Can A Happily Married Man Cheat?

   The answer to your question is DEFINITELY NO !!! Stop exposing yourself and offering yourself to the person, you fall not only in his eyes, but also in those of colleagues and friends. I have been the mistress of a married man for 6 years and I know very well what problems this man had in his marriage. I never took him down - on the contrary - he wanted me and chased me for a long time. Today we are happily married, but the initiative has always been on his part and I am 100% sure that he would not cheat on me - there are otherwise good secretaries, colleagues and acquaintances, but I am completely calm. Just accept that there are happy married couples and look after your life without exposing yourself like that another time. Immediately change your behavior because you risk your name and exposing yourself irreparably - even if you lose your job

   This is very low.

   ee, darling, you have quite a high self-esteem :-) men are not toys or puppies to take when you want :-) accept that you can't spin every man you want - somewhere the number passes, elsewhere - no. there is no woman who can take down any man. I don't know why you interfere with values, there can be many reasons why he doesn't pay attention to you: - he loves his wife - he doesn't want landfills at work (very justified) - he doesn't like you and many others. and attempts to describe his wife in a bad light do you no honor - the man likes her and when he stands with her, he obviously finds something. in any case, you'd better give up, because that's where you work and make your living. once he tells you "is there a problem" in front of everyone, he's obviously not interested in dumps, no matter how attractive you are. stop, or you'll look miserable running after him.

   First, don't comment and insult another woman. For him, she is perfect, and you are not, because, as you can see, she does not pay any attention to you. Besides, she's young, and you ... And I'm not saying that to offend you, but I'm really upset that someone is commenting on someone else. Some will consider you beautiful, others will not. Everyone with their own tastes. And no - it will not happen between you. You can see for yourself how he cut you off, and if he thinks that his wife is beautiful - just do not interfere, so as not to make any trouble. You don't want one day, when you are married to someone, to have him cheat on you ... I'm sorry that the answer is no Yes, but .... Are success further with the arcs M, 36

   I doubt you're as "pretty" as you describe yourself ... just understand that this won't open all the doors for you! Good luck

   How would you feel if your husband did this to you, because some hotbed can't find someone free? But in this life everything comes back!

   In my opinion, this man loves his wife and is unlikely to cheat on her. Stop taking him down ... he's already noticed that you like him and you're trying to take him down, and with the complete ignorance he gives you, he shows you that you're annoying him with this behavior. It seems that he will not cheat on his wife, or at least not with you.

   I agree with number 1. At least because of your job if you want to be fired then look you in the eye and whisper about what you are a hundred if the man passes you will not feel very comfortable and I would say that you will leave alone . Pretty rough meat to touch weak as an anorexic what she sees at 23 years old. Well, she may be weak, but the person who really loves her has something in her, a stoma for together and a stoma is true, the kind is not everything. Look, I don't pretend to be moral or something like that, I just don't deserve to complicate my life because of one sex hobby. to his wife and loves her. Don't be a bitch to lure him, cook some traps of intrigue, cheat just to have them. You don't know his wife and you talk so rudely about him. As much as you can't believe it, there are men who don't cheat on their halves. Please for God's sake do not spoil their family life, do not interfere in their happiness nothing bothers them from within that even plans and conspiracies make. You will complicate the lives of everyone and you, including a lot of problems, and it really is not worth it. Meaning I'm tired of dating once in a lifetime and what do I care that he has a girlfriend or that he is married I want to have sex with him who the hell, so you do not even have more serious feelings for him only sex and attraction. Be sensible if you dare to lose your job, the people there will understand to listen to any problems of another nature. There are a lot of sexy free men, let this man leave him, not a bitch, not a bitch, but a villain, because it is an evil thing to try not to seduce him, but to trap him. You didn't pee on a big woman

   And in what experience do you speak sexual. Dear, you think a little limited, the given person can be 2 years old, for example, but to have far more experience in life to have encountered all sorts of things and to be in bed thanks to his partners from previous relationships or his partner. Almost everyone looks at men, but no matter how much you believe, not all of them would cheat. Look, you're making a disgustingly nasty impression on me, I'm not going to pretend to be a judge or a moralist, given that when I was younger I got involved in various stories, dramas, good that nothing happened, but it's just disgusting I'm an old woman, I guess, and your thinking is like some spoiled hot teenager. If you really have some feelings and not just because of sex or some passion, leave the person alone, behave normally, do not seduce him, be a concubine, just talk to him normally and the quota will happen. It makes sense for people to get divorced and it makes sense to develop things the way you want, but not in such a low way. And one piece of advice as long as you insult their wives who are not bad people are not witches to say and so viciously say to them who are a hundred are how weak they are what she finds in a clumsy canoe and so on is awful and infuriates me malice and anger seem to me not so much of astonishment.

