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Can A Man Love A Woman And Want A Threesome / With Another Woman /?

By julietha_vill September 26, 2020 50 answers Last updated September 26, 2020

I hope my title does not cause laughter among readers, I expect opinions mostly from people who have had a serious relationship with someone and have decided to diversify sex, including a third person. It is clear that for most men, maybe even all, it is a dream - to sleep with two women at once. But if they have strong feelings for a woman, is that desire the same? And if we take an example in which he is completely satisfied in sex with his partner, does not want to cheat on her, why would he want a threesome? Out of sheer curiosity? Because one lives once and has to try everything? Would a man who loves his partner really want that ??? I'm interested to hear different opinions on the subject, and I'm especially curious what men think. 24, Ž

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fightforgrowth answered · September 26, 2020

   Definitely can! Men have a different kind of sexuality from ours and can distinguish sex from love - in short, for him sexual intercourse is not always about love, but he is ready to refrain from being with you (the woman he loves) because obviously sex is better for a man, too, if they like it - I know. Let men say. It is normal for a man to want this (a primordial male dream), but it is not normal to DEMAND this from you. Ultimately, you will have to decide whether to fulfill it or not. However, if he exerts pressure and DEMANDS it from you, then his feelings are not so sure. I personally gave such an experience to my husband, but I chose and paid for the woman myself. He never does such a thing with an unpaid woman, because then he can imagine some things, but in general I can tell all men,

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garden_of_sunnah_ answered · September 26, 2020

   I wouldn't ask for it. Even if he offered me, I wouldn't do it - there are many reasons.

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mia_cherry69 answered · September 26, 2020

   I agree with number 1 that it would be better for you to choose the woman and for her to be experienced. As for that, I've never dreamed of a threesome and this is largely due to the fact that I'm monogamous, maybe .. I think that in general your men are better off to share with you that he wants a threesome than to go with someone not telling you, so I think the idea is not bad and as number 1 said, if he requires it of you, you may have a problem, but I believe you will have fun and it will not be a question of whether he requires it or not. Success!

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smh answered · September 26, 2020

   Sounds to me like: Can a man love a steak and want a side dish / with potatoes /? What do you think? Is it possible?

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johnfit1 answered · September 26, 2020

   The author: number 4, an interesting comparison, but isn't it only for non-committal relationships? If two people love each other, aren't they enough in bed? Why would a man feel the need for an extra wife if he loves his own, can't his wife be both the steak and the garnish, I wonder. I question whether such a man loves the woman next to him and I am waiting for arguments for / against.

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victoria_wing answered · September 26, 2020

   Whether a man / woman loves another man / woman is relative - that person only knows the truth (at best). The man may not want to do a threesome and still not love you! I am N. and I am sure that my husband loves me as much as one can be sure of another person's love. I don't try to analyze his fantasies because I realize that he is a man - a creature of the opposite sex, subject to a different physique and hormones, but also a different person than me - with a different story, feelings and thoughts. That you love and can't imagine being with another man is normal for a woman, but I think most men can have sex with a woman they don't love, and I know - maybe in a threesome with another woman in the presence of own is a legitimate way for them to diversify, I know. His man's work. I don't bother to understand that feeling at all, because I have neither the psyche nor the physique of the person next to me. If you don't want to do threesomes, don't - he must have just suggested. Forget about all this work and stop fidgeting and doubting the man's feelings for such a thing. Tomorrow you can ask for something special in sex and he will tell you "do you love me". There are no forbidden or wrong things in sex for me, if the two agree. This has nothing to do with your partner's love for you, as long as he is looking for a calf under the ox. Just go on with your life and your relationship as before and you're done. Whether a man loves you or not you can not understand so simply - enough men have lovers and their wives do not know anything, for example. It is an honor for your partner to at least share his fantasy with you, what more do you want? Whether you truly loved each other - only time will tell. If your relationship resists problems and challenges, you probably loved each other. Your friend made the big mistake of even asking you once he knew you in advance and knew what kind of person he was, but come on - as long as he's busy and forgets if you don't want to do threesomes.

