Hello! I am married and have only been with one person before my husband. For years I have had a problem during sex - slight burning and irritation. When I go to the gynecologist, I am told that I do not have an infection, then why do I feel discomfort in the first 10 minutes of intercourse and do not last long, so as to satisfy my husband, who ends quite slowly. I feel crushed and then it hurts and we have to break up. It is very unpleasant and my husband is angry that I do not want it. I don't know what to do, I can't pretend that I like it when my insides burn ...
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Maybe it's from a lack of enough moisture?
Yeah, number 1 is right! Have you tried a lubricant? It is possible that the reason is physical, but in my opinion it is purely psychological. I used to "swell up" with one of my partners and it turned out that everything came from my head. I bet it's the same with you. Are you sure that you give yourself with desire and passion or just so as not to offend your husband? To tell you the truth, he doesn't seem to be a good lover either, if he can't predispose you properly. Do not leave yourself speechless, share with him, he with you, otherwise no solution will be found! I wish you success and remember that the problem is most often "IN YOUR COMPUTER" (only with us - women :)))
Pain and burning during sex can be a symptom of inflammation, so it is good to share your problem with a gynecologist and he will examine you.
I had the same problem as you, I went everywhere and nothing until I understood the real reason for my problem. Problems with the bladder on precise retention, which leads to discomfort especially during intercourse. It may seem strange to some, but it is a fact. My advice is to do a urodynamics and you will understand if this is the reason. It's fast, cheap and easy and the result is sure. I was terribly depressed for a few years and I didn't even want to have sex, but now I'm ok. If there is something ask.
Thank you for the advice! Apparently either I have a physiological problem with hydration (because I have a desire, and my husband is a good lover) or some problem with the bladder. I will seek medical help.
I had the same problem until recently and changed my condoms. Now I use Durex Avanti which are not made of latex and after the second time the burning sensation disappeared and now it is gone. This was the advice of my gynecologist - latex allergy is not so rare. I was so hot before we couldn't have sex. At most 5-10 minutes to endure and we gave up. On top of that, it burned all day when I urinated. I searched many forums to find some advice and now I hope my comment will help someone :)
To add to my comment about Durex Avanti, I had no problems with hydration when I was burning, but condoms that are not made of latex also reduce the effect of rubbing for those who have problems with moisture.
Let me ask where did you find DUREX AVANTI in Sofia? Because I have been looking for a long time and they are gone! [email protected] - this is my email I will be very grateful if you help me! thanks in advance
Hello! I have had burning during intercourse for some time and I do not know how to solve the problem. I am 6 months pregnant. My doctor did microbiological tests and found nothing. He prescribed me polygynax and a cream for spreading, but it had a small effect and now it is the same. This burning is very unpleasant because after sex I feel discomfort for a long time. I have not had such problems before. I wonder if it's from pregnancy.
Number 4 and with this detention it is possible to pee during sex and orgasm because it happened to me more precisely during masturbation but there was no burning
"I had the same problem as you, I went everywhere and nothing until I found out the real cause of my problem. Problems with the bladder in precise retention, which leads to discomfort, especially during sexual intercourse. fact. My advice is to do a urodynamics and you will find out if this is the reason. It is fast, cheap and easy and the result is sure. I was terribly depressed for a few years and I didn't even want to have sex, but now I'm ok. there's something to ask. "And what does it cure, because my problem is exactly the same