   I agree with your last sentence - "Your false values ​​will not please you in bed." The same goes for you. Your false aspirations will not bring you pleasure in bed. Or they will bring a maximum of one-time pleasure .... more likely with someone else :) On your topic - I have the feeling that someone wrote a feuilleton, it's so self-ironic in places. The young man in plain text has shown you that he is not only faithful to his wife, but you are not his type, and you continue to expose yourself. Yes, it must be a feuilleton, since as your indisputable plus you consider that you are older and fuller than his wife. Besides, she must be a gentle and pure soul, and that's what she likes. Apparently he did not die for the experienced and corrupt.

   And I really hate brats like you ... Where do you go to lie, given that the person is definitely not interested in you? I want you to hit a rock with him so we can see you then ....

   There are such couples ... and no matter how much you hang around this person, he just won't pass .... Apparently he prefers the 23-year-old "pliers" to you, impudent and probably older :)

   You're just disgusting! I loathe base creatures like you. As for the "23-year-old pincer" - you are angry at her, because obviously everything is what you are not! As for the places - let my sister tell you! Men like harmonious and tight bodies, cellulite buttocks and jelly bellies are revered only in Arab cultures.

   God! Have a little dignity!

   The answer to your question is yes, it can be unfaithful. No one is insured. But once he does, he will no longer be happy. So if you ask your question differently: Will he continue to be happy, a man who is happy in his marriage if he cheats? Here the answer is: no, no. You will all get into trouble, I understand that obviously when you identify a man, you want to have him at all costs, but what you need to understand is that this is your mania, and you hurt yourself by looking for happiness in the wrong place. . After all, you are a great person and you should be responsible for your actions and anticipate the consequences. You choose how you will live, but know that in addition to looking for pleasure, there are more important things like dignity. Pleasure at the expense of harm is not worthy.

   .... '' can a happily married man cheat '' ... yes, he can ... but what exactly is a matter of his own choice .... ZARA

   Anyone can cheat, even if they are happily married, but in this case they just don't seem to care about you, when a person has some sympathy for some it is noticeable, whether he is married or not, so if you haven't noticed he is interested so far and at least a little of you means you're just not his type of woman ... the phrase "Happy married" is just a cliché with which he wants to keep aside women who do not interest him ... :)))

   Hehe, you're great. One of those types of women who fit the definition of a "chicken." From the way you write, I understand that you have limited thinking. I'm not picky, it's just that everyone has the right to have an opinion on the new topic.

   I guess he can, but if he has a beautiful woman and loves her and is happy for someone to risk losing all this in one hour .... it makes no sense for one day to fuck his happiness

   I can only do a great thank you to this man. There must be more like him in this world to put overly believing women like you in their place. And by the way, I bet the "23-year-old anorexic" is 100 times cooler than you ... both in appearance and character.

   You don't seem to care about your colleague at all, but only about your own ego and unrealized sick ambitions to take him down. Accept that not all people are like you - with beetles in your head, and there are people in the world with a much higher level than yours! Happily or unhappily married - a man may have completely different priorities than drilling every roll he meets. He may even be gay, using his wife only as a screen for people - where are you in the scheme then ?! In short - forget it! Not to mention how ugly and vulgar your ideas are, seen from the side. There is a saying - do not do to others what you do not want to happen to you! And you are trying to do just that (and not only are you trying, but you are also dissatisfied and stamping your foot when it doesn't work for you!). Put her in his wife's place? Whatever it is, is a man after all - just like you ... Or imagine her being gay and look through his eyes how uninteresting, pathetic and impudent you are? Forget and forgive ...

   So, a lot of advice, most in one direction - do not. But people are different and in some it works, in others - no. From what you wrote, it is clear that the emotional connection with his wife has not faded, as happens over time ... You can not seduce him, at least while he is still in love with his wife. Remember that as many people as there are in this world, so many types of love, the general thing is that love is very strong :) I am writing to you only from my point of view and I do not want to be perceived as a corrector, I still have life experience ... yes , quite ... it also seems to me that you need to go out and meet new people, I hope they are nice!

