My child is beaten every day, and there is no one to intervene. The classroom does not interfere and pretends not to see. Today my child told me he couldn't stand it. He cried and did not want to go to school anymore.
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Go to the Inspectorate of residence and file a complaint against the school. You can also contact a child protection agency or a school psychologist, if any.
Turn to a children's pedagogical room or the social director, is there nowhere to complain that she is not doing her job, I guess that if her work is endangered, she will certainly pay attention to the problem
Is there a principal in this school ?! Give publicity in the media, this is a disgrace! Take action as parents!
I don't know what to advise you. When I was a child I was very calm and meek. No, yeah, and now I'm not where. :) But then it obviously irritated the other children and they came to me from time to time. Yes, but at one point I got tired and beat the tarot of those who beat me. The tactics from the American movies worked for me and I didn't regret it after that. Obviously, that's the way it is. Not that he didn't try to get that bastard back again, but. With a little diplomacy, things happened. I don't know if it is not a better option to tell your son which children are harassing him, to tell the principal you personally as a parent and separately to talk to the subjects in question who are harassing your son. But the problem is serious in principle . Um, if the principal has to call the parents of these children. And during this time, if you want, leave it at home for about a week. Think about it and discuss it with the child. Ralph
I remember two options, one is another school, which I think is the most unsuccessful, the second is to enroll him to practice some martial arts, if he is persistent and learns over time they will not be able to beat him.
is what you're for. go and push this class a little, and those robbers who are harassing him. when the class pretends not to see, you're for opening her eyes. you go to school and don't solve the problem, if you have to, go to the principal, and if you don't pay so much attention, which I don't believe, if you are persistent, then take your child's leave and move him to another school. eh I'm very angry like that, they beat my child what to do is how to protect him.
Enroll him to play sports, to raise his self-esteem. If there is an opportunity, let "sport" be a martial art. You will see how much this will change him, he will feel good, confident in himself and in his own abilities. man good, and in no case do not instill aggression, on the contrary.Even not only in school, they help in life.
MOVE THE CHILD TO ANOTHER SCHOOL! WHAT ELSE ARE YOU WAITING I DON'T UNDERSTAND ???? !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Move it immediately, I'm very afraid it won't work for me. But I am determined to move him, and if he doesn't, he'll study at home.
sorry but is he a boy or a butterfly my son was beaten in 6th grade but now he knows how to protect himself
better enroll him to practice some martial arts :))
This with martial arts is a very good idea. And also to move the child. But the child must learn to defend himself. Go to school ... or his father ... let him show you who's harassing him. Grab him and slap him twice, to startle him. Tell him to leave your son alone because he is badly spelled. You will see that after that no one will dare to tease him. And the child himself, it is important for him to protect him in such a moment. Talk to him. Tell him he has to defend himself. And directors, institutions, etc. is a boshlaf job for me.
I also had this problem in the ninth grade when I moved to a new school. True, many things happen in front of teachers, but in 99% of cases they just turn their heads ... ... which is not right! At some point in 10th grade, I got tired because the situation was getting unbearable. I stood in front of my class teacher and described the situation to her, making it clear that I wanted action to be taken. After a meeting attended by the class, the principal, my parents and the mother of the boy who was harassing me, things got better. After that, neither he nor anyone else imposed such terror on me. After the meeting, I found out why the other boy was harassing me - his parents were divorcing. I feel sorry for him, but I did not have to suffer for my misfortune. Moreover, I have nothing to do with it.
to 10: and as a boy what of it. Do I need to fix everything with a fight. In a white country like ours, things have to be done in a civilized way. Tell me at least how old is your child?
To number 10: Butterfly means "weak", and your son taught him how to defend himself, that is: to fight, you hardly taught him to sprint. So is this the way to raise our children when they beat you and beat you? Most likely the children who are harassing the boy in question have one parent like you.
what a parent you are after you send him to school where he is beaten!
There are many things you can do: meet the children who beat your child, hear the class version, file a complaint with the principal, talk to the parents of the bad children ... Did you do anything at all?
I am 15 years old and I was terrorized like that, but one sunny day someone hit me hard, I answered him many times and now no one teases me. Enroll him in martial arts. There is a children's pedagogical room. You go there and file a complaint against the school that you are not do the work.
and in my class there is the same thing I do not understand why they beat him so much they like it. Sometimes I have the feeling that he provokes them with his behavior, but even if they deal with him, I can't understand. Even some girls hit him. If I were in his place, he wouldn't last and I would leave. But also in others. schools have been it zn the problem is the fire in it is not the surrounding! It would be best to indulge in self-immolation then his 6 is more relaxed! I think so
Yes, yes, if I were, I wouldn't bother to enroll my child in martial arts because of that ... I would just make such a scandal that you have no idea that from where to where my child will be beaten haha .. the parent will I'm talking to the parents and to the class and to the principal in the end .. are these crazy parents don't raise their children do they know nothing about them I'm almost mad I would be !!!!!!!!
