Hello! Do you think a person can be 100% honest? Can he tell himself everything, even in front of his closest friend or his greatest love? I don't think so. In my opinion, a person has secrets that he would never admit voluntarily, and sometimes he would even deny to the last. We suppress such secrets until they lose their importance and become pale memories, which just burn us under the spoon for a second or two, when we think of them and so much more. I myself have done things that I would not share with anyone face to face, no matter how close he is. I just don't want to be judged for the mistakes I made. Not that I did anything illegal, but I mocked people, I manipulated them, I can probably qualify as mental harassment, I don't know. On the one hand, they deserved it, on the other hand, they didn't ... It's bad to hurt people. The biblical proverb is to give the other cheek, but there is one more, also biblical, and even older: "an eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth" What do you think? If there is a discussion, it can. shares something.
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No. I can't and haven't talked to enough people to make sure they don't always say everything. I have shared the most personal things with my mother and my friend, but I can say one thing to him or her, but not to both. There are things that are small but you cover them up because they can hurt the person against you and I know that if I cover them up then they hide from me and I accept it. If someone wants me to share everything with him until the end, I won't be able to, there will always be something I won't be able to share, it's like "exposing my soul".
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It doesn't work. People are equal, they are not perfect to judge each other (so it is always strange to me if someone criticizes another, and I am some kind of mediator who knows both and knows what a commodity they are). If you tell them all the mistakes, except that you will repel them, you will provoke them to find yours as well. You gave her a paraphrase from the Old Testament, but you know that then the Lord made the great flood for her (precisely because people were vicious). Your other paraphrase (with the cheek) is from the New Testament, there it already teaches us love (since then I think God, no matter how badly man behaves - with his wickedness, envy, alcoholism, pride, he will not punish everyone as before). When you delve deeply into the meaning of the one with the Cheek, what do you understand? You imagine yourself in a restaurant and someone pretends to be a player, and you slap you in front of friends, what will you do? What are you calling who is he, now I will crush him and it is from this Hatred and Anger that you can kill a person (which is the greatest sin) because people are one. That is why it is said that if one of your cheeks is hit, turn the other. When you turn the other, what happens? He will hit you, but there will be no fight. Yes, people will think, look at how this weak man embarrassed him, but these are the laymen, they do not know that this person will pursue karma and she will get sick in time, her children will not be healthy. That is why there are most people's problems (trials) that they never realize. Mothers wonder why their children are sick, women why they are not doing well with love, men why they are not healthy or why people are not doing well, and do not look back in their lives and do not realize what they did. now I will crush him and it is from this Hatred and Wrath that you can kill a person (which is the greatest sin) because people are one. That is why it is said that if one of your cheeks is hit, turn the other. When you turn the other, what happens? He will hit you, but there will be no fight. Yes, people will think, look at how this weak man embarrassed him, but these are the laymen, they do not know that this person will pursue karma and she will get sick in time, her children will not be healthy. That is why most of the problems are people (trials) that they never realize. Mothers wonder why their children are sick, women why they are not doing well with love, men why they are not healthy or why people are not doing well, and do not look back in their lives and do not realize what they did. now I will crush him and it is from this Hatred and Wrath that you can kill a person (which is the greatest sin) because people are one. That is why it is said that if one of your cheeks is hit, turn the other. When you turn the other, what happens? He will hit you, but there will be no fight. Yes, people will think, look at how this weak man embarrassed him, but these are the laymen, they do not know that this person will pursue karma and she will get sick in time, her children will not be healthy. That is why most of the problems are people (trials) that they never realize. Mothers wonder why their children are sick, women why they are not doing well with love, men why they are not healthy or why people are not doing well, and do not look back in their lives and do not realize what they did. When you turn the other, what happens? He will hit you, but there will be no fight. Yes, people will think, look at how this weak man embarrassed him, but these are the laymen, they do not know that this person will pursue karma and she will get sick in time, her children will not be healthy. That is why most of the problems are people (trials) that they never realize. Mothers wonder why their children are sick, women why they are not doing well with love, men why they are not healthy or why people are not doing well, and do not look back in their lives and do not realize what they did. When you turn the other, what happens? He will hit you, but there will be no fight. Yes, people will think, look at how this weak man embarrassed him, but these are the laymen, they do not know that this person will pursue karma and she will get sick in time, her children will not be healthy. That is why most of the problems are people (trials) that they never realize. Mothers wonder why their children are sick, women why they are not doing well with love, men why they are not healthy or why people are not doing well, and do not look back in their lives and do not realize what they did. which they never realize. Mothers wonder why their children are sick, women why they are not doing well with love, men why they are not healthy or why people are not doing well, and do not look back in their lives and do not realize what they did. which they never realize. Mothers wonder why their children are sick, women why they are not doing well with love, men why they are not healthy or why people are not doing well, and do not look back in their lives and do not realize what they did.