   They all rebuke and stigmatize you like a witch in the Middle Ages, I bet they'll raise your stake in 5 minutes :) previous failed relationships, and perhaps rather rounded up, already disbelieving in positive emotions, in love as such, you rely on the more superficial things that can be touched and tasted. Yes, you have every reason to rely on them, they are more real than sublime words, which are often quickly forgotten, while good sex now and immediately is a good experience for the moment, right, the warmth of the partner's body is preferable. to the warmth of any emotion caused by the uncertain thrills. Well, you're right about yourself, I understand. But why are you obsessed with this person who is not interested in you? It's not a question of whether it's a high ball for you or not, but isn't there another person around who won't do the same job for you and willingly? It can even break your stunted sensations for a change and, in addition to good sex, you can get something more :) And not all serious and attractive men at 34 are hopelessly bound like your dream :) M, 34

   M34 / number 27 /, I don't agree with you - you look at things in a purely masculine way. The rules in a woman's life are not clear to you at all. Most importantly - DO NOT OFFER YOURSELF TO A MAN. This rule becomes even scarier when it comes to being bound. Such a woman falls in the eyes of everyone and is stigmatized as k .. va, whatever it is most likely. It is desirable and normal for men to take the initiative, but such a woman seems pathetic and really is. I say again (n. 1 I am) you cannot seduce a man who is happy with another woman. You can't seduce any man at all if you don't like him and you become pathetic.

   This is a fictional story that aims to gather opinions and comments. But it is written too flatly and the woman is deliberately presented as a stupid and easy p * cha.

   №29, don't be sure! Currently, the intellectual and spiritual level of most of the people living in Bulgaria in working age is such that mani-run!

   28, what are these outdated understandings in the 21st century? !! Who has the right to stigmatize and judge others? !!

   Oh, you made me old and fat - how sweet only. In fact, I am 27 years old, with a good physique. I'm not with a shaky belly, slack ass and other extras. But I'm not the other extreme - as an escaped concentration camp inmate. Yes, I look at how I wrote things and it really sounds rude, but at least I'm honest. Isn't it better to be hypocritical? !? There is no pleasure in this life ... The first comment made a strong impression on me: so ... you have been a mistress for 6 years. Your husband cheated on his ex-wife, but you're an extraordinary person, there's just no way he can do it again? You don't believe in karma? Well, and another thing that you also say: You pulled at the beginning, you probably thought it was wrong, there may be other reasons, I don't know. My colleague (who is in a very good mood today, by the way) is also not throwing his head forward, but that doesn't mean he won't "give in." 14 comments were ... Wow! Honestly, I envy only the man who managed to find out how, but when she starts to hunt, then it will be interesting. 29 comments - Bravo, reveal me! (I hope you understand the sarcasm). Yes, in general it turned out what I envisioned. Massive advice "give up". I plan not to do it because I see something different in this man. I will not go into details, but it is his personality that attracts me so much. But yes, it's easy to judge from the sidelines. So when I looked at another topic here, "I'm a mistress, I'm engaged." Now you are all moralists. And again in connection with some of the comments: years ago there was a person I didn't notice at all. He was a killer to me, a nuisance, but this man was very assertive and I gave him a chance, it was with him that I was happiest ... so yes, once my colleague acted like a moron, but this is far from a cause for despair. :) Well, live your life as you know it. If Fr. k., to judge others and not see your own mess - well. So much for me, I will act as I know how.

   28, rather you are wrong :) This is not a criterion of whether a woman is a whore or not, if this was the main criterion, then all women should be whores at one time or another in their lives, and some throughout :) I think you understand what I mean. Objectively speaking, women decide whether to be with one man or not, if they decide, the mountains will move, especially in competition with another woman, but it will be theirs, well, yes, they are frantically offered in this period, they offer their best - and what they are and what they are not :) The man stands aside, blinks in rags and does not know what is happening to him, in fact if he is smart enough, it is best to expose witchcraft and light the stake with his own hands, but where so much wit in an ordinary man? !! :) Nothing, his future is already an amazing mix of Hell and Heaven, in which there are no witches and whores,

   28, just to note for the record that I do not give a low assessment of your opinion, on the contrary, I respect it, although I do not agree with you. In my previous comment I told you why - just all women are offered in one way or another, hidden, seemingly, openly, it is not so important, this is how life is arranged - search and offer of everything, incl. of bodies and feelings. M, 34

   And to you, author, with what exactly do you notice the family happiness of the man in question, that at any cost you want to be wedged between him and his wife? Which he obviously loves. And she doesn't want to sacrifice her family and hurt her for someone who decided they should have this man? That it made her anorexic, and I don't know what else. Whatever it is, he loves her and sticks to her. Thanks to such a man and hopefully there will be more like him. Then the world will become a better place.