Shoot them all and put them Fuck GAZA.NASHETO In primitive society NEEDS cleaners, from time to time to provoke him to think about issues that are normally overlooked OMALOVAZHAVA.AZ am convinced that today's victims POTENTIAL tomorrow's abusers because of carelessness Universal .And WHEN WE HEAR ABOUT SERIAL KILLERS AND ANY KIND OF PSYCHOPATHS AND SADISTS - WE ASK HOW IT IS POSSIBLE ??? - EMI SO - AS WE CLOSE OUR EYES! - I SPEAK FROM THE POSITION OF BULLYING.
Move him to another school, don't let him study there. And for the principal or the class to intervene - what good will they stop beating him, but will they move with him to cafes, back and forth, to discos ... Your child will be alone and will close in on himself. He could commit suicide, so he moved him to another school. I am 14 years old, my skype is antonia.dimitrova96. If you have something to answer me, write to me;)
Write it down in aikido or karate, or some other martial art. by: antonia.dimitrova96 (skype)
If they do that to my child, they will blow up the purgatory! At number 23 the idea is not bad so your child will have self-confidence! "BOAT"
You can move the child to another school. I suggest you go to school and startle those who bully him. You can also file a complaint with the director. I am also harassed, but I do not give in to them and I defend my rights. Your child must assert his rights as well, otherwise he will always be bullied. My parents went to school many times, filed a complaint twice with the principal, but nothing helped. The only thing that helped was that I learned to answer these ************************************ * and not to give myself to them. You can also record it in karate. * Yasa
Number 4 is very right! !! !! How can one be annoyed that he and she are calm and shy and don't talk much to others. There is just some discrimination and I don't know what. Very stupid people and hostile, I don't know what these relations are.
To know the problem. The inspectorate will not help because they are a mafia! You can write a complaint in the following form: To the Minister of Education MN To the head of the RIE inspectorate ... To the head of the police station ... To the school principal ... from below you describe the case. Most likely, these institutions will not help you again (as they did not help us), but at least you will watch them.
My daughter was bullied in high school and she was left with some trauma and complexes, I would like to know what can be done in this case, because it is really a big problem, but I do not know, maybe a change of school, but generally people when women be responsible for the genes that you will bequeath to your children, do not think that with him (her) you will be comfortable, but whether he is adaptable and has qualities that allow survival in difficult situations, because alas, life does not caress the feathers
I was bullied in high school. I complained to the school principal, but to no avail. He said they liked me, so they did. However, I think that in this way the person simply washed his hands. So he allowed things to go further - they rummaged through my clothes and textbooks, threw them on the ground and in the trash, spat on my textbooks and notebooks, kicked me, wiped their shoes on my clothes ...
We have the same problem, with the difference that I talked to both the class and the principal, but with zero result. I don't want my child to become a bully, that's why I don't enroll him in martial arts. My only regret is that the Bulgarian school no longer costs anything. I think that in order to raise a child nowadays, you MUST move him, but not to another school, but to another country.
Self-defense is his mother! Find someone to intimidate those who are harassing your child. If you have to beat them a little, without serious injuries. As they have done nothing to them, so they will not do to you. If I am, I will make the lives of these shitheads black!
Are there any stories of a parent? That's why children fight at school. Because they have parents who do not let them teach their children to deal with their problems on their own. As long as there are such parents, children will never understand what normal communication is. Parents are not parents to fight for their children. And if the big brother comes and beats the bully, what example will you give to your child's children? Fighting is nice and normal, if they beat me, my brother will come again. The way is to talk to the child to talk for hours to discuss his whole problem. Why it can't handle its problem. Why do they treat him like that. Only is it the object of beating in the classroom and why, etc ... We all know the children in school at the moment are bad NO NO the children are bad and their parents realize it was people.
I was in the same situation and my advice is if it doesn't want to study there move it. Even if you turn to someone - this does not guarantee that they will stop beating him. Even more sure ... :(
Well, if you are from a minority and your son was "beaten" by force in this school, no wonder. I took mine in the neighborhood and now I have no anger.
The class didn't do anything, and what do you do?
I understand what you are going through, as well as your child. So I advised your child to make friends with children in the upper grades. When his classmates show their outbursts to him, he complains to the elders. I was in such a situation - trampled by my classmates. And I complained to the older ones and it worked out. It got better. Let him try too. If that doesn't help, go to the headmistress. If he doesn't pay attention, keep fighting for your rights until you get yours. Success!