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shesgotafatass69 answered · September 27, 2020

   Well it depends on a lot of things. There are more liberated women who don't mind threesomes. He doesn't think he doesn't necessarily love you. It's very individual and you can't judge by that alone. If he generally behaves disrespectfully or has offended you by implying that he wants the threesome to be with a certain woman ... Do you understand - when he does not respect you you will understand. But if he respects you, the very way he will offer you will show it. It will leave the choice to you, the rules you will set, etc.

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feelnmyslf answered · September 27, 2020

   The author: she is not definite, she is not like he said it once or twice, she often started telling me, I react rather neutrally to his suggestions, because I do not want to criticize him for what he fantasizes about. I always thought that two people in love are self-sufficient, or I'm wrong, or someone is not in love. :)

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leonayreina answered · September 27, 2020

   Author, you dove a lot - typically in our own, purely feminine way. Men understand a word - say you don't want it done! You are actually looking for a calf under an ox and you carry water from 10 ravines, which is dangerous, because if you suggest that the boy did not love you, no one can help you. Tip - next time you just tell him simply and clearly that you don't want to do it and you're done. I also set conditions for mine on how exactly things should happen, because I didn't mind, but I wasn't "neutral" - you say to yourself, what's on your soul and heart and you live! n1

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ecuadoropen250 answered · September 28, 2020

   I wonder where this desire for threes, fives, nines, etc. comes from? Any inner feeling that having sex with more than one woman makes you a Superman because you can't beat other men with having a genitals and having sex with one woman? Personally, I am not impressed by such possibilities, which are the result of modern thinking, which is unnecessarily liberated in certain directions.

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bangjooho answered · September 28, 2020

   M-45, I have participated in 2ki, 3ki and what not, but honestly there is no difference. If someone is aroused by the thought of having sex with more than one woman, the reality is completely different! Personally, I prefer to be with one!

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elizabeth_1119 answered · September 28, 2020

   See, love and sex are two very different things. There are people who are great in relationships and communication, perfect straight, but sex is tragic. I have been on all three sides or: -tragic relationship, super sex; there were threesomes in one of the relationships. -perf. relationships, disgusting sex; I drop these. -perf. relations, perf. sex; and here we had swing meetings. A matter of perception, dear. You are not sexually liberated, so you ask these banal questions. If she was liberated / or call it whatever you want / you wouldn't ask yourself the question - do I love him if I want to have a threesome with another man / woman, de facto - after I want to have sex. fantasies. :) It's very simple. You don't fit in sexually.

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your_oxygen answered · September 29, 2020

   The author: 12, my question is banal, yes, but the banality happens after repeatedly asking a question on a certain topic, and often the one who asks is left unanswered. Everyone understands things differently, what I have left is to hear different opinions. You say it's simple and we don't fit in, in theory it could be, but it's not in my case. And whether you are liberated / a / cannot be determined by only one specific desire / reluctance. I tend to agree with number 10 on: "I'm not personally impressed by such possibilities, which are the result of modern overly liberal thinking." Maybe threesomes are a good thing in themselves if they happen spontaneously, but there is a thing that nowadays, I have a feeling that everyone wants this. And obviously a lot of people are making plans for what will happen to them. I also consider it unnecessary, but I do not criticize people who have tried. Still, my question was whether a man who had feelings for a woman would really have plans to include another random woman in their sexual games. The conclusion I came to is that: yes, it is possible to have, because the two things are not so common, and the desire comes from curiosity, from insufficient experience perhaps, from scratching the ego, from other people's influence / other people, media and tn /. But the truth is that I am almost certain that the man himself would not experience as much pleasure as he had imagined, and the possible consequences could be separation and disappointment. People are too curious, and too greedy - that's what I think! Still, my question was whether a man who had feelings for a woman would really have plans to include another random woman in their sexual games. The conclusion I came to is that: yes, it is possible to have, because the two things are not so common, and the desire comes from curiosity, from insufficient experience perhaps, from scratching the ego, from other people's influence / other people, media and tn /. But the truth is that I am almost certain that the man himself would not experience as much pleasure as he had imagined, and the possible consequences could be separation and disappointment. People are too curious, and too greedy - that's what I think! Still, my question was whether a man who had feelings for a woman would really have plans to include another random woman in their sexual games. The conclusion I came to is that: yes, it is possible to have, because the two things are not so common, and the desire comes from curiosity, from insufficient experience perhaps, from scratching the ego, from other people's influence / other people, media and tn /. But the truth is that I am almost certain that the man himself would not experience as much pleasure as he had imagined, and the possible consequences could be separation and disappointment. People are too curious, and too greedy - that's what I think! from insufficient experience, perhaps, from scratching the ego, from other people's influence / other people, media, etc./. But the truth is that I am almost certain that the man himself would not experience as much pleasure as he had imagined, and the possible consequences could be separation and disappointment. People are too curious, and too greedy - that's what I think! from insufficient experience, perhaps, from scratching the ego, from other people's influence / other people, media, etc./. But the truth is that I am almost certain that the man himself would not experience as much pleasure as he had imagined, and the possible consequences could be separation and disappointment. People are too curious, and too greedy - that's what I think!

