Hello, I'm a girl of 16 and I'm going to ruin myself. I am writing my story for the second time, hopefully it will be published. This is a continuation of my story, which I write with tears in my eyes. Some classmates are harassing me. I used to be friends with a boy in my class, but we're not anymore because his best friend set him up against me because he was just hers. The two of them had started harassing me - insults, threats, scolding me and constantly making fun of me for being ugly and not being able to say "p". I was crying, I was depressed - I was ruined. Finally, my friends told my mom. She had lunch with the class and then the class threatened to expel them. They stopped, even the girl apologized to me and at least we got along with her. There was nothing for three months and now they just started again. I'm tired already, constant harassment and insults and I have done nothing to anyone - I have always tried to get along with everyone and still interfere with someone. I feel so tormented - it's mental harassment every day. I wanted to move, but my mother did not agree and no one understood me because no one was in my place. I want to escape from all this - and without that I have very low self-esteem, and the constant harassment kills me. If necessary, I will switch to an independent form of education, because of them I do not want to go to school, but in principle I study everything. Help me please! I want to escape from all this - and without that I have very low self-esteem, and the constant harassment kills me. If necessary, I will switch to an independent form of education, because of them I do not want to go to school, but in principle I study everything. Help me please! I want to escape from all this - and without that I have very low self-esteem, and the constant harassment kills me. If necessary, I will switch to an independent form of education, because of them I do not want to go to school, but in principle I study everything. Help me please!
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Besides finding a friend to scare them a little. If she was my friend, something would have happened to them: D
Ignore the oligophrenics, don't be silent - tell the principal, your teachers and parents, they will get bored at some point. If they are so stupid, move and don't let them crush you. Mergeous
Oh dear! If I could, I would hug you! You have to tell your mother that these have started again. Even if it's hard for you, show her this topic. You say you have girlfriends, that's nice. Are they in the class? Stay with them - when you are in a group, they will not dare to pick on you so much. But it's important to tell your mother all of these things - including that it's harder for you to learn. However, there is something else - usually by 11th and 12th grade such things as insults, etc. are becoming rare. At least that's what I noticed. They may get bored, but if it's the same school year, they'd better move. I wish you much success !!! Write what happened.
I understand you! I used to be harassed, mainly by a girl who turned the whole class and all her friends against me. As a teacher, they shot me with tangerine peels, waffles, and everything they ate, pushed me down the halls, and shouted insults in the street. Why? Because I was thin, skinny and exhausted with a still unformed body, I came from a poor family, a poor woman who didn't buy anything to eat at a teacher, I only ate at home, I didn't go to class meetings, I had no friends. Everyone was against me. When I became a 7th grader, I had an argument with ours at home, I was upset and that scoundrel at school started shooting at me again and insulting me. And then the curtain fell on me, I jumped up and slapped her in the face, and then I threw jesters and fists at her ... all the pain that was gathering on me then came out on her ... I was expelled from school at the moment, they scheduled a consultation with a psychologist, as if I had killed her, and in fact I had broken my nose and broken a few ribs, but since then everyone has respected me, no one has teased me, not even the new teacher. I had no friends and I graduated without friends, but at university I met great people who respect me and I even joke about it sometimes. And you, do not pay attention to the insults, everything in school one day remains a memory - good or bad, just a memory!
Try not to pay attention to them. If it doesn't work, talk to your mother again, explain how you feel, tell her to put herself in your place at least for a while and let her understand you. Ask her what she would do in such a situation and hopefully she understands you and makes the best decision for you. Try to talk and maybe he will take your side with your father and persuade your mother to move you. I understand I know what she has experienced on my back.
Why not move to another high school during the summer vacation? You don't have to put up with them for another 2 years.