   Looking at the Author's answer, it may be time to back down before I suffer in the epic battle of the Titans, which is looming - there is nothing more devastating than female aggression and desire to prove themselves :) On the other hand, it is good that women see us unjustifiably. men from time to time on something "different", worth the fierce battle, the bad thing is that it is from time to time and usually after the Pyrrhic victory, it turns out that it is for a short time :) M, 34

   Браво на Авторката, че се обади. Казвам ти - не знаеш, с какво се захващаш. Дори да ти пусне въпросният, какво мислиш? Самата ти казваш, че си била най-щастлива с мъж, който се е стремил към твоето внимание. Ако сама се стремиш към някой мъж, ако му се предлагаш така, той ще те изконсумира и какво? Лошото е, че е и твой колега. Цялото ти име на работата ще е руинирано. Не го и знаеш, какви ще ги наговори пред мъжете колеги за теб. Животът си е твой, само ти казвам, че последиците също си оставят за теб, а това да сваляш открито женен мъж на работното място може да те руинира. Иначе позна - не вярвам в кармата, защото съм християнка. Сигурна съм във вярността на съпруга си. Няма да се впускам в подробности, но едно ще ти кажа - има много голяма разлика между връзките на един мъж с различни жени. Така е и при теб сигурно- с един си била щастлива, с друг по-малко. В брака нещата са подобни, но имаш и отговорности, задължения и повече рискове. Предишният брак на съпруга ми беше буквално ад - тормоз у дома с меркантилна жена, настройване на децата против баща им заради ревност от нейна страна към тяхното внимание към него, изневери от двете страни. С мен това няма как да се повтори, защото не съм нея, затова и отношението на мъжа ми и начинът му на живот са други. Искам просто да те предупредя като бивша любовница и днешна омъжена жена за щастливо женен мъж - не се излагай да сваляш такъв, защото може накрая не само да останеш с празни ръце, но и името ти да бъде руинирано и да трябва да си търсиш нова работа. Стъпваш по много, много тънък лед. Внимавай! П.П. Съвсем добронамерено ти го казвам това, защото виждам, че си поела към пропастта. Изобщо не ти желая злото - напротив. Искам да те предпазя, но ти сама накрая си знаеш - жовотът си е твой.

   I think you want to prove yourself. maybe you kill some complexes, I don't know. with what his wife is better kind, you want to prove how you are the best. and what will you gain by sleeping with him? unless he laughs at you later, you will get nothing else. you don't answer the question - how would you feel if this happened to you and your husband sleeps with a colleague who, instead of working, wonders how to scratch my ego and other things. you are contradicting yourself. you are talking about karma, and you have set out to quarrel between bondage-stricken people and cause them misery. it's good to have self-confidence, but yours seems to be more. and don't think that something serious can really come out because you've taken a very, very wrong path - to offer yourself. in some cases, the woman takes the first step, but not in such a rude way. it is not offered directly and does not behave vulgarly. and why do you write on such a site at all, when you do not accept different points of view? I also have stories posted here, but I'm open to any opinions, because from the outside things may look different. what did you expect Pat on the shoulder? you are pathetic ...