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realgrumpycat answered · September 29, 2020

   A 19-year-old man, I haven't done a threesome, I don't like it, and I can barely manage mine :) that she's just like to stay alone and start, and I satisfy her completely, just like she satisfies me.

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rugbyboy94 answered · September 30, 2020

   I wouldn't do a threesome or anything like that

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m1959 answered · September 30, 2020

   In my opinion, the answer is YES, it is possible to have love and desire for sex with additional partners (of course in the presence of the legal spouse). Pay attention to all the other aspects of your life together - how he treats you, what he does for you (not how much he spends on you, it's different), is he ready to change for you (I'm talking about acceptable changes, not something hyper ultra mega drastically :)). I recently realized how multi-layered human sexuality is (so there is nothing abnormal about what your man wants); I can't tell you whether it's good or not to distinguish sex from feelings - for 3ki, 4ki, etc. this seems advisable to me, but it's not easy if you're emotional.

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byzelo answered · September 30, 2020

   Maybe - I love my wife very much, but I also really want to share her with someone else. I said it during sex, she told me she agreed. However, when she is not aroused and I ask her if I should organize things, she gets angry, she says that she accepted it as a game and even while we fuck she doesn't want me to talk to her about another man.

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mymess13 answered · October 01, 2020

   I'll find out if it's love by offering him a threesome with two men. If he agrees - approx.

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eagerplayer30 answered · October 01, 2020

   Some time ago I asked my friend if he, I and another woman would ever offer me a threesome. He laughed at me and flatly refused. I kissed him and then I realized that he is the man of my life: d

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quarantinebator26 answered · October 01, 2020

   I love my wife and give everything for her. Sex is good and satisfying, but if 3-4 times a week is enough for her, it is not for me. Also, the variety from time to time is stimulating for the relationship itself. People have said that diversity is the spice of life. The bottom line is that I can love her and still fuck someone else for a change. Accordingly, it is not limited to diversification either. If we happen to diversify with each other, it's the biggest party.

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gander85 answered · October 01, 2020

   I'm 40. I'm a big fan of threesomes and swing. We live like this for years, I love the person next to me madly, he knows he loves me too, but it's a way to have fun, to have a good time. But you need to trust your partner and be able to enjoy and share the pleasure he feels.

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adagrozman1 answered · October 01, 2020

   I will never have a threesome with a person I love, if she is with some strangers I may wind up, but mine is mine and I would not allow

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sweetalisaah1 answered · October 02, 2020

   To propose to you, there is a woman in mind, I also proposed to my wife with another, but she was my boyfriend. in my opinion because your question is whether he loves you not if he holds you and loves you he would not share you with other women and men. one starts looking for other partners when the marriage is completely consumed and something new is sought

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etihadairways answered · October 02, 2020

   Men have other needs: We want to conquer many female lotuses because it is in our nature, but it is not about love. And women, with few exceptions, only have sex with someone when they are in love. And if this is understood by everyone, so much the better for everyone !! m30

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vipsubastascom answered · October 02, 2020

   If it is done with a woman only once or twice and then your paths diverge. The question is what do we do if there are contacts later, if there is a way to see them in private. I know that the supporters of open relations will attack me with remarks about the trust and great love between them, but, as Nietzsche said - Human, too human. My husband and I had a threesome with a woman years ago, we have always loved each other and now we are we love .. After the first time another one followed and then I realized that he shows a very high interest in the girl in question. Put simply, he was in love with the man, he had a thrill and a desire for more. I don't know if they saw each other in private. In time, things changed, I didn't make scenes, I didn't dig. But since then nothing has been the same for me.