It's not possible, not only can't it, but it wouldn't be very good. One "lies" to cover up one's mistakes and shortcomings in order to present oneself in a better light. This is the most elementary and first signal behavior. The more skilled liars experimentally wrap you up to sing some information imperceptibly or to do / not do something. There is no way to give a recipe for coping, except to develop your intuition on the principle of trial and error. But given that everyone is more or less lying, it is not justified for you to be honest. In order for a person to survive, an environment must be adequate to that environment. I don't know what happened to you, but it doesn't sound good to me that you "bullied" someone, especially if it lasts a long time, even years. I think that sooner or later the lies come to light and the relationship becomes ugly. Now I remember what some people close to me told me before, and I realize that they treated me. To some extent, I was saved by not listening too much to opinions, but on the other hand, they managed to abuse my trust. That's why I'm used to giving less information and not trusting almost anyone.
My answer is no, I can't. Even if he wants to tell, he still can't look at what happened from the side. He will always tell the situation from his point of view, more or less defending his actions. For the simple reason that no one is ever 100% guilty or innocent. From this point of view, the story cannot be 100% true. And what is the point of burdening our loved ones with everything that has happened to us before? The past will not change, but the story of it can change the future. What's the point of telling a current boyfriend that we loved our ex too much? Immediately after the story about the fact that you mocked people, the listener makes one thing in mind that one day you can do the same with him. No matter how much you convince him that you are now ashamed that you have manipulated people, your story will only arouse doubt in yourself. On the other hand, by telling all our torments to someone, we give him a trump card, a trump card that he can always use against us. When he doesn't like something, he can even hurt us with a joke. Also, the less your relatives and acquaintances know about you, the more interesting you are to them. If there is a person who knows everything about you, he will not want to talk to you, he can now draw a conclusion about your opinion on any issue. There are many more reasons against sincere sharing, but I think that's enough for now. If there is a person who knows everything about you, he will not want to talk to you, he can now draw a conclusion about your opinion on any issue. There are many more reasons against sincere sharing, but I think that's enough for now. If there is a person who knows everything about you, he will not want to talk to you, he can now draw a conclusion about your opinion on any issue. There are many more reasons against sincere sharing, but I think that's enough for now.
No, to be so honest, you have to find the right person for it, and most people don't even know what it's like to be a good friend - they accept him as someone on whose shoulder to cry when needed (but he doesn't open his mouth, because it bores them) and then discard it like an old garment when it ceases to be comfortable for them. And if you did the things I imagine after your words - don't talk about them! Just tell them to a victim of such harassment and he decides to punish you instead of his tormentor. You don't know how dangerous these people are thanks to the help of people like you - real time bombs. I'm not going to blame my soul - not that I care so much about you, but I don't want the man in prison for you. It is better to pretend to be an exemplary citizen of the Republic of Bulgaria. :)
The idea of "an eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth" was that it was a disastrous cycle that led to certain death. Otherwise, openness is a privilege for some and a punishment for others.
Anything is possible. :)