My story may seem a bit absurd to you, but I still decided to share my "worries". (I'm 23) A few years ago I accidentally met a man. He liked me at first sight, he insisted that there was something between us, but I rejected him (without being rude) because then I fell in love with another man. So ... since then over the years we have not seen each other, we have not communicated with each other on social networks (although we have friends). But in early September, I accidentally spotted him on the street. He stopped me. We were talking ... God, it turns out we have so much in common! We didn't stop talking. I was really glad to see him, it was obvious to him that he was happy from our meeting. It looks the same as when we met, but I felt such an attraction this time ... But it all ended there. He didn't look for me (I admit, I didn't expect it) and I think the only reason he didn't is because he must have a girlfriend. Honestly, since then, strange as it may seem, I haven't stopped thinking about him and our meeting. Didn't I lose my soulmate a few years ago because of stupidity and naivety? Is it possible, in your opinion, or the people who are meant to be together, to get together sooner or later?
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He didn't invite you on a date, probably not because he has a girlfriend, but because you've already cut him off once and he doesn't think it makes sense. He can't read minds and know that you already like him as a man, because by the way of logic you are more likely not to like him after you cut him some time ago. Can he ask you again in 5 months in case you accidentally change your mind? If you have any contacts, look for him and invite him to a meeting or at least hint to him, you like him. Otherwise, yes, we will miss it and you can regret it for the rest of your life.
You think you are so special that God has made a special person for you among all 7 billion. I don't think there are kindred spirits. Rather, there are appropriate and inappropriate. You run into romance a lot, you've obviously seen a lot of movies. This will affect you badly in real life.
A soul mate means something completely different than what you described. You are more likely to never meet than to miss it. And if by some universal miracle you really meet her, then be sure that there is no way you can get away.
Well, stay still, wonder and whine, at least he remembered to write to you. As a woman, there is no other such miracle. Not to mention that a conversation with someone ... and already a soul mate?!?! I believe that there are people who are very, very, very rare and they are the "right" people for each of us, but I do not think that such a thing is understood by two conversations, because it is much deeper and more complex. Brother.
A soul mate is not what you think. If two kindred spirits meet, they can't get along. They will only know each other by sight and will not even need to talk. I am lucky to have met her and even when we saw each other, without exchanging a word, we both knew everything about each other and what awaits us together. The feeling is that it is as if you have lived together with this person all your life and you know your canines, even though you are seeing each other for the first time. It is very strange and I know that many people will laugh at me, but it is very difficult to explain it to a person who has not experienced it. This happens extremely rarely. And in reality, their relationship is far from dating at first glance, but very long before that.
Okay, I've gone too far with this "soul mate," I realized. : D You're right. I just don't know what happened to me, so I remembered YEARS ago that he was nice to me, he was a good, funny man, I just fell for someone else. Honestly, I hadn't thought of him, but this meeting reminded me of his merits and I regretted my choice and didn't give him a chance. I needed to say it somewhere, as you can see the situation is absurd. There will hardly be any development, it is clear to me that I am late, but I am glad that I shared. :)
To you women, insight always comes to you with a delay. Few of you are opportunists.
You don't really know this person, some fleeting communication from before, a casual conversation on the street and you have already decided that he is the person. Well, read a few stories, women in this way after short relationships get pregnant, give birth to children and one day find themselves with a baby in their arms and alone. It takes more time to get to know a person and judge whether he is or not. To your question, maybe, it's entirely possible. I soon came across a joke "He didn't call her first, she didn't call him first, they married each other and then they remembered each other for the rest of their lives. Idiots" Simple stories, but how much truth they tell ...
Why did you attack 1-star Bratancho so badly? She is absolutely right that the author, like most women, suffers from the "I want something, but I will keep quiet and keep my fingers crossed" syndrome, instead of remembering that it is the 21st century and it is not wrong to take the first step as a woman. It is also quite ridiculous to conclude that the chance or the person is missed, just so as not to have to take this step. You almost accepted that there is no way to save the woman from "horror" to write to him and show that things are different for her and to ask if he is interested. Great fear!
everyone you like is a soul mate until you find the next one, you can have several soulmates or none, everyone is different
Kindred souls assume the acceptance of the false doctrine of soul rebirths or transmigration, which in the original and Hindu version means that souls are reborn in animals, crystals, people, trees and the like, but because it is not to the taste of modern man is " modernized "and is made to be more acceptable, that is, people are reborn into other people. They are usually attracted by the fact that in their "past lives" were the big deal - her princesses, lords and kings, apparently no one in the "past" was a servant. It turns out something like the people who claim to be Napoleon, comically - yes. In short - there are no kindred spirits, but there are people you like and if for some reason you miss them - you miss them, some doors close, others open.
Number 11, that you spoil their beautiful illusion now, do you know how many girls (women and men) believe that in the next life they will be with their great unrequited love ..
"Well ... we haven't seen each other over the years, we haven't communicated with each other on social networks (although we have friends)." Well, write to him and you will understand. Of course, not directly inviting him to a meeting, because that would repel him, but it doesn't stop you from talking to him.