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scarlet_lunaxx answered · October 02, 2020

   No, I wouldn't want one woman to be mine. True, sometimes I think it would be interesting. But I don't want it, because after the evening comes the morning. There is no way to get rid of the feeling of infidelity. And in front of her eyes. Otherwise I would try, but for 12 years I have not cheated on my wife (we have been together for 12 years) and I know it's not worth it. You're just hurting the person next to you.

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sutlumutfak answered · October 02, 2020

   Yes, it is quite possible, I love my wife and I would give up a threesome, for example with her friend!

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jansen_marnix answered · October 03, 2020

   .... because obviously sex is better for a man, too, if they like it - I know. ... № 1, you are absolutely right, there is no sweeter sex than the one with a woman you love, in this case my wife, otherwise sex with a woman who is indifferent to you is like making a check! You miss the satisfaction of making her happy and experiencing an orgasm almost simultaneously (as it happens with us, first she ends the very sight of my naked woman in orgasmic ecstasy, so it excites me that after a few seconds I ejaculate in the vagina and with bliss ).

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pcamp96 answered · October 03, 2020

   Author, my opinion of the threesomes is that they are "legalized" infidelity. If he loves you and your relationship is good, he will not think about it sexually and emotionally! I wonder what you would say if you wanted a threesome with two men? !! Assess the situation well and if necessary make final decisions! You don't need a man like that!

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sweetdancemalyshka answered · October 03, 2020

   I fully understand the author's anguish and why she asked this question. And I don't think it's banal and how can she not care and think about all this, given that her boyfriend has asked for something like that! But looking at her last comment - I think she has already reached the answer. Number 1 - I very much agree with all your comments, you are absolutely right. As for the men commenting that they have no desire and need for 3ka - thank you, I tell you, if you really mean it! I am a young girl who wants to share her bitter experience from the 3s - so far none of my friends have wanted or even hinted at anything. With my last friend, with whom we stayed for almost 3 years ... sex started to cripple us a lot, not to mention that we almost stopped doing it ... but that's another topic. So to return to the question - after a drunken night in the apartment we stayed he and my best friend and ... to see how far he can go (and under the influence of alcohol ... and to whom I knew my girlfriend si) in general I gave the idea to make 3ka. I will not go into details - I will only say that he agreed, but did not succeed ... after some pathetic attempts with her ... (I never understood if it was over) gave up and I remained generally ignored. What was the result of all this nonsense, which I still regret to this day - the next day I woke up not only with a terrible hangover but also with the terrible feeling that I had made a mistake and, above all, that I felt terribly dirty and betrayed. We broke up and I left the apartment the same week. I'm still waking up from the nightmares of the unfortunate night ... she's obviously left a big mark on my psyche. I thought I was free enough for such a step, but alas! My girlfriend and I kept the relationship, but I do not hide that it was difficult and awkward for us ... so if such things are still done ... then do it until you are unattached ... or with strangers or just bear the consequences. I don't think that for the sake of one pleasure (and it is not known how much fun it will be and whether it will be for everyone) it is necessary to resort to it. But different people, different ideals - everyone judges for themselves. I tried and I didn't like it! that for the sake of one pleasure (and it is not known how much pleasure it will be and whether for all) it is necessary to resort to it. But different people, different ideals - everyone judges for themselves. I tried and I didn't like it! that for the sake of one pleasure (and it is not known how much pleasure it will be and whether for all) it is necessary to resort to it. But different people, different ideals - everyone judges for themselves. I tried and I didn't like it!

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fairy_tales answered · October 03, 2020

   You can't really love and want a 3. This is what people who no longer love each other want it. You can't love your wife and want to do 3 with another man and watch him paw at the other and fuck her in front of you. It is the same with a woman, if she loves her husband, it is impossible for her to want to watch him fuck someone in front of her, and he himself should not want it. I have a mistress of 5 years. I'm 28, we love each other a lot, sex is great and we can't do without each other. When the time comes for me to offer her a 3 with a woman or a 3 with a man, it is clear whether we still love each other so much. In general, the conclusion is that they offered you seriously, so it no longer really loves you as at the beginning of the relationship.