I see you will condemn me immediately, but I say what I did. My son is 4 years old, a child beat him up in kindergarten and he no longer wants to go. we explained to him like this, he takes a gormit (a modern toy for the children), goes to the child, shows it to him and they become friends again, if he hits him again, he makes a fist and hits. Naturally, the children became friends and there was no hitting, which I'm glad he realized that the paint is just for retaliation. When I took it, I told the teacher the child's name, she called him and apologized to the little one for hitting him ... I know you will be against this comment, and against the fact that I taught him to fight, but I do not I want my child, a boy, to be a jerk and be beaten by everyone, and he to sit. I hope we have no problems at school, but for the minority: in our small town 5-6-6,000 inhabitants, decided to merge the two schools into one. And it so happened that at the moment in the corridors the gypsies say here are the Bulgarians, they take their money and even phones, they fight, make noise in class and many parents are forced to drive their children every morning 25 km in the regional town ... May now we become the minority huh? Except we don't get supplements for that ... Here are my reasons to make my child a BULLY
38, and you are a "bully" - you have taught your child very well just to defend himself. In addition, it is socially acceptable for boys to be more rude. One day, when he was walking outside with his girlfriend and a robber ran into them, at least he would know how to defend himself. My husband fought a lot as a child to establish himself in the neighborhood. Today he does not fight, of course, but he is self-confident, like a cocky cock among other men and therefore a manager of a large company - everyone relies on him and asks him for advice, commands them, but also gives them a sense of security and no one fired in the crisis! .... your child is not a bully, calm down - tell him to get better and not give up
HELLO! FIGHTING IS NOT THE SOLUTION! IF harassing me like this (I've asks bots WILL MAKE) MY MOTHER WOULD: 1 or petition 2. OR stand trial headmistress grade 3 or contact with the parents of these children intimidation class can take THE NUMBERS I AM 8TH GRADE AND I CAN SCARE MY CLASSMEN FROM 2TH GRADE UNTIL THEY GET RID (I'm not talking about a fight but about nerves) !! Personally, I recommend you to try method №3 if you can intimidate with a court and such things the class if not - try with the principal! :) by: Main Persona (tfa ne mi e imeto; d)
I don't know what to advise you, but I have a bigger problem. Last year my son was more violent than puberty and this year there is a lot of difference from last year. all the teachers who are also friends are uniting this year to write him absences to kick him out of class, etc. this year and the class is happy there are no problems but she also says that this boy will not finish this year is 9th grade I am single mother and I don't know what to do to others. school to send it because it is far away and I will not be able to support it financially advise me
№42 Even if a person wants to advise you, there is no way, because nothing is understood from what is written, from you. Your words have no chronological or semantic order. If your mental and grammatical abilities allow so much, it is perfectly normal for your son to inherit them and not finish ninth grade. It's amazing how you even finished it!
We have the same problem, the principal does not have a preconceived attitude towards each student in a different way, as he is commanded of course.
I had a similar case .... my close friend beat him at school, he was 7th grade and I was 10. We trained together a nice but calm sport. the pitch was perfect. he was like a little brother to me. I understood that he was being abused. I saw photos through the social network and videos in the box how they hit him, beat him, crushed him, hit him with the door. I raised the issue directly with the headmistress. I flew in with her. I also showed the video, which easily showed who the culprits were. then we got together with the team and crushed one of the bullies. NO ASSEMBLY HAS THE RIGHT TO HURT MY FAMILY. maybe it was a mistake and maybe not. but I felt perfect. the teachers rubbed salt on the culprits and the family, and we made sure they knew the little one was not alone. so immediately raise a scandal, demand a parent-teacher meeting, raise steam to the sky, get the child medically, generally did your best. then change his school and enroll him in a tolerant sport - such as martial arts, football, maybe an acting club - anything is possible. good luck!
If you had moved your child to another school to have his chestnuts cracked and then again in another and another ... You turn to a children's pedagogical room, if they don't do the job you call a big man (if you have to you will pay for one) to make their headlights red. I studied in 4 schools because we moved a lot and there is always someone to try what will happen if your gourd cracks. I called my brother, he beat them brutally and no one jumped on me for the second time. Then I grew up and took care of these problems on my own, and where I couldn't I called my brother again. If you take this paw to move it in case of any such problem, when it grows up, it will be very easy for everyone to do whatever they want with it.
There is harassment in all schools because the principals have been appointed since then and are involved, they have no mercy, greedy, vicious, ruthless and many other definitions. There may be a change in education when a mandate is introduced for all positions of principals in kindergartens, schools, inspectors and head of RIE
If I don't come to see them beating your child, let me go and beat them up. This is your child and no one has the right to tease him, and I was beaten, but I deserved it