurts me in the most human way. I told the class. She scolded the other garbage and they stopped. But this week they decided to fuck again. Yesterday, an attempt at a light slap by the one who went to fight me. Today, aiming with pennies last hour and various things at school. They break them and aim at me with them. Then after class I heard "let's wait for him" and then "we won't beat him". This is the biggest garbage I know. And they decided to fuck with me. I started boxing last year and they understood. It didn't impress them, they even fucked with it. Then they stopped. So fighting them is not the way out. I'm just going to get in trouble. If I call people, they will call me.
And I can't move because I'll have to take exams for another class or teacher. Besides, I don't know if they will accept me there either. The new ones are not very well received. As of this year, we have three new ones, by the way. I barely passed the exams. One looks very healthy, very smart, but with his female voice people can't take him seriously, but we're used to it. And he was harassed. I asked him how he managed to get away from them, he shouted I did the right thing, but they are a scourge and idiots. And in my place he didn't know what to do. We fit in with the other. He's a scary dude, and he's a little annoyed. He is already on the edge of his nerves. The third is not good and I do not know how it went, obviously lucky. He was beaten by harassment, but they are not interested in him.
Now they are completely against me. Everyone in the class, except for this group, where they are with them, but they don't do anything to me, have recruited them for me and the others, and for the sake of making fun of them, but also for what kind of people they are and how they behave. tey, prophylactically. So, only 5-6 people from the whole class are neutral towards them. The others are categorically against them. And they really are idiots, I'm shocked that there are such people. Everyone is outraged by them. What to do?
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Gather the whole class, wait for them somewhere, you don't have to beat them, but scare them. You may be making fun of them, let them feel what is on the other side. Be united and you will overcome them.
Hi, I've been in almost the same situation as yours for 4 years. First, try to find the cause of the harassment. Usually when you move to a new class it is very important what impression you will make on the others. If you are silent, too modest, without any self-confidence, you show weakness in front of others and they start harassing you, making you feel stronger. My life was a complete nightmare from 4th to 8th grade, always blaming others for what was happening. The leader of my class who was then was living for some kind of face and thought he was the biggest. He enjoyed everything he did then, I immediately caught his eye because I was silent and saw weakness in me and began to exercise physical and mental harassment against me, setting the whole class against me. These were not beatings, interceptions after school, quarrels, class parents and every time things got worse. I even thought about suicide because of him. He was my worst enemy, and I, with my childish mind, had thought many times to meet him in front of his block with a mask and give him back what he was doing to me. But every time I gave up for fear that someone would recognize me, he had stressed me so much that because of him I couldn't even find a boyfriend. I endured 4 years of harassment and many times I had asked myself why they do it and what makes them so happy to crush someone and I was able to find the reason for it, and it was myself.
My character was such that he was annoyed that I was silent, did not speak, did not fit into the team, and accordingly decided to harass me. When it came time to move to 9th grade high school, I decided to totally change myself. I started fitness, more coffee outings, I became more social and did my best to overcome the fear in myself. I went to psychologists and even with their help I even managed to become a manipulator. In the new school we fell with part of my former class and even the bully. Then don't ask me how I felt learning this news: D. But I decided to fight to overcome my old self. I fought for a complete change and I managed to achieve it. In the new class I was very talkative with the new, the old and respectively the bully in question tried to repeat things with bullying but it didn't work out.
They saw the change in me and tried again to lower my self-esteem by telling me that I would always remain congested. We once quarreled with the bully for not giving him a test, and he and the others were going to beat me after school. Then I countered him in front of the class and in front of the gentleman in history I said some things to him in such a way that he even became dumb and even someone started commenting (yes, brother, what's the point of fighting) and accordingly they gave him a mind and so he renounced his intentions. I started to communicate more often with the class to go out in the breaks after school and so I fit into the class. I had a lot of dialogue with the bully, if I hadn't done it he would have set the new class against me, but at least there wasn't much of a factor like in the previous class, but I was still fighting for change and in the end things turned 360 degrees. From my worst enemy, we became best friends. Nowadays, when we see each other, we even joke about the things that happened during the school years.