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kayascods answered · October 03, 2020

   At the moment I do not have the opportunity to write a longer answer on the topic and accordingly to express my opinion, but I wanted to turn to the author and tell her that the fact that a man wants to have sex with you and another woman, that is, to wants another woman, it's not the same as needing another woman.

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nmifootball answered · October 04, 2020

   Hmmm, I'm looking for a woman for a SERIOUS relationship who falls in love with threes and two men, to be liberal, etc. But alas ... not for now

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hollisterco answered · October 04, 2020

   There is nothing wrong with that! You will understand for yourself that when she starts doing it with you and another woman, the kisses and caresses will be for you, and the rough sex will be for the other woman :)

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hungandhorny77 answered · October 04, 2020

   On the question of the title you can write a lot and in different cases and situations there are different answers. To the author - YES there may be such cases BUT everything must be said exactly between the two of you. I am a man of 41 with almost 15 years of relationship and with modest, BUT experience in threesomes (4 times in those years) I can say that in our case they even help our sex life as a couple, but it all depends on the specific people and situations . If your partner wants a threesome with your participation - that's fine but you have to discuss everything. Success Jordan

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kiyotake_hiroshi_official answered · October 04, 2020

   To be able to! But the threesome does not have to be with a woman. Why not with a man? Or another couple - hetero or homo? In any case it can!

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playinfootzie answered · October 04, 2020

   Another example that everyone is looking for what they don't have. I am also quite relaxed and the idea of ​​everything you describe, to put it mildly, drives me crazy with excitement. But unfortunately my partner does not share my fantasies. It sucks because I've been at a crossroads for 2 years and I don't know what to do, neither with myself, nor with my relationship with this girl. I love him. I stick to it, but our sex for more than a year is below zero. I'm 35 and she's 37, and I don't even remember when I didn't want to fuck her. In the beginning we had super sex, like all couples in the beginning. But things quickly took on a uniform and gray appearance for me. Maybe in about a year and I became uninterested and somehow fed up. What she tells me is that her desire for me is not lacking, on the contrary. But I can't get aroused anymore. I can't describe what's wrong with me and how I blame myself, because my girlfriend is a healthy, beautiful and sexy girl, and I do not satisfy her needs for sex. And she's at an age where she probably wants one more than ever. I thought about my approach for a long time because I didn't want to scare her and leave me. I gave her a vibrator and we started to include it often in our games. I admit we were doing well and she was literally rolling with pleasure from the double penetration. I felt hope :) and I was hell-bent on just one such small gain. It turned out great that she started using it often even when I'm not home. Eventually, I was able to confess to her about my sexual desires and fantasies. I started from very far to make it smooth. I explained to her what turned me on and how I imagined our relationship could grow. That I want to try different experiments in sex, and I reminded her how well the last one with the vibrator in bed worked for us. I wouldn't limit my girlfriend to what we can and can't try. I just wanted her to feel free and calm. I wanted to predispose her and free her from restraints. I suggested she try a threesome with another man or woman. Eventually, if she likes it, we can try with another couple ... And on a higher level with me and two other men or ... in general, I wanted to give her a full card blanche of the imagination. I hinted to her to try to go with another man alone ... without me - to try what it's like to fuck another, at the thought that I know and I'm OK with that - on the contrary. Everything! I wanted to try to relax and "unlock" for this type of experiment. As I kept telling her not to feel obligated to anything and to remember that I only want it if she wants it too. I asked her to at least give it a try, and if she thought for a moment that she didn't like it, we would get up and leave. I explained to her how I didn't want to lose her. I really don't want to be with another girl. I just get aroused by other women, as well as watching another man satisfy her, and I don't see anything wrong with that. This is a physiological need and why are we set up like this if it is wrong? Why should we swear stupid oaths to each other for sexual fidelity. For me, our spiritual connection is more important. I told her how the thought of loving each other wouldn't hurt me while watching her with someone else. On the contrary! I'll like that he doesn't make a fool of me, to fuck behind my back and learn, which will hurt me later. Is it better to lie to each other and walk like kids to hide and cheat on each other, as do perhaps 80% of the people on Earth? How foolish to swear sexual fidelity. I explained with simple logic how this is impossible. It's like swearing to someone that for the rest of your life you will eat, for example, just lentils, or some other dish. And how do you feel cheated every time you get fed up with potatoes or meat ... Why and who do I need, I ask? !! This is simply impossible, or if we say there are people who actually have sex with only one partner while they are engaged, then imagine what deprivation and inner anguish this is! Is it a guarantee that they have never wanted another? The fact that we want and have sex with others in our presence will not mean that we are exhausted to each other and do not look for reasons to cheat "legally", and vice versa. I consider this a higher level of trust. A higher level of sexual connection. Of course, I explained to her all the possible risks of failure. I reassured her that I would never, but NEVER make her do anything against her will. On the contrary ... what would excite me is the very idea that she likes this thought. And not possibly just to do it "to please me on a whim" But .... alas! Without success. He twisted and often shifted the subject until he finally had to explain it to me face to face, because I am human too and I have a right to know. I promised not to mention it again and I've been like a ghost ever since. I have not raised the issue again. I promised! But I shut up ... He became unconscious. Our sex is already ... I have no words! It hasn't happened in months. I'm cheating on her. I watch porn and masturbate when she's gone. She also guess. We became estranged and I keep thinking about it all the time. I need a change and advice .... My email is mistar_2012 @ abv. opensubtitles2 en I will only ask serious people to write to me about themselves. I would like to exchange experiences and impressions. It is not excluded that we even meet live ... It just doesn't last anymore, and I don't know how to act and what to do. I gave up the idea of ​​experimenting with it. And I feel very stupid if I want to separate because of this .... I will be happy to read the opinions of people with similar problems, desires and experiences. Thank you for reading my story. I got an idea better ... I just can't stand it anymore, and I don't know what to do and what to do. I gave up the idea of ​​experimenting with it. And I feel very stupid if I want to separate because of this .... I will be happy to read the opinions of people with similar problems, desires and experiences. Thank you for reading my story. I got an idea better ... I just can't stand it anymore, and I don't know what to do and what to do. I gave up the idea of ​​experimenting with it. And I feel very stupid if I want to separate because of this .... I will be happy to read the opinions of people with similar problems, desires and experiences. Thank you for reading my story. I got an idea better ...