   To m34 "I think you understand what I mean. Objectively speaking, women decide whether to be with one man or not. ”Yes, this is true, but it does not mean that women are the initiators and strippers. At least not in our society. There are unwritten rules for a woman's behavior and it is simply not accepted. The woman chooses actively, but the one who offers ACTIVE is the man in general. "If they decide, the mountains will move, especially in the competition of another woman, but it will be theirs, well, yes, they are offered frantically in this period, they offer everything of themselves - both what they are and what they are not: ) “Obviously you are lucky to be a wanted man or to be with various women around you, but this is the exception. For normal people - men and women - this is not the case. Definitely a woman can give various signals, but the author talks about actively removing and harassing a distant man, which has no way of leading to anything good for her. In the best case, the person in question will take advantage of the body? To hang it as a trophy on the wall of his adventures so far. Men hunt, they don't like to be hunted. I don't know what kind of women you associate with, but neither I nor my friends sell left and right. It is no coincidence that there are expressions such as "easy woman", "easy woman". Such are the unwritten rules of the game, if you will - men offer, CHOOSE women. The man is the hunter, the woman tries to be the distant and thinking side. And while in a certain context it is possible to want and tolerate other women's behavior - say in a disco or a nightclub - in the workplace it is simply counterproductive to take down happily married men. If the person in question stretches and the author becomes more insistent - even the most blind will understand things and the author's name will be ruined. And if the man "has a good mood" and stretches it - the consequences can be worse and even lead to mobbing and group mockery of the "easy" woman. Moreover - all male colleagues can decide that they have a chance with her and she will be flooded with obscene proposals and indecent behavior on their part and then have to look for a new job. So you are right - the victory of such a woman is always Pirova.

   The battle is lost in advance, you looked very stupid, staring at it for 15 minutes instead of doing your job. Enough to seal your ridiculous expression in his mind forever :) He already knows that with such mental baggage you can only create problems for him. All your attempts will fail because he has already developed caution and intolerance towards you - this, like allergies, is incurable. And yes, I know what will happen in the next few days :) You will release a fictional sequel here - how you slept with him - just to shut everyone's mouth, because you are already very, very angry. But I don't believe you from now on :)))

   There is no man who does not pass. There are several options. Or he is immature and completely shot, no matter that he is 34. Some men develop slowly. It's either a pedal or it's an alien. You are right about one thing. Nobody likes skinny or fat but sexy type. I'm a little skeptical when a woman says she's attractive, so you may not be and that's the reason.

   If you can't impress him with a vision, try to do it with your character, try to become his friend ... find out what kind of women he likes, because if he likes "pliers" like my friend, who is just a bone and that is the coolest babe ... you can't like your colleague if he likes them and you don't ... so the option for friendship is also a way to get closer, good things happen slowly ...

   Do not expose the female class in this way. Have a little dignity. You fell very low. It's obviously not the first time you've been ignored.

   41 comments and You have only one omission The man's relationship with his wife is not only sexual, as it would be with the author. "Happy married" does not just mean sexually satisfied. This is about emotional satisfaction and other benefits. Neither the weight nor the age of the wife influences her qualities to enchant her husband's thoughts. Therefore, the author has no chance. The thoughts of a given man are occupied entirely with his wife, and only if she takes a step aside will there be room for a new lady. This only proves that the man is in love with his wife and that does not make him gay or immature at all. If you want to pull a man in love with a tap, you can't lift him, let alone ask for sex. If he meets you naked, he will put on your pants instead of getting aroused.

   of 29 - if I haven't revealed you, so much the worse for you. You gave your ex a chance because he was assertive, but it's a quality that is valued in men, not women. If you are assertive, you will look impudent, desperate, easy, even dangerous. And so I said dangerous - you will soon notice that this man will pay less and less attention to you, because men know that female cunning / malice is unlimited and you can get him into cruel trouble with his wife without him being you. even looked. Because rumors and lies go very easily.

   First, being "pretty" is not always enough. All men like "beauties", but there are those who have raised the bar a little more and are also looking for something else. 2nd that his wife is 23 years old. and is skinny does not sound to me as such a serious drawback that the man to go looking for others or in this case to deal with you - you are 100% older and fatter than his wife, and once he has chosen to married to her prefers this type of women. 3rd, once he is happy with his wife and says it openly, I strongly doubt that he will take at least at this stage a step towards infidelity, even if he has thoughts and fantasies about other women, this is normal human nature, but control is also in human nature 4th Wow, you watched him with your eyes for 15 minutes and he asked you "is there a problem?" - HORROR, aren't you ashamed at least a little ??? Lack of any sense of dignity ... 5th - Where the hell are you going? Are you so bad that you can't find your husband, and you've gotten to the point where you fish for strangers ??? But judging by your behavior from what you described, I strongly doubt that you can find one that is just for you, simply because hardly anyone would want you to be his. Good luck though in the role of a pathetic flirt with married men. And I hope you don't come across someone like me, who will ruin your miserable life if you try to attack my husband !!!! simply because hardly anyone would want you to be his. Good luck though in the role of a pathetic flirt with married men. And I hope you don't come across someone like me, who will ruin your miserable life if you try to attack my husband !!!! simply because hardly anyone would want you to be his. Good luck though in the role of a pathetic flirt with married men. And I hope you don't come across someone like me, who will ruin your miserable life if you try to attack my husband !!!!