If you see yourself as a good girl, that's why I'll tell you. Your problems seem big now, and years later, when you look back, you'll wonder why you broke your nerves. In the 8th grade, a Kalpazan woman threatened me that they would get together with her friends and beat me after school. What are they threatening you with? I was traumatized and did not dare to raise my nose, and for what? Do you know what I'm only sorry about now that I'm almost 24? I'm sorry that bitch didn't really hit me. It would work very well - to beat me, then to call witnesses, to get medical help, to complain to her in the Children's Pedagogical Room, then to call her back to the police and in the end to really exclude her. But empty fear then, because I was small and did not understand things. Not you, but they must tremble at you. And let them think about how to leave school or go on their own training. File a complaint against them - directly in front of the school principal, and if they attack you with physical violence - directly in front of the police. And their work will be ruined. But you have to take matters into your own hands beforehand - nothing can be fixed with crying, action is needed. Good luck
Look now, girl, I'm your age and I had this problem years ago. Believe me, if you move, it will not solve the problem. We know it sounds like a cliché, but ONLY ignoring it works. Another thing you can do is try to talk to them, they just need to understand that you are strong and do not give in to any shivers. These are people who have nowhere else to kill their complexes. And remember, sooner or later the same thing will happen to them, if not to them - to their children. Good luck and upside down !! I hope I was helpful
I read your story. I was like you too, they harassed me too because I was smarter than them and quite meek, I didn't create problems, and the teachers respected me. When I was harassed, only mentally, I stayed at school, but when I came home, the sadness became heavier and tears welled up. I felt helpless. What I want to tell you is not to talk about changing schools. First try to talk to the one who is harassing you, always a one-on-one conversation fixes the situation. If you don't turn to the school principal, no matter what you think about this idea, I think it's a good option, but only a backup plan, in case the first one doesn't work. The director will be obliged to intervene because there are rules and no one has the right to infringe on the dignity of another person.
This situation is terribly familiar to me and I know what to do. You are big and it is clear to you that harassment will not last forever. First, intimidation never works. Second - adjust mentally, automatically excluding their behavior and understand everyone is beautiful - just stand in front of the mirror and tell yourself how beautiful you are, because it is an achievement nowadays not to blame anyone. I don't know what style of music you listen to, but the gothic symphonies (as absurd as it sounds) help me, which are terribly soothing and sleepy - even my teachers noticed that. This is a period. Be careful with depression (it led me to the knife 2 times). Do not go to a psychologist, do not take sedatives and it is much easier and more effective to adjust yourself to life - nasty, monotonous and sometimes meaningless. I suggest you if you like to write - write your feelings on a piece of paper, draw them, sing them, dance them - just distract yourself. Just don't show that you care about anything at all and learn for yourself that nothing is fair. It is easier to ignore them than to respond to their stupidity. Set yourself mentally for everything around you. Be your own psychologist. It's not friends, but some of the madhouse, if their problem is in your "p". Don't take anything seriously. Good luck and don't make me worry about your condition ... Don't take anything seriously. Good luck and don't make me worry about your condition ... Don't take anything seriously. Good luck and don't make me worry about your condition ...
Hey, hey! Keep your head up! I was harassed by students and teachers, but I resisted and now I'm ok! Don't care about these, these are people who play a very small role in your life! Believe me, I know what it is! Don't let the disabled crush you. If you have them on Facebook - block them! At school, even if they insult you - these are just words, and they are not true !! Up, princess - don't let your crown fall! : 3 Good luck! ^^ Gwen
Thank you all for the positive and helpful comments. :) You made me smile. It's just that I'm such a person that I think about everything and the insult stays in my mind and deceives me. It's stupid, but I'm like that.
Hey. A year ago I was in your situation, and worse. There was a girl who was harassing me and I didn't know why, I hadn't done anything to her. And since I am not from a rich family, I do not have the opportunity to wear different clothes every week, she mocked me, set others against me. He kept shouting in the hallways that I smelled. And all sorts of other nonsense. I didn't pay attention either, but she kept beating me up in front of everyone. I felt humiliated, I was like a rag. I didn't do anything. Finally I told my parents, they talked to her. It turned out that he was afraid of them. And he stopped. Months later, I watched her roar constantly because of her bad treatment. My thought is that sooner or later everything comes back. Trite, but true. Heads up, everything will be fine.
I can't say "p" either, but I think it's cute. I am also harassed because I have pimples or I am tall and so they always have a reason. I know how it feels to think you're nobody, but don't show them weakness! If they offend, answer them. Don't let them crush you! If that doesn't work, talk to your mother or father. They will surely understand you. GOOD LUCK!!!