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alahlifc1937 answered · October 05, 2020

   I was told that this is a kind of "spice" that is good to have in the relationship from time to time - variety. I guess just like we women need to wear something different, put on new shoes or go to a new place, but with our serious partner - then there is no need to worry. There is always a risk that if you meet a third person, someone may fall in love and become anointed .... but there is this risk if they do something behind your back, because you forbid it to happen in front of you

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nikkimaze answered · October 05, 2020

   To some extent I agree, but to some extent I differ from the opinions above. I am a 27-year-old man and have been with two women at the same time. It's cool to say it again. I am selfish and when I love a woman, she is enough for me. From another point of view, if a woman wants us to experiment with another woman, I'm fine, but if she wants us to experiment with another man, I'm firmly against it. Threesome with another man is not a good idea for me and the woman next to me if I have feelings for her. Why? Because when I see how she makes him French or how he fucks her, I'll go crazy and beat them up. I will accept it as infidelity. Besides, the opportunity for her to like him more and start looking for him or breaking up with me because he can do it better is a good enough second reason. The answer to all the questions you ask is, "It depends on the person." That's the way it is with me. AKATIM

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obedientswede26 answered · October 05, 2020

   Up to 42: you were a big Turk dude. What if the other man has sex with your wife and she blows his ass and beats you? not to stay in the hospital with broken limbs and the other man who beat you to fuck your wives regularly while you are being treated? AMAN from bullies here like you so vile.

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elvanagjataaaa answered · October 05, 2020

   Of course, it means that he truly loves her and is completely honest with her. Such a man will not run to cheat secretly. Men always want to fuck other women besides ours, that's physiology. A threesome or four with another family completely prevents infidelity and outdated hypocritical prejudices about marital fidelity. Diversity in sex is not infidelity, especially when both spouses participate in it at the same time.

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tan_yuanita answered · October 06, 2020

   it's worrying if he doesn't want to

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nikkisixxxxxx answered · October 06, 2020

   If Chaka insists so much, I will agree to a threesome, a quartet ... whatever he wants. I will look for participants myself, I will pay them, I will make them a great dinner with suitable drinks, I will wish them a great time and I will close the door from the outside ... forever.