   By saying what century we live in. What is his age. Then let us walk the streets naked. Then it seems to me that there will be no problems who with whom ...

   Go boldly darling! I like such women. Otherwise life would be complete boredom. Who can take what he wants, take it if he can. I think you're perfectly fine, but obviously the person you're targeting has something to do with him. And for the reactions from the female class ... haha ​​... it's perfectly normal for you to get the biggest blood. They keep their position and want to drown you in slop. If they were so sure of their husbands, what do they care that you wanted one of them, but because they are not, they will eat you. And if, God forbid, you seduce him, it will not be your fault, but his partner's, and do you know why, because she is different from you. Genetically, it is in everyone not to be satisfied with what he has and it is not morality that will stop him, but fear or mediocrity. So if it doesn't work out, then it doesn't deserve you. He is either a coward or mediocre. PP And there is no such expression, happily married. Happiness is a temporary phenomenon and without change it becomes everyday and monotonous.

   44! You just made me laugh. Maybe you're an alien. I guess you're too young to believe in ideals that don't relate to reality, or you're too playful to come up with the moral numbers and moral values ​​you want to defend yourself with. Do you believe in fairy tales. A man will not look at another woman only if he is currently in love. He is blind to everything else. But love and blindness last from 3 to 7 months and then comes the screening. It is only a matter of time before and with whom he will cheat, unless he has a vision of a crocodile and it simply will not happen to him, not because he does not want to, but because he cannot. And to enlighten you about something. Only a woman can start a relationship that does not start with sex. For a man, the relationship begins after sex. Only a woman can hold on to some values ​​that put sexuality in the background, because she always approaches with some interests. And for the naked one, on which I will put her panties, I just laugh out loud. I will put them on, but at a later stage ....

   Haha 44, and he made me laugh. In love unloved, a man can pick it up with anyone, as long as he is in the right place at the right time. Then it may be ugly, but the job will be done. Hope you, being in love, can't break .. I haven't heard of such a man, if I meet him I'll spit on him, but it won't happen in this life: D: D

   №49 You speak correctly, but about the times 30 years ago, when women squeezed their thighs. Match your comment with today's times, as many women as you want and more. The young men are already taking care of themselves, I don't think I'm small, you're my wire and I wouldn't refuse anyone. Once upon a time, 30 years ago, it was for a crocodile to string a purse on his head and act, now he has a choice between quite sour women and this changes the way young men think. They have had so much sex since they were little that when they are 30 they look for something else in their relationships. The sex rating is quite low! He no longer raises the quality of the woman. A beautiful ass does not mean that a woman will be wanted by everyone.

   at least two people are needed for love or sex to happen, the rest is fantasy, I hope the comment will not interfere with the pleasure in bed, touch yourself and be in your thoughts with him

   48 made me laugh. I wanted to see his reaction when his chick turned to another man. By the way, in order for a man to have weight, he must keep the situation, that is, his family. The man in the story does just that. And no, not to give in to a man, he is not a coward or mediocre. In these categories are precisely those who give in - they are cowards because they hide from their halves, so as not to hurt them, but they are mediocre because they are constantly looking for and still do not find what they are looking for. In the end, they take it, and they are left without a person next to them, and without what they are looking for, even though they do not know what it is.

   . 53. You can't see my face disappointed. I am one of those who rejoice in the end, because it comes with a good start, and I have not tied any. It is her right to leave whenever she wants, the problem is that no one wants it and it is taken for granted. If the current one leaves, the next one is pending. Why do you put me in the standards you live by. What you are striving for, I do not care. As for men: You misinterpret the word mediocrity (typically feminine). He is mediocre who is satisfied with what he has and is afraid to do something so as not to lose his current position. Only the coward keeps his position and gives weight, and the man with a capital letter owns and radiates it. If one does not appreciate it, he leaves the post and frees up space for the next one .... And the man from the story, I can only comment, based on assumptions. Without seeing his colleague in love, I can't be sure if he's left-handed or unattractive. 48