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shlorp2 answered · October 06, 2020

   M. At 42. You can love a woman and share her with other men. We have been doing this for about 7 years now. We do threesomes and it's exciting for both me and the married man. I like and arouse her to do it with others with me, it gives her a lot of pleasure to be with two men at the same time. At the same time, we love and hold on to each other.

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bobrisky answered · October 06, 2020

   Personally, if I don't love a woman, she just won't be my friend. I wouldn't cheat on the woman I'm with. I think hurting the person next to you is disgusting, and then I can't stand it. But even if I love a woman more than anything on set, that doesn't change the fact that I'm attracted to other women. I stared, I fantasized. Such is the masculine nature, there is no way to make a man not want something. But I wouldn't have sex with another woman without my girlfriend involved. I don't think the threesome is infidelity - I just take it as fun for three people - the couple invites a friend and they have fun. Besides, I'm terribly aroused by the idea of ​​my girlfriend having sex with another woman. I would go for such an option even if I just watched. Unfortunately, it still hasn't dawned on me. My friend is pulling something. But I respect her decision. If you ever decide that she is ready, we will do it. To the author - I don't see anything wrong with your friend sharing his fantasy and desire. Almost every man wants it. And I think the key to a successful relationship is communication. If you want a threesome, do it. If you don't want to, don't. But I don't think this fantasy of his questions his feelings for you.

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yakutsufishing answered · October 06, 2020

   I also think that everything is a matter of openness and in a relationship - especially if it is serious and prone to marriage - it is very important that both partners are similar in their understanding of sex. My experience is that I had a former (at first more formal, so to speak, relationship, and after the first year we already saw each other from time to time for sex, went to parties, restaurants, etc., but the main thing was our sexual relationship), who, like the author's friend, constantly offered me such crazy things. At first I was pissed, but over time I somehow inclined to try, with the idea of ​​being more interesting together - although it didn't matter so much to me, because I wanted this man very much and constantly (I was in love with him, maybe still now I am). Well, we tried - we did threesomes with his friends several times, and once he organized something bigger for me, again with his friends, but there were already four of us and he ... He obviously knew that the artistry in me would prevail (I'm like that, I'm not lewd in any case, I wouldn't do it with anyone, that's why the artistic and beautiful things I like) and if he "directs" things well, I will like it. And it definitely happened - all the experiences were great, I felt like in a movie, I was the queen and back to the traditional notion (planted in porn), everyone tried to give me maximum pleasure, it was not humiliating or ugly in any case . There was no rudeness or simplicity. The experiences were perfect and I will remember them for a long time. Otherwise, we are no longer together with this man - our paths have passed, I got married first, I already have children, he also got married and raised children. But we haven't forgotten and maybe we're both a little sorry that we can't be together - it's very difficult to fit in with someone this way and be able to realize your sexual fantasies freely (so it turns out that we're both connected with partners who are not sexual that way, we both struggle, but we have no choice). And if at the same time there is love and trust, your relationship after these realized fantasies becomes even deeper, because you feel that the other person wants to give you pleasure and you make each other happy.

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catrafrases answered · October 06, 2020

   Thank you for 51 comments. I am a man of 32 years. I would give anything for such a woman. I also imagined how it was with 5 men and 1 woman ... yakooooooooooo

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raphaelmoeis answered · October 07, 2020

   A normal, healthy man can satisfy 2 women and more. Another question is whether it should be at the same time. Women are by nature very jealous and have a very strong sense of ownership.

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avstenrydell answered · October 07, 2020

   He :) Two men can't make a woman cum, let alone 2.

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mczoe1 answered · October 07, 2020

   A man can love his wife and want not only threesomes, but also all sorts of configurations in the bedroom with the idea to satisfy her and offer her unforgettable emotions in which both participate. Love is love, true, devoted and beautiful. Sex is sex, a pastime that nature has given us to bring us pleasure in our otherwise not easy life. What could be better than for the partners to enjoy it together, forgetting for a moment all the restraints and pretensions instilled by a pseudo-moral "society". I wish everyone to find their partner with whom to love truly and selflessly, so that they can fully enjoy their lives without hidden desires and second thoughts - true love to give without asking in return. Everything else is hypocrisy and